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For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more

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When people stop Ramy Youssef on the street, it's usually not because they're mega-fans of his comedy. Instead, they mostly just want to pet his dog. It's not until they walk away, he says, that they recognize him from his semiautobiographical sitcom... more

Isabel Allende began writing daily letters to her mother when she was a teenager. Over the next several decades, they exchanged over 24,000 of them. Allende credits their letter writing with removing the need for small talk and creating a deep bond b... more

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Tracy Clark-Flory was 16 when she learned something that would change her world forever: She had a half sister she’d never met. Tracy's mother, Deborah, had gotten pregnant as a freshman in college. She’d given birth to a baby girl in secret and plac... more

Ruhama Wolle loves weddings, but after being a bridesmaid three times in a little more than a year, she reached a breaking point. The financial and emotional burden was too much, and in an article for Glamour magazine, she publicly resigned from ever... more

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Recent Guests

Tracy Clark-Flory
Writer and journalist
The New York Times
Episode: My Mom Had a Secret Daughter. I Finally Found Her.
Ruhama Wolle
Author of I Hope You Elope; Bridesmaid survival guide author
Author; Glamour contributor
Episode: No, I Won't Be Your Bridesmaid
Elizabeth Banks
Actor, producer, and director featured in Modern Love conversation
Actor, The Hunger Games/The Miniature Wife
Episode: Elizabeth Banks Married Her College Sweetheart. They’re Still in Love.
Stefanie Gunning
Guest sharing her Modern Love story and personal journey
Independent contributor/author
Episode: My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough
Robert Pattinson
Actor, star of The Drama
The Drama
Episode: Zendaya and Robert Pattinson on Marriage and Secrets
Joan Price
Senior sex educator who wrote Sex After Grief
Author, Sex After Grief
Episode: A Widow's Guide to Sex
Jessie Buckley
Actress prominently featured in Hamnet
Actor
Episode: Jessie Buckley Became a Mother for 'Hamnet.' Then She Became a Real One. (Encore)
Lindy West
Writer and former New York Times columnist, author of Shrill and Adult Braces
Author
Episode: Lindy West Thought She Couldn’t Handle Polyamory. She Was Wrong.
Jordan Carlos
Comedian and author discussing his domestic journey and key changes in his marriage
Episode: I Was the Fun Dad. It Almost Destroyed My Marriage.

Host

Anna Martin
Host of the show, bringing warmth and insight to conversations about love and relationships.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 17k ratings
  • Too many interruptions.

    Anna Martin, please trust that your interviewee can speak for themselves without constant interruption/clarification by you.

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    3
    sun_0411
    United States17 days ago
  • Empty

    I’m so sad- this used to be my favourite podcast. What was a weekly love-story expertly honed by authors is now the dime-a-dozen format of interviewing celebrities (who, because it is not their job, cannot tell a great story). Your ads tout the excellence of the NY Times breaking news in war zones…and then you ask celebrities “oh my god HOW CUTE WAS HE??” It’s been years- please bring the essay back.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Charlottenewy
    Australia21 days ago
  • Mixed bag

    I find some recent episodes still pull me into someone’s life and inner world. Listening to this Bridesmaids episode I’m loosing my mind , I had no idea rich people got so crazy about consumerism and control and n their weddings … I cannot relate to this and sounds so insane to “make” people buy and perform … have a potluck , resist the toxic consumption.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Themzez
    United States22 days ago
  • They ruined this show!

    This show used to be a treasured pocket of joy in my week. They used to invite a guest to read a story from the column and then discuss it after. I absolutely loved hearing the stories spoken aloud. They came to life and often left me feeling so deeply, whether that was loss or wonder or joy. Now it is a vapid talk show that inspires nothing in me. I actually grieved a little when they changed it. Please please please bring back the old format!!

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    🐛🫜🌻
    United States23 days ago
  • Not about love anymore

    I used to love this podcast. I thought the stories and format were really relatable and engaging. This is a podcast for a different audience now and it’s very disappointing. As many have mentioned there are a lot more celebrity features instead of real stories. There is also a much larger focus on intercourse and sexuality instead of a focus on love which I recognize has a good amount of overlap but Anna manages to make almost all topics about sex even when the interviewee doesn’t bring it up. O... more

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    chrisallan12
    United Statesa month ago

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Listeners feel the content is enriching and often thought-provoking, contributing positively to their understanding of love and relationships.
Critiques mention a loss of focus in recent episodes, with some preferring the original format that highlighted real-life stories.
Many express admiration for Anna Martin's hosting style, noting her ability to engage with guests on a deeply emotional level.
Listeners appreciate the candid and heartfelt stories shared, often finding them relatable and moving.
Feedback indicates a desire for a return to more personal narratives rather than celebrity interviews, reflecting a nostalgic connection to the older format.

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My Mom Had a Secret Daughter. I Finally Found Her.
Q: What did you think when you started learning about the adoption registry and your sister potentially finding you?
I felt a mix of shock and wonder, realizing there was a sister who might be out there and that the registry was a path that could connect us, even if it was emotionally complicated.
My Mom Had a Secret Daughter. I Finally Found Her.
Q: Can you take me into that moment when your mom told you the secret?
Yes, it happened soon after I started birth control; she sat me down, explained that when she was 18 she got pregnant, was sent to a home for unborn mothers, had a baby girl, and placed the baby for adoption, which opened a door to a deeper mystery about our family.
Elizabeth Banks Married Her College Sweetheart. They’re Still in Love.
Q: How did you know this was more than a casual relationship when you met your husband?
I fell in love gradually, with shared conversations and tangible moments that built trust, and later we chose to commit to growing together despite logistical and career challenges.
He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Q: What happened when Jacob told his father he was gay?
The dad was surprisingly accepting, which alleviated a lot of the pressure Jacob had carried for years and helped validate their relationship to the family.
He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Q: How did the two of you decide to open up about your feelings to each other?
Samantha texted him after about 18 months of uncertainty; he hesitated, but ultimately admitted he felt more than friendship and they explored what that meant for their relationship.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Modern Love

What is Modern Love about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A blend of personal stories and intimate conversations, this podcast explores the intricate nature of love and relationships through various human experiences. Each episode presents guest narratives tied to themes such as romance, self-discovery, and connection, often featuring emotional revelations or poignant life lessons. Topics range from the complexities of parental relationships and the journey of coming out, to unique takes on love during significant life events like illness or divorce. Notably, the podcast embraces both heartfelt anecdotes and thoughtful discussions, making it a unique space for listeners seeking insights on love in its many forms. Its diverse range of subjects provides depth and relatability, appealing to anyone na... more

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Recent guests on Modern Love include:

1. Tracy Clark-Flory
2. Ruhama Wolle
3. Elizabeth Banks
4. Stefanie Gunning
5. Robert Pattinson
6. Joan Price
7. Jessie Buckley
8. Lindy West

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