
Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 209 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Mental HealthHealth & FitnessSociety & Culture | |||

Twin brothers come to Esther with a shared question: how do they break free from the conflict that has shaped their relationship for years? One feels smothered, the other abandoned, and together they are caught in a cycle of pursuit and withdrawal th... more
A recent session was a threshold moment for Esther where she found herself doing couples therapy with a man and his AI companion. To explore the questions it raised, Esther sits down with New York Times technology reporter, Kashmir Hill, who has spen... more
With her wedding just weeks away, a young woman calls Esther with a question she’s been carrying for most of her life: how do you allow yourself joy when you’ve learned to make yourself small? Growing up alongside a non-speaking autistic brother taug... more
A person gives their partner an ultimatum, and they fail to meet it. What happens then to the relationship? This couple comes to Esther with that question, wondering what future, if any, might be possible for them. A painful misalignment lies at the ... more
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Disgusting episode in which the hosts repeatedly lie about how none of their students wanted to talk about real life events such as the genocide in Gaza. Never listening to this show again.
Great Listen- Especially while in a Relationship. I really appreciate the insight I gain on my life and relationship by listening. There is so much validation and Esther truly knows how to ask the right questions. I've never had a therapist like her, but would very much appreciate the opportunity. Hearing about other people's dilemmas is interesting and also creates a shared experience... An understanding that we really aren't alone. Thank you
Guests of this podcast, understandably, are not used to record their voice with good quality. I wonder if this could be the podcast that normalizes buying a cheap but decent microphone for guests who don't have one. The experience would improve so much!
This show used to be one of my favorites but I really feel like it has “jumped the shark”. It’s become really boring and I can’t get through an episode. Not sure what happened but it’s definitely changed.
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This program centers on intimate conversations about love, relationships, family dynamics, sexuality, and personal growth, guided by a renowned psychotherapist. Episodes span polyamory, long-term partnerships, infidelity, parenting, divorce, and the impact of culture and trauma on intimate life. The approach blends therapeutic techniques with real-life storytelling, offering practical prompts, boundaries work, and nuanced perspectives on what it means to connect deeply while negotiating autonomy, safety, and belonging. A standout element is its willingness to address complex, sometimes provocative topics—often bridging psychology, ethics, and everyday relationship realities—through thoughtful, nonjudgmental dialogue that aims to illuminate ... more
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