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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media
Communication
Family Dynamics
Intimacy
Relationship Dynamics
Relationships
Friendship
Marriage
Mental Health
Parenting
Conflict Resolution
Infidelity
Grief
Romantic Relationships
Divorce
Trauma
Boundaries
Personal Growth
Therapy
Communication In Relationships
Trust

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more

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With her wedding just weeks away, a young woman calls Esther with a question she’s been carrying for most of her life: how do you allow yourself joy when you’ve learned to make yourself small? Growing up alongside a non-speaking autistic brother taug... more

A person gives their partner an ultimatum, and they fail to meet it. What happens then to the relationship? This couple comes to Esther with that question, wondering what future, if any, might be possible for them. A painful misalignment lies at the ... more

When a mom reaches out on her daughter’s behalf, an old family dynamic comes into focus. A woman finds herself caught between her two divorced parents, still playing the role of mediator and emotional caretaker. As she speaks with Esther, she starts ... more

As work becomes the place we look for identity, stability, and meaning, the stakes feel higher than ever. Esther invites you in for a live conversation between friends, New York Times journalist Jodi Kantor and facilitator and author Priya Parker. A ... more

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Recent Guests

Spike Jonze
Director of Her, invited guest for this episode
Director/Creator, Her
Episode: Love, Loneliness, and AI: Where Should We Begin? Live with Esther Perel and Spike Jonze
Julia Samuel
British psychologist specializing in grief, author of 'Grief Works'
Episode: Grief Begins With Love With Julia Samuel
Paul Browde
Psychiatrist and speaker
Practices in New York City
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Nedra Tawwab
Psychotherapist and author
Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Unnamed Woman
A 37-year-old artist and activist in a long-distance relationship
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Episode: I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself
Unnamed Listener
A woman who describes her experience with a psychologically abusive former employer and seeks advice from Esther.
Episode: You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding
Miranda July
Author of the novel All Fours
Episode: Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire
Unnamed Young Couple
A young couple in their mid-twenties in a long-distance relationship between Mexico and Texas.
Episode: The Arc of Love - Young Love
Anonymous Woman
A woman reflecting on her relationships and pattern of infidelity.
Episode: Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Host

Esther Perel
Renowned psychotherapist, author, and host, known for exploring relationship dynamics with insight and empathy. She presents real-life counseling sessions that reveal complex emotional truths.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 31.4k ratings
  • everyone always likes compliment

    I love your new cover art

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ali Schuback
    United States19 days ago
  • Shame

    Disgusting episode in which the hosts repeatedly lie about how none of their students wanted to talk about real life events such as the genocide in Gaza. Never listening to this show again.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    DankHoustonMemes
    United States20 days ago
  • Great Listen- Especially while in a Relationship. I really appreciate the insight I gain on my life and relationship by listening. There is so much validation and Esther truly knows how to ask the right questions. I've never had a therapist like her, but would very much appreciate the opportunity. Hearing about other people's dilemmas is interesting and also creates a shared experience... An understanding that we really aren't alone. Thank you

    Podcast Addict
    5
    mzrmixd
    25 days ago
  • Audio quality

    Guests of this podcast, understandably, are not used to record their voice with good quality. I wonder if this could be the podcast that normalizes buying a cheap but decent microphone for guests who don't have one. The experience would improve so much!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    another_human_user
    United Kingdoma month ago
  • Jumped the shark

    This show used to be one of my favorites but I really feel like it has “jumped the shark”. It’s become really boring and I can’t get through an episode. Not sure what happened but it’s definitely changed.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    dshz23
    United Statesa month ago

Listeners Say

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Overall, the host is praised for her ability to navigate complex emotional landscapes, offering comfort and validation to listeners in various stages of their relationship journeys.
Listeners appreciate the profound insights into human emotions and relationships, often finding comfort in the relatable narratives shared.
The unique format of therapy sessions provides an empathetic window into the struggles of love and intimacy, resonating with many in their own relational journeys.
Some critiques mention the shift in content focus and a desire for the return to earlier episode formats that featured more couple dynamics, rather than individual sessions.

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Should I Have Another Baby?
Q: What would you need to feel ready to consider another child?
A period of psychological healing, clearer boundaries, and a space for the couple to reflect without a ticking clock, allowing room for self-care and diversified focus beyond the children.
Should I Have Another Baby?
Q: Are you making this decision alone, or is there a partner in your life?
The caller and her husband make decisions together, and they need to discuss boundaries and what they can or cannot live with as they consider expanding their family.
Am I Letting My Jealousy Ruin This?
Q: Meaning how? Tell me how you put the puzzle together.
The caller explains a pattern where she sees two parallel lives: one with a non-traditional arrangement that feels stimulating and intimate, and another with traditional family structure that triggers old insecurities; she seeks a coherent design that honors both connection and safety.
Trapped In Their Own Story
Q: Did you see your whole experience as a negative experience?
The female partner reflects on her actions and how they stemmed from feeling unvalued, ultimately suggesting they were stuck in their relationship.
Trapped In Their Own Story
Q: Can I just ask you for a moment, give me a bit of background so I know what we're talking about?
The couple reflects on the infidelity in their history, including past affairs and issues stemming from emotional neglect.

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A renowned psychotherapist hosts a series of deeply personal counseling sessions with individuals and couples, exploring a wide range of topics related to relationships, intimacy, and emotional health. Listeners gain insight into the complexities of human emotions, as participants share their dilemmas surrounding love, betrayal, communication struggles, and family dynamics. The host's empathetic yet incisive approach allows for a rich exploration of personal narratives, often revealing universal themes that resonate within the audience, such as the challenges of vulnerability, the nuances of infidelity, and the navigation of differing ideologies in relationships. This unique format provides a therapeutic window into others' lives, making it... more

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2. Julia Samuel
3. Paul Browde
4. Nedra Tawwab
5. Unnamed Woman
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7. Miranda July
8. Unnamed Young Couple

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