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For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more

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Ruhama Wolle loves weddings, but after being a bridesmaid three times in a little more than a year, she reached a breaking point. The financial and emotional burden was too much, and in an article for Glamour magazine, she publicly resigned from ever... more

On her first day of college, Elizabeth Banks met a cute guy at a party. This was long before her roles in “Pitch Perfect” and “30 Rock.” A lot has changed, but 33 years later Banks is still with that same cute guy. In this episode of “Modern Love,” s... more

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It was Stefanie and Jonathan’s worst nightmare: Jonathan’s depression had become so severe he was begging to be taken to the hospital. Stefanie took him to the hospital and then took care of everything else for the family. When she married Jonathan y... more

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In their buzzy new film, “The Drama,” Zendaya and Robert Pattinson play an engaged couple whose relationship is imploding. With their wedding just a week away, Emma (Zendaya) reveals a shocking secret about her past that sends her fiancé, Charlie (Pa... more

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Recent Guests

Stefanie Gunning
Guest sharing her Modern Love story and personal journey
Independent contributor/author
Episode: My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough
Robert Pattinson
Actor, star of The Drama
The Drama
Episode: Zendaya and Robert Pattinson on Marriage and Secrets
Jacob Hoff
Participant in the Modern Love story: a gay man entering into a marriage with a straight woman
Self-described couple in the story
Episode: He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Samantha Greenstone
Participant in the Modern Love story: a straight woman who marries a gay man
Self-described couple in the story
Episode: He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Joan Price
Senior sex educator who wrote Sex After Grief
Author, Sex After Grief
Episode: A Widow's Guide to Sex
Jessie Buckley
Actress prominently featured in Hamnet
Actor
Episode: Jessie Buckley Became a Mother for 'Hamnet.' Then She Became a Real One. (Encore)
Lindy West
Writer and former New York Times columnist, author of Shrill and Adult Braces
Author
Episode: Lindy West Thought She Couldn’t Handle Polyamory. She Was Wrong.
Jordan Carlos
Comedian and author discussing his domestic journey and key changes in his marriage
Episode: I Was the Fun Dad. It Almost Destroyed My Marriage.
Sam Graham-Felsen
Writer and contributor to New York Times Magazine
New York Times
Episode: I Tried to Toughen Up My Son. He Had Other Ideas.

Host

Anna Martin
Host of the show, bringing warmth and insight to conversations about love and relationships.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 17k ratings
  • Not about love anymore

    I used to love this podcast. I thought the stories and format were really relatable and engaging. This is a podcast for a different audience now and it’s very disappointing. As many have mentioned there are a lot more celebrity features instead of real stories. There is also a much larger focus on intercourse and sexuality instead of a focus on love which I recognize has a good amount of overlap but Anna manages to make almost all topics about sex even when the interviewee doesn’t bring it up. O... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    chrisallan12
    United States17 days ago
  • Used to be better

    I really hate the sellout to celebrities. The original point of the column was regular people with their love stories. Now it seems like the podcast is just pimping movies and venerating celebrities. There are other podcasts for that.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    readsconstantly
    United States23 days ago
  • Great Podcast

    I love this podcast it’s my all time favorite.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Achef2u
    United Statesa month ago
  • 每期都非常棒,拿来练英语太舒服了

    每期都为大家选择一个现代爱情的某一方面的内容作为主题,主播声音舒服悦耳,节目质量很棒,作为英语学习的资料非常棒,话题贴近生活和真实,内容不会像英语学习资料一样为了做资料而做资料。结合平板的字幕功能和豆包的同声传译功能,相当于请了一个专业的雅思团队。推荐指数要不是只有5颗星,我能打得更高

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    色即是空📖
    China2 months ago
  • Lindy West episode shouldn’t have aired

    So sad to hear a woman with low self-esteem try to convince herself that her husband‘s infidelity isn’t that bad. Sounds straight out of the 1950s. MODERN Love shouldn’t be giving a platform to this regressive view, at least not without challenging it.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    @Adrienne.
    United States2 months ago

Listeners Say

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Listeners feel the content is enriching and often thought-provoking, contributing positively to their understanding of love and relationships.
Critiques mention a loss of focus in recent episodes, with some preferring the original format that highlighted real-life stories.
Many express admiration for Anna Martin's hosting style, noting her ability to engage with guests on a deeply emotional level.
Listeners appreciate the candid and heartfelt stories shared, often finding them relatable and moving.
Feedback indicates a desire for a return to more personal narratives rather than celebrity interviews, reflecting a nostalgic connection to the older format.

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He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Q: What happened when Jacob told his father he was gay?
The dad was surprisingly accepting, which alleviated a lot of the pressure Jacob had carried for years and helped validate their relationship to the family.
He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Q: How did the two of you decide to open up about your feelings to each other?
Samantha texted him after about 18 months of uncertainty; he hesitated, but ultimately admitted he felt more than friendship and they explored what that meant for their relationship.
He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore)
Q: Jacob, how would you describe your sexuality at the time?
Internally I knew I was gay and I gradually came out to a few people, but I hadn't told my family yet and I lived with a lot of fear and anger about that.
My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough
Q: How did you navigate telling Emmy about what was happening with her dad?
We spoke openly, using a simple metaphor of the 'big blue' to describe his depression, and reassured Emmy that both parents needed care, which helped normalize mental health in the family.
My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough
Q: Tell me about the moment you first realized you were in over your head and what you did next.
I kept pushing through, taking on every responsibility and trying to hold everything together, until the hospital visit and the stark realization that we needed real help changed everything and allowed us to seek treatment.

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What is Modern Love about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A blend of personal stories and intimate conversations, this podcast explores the intricate nature of love and relationships through various human experiences. Each episode presents guest narratives tied to themes such as romance, self-discovery, and connection, often featuring emotional revelations or poignant life lessons. Topics range from the complexities of parental relationships and the journey of coming out, to unique takes on love during significant life events like illness or divorce. Notably, the podcast embraces both heartfelt anecdotes and thoughtful discussions, making it a unique space for listeners seeking insights on love in its many forms. Its diverse range of subjects provides depth and relatability, appealing to anyone na... more

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1. Stefanie Gunning
2. Robert Pattinson
3. Jacob Hoff
4. Samantha Greenstone
5. Joan Price
6. Jessie Buckley
7. Lindy West
8. Jordan Carlos

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