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For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more

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Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a polyamory expert. When she first heard about polyamorous relationships, back in the early ’90s, hardly anyone was talking about this stuff. But Sheff became fascinated, and for the past 30 years, she’s been studying the liv... more

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At the age of 15, the filmmaker and actor Kyla Harris had an accident that forever changed what her body could do, and what it couldn’t. From then on, she needed someone with her 24 hours a day to help her with things like going to the bathroom, cook... more

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This week on "Modern Love," we're bringing you one of our favorite conversations from our friends at "The Interview." Speaking to host Lulu Garcia-Navarro, the comedian and actor Robby Hoffman says class and the way she grew up inform everything abou... more

In 2019, Susie Shaw’s 9-year-old son, William, died in a skiing accident. We talk about grief a lot on this show, but a parent grieving the death of a child is a loss so profound, words don’t feel adequate. It’s hard to know what to say to someone fa... more

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Recent Guests

Kyla Harris
Guest on Modern Love episode about disability and sexuality
individual
Episode: My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Robby Hoffman
Comedian and actor
Actor/Comedian
Episode: 'The Interview': Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets
Susie Shaw
Susie Shaw, mother discussing the death of her son William
Private individual
Episode: Ask Me About My Dead Son
Eddie Huang
Chef, author of Fresh Off the Boat, filmmaker; writer of autofiction Come Undone
Episode: Eddie Huang Drops the Tough Guy Act
Elizabeth Laura Nelson
Elizabeth Laura Nelson, author of the essay and guest on the episode
Episode: Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night. (Encore)
Julian Brave NoiseCat
Writer and filmmaker; subject of the NYT Magazine piece How Getting Stoned with My Dad Helped Us Heal
The New York Times / Writer and filmmaker
Episode: How Getting Stoned With My Dad Helped Us Heal
Laverne Cox
Actor and author of Transcendent
Actor and author
Episode: Laverne Cox Is Ready to Tell the Truth. Even if It’s Messy.
Joseph Osmundson
Writer and biologist
Columbia University (implied via role as writer/biologist)
Episode: I Tried to Have a Kid With My Best Friend. It Got Complicated.
Mark Duplass
Film-maker, director and actor; part of the couple featured
Independent film/duo with Katie Aselton
Episode: Is Codependency Good?

Hosts

Anna Martin
Host of Modern Love
Helena de Groot
Host of Creation Myth

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 17.2k ratings
  • Robby Hoffman

    I love modern love and generally enjoy the “celebrity” interviews with Lulu but did not enjoy this one. To my listening there was an extremely uncomfortable vibe throughout. It was not the words that were spoken but the energy coming from Lulu, the silence, it was extremely awkward to witness. I appreciate that Robby’s humour is extremely dry, honestly it probably doesn’t translate very well to radio, but there was no obvious connection connection between the interviewer and the interviewee. I... more

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    13mimosa
    Australia17 days ago
  • Downhill

    I used to love this podcast. It was so moving and engaging. I keep trying, but I rarely can even get through an episode anymore. Obviously they’re trying to hit a different demographic. It’s become so shallow; I’m not interested in a host trying so hard to relate to these unlikable guests. I’m disinterested in her sex life, single hood, drug use, girlfriend hangouts, etc. This show used to have depth and interest. What on earth happened? It’s become like many host-centric podcasts that I avoid l... more

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    CucumberKD
    United Statesa month ago
  • Anna is too much

    She interjects too much and her cackle is off putting

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    3
    Catfreckle
    United States2 months ago
  • Essays please!

    What happened to the essays?! I miss the essays!! Now it’s just guests and Anna talking about themselves.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    topsykret
    United States2 months ago
  • Codependency

    Happy for Katie and Mark. It’s like Seinfeld’s “Schmoopie” episode, but with a better outcome.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    WWWalsh
    United States2 months ago

Listeners Say

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Positive notes often mention high emotional impact and thoughtful host questioning.
Some critics dislike format changes and celebrity focus, preferring the essay-read approach.
Listeners value the intimate storytelling and moving guest conversations.

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#56
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#73
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#139
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#124
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#227
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#103
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My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: What advice would you give someone younger who is dating with a disability?
Know you are intrinsically valued, worthy of care and pleasure, and pursue relationships and intimacy with confidence, communication, and a focus on autonomy and self-worth.
My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: How do you manage care with romantic relationships?
Caregiving involves multiple 24-hour PAs; boundaries are essential, and boundaries evolve as life with a partner progresses, sometimes preventing cohabitation to protect benefits and autonomy.
My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: What was it like navigating sex and intimacy after the accident?
Initial fear and physical changes gave way to a redefined sense of body, desire, and consent; she describes creativity, clear communication, and a blend of tenderness and playfulness in sex with her partner.
My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Q: Tell me about your partner. How long have you been together?
They've been together for eight years, and the relationship centered on gentleness and mutual care, with the partner gradually taking on care responsibilities while maintaining a loving and supportive dynamic.
Eddie Huang Drops the Tough Guy Act
Q: Can you describe a moment when you chose to be vulnerable and what happened afterward?
I sent a heartfelt email after revealing sensitive aspects of my past; initially anxious about the response, I was surprised when she read it and shared similar feelings, which strengthened our bond and showed me the power of honesty.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Modern Love

What is Modern Love about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A reflective, relationship‑focused program that blends personal storytelling with interviews from a diverse roster of guests. Episodes often center on love, family, vulnerability, and the complexities of intimate life, sometimes anchored by literary or cultural figures and occasionally featuring celebrities discussing their partnerships, parenthood, or personal journeys. A standout element is the mix of intimate memoir-style storytelling with conversations that unpack emotions, identity, and life choices, offering practical insights alongside moving narratives. The show occasionally experiments with format and guests, which can be hit‑or‑miss for longtime listeners, but remains a notable destination for those drawn to human stories about co... more

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1. Kyla Harris
2. Robby Hoffman
3. Susie Shaw
4. Eddie Huang
5. Elizabeth Laura Nelson
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