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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media
Relationship Dynamics
Parenting
Relationships
Communication
Sexual Assault
Trauma
Conflict Resolution
Mental Health
Self-Doubt
Vulnerability
Sex Therapy
Dependency Issues
Emotion Regulation
Intimacy Issues
Isolation
Friendship
Cheating
Communication In Relationships
Mismatched Sexual Desire
Desire Discrepancy

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more

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She’s reeling from a relationship that brought both deep love and deep betrayal. After discovering that her boyfriend had been lying about the terms of their polyamorous arrangement, she’s left struggling to reconcile the intimacy they shared with th... more

They met in vet school and married just as they reached graduation. But now his work takes him around the world, forcing them to live apart for months at a time. He’s ready to start a family, but she’s hesitant: how can they think about children when... more

She unknowingly changed the course of his life, and he's loved her ever since. It's been decades, and even though he now dates men, he wonders how to live with these feelings of what he calls unrequited love. How do you hold a candle of gratitude for... more

Post-breakup rumination is a familiar spiral. We replay the signs, question our judgment, and wonder how we didn’t see it coming. This week, Esther speaks with a man grappling with the lingering grief and betrayal of discovering that his ex wasn't ex... more

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Recent Guests

Julia Samuel
British psychologist specializing in grief, author of 'Grief Works'
Episode: Grief Begins With Love With Julia Samuel
Paul Browde
Psychiatrist and speaker
Practices in New York City
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Nedra Tawwab
Psychotherapist and author
Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Unnamed Woman
A 37-year-old artist and activist in a long-distance relationship
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Episode: Esther Calling - I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself
Unnamed Guest
A new mother exploring her complex relationship with her own mother.
Episode: Esther Calling - I Don't Want to Turn Into My Mother
Unnamed Listener
A woman who describes her experience with a psychologically abusive former employer and seeks advice from Esther.
Episode: Esther Calling - You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding
Miranda July
Author of the novel All Fours
Episode: Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire
Unnamed Young Couple
A young couple in their mid-twenties in a long-distance relationship between Mexico and Texas.
Episode: The Arc of Love - Young Love
Anonymous Woman
A woman reflecting on her relationships and pattern of infidelity.
Episode: Esther Calling - Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Host

Esther Perel
Prominent psychotherapist and host, known for her work in couples therapy and relationship dynamics. She provides insightful guidance and expertise on emotional and relational issues.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 30.9k ratings
  • Beautiful

    A lovely, wise soul. Reminding us of own wisdom.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ksuite77
    United States15 days ago
  • Great talk.. I live in a world of girls who try to find a better life

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Willy
    24 days ago
  • So interesting and helpful

    Really helpful for my journey on being a human. Really helps me learn our understand things about myself AND others in my life.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jkbulldvm
    United Statesa month ago
  • Slicing through the bullsh..

    Esther Perel astonishes me with her ability to shine the harsh light of the noonday sun on the workings of our deep, darkly subconscious selves. Amazingly, she does this with the soft edge of the Libra’s sword.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Let'sAllBeNice
    United Statesa month ago
  • Very good content and more than worthy of the monthly subscription fee.

    Now this is content that I like to pay for!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MariaGoddijn
    Netherlands2 months ago

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Concerns have been raised about a shift in focus from couples therapy to more individualistic themes, which some listeners find less engaging.
Many express gratitude for the practical advice and emotional insights provided during episodes.
Listeners appreciate the deep, insightful discussions on relationships and the relatability of the callers' stories.
There is criticism regarding the increasing commercial nature of the content, with some feeling that it detracts from the therapeutic essence.

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Esther Calling - One Relationship. Two Truths.
Q: How did you find out?
I found out when his girlfriend broke up with him, and his friends confronted him, revealing he had never been polyamorous with me.
Esther Calling - One Relationship. Two Truths.
Q: So, my question is, how do I integrate these two truths?
The caller is struggling to reconcile the love she shared with her boyfriend and the betrayal of his lies.
The One Who Stays and the One Who Goes
Q: I would like to learn from you how to do that better and be intentional about it because that's actually how I feel.
Speaker 5 acknowledges the need for more emotional openness and communication in their relationship regarding feelings of love and support.
The One Who Stays and the One Who Goes
Q: Give me a sense as to why we are here today, and what would make this a helpful conversation?
The couple expresses a need to change the conversation surrounding their discussions about children and their future together.
Esther Calling - I Accidentally Dated An OnlyFans Star
Q: Did I withhold it to protect her or did I withhold it because to protect me?
He questions his motives for not disclosing what he found out about her work on OnlyFans when trying to reconnect.

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The content features candid conversations with callers addressing their most intimate and pressing relationship dilemmas, ranging from romantic entanglements to complex family dynamics. Notable themes include the exploration of grief, attachment, friendship, and personal growth, as well as discussions about setting boundaries and navigating modern dating challenges. Each episode is marked by the host's insightful guidance—using her clinical expertise to help callers unravel emotional complexities and heal relational wounds. This format resonates deeply with listeners, likely fostering a sense of shared experience and understanding about common relational struggles. Unique to the content is the incorporation of diverse personal stories, allo... more

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