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For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more

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Recent Guests

Dr. Eli Sheff
Expert in polyamory and researcher focusing on children of polyamorous families
Polyamory research and advocacy
Episode: Is Polyamory Right for You?
Kyla Harris
Guest on Modern Love episode about disability and sexuality
individual
Episode: My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Robby Hoffman
Comedian and actor
Actor/Comedian
Episode: 'The Interview': Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets
Susie Shaw
Susie Shaw, mother discussing the death of her son William
Private individual
Episode: Ask Me About My Dead Son
Eddie Huang
Chef, author of Fresh Off the Boat, filmmaker; writer of autofiction Come Undone
Episode: Eddie Huang Drops the Tough Guy Act
Elizabeth Laura Nelson
Elizabeth Laura Nelson, author of the essay and guest on the episode
Episode: Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night. (Encore)
Julian Brave NoiseCat
Writer and filmmaker; subject of the NYT Magazine piece How Getting Stoned with My Dad Helped Us Heal
The New York Times / Writer and filmmaker
Episode: How Getting Stoned With My Dad Helped Us Heal
Laverne Cox
Actor and author of Transcendent
Actor and author
Episode: Laverne Cox Is Ready to Tell the Truth. Even if It’s Messy.
Joseph Osmundson
Writer and biologist
Columbia University (implied via role as writer/biologist)
Episode: I Tried to Have a Kid With My Best Friend. It Got Complicated.

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Anna Martin
Host focusing on love stories and conversations; affiliated with The New York Times.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 17.2k ratings
  • Robby Hoffman

    I love modern love and generally enjoy the “celebrity” interviews with Lulu but did not enjoy this one. To my listening there was an extremely uncomfortable vibe throughout. It was not the words that were spoken but the energy coming from Lulu, the silence, it was extremely awkward to witness. I appreciate that Robby’s humour is extremely dry, honestly it probably doesn’t translate very well to radio, but there was no obvious connection connection between the interviewer and the interviewee. I... more

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    13mimosa
    Australiaa month ago
  • Downhill

    I used to love this podcast. It was so moving and engaging. I keep trying, but I rarely can even get through an episode anymore. Obviously they’re trying to hit a different demographic. It’s become so shallow; I’m not interested in a host trying so hard to relate to these unlikable guests. I’m disinterested in her sex life, single hood, drug use, girlfriend hangouts, etc. This show used to have depth and interest. What on earth happened? It’s become like many host-centric podcasts that I avoid l... more

    Apple Podcasts
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    CucumberKD
    United States2 months ago
  • Anna is too much

    She interjects too much and her cackle is off putting

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Catfreckle
    United States3 months ago
  • Essays please!

    What happened to the essays?! I miss the essays!! Now it’s just guests and Anna talking about themselves.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    topsykret
    United States3 months ago
  • Codependency

    Happy for Katie and Mark. It’s like Seinfeld’s “Schmoopie” episode, but with a better outcome.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    WWWalsh
    United States3 months ago

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Some reviews highlight strong production quality and insightful guest choices, while others crave the return of the essay-reading format.
Listeners appreciate the deep, personal storytelling and vulnerability of guests, though some critique the interview style as host-centric or interruptive.
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Where Did All My Male Friendships Go? (Encore)
Q: What happened after college to your friendships?
Friendships were strong in early adulthood but gradually faded as people moved away, pursued careers, and formed romantic partnerships; Sam describes the draining effect of moving from multiple close friendships to couple-centric life and the eventual realization that he needed to actively reconnect.
Is Polyamory Right for You?
Q: What are you looking for?
I crave autonomy in closeness.
My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: What advice would you give someone younger who is dating with a disability?
Know you are intrinsically valued, worthy of care and pleasure, and pursue relationships and intimacy with confidence, communication, and a focus on autonomy and self-worth.
My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: How do you manage care with romantic relationships?
Caregiving involves multiple 24-hour PAs; boundaries are essential, and boundaries evolve as life with a partner progresses, sometimes preventing cohabitation to protect benefits and autonomy.
My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: What was it like navigating sex and intimacy after the accident?
Initial fear and physical changes gave way to a redefined sense of body, desire, and consent; she describes creativity, clear communication, and a blend of tenderness and playfulness in sex with her partner.

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What is Modern Love about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show centers on intimate, real-life stories and conversations about love, relationships, and the complexities of human connection. Across episodes, listeners hear personal narratives—from grief and family dynamics to non-traditional relationships, parenting, and sexuality—often anchored by expert or guest perspectives that illuminate societal norms and personal growth. The format blends memoir-like storytelling with probing interviews, producing both revealing personal stakes and broader reflections on love in modern life. Notable strengths include a diverse slate of guests and topics, a strong narrative throughline on vulnerability, and thoughtful exploration of love's joys and complications. Potential listeners who enjoy deeply human ... more

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1. Dr. Eli Sheff
2. Kyla Harris
3. Robby Hoffman
4. Susie Shaw
5. Eddie Huang
6. Elizabeth Laura Nelson
7. Julian Brave NoiseCat
8. Laverne Cox

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