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This Isn’t Therapy

Jake Ernst & Simon Paluck
Mental Health
Therapy
Social Media
Self-Care
Loneliness
Relationships
Social Health
Parentification
Emotions
Gen Z
Friendship
People Pleasing
Hope
Narcissism
Self-Reflection
Relationship Dynamics
Happiness
Parasocial Relationships
Anxiety
Technology

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it! Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. No topic is off limits! New episodes drop every Thursday. ⁣ The hosts: Jake: www.insta... more

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Recent Guests

Michael (Mike)
Guest participant, appears in studio interactions and tangential segments
Episode: "What Should I Do?" & Cognitive Bias
Raquel Hopkins
Therapist who discusses the misapplication of therapy language.
Episode: Have we lost the plot in our attempts to de-stigmatize mental health?

Hosts

Jake Ernst
Host of This Isn't Therapy; therapist; co-creator of the show.
Simon Paluck
Co-host; filmmaker and therapist-in-training; active in therapy discussions.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 215 ratings
  • Funny and wise

    Sometimes I laugh so hard at your banter that I either spit out my drink or cry. So hilarious but also so much meaningful stuff.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    f0rtywinks
    Canadaa year ago
  • Amazeballs

    Hi

    I have been listening and am going to pursue a Masters in Psyc and I wanted to let you know how much I love this podcast! I love that your intentions, humour, banter and close relationship.

    As a single gay man I often overthink and am trying to get out of my head, re learn my worth and get my confidence back. I think I may have CPTSD and I am not sure if you have discussed that on here as I believe many gay men may deal with!

    Keep doing what you do boys!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    srb 1979
    Canada2 years ago
  • Love this podcast

    Really enjoy each episode. Please please increase the base volume of the episode. I listen in my car and i have to put it on max volume to hear and i still strain to hear. Jake’s beautiful voice especially just seems to be slightly too soft at this level. Thanks! ☺️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    abelspeak
    United States2 years ago
  • Lovely listener review

    Hiii! I’ve been listening since day 1 and this is 100% my favourite podcast!! I wish they did more episodes per week!! Jake and Simon are the two best friends you wish you had. It’s just casual Kelly conversations about mental health and all things therapy but in an easy to digest way. Their silly jokey humour is refreshing and always makes me laugh out loud, yet they cover important topics in a way that makes you reflect without feeling bad about yourself. I love all the inside jokes and thread... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    yoga_vic
    Canada2 years ago
  • Relevant Topics, says “Mary” ;-)

    Jake and Simon are always speaking my language! Their talking points are ON POINT👌🏼 while being hilarious. Also, I like how they are always talking directly to ME 😅 ~Mary. I always have a cheerleader and a friend in my ears.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MonctonMarie
    Canada2 years ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Fans highlight the chemistry between Jake and Simon and the relatable discussion of real-life therapy topics.
Listeners praise the balance of humor and depth, noting therapy insights feel accessible rather than heavy.
Audience often mentions feeling seen and supported, with appreciation for queer hosts and inclusive tone.

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"What Should I Do?" & Cognitive Bias
Q: I'm looking to start my own podcast. Where do you suggest I start?
Start with the basics: define your format and topic, then move from planning to doing. Gather a small group if possible, get simple equipment, and begin recording. Don't wait for perfect conditions—start now and iterate as you go.
The Chore of Self-Care & The Mindset Quiz
Q: How do you date without immediately turning into an overthinking mess?
You need to focus on having fun and enjoying the experience without putting too much pressure on it.
The Default Mode Network & Feeling “Muted”
Q: Can some people access the DMN easier than others?
Yes, some people have a predisposition that makes it easier to access, but everyone should practice and build that muscle for better mental health.
The Default Mode Network & Feeling “Muted”
Q: What are the short-term benefits of implementing the Default Mode Network?
The short-term benefits include better self-reflection, improved memory, and being able to tolerate boredom.
K-Pop Demon Hunters & Mushroom Mommies
Q: How do you know when you've actually outgrown someone versus when you're just avoiding conflict?
It's important to assess whether being around this person is still enjoyable; if there's more stress than joy, it may indicate outgrowing the friendship.

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Two hosts explore therapy themes through casual, witty conversations about relationships, culture, and everyday life, making psychology accessible and relatable. Episodes blend practical insights with humor, covering topics from burnout and digital life to media trends and ethical questions in reality-based storytelling. The format often features guest-free dialogues that feel like a candid chat between friends, with a strong emphasis on destigmatizing mental health and demystifying therapy for a broad audience. A standout aspect is the seamless mix of therapy concepts with pop culture references and relatable anecdotes, which helps listeners apply ideas to real-life situations without feeling overwhelmed.

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