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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media
Relationship Dynamics
Parenting
Communication
Sexual Assault
Trauma
Conflict Resolution
Relationships
Mental Health
Self-Doubt
Vulnerability
Sex Therapy
Dependency Issues
Emotion Regulation
Intimacy Issues
Isolation
Friendship
Cheating
Communication In Relationships
Mismatched Sexual Desire
Desire Discrepancy

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more

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She has a crush on her coworker, which feels thrilling and unsettling all at once. Fresh off a divorce and shaped by earlier relationships marked by instability and self doubt, she worries she may be confusing desire with grief or slipping back into ... more

We hear from a couple who have long been happy in their marriage, except for one thing: their sex life. In moments of intimacy, one freezes, the other hesitates, and they end up locked in a cycle of uncertainty and distress. On the precipice of becom... more

Esther speaks with a young man whose confession of love for a close friend sets off a chain reaction he never expected. After exposing his love, his secret is out, his five-year relationship ends, and his friend group begins to fracture. He is now na... more

This is a classic session of Where Should We Begin? Barely a year into marriage, they're trapped in a cycle of explosive conflict. She can do no right, and he can do no wrong.

Producer’s Note: When our anonymous guests do a session with Esther for t... more

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Julia Samuel
British psychologist specializing in grief, author of 'Grief Works'
Episode: Grief Begins With Love With Julia Samuel
Paul Browde
Psychiatrist and speaker
Practices in New York City
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Nedra Tawwab
Psychotherapist and author
Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Unnamed Woman
A 37-year-old artist and activist in a long-distance relationship
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Episode: I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself
Unnamed Listener
A woman who describes her experience with a psychologically abusive former employer and seeks advice from Esther.
Episode: You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding
Miranda July
Author of the novel All Fours
Episode: Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire
Unnamed Young Couple
A young couple in their mid-twenties in a long-distance relationship between Mexico and Texas.
Episode: The Arc of Love - Young Love
Anonymous Woman
A woman reflecting on her relationships and pattern of infidelity.
Episode: Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?
Trevor Noah
Stand-up comedian, television host, and author
The Daily Show
Episode: Sex, Comedy and Context: A Live Conversation with Trevor Noah

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Esther Perel
Host, author, and psychotherapist known for her expertise in relationships and emotional intelligence.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 31.2k ratings
  • I love this show- but I have some comments about “I Told My Friend I Was in Love With Her”

    I’m sorry, but this guy was incredibly selfish and self-centered. He blew up not only his own life, but those around him. This sounds awful, but he got what he deserved. At the end of the day, she was not available. Full stop. She was in a relationship. And neither was he, but it sounds like he had one foot out the door in his relationship… which is very sad for his ex-girlfriend. This episode made me angry because it didn’t have to end that way. I had this happen to me, so I may be internalizin... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    aes2020peace
    United States14 days ago
  • Keep them coming Esther!!

    Insightful, unique commentary we all need. You will be a healthier, stronger person thanks to Esther. I find her shows to be life changing - what a gift.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lynn Lacey
    United States23 days ago
  • Thoughts on “Can Our Love Survive Our Differences” episode

    Esther is incredible as always! Powerful insights, thought-provoking questions, a timeless wisdom. I have listened to her for years!

    I was put on edge by the most recent episode, enough to write a review into this void that is Apple Podcasts Reviews. That man is so many red flags. He seems to lead life by his insecurities (older age, lacking job stability, not achieving traditional ideals) that he will accept most (if not any) women to accomplish his life milestones– mainly, “house, car, kids” ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    viv_loh
    United States25 days ago
  • Deep dive into the human psyche

    I absolutely love Esther and this podcast. It’s a glimpse into the complexities of human emotion and relationships etc and when Esther is on her game she can intuitively peel away the layers to reveal life changing truths that people otherwise don’t realize, even those who have been in regular therapy for years. The articulate precision with which she does this is so incredible to witness.

    Sometimes I do wish Esther would be more blunt with people as the rare sessions don’t give as much insig... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    loloheyhey
    United Statesa month ago
  • Latest episode

    Love Esther, no notes. But wow, the girl in the latest episode about differences should RUN. That man is a nightmare. Get out while you can girl, and find someone who actually respects you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    pnw24climber
    United Statesa month ago

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Overall, the audience finds value in the relatable and real-life accounts shared on the show, making it a consistently engaging resource for emotional guidance.
Listeners appreciate the depth and insight Esther Perel provides in her sessions, often describing them as transformative and enlightening regarding personal relationships.
There are critiques regarding the increase in advertisements and more commercial aspects of the show, leading some long-time listeners to express disappointment.

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Our Sex Life is a Disaster
Q: So what is a little snapshot of sex between the two of us, the ons and offs?
Partner 1 describes the initial period of discovery and joy, contrasting it with the current difficulties in maintaining a sexual connection.
Our Sex Life is a Disaster
Q: What are the circumstances of your life that made that way of being so appropriate?
The partner reflects on her chaotic childhood, emphasizing how her upbringing shaped her current behaviors and emotional responses.
I Told My Friend I Was in Love with Her, Then She Told Everyone
Q: Where are you now?
I'm moving out and dealing with the emotional fallout of my friendship and relationship changes.
The Permission to Be and Not Just the Pressure to Do
Q: How do I find legitimacy in just being and not in doing?
Esther emphasizes the importance of feeling entitled to rest and recognizes that this pursuit is a form of resistance against societal pressures.
The Permission to Be and Not Just the Pressure to Do
Q: How do I make peace with being enough or recognize that I'm enough?
The speaker reflects how moments of calm and self-acceptance arise when around loved ones, revealing the significant role of personal relationships in their sense of worth.

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