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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media
Relationship Dynamics
Parenting
Communication
Sexual Assault
Trauma
Conflict Resolution
Relationships
Mental Health
Vulnerability
Self-Doubt
Sex Therapy
Emotion Regulation
Dependency Issues
Intimacy Issues
Isolation
Friendship
Cheating
Mismatched Sexual Desire
Communication In Relationships
Desire Discrepancy

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Medi... more

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This is a classic session of Where Should We Begin? Their whole relationship is based on one big misunderstanding, with infidelity on both sides. Years later, they still can't see the other's perspective.

Esther is returning to SXSW on March 14th fo... more

She's 26 and has never been in a relationship that made her feel happier or more fulfilled than when she's single. She's questioning whether being in a relationship is right for her. Esther helps her explore the issues stemming from her childhood, he... more

She has a crush on her coworker, which feels thrilling and unsettling all at once. Fresh off a divorce and shaped by earlier relationships marked by instability and self doubt, she worries she may be confusing desire with grief or slipping back into ... more

We hear from a couple who have long been happy in their marriage, except for one thing: their sex life. In moments of intimacy, one freezes, the other hesitates, and they end up locked in a cycle of uncertainty and distress. On the precipice of becom... more

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Recent Guests

Julia Samuel
British psychologist specializing in grief, author of 'Grief Works'
Episode: Grief Begins With Love With Julia Samuel
Paul Browde
Psychiatrist and speaker
Practices in New York City
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Nedra Tawwab
Psychotherapist and author
Author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
Episode: Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live
Unnamed Woman
A 37-year-old artist and activist in a long-distance relationship
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Episode: I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself
Unnamed Listener
A woman who describes her experience with a psychologically abusive former employer and seeks advice from Esther.
Episode: You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding
Miranda July
Author of the novel All Fours
Episode: Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire
Unnamed Young Couple
A young couple in their mid-twenties in a long-distance relationship between Mexico and Texas.
Episode: The Arc of Love - Young Love
Anonymous Woman
A woman reflecting on her relationships and pattern of infidelity.
Episode: Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?
Trevor Noah
Stand-up comedian, television host, and author
The Daily Show
Episode: Sex, Comedy and Context: A Live Conversation with Trevor Noah

Host

Esther Perel
Renowned psychotherapist, author, and host, known for exploring relationship dynamics with insight and empathy. She presents real-life counseling sessions that reveal complex emotional truths.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 31.3k ratings
  • I love this show- but I have some comments about “I Told My Friend I Was in Love With Her”

    I’m sorry, but this guy was incredibly selfish and self-centered. He blew up not only his own life, but those around him. This sounds awful, but he got what he deserved. At the end of the day, she was not available. Full stop. She was in a relationship. And neither was he, but it sounds like he had one foot out the door in his relationship… which is very sad for his ex-girlfriend. This episode made me angry because it didn’t have to end that way. I had this happen to me, so I may be internalizin... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    aes2020peace
    United Statesa month ago
  • Keep them coming Esther!!

    Insightful, unique commentary we all need. You will be a healthier, stronger person thanks to Esther. I find her shows to be life changing - what a gift.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lynn Lacey
    United Statesa month ago
  • Thoughts on “Can Our Love Survive Our Differences” episode

    Esther is incredible as always! Powerful insights, thought-provoking questions, a timeless wisdom. I have listened to her for years!

    I was put on edge by the most recent episode, enough to write a review into this void that is Apple Podcasts Reviews. That man is so many red flags. He seems to lead life by his insecurities (older age, lacking job stability, not achieving traditional ideals) that he will accept most (if not any) women to accomplish his life milestones– mainly, “house, car, kids” ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    viv_loh
    United Statesa month ago
  • Deep dive into the human psyche

    I absolutely love Esther and this podcast. It’s a glimpse into the complexities of human emotion and relationships etc and when Esther is on her game she can intuitively peel away the layers to reveal life changing truths that people otherwise don’t realize, even those who have been in regular therapy for years. The articulate precision with which she does this is so incredible to witness.

    Sometimes I do wish Esther would be more blunt with people as the rare sessions don’t give as much insig... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    loloheyhey
    United States2 months ago
  • Latest episode

    Love Esther, no notes. But wow, the girl in the latest episode about differences should RUN. That man is a nightmare. Get out while you can girl, and find someone who actually respects you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    pnw24climber
    United States2 months ago

Listeners Say

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Overall, the host is praised for her ability to navigate complex emotional landscapes, offering comfort and validation to listeners in various stages of their relationship journeys.
Listeners appreciate the profound insights into human emotions and relationships, often finding comfort in the relatable narratives shared.
The unique format of therapy sessions provides an empathetic window into the struggles of love and intimacy, resonating with many in their own relational journeys.
Some critiques mention the shift in content focus and a desire for the return to earlier episode formats that featured more couple dynamics, rather than individual sessions.

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Talking Points

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Trapped In Their Own Story
Q: Did you see your whole experience as a negative experience?
The female partner reflects on her actions and how they stemmed from feeling unvalued, ultimately suggesting they were stuck in their relationship.
Trapped In Their Own Story
Q: Can I just ask you for a moment, give me a bit of background so I know what we're talking about?
The couple reflects on the infidelity in their history, including past affairs and issues stemming from emotional neglect.
I Have a Crush on a Coworker
Q: What would your response be if you were to visualize feelings above your heads?
The caller imagines needing understanding while the crush would say they want forgiveness.
I Have a Crush on a Coworker
Q: What freaks you out about pursuing a crush on a coworker?
The caller expresses concerns about the complications of a workplace relationship and the recent divorce timing.
Our Sex Life is a Disaster
Q: So what is a little snapshot of sex between the two of us, the ons and offs?
Partner 1 describes the initial period of discovery and joy, contrasting it with the current difficulties in maintaining a sexual connection.

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A renowned psychotherapist hosts a series of deeply personal counseling sessions with individuals and couples, exploring a wide range of topics related to relationships, intimacy, and emotional health. Listeners gain insight into the complexities of human emotions, as participants share their dilemmas surrounding love, betrayal, communication struggles, and family dynamics. The host's empathetic yet incisive approach allows for a rich exploration of personal narratives, often revealing universal themes that resonate within the audience, such as the challenges of vulnerability, the nuances of infidelity, and the navigation of differing ideologies in relationships. This unique format provides a therapeutic window into others' lives, making it... more

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