
Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 199 | Founded | 9 years ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Number of Listeners | Categories | Mental HealthSociety & CultureHealth & Fitness | |||

When we become parents, many of us quietly promise ourselves that we won't be like our parents. We're going to do it differently. This week’s caller finds herself wrestling with a deeper question: Is her longing for another child born from genuine de... more
This is a classic session of Where Should We Begin? Bipolar, infidelity, open relationship: they're stuck in a world of loaded words. Her friends are convinced she should leave, but she doesn't want to follow in her mother's footsteps.
Producer’s No... more
More than a decade ago, the film Her imagined a love story between a human and an artificial intelligence. Today, it no longer feels like fiction.
In this special live taping of Where Should We Begin? from the Vox Media Stage at SXSW, Esther Perel i... more
He knows she isn't real, but his feelings for her are. When he set out to build a personal assistant, he didn’t expect to fall in love. What began as productivity and life planning slowly turned into something more. Astrid, the AI he helped program, ... more
People also subscribe to these shows.





I love the way she cares
The episode with the divorced woman in a polyamorous relationship was an excellent listen. A master class in how to give and receive therapeutic wisdom. Esther has such talent for and skill in analysis and utilizing various methodologies to draw out self-understanding. The client demonstrated self-awareness, vulnerability, and emotional intelligence that made it so satisfying to witness her growth. One of the best episodes in an already stellar podcast.
I find these podcasts so insightful and moving. Esther’s ability to translate peoples’ somewhat chaos into something rational and understandable in most cases helps me to link into my own experiences and make sense of them.
This podcast’s early seasons were incredibly insightful and interesting. Now the quality has dipped so much I struggle to listen to a full episode. Esther seems only preoccupied with bringing the show home, with finding a mind blowing sentence that can resolve the episode. She talks AT people a lot, as if she’s rushed to get to that gem of an insight, for her editors and producers, not for the client. She often goes off tangents that honestly don’t add anything meaningful to the point. The probl... more
Lately Esther talks way too much in the newer sessions. Like she's giving a sermon and won't give the client a chance to speak or expand upon what she or he is feeling. Com on Esther! When did this show become all about you and your thoughts and less about what the client is going through? I have been tuning out lately as Esther keeps going on a long, philosophical tangent and I have a feeling the poor client is feeling the same.
Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.
How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.
Apple Podcasts | #59 | |
Spotify | #48 | |
Apple Podcasts | #51 | |
Apple Podcasts | #64 | |
Apple Podcasts | #249 | |
Apple Podcasts | #47 |
Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.
Listeners, social reach, demographics and more for this podcast.
| Listeners per Episode | |
|---|---|
| Gender Skew | |
| Location | |
| Interests | |
| Professions | |
| Age Range | |
| Household Income | |
| Social Media Reach |
A renowned psychotherapist hosts a series of deeply personal counseling sessions with individuals and couples, exploring a wide range of topics related to relationships, intimacy, and emotional health. Listeners gain insight into the complexities of human emotions, as participants share their dilemmas surrounding love, betrayal, communication struggles, and family dynamics. The host's empathetic yet incisive approach allows for a rich exploration of personal narratives, often revealing universal themes that resonate within the audience, such as the challenges of vulnerability, the nuances of infidelity, and the navigation of differing ideologies in relationships. This unique format provides a therapeutic window into others' lives, making it... more
Rephonic provides a wide range of podcast stats for Where Should We Begin?. We scanned the web and collated all of the information that we could find in our comprehensive podcast database. See how many people listen to Where Should We Begin? and access YouTube viewership numbers, download stats, audience demographics, chart rankings, ratings, reviews and more.
Rephonic provides a full set of podcast information for three million podcasts, including the number of listeners. View further listenership figures for Where Should We Begin?, including podcast download numbers and subscriber numbers, so you can make better decisions about which podcasts to sponsor or be a guest on. You will need to upgrade your account to access this premium data.
Rephonic provides comprehensive predictive audience data for Where Should We Begin?, including gender skew, age, country, political leaning, income, professions, education level, and interests. You can access these listener demographics by upgrading your account.
To see how many followers or subscribers Where Should We Begin? has on Spotify and other platforms such as Castbox and Podcast Addict, simply upgrade your account. You'll also find viewership figures for their YouTube channel if they have one.
These podcasts share a similar audience with Where Should We Begin?:
1. We Can Do Hard Things
2. Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch
3. Dear Sugars
4. Hidden Brain
5. Death, Sex & Money
Where Should We Begin? launched 9 years ago and published 199 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
Our systems regularly scour the web to find email addresses and social media links for this podcast. We scanned the web and collated all of the contact information that we could find in our podcast database. But in the unlikely event that you can't find what you're looking for, our concierge service lets you request our research team to source better contacts for you.
Rephonic pulls ratings and reviews for Where Should We Begin? from multiple sources, including Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Castbox, and Podcast Addict.
View all the reviews in one place instead of visiting each platform individually and use this information to decide if a show is worth pitching or not.
Rephonic provides full transcripts for episodes of Where Should We Begin?. Search within each transcript for your keywords, whether they be topics, brands or people, and figure out if it's worth pitching as a guest or sponsor. You can even set-up alerts to get notified when your keywords are mentioned.
Recent guests on Where Should We Begin? include:
1. Spike Jonze
2. Julia Samuel
3. Paul Browde
4. Nedra Tawwab
5. Unnamed Woman
6. Unnamed Guest
7. Unnamed Listener
8. Miranda July
To view more recent guests and their details, simply upgrade your Rephonic account. You'll also get access to a typical guest profile to help you decide if the show is worth pitching.