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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media
Relationship Dynamics
Parenting
Relationships
Communication
Sexual Assault
Trauma
Vulnerability
Conflict Resolution
Mental Health
Self-Doubt
Sex Therapy
Dependency Issues
Emotion Regulation
Intimacy Issues
Isolation
Friendship
Cheating
Mismatched Sexual Desire
Communication In Relationships
Desire Discrepancy

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more

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A couple sits down with Esther Perel to untangle trust, control, and intimacy after becoming parents. He feels weighed down by anxiety and responsibility; she struggles with ADHD, resistance to structure, and fears of falling short in her art career.... more

This is a classic session of How's Work? A large and scattered network of journalists meet for a virtual session with Esther. Over the past year, they've reported on the biggest stories of their careers, but they are burned out, isolated, grieving, a... more

Nothing changes us quite like our first love—or our first heartbreak. After falling in love for the first time in his late twenties, he now finds himself navigating the pain of his first breakup. He comes to Esther in search of clarity, healing, and ... more

She’s watching the company she co-founded unravel—strained partnerships, family entanglements, and the weight of guilt, anger, and responsibility pulling her in every direction. Now she wants to ask Esther: how can she protect her relationship with h... more

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Recent Guests

Julia Samuel
British psychologist specializing in grief, author of 'Grief Works'
Episode: Grief Begins With Love With Julia Samuel
Paul Browde
Psychiatrist and speaker
Practices in New York City
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Nedra Tawwab
Psychotherapist and author
Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Unnamed Woman
A 37-year-old artist and activist in a long-distance relationship
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Episode: Esther Calling - I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself
Unnamed Listener
A woman who describes her experience with a psychologically abusive former employer and seeks advice from Esther.
Episode: Esther Calling - You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding
Miranda July
Author of the novel All Fours
Episode: Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire
Unnamed Young Couple
A young couple in their mid-twenties in a long-distance relationship between Mexico and Texas.
Episode: The Arc of Love - Young Love
Anonymous Woman
A woman reflecting on her relationships and pattern of infidelity.
Episode: Esther Calling - Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?
Trevor Noah
Stand-up comedian, television host, and author
The Daily Show
Episode: Sex, Comedy and Context: A Live Conversation with Trevor Noah

Host

Esther Perel
Prominent psychotherapist and host, known for her work in couples therapy and relationship dynamics. She provides insightful guidance and expertise on emotional and relational issues.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 30.8k ratings
  • Very good content and more than worthy of the monthly subscription fee.

    Now this is content that I like to pay for!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MariaGoddijn
    Netherlands22 days ago
  • Best couples therapy I’ve experienced!

    I found this podcast ”too late” but once I did I listened to all the previous episodes that were still available at that time. They’ve been removed now - unfortunately, because even though the one on one sessions over the phone is interesting, the couples’ therapy were truly the best! By far. Those episodes were so informative and educative. Wish the Esther Perel would go back to that format again.

    📚 I also recommend reading her two books!

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Marcus Sweede
    Swedena month ago
  • Decreasing quality

    I’ve loved and listened to this podcast since it began. That said, the amount and frequency of ads that run in the show since it was acquired by Vox has become so intrusive that it makes the show difficult to listen to and take seriously. I understand the revenue considerations of advertising / where the industry is now, but the fact that there is a preroll, at least 2 midrolls *and* postrolls for episodes that are barely 30 minutes long is crazy and feels so intrusive. I used to love the show a... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    cdr1242
    United Statesa month ago
  • Suggestion from a paid subscriber

    This is one of my favourite podcasts, but there is one thing that bothers me: can you please stop re-releasing old sessions by plucking them from the history and presenting them as new content? I don’t mind if you have nothing new to post this week, it’s ok. What you do with old content feels like you’re cheating and not respecting your audience. I can find old episodes in case I want to listen to them, please leave old content where it is.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Spavvn
    Netherlands2 months ago
  • Best out there

    Esther Perel is a truly remarkable voice in modern psychology and relationships. Her work is a perfect blend of deep clinical expertise, cultural insight, and profound empathy. Through her books, podcasts, and talks, she challenges conventional thinking about love, intimacy, and desire, offering a refreshing and compassionate perspective that resonates deeply with people worldwide.

    What makes Esther extraordinary is her ability to normalise complex human emotions, helping individuals and couple... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    KiaNW
    United Kingdom2 months ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Concerns have been raised about a shift in focus from couples therapy to more individualistic themes, which some listeners find less engaging.
Many express gratitude for the practical advice and emotional insights provided during episodes.
Listeners appreciate the deep, insightful discussions on relationships and the relatability of the callers' stories.
There is criticism regarding the increasing commercial nature of the content, with some feeling that it detracts from the therapeutic essence.

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Breaking News Has Broken Us
Q: How does one cope with feelings of isolation during intense work situations?
Creating shared routines with others can provide structure and emotional support.
Breaking News Has Broken Us
Q: What do you find hardest about maintaining routines during COVID?
It's very hard to be completely alone and disciplined; accountability to others is important.
Esther Calling - Still Single at 40
Q: Why is it that I haven't had a relationship that's gone beyond four or five months?
The caller is reflecting on his patterns in romantic relationships and expressing concern over his inability to maintain longer relationships as he approaches 40.
Esther Calling - Stuck in the Middle
Q: Is this a first for you?
Not really. I have kind of always, in most of my friend groups, kind of growing up and recently as well, I tend to be kind of like the confident role.
Esther Calling - Never Been In a Long Term Relationship, Scared I Don't Know How To Do This
Q: Why can't I just enjoy this?
You are caught in your head, fearing the worst instead of being present in the moment.

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The content features candid conversations with callers addressing their most intimate and pressing relationship dilemmas, ranging from romantic entanglements to complex family dynamics. Notable themes include the exploration of grief, attachment, friendship, and personal growth, as well as discussions about setting boundaries and navigating modern dating challenges. Each episode is marked by the host's insightful guidance—using her clinical expertise to help callers unravel emotional complexities and heal relational wounds. This format resonates deeply with listeners, likely fostering a sense of shared experience and understanding about common relational struggles. Unique to the content is the incorporation of diverse personal stories, allo... more

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