
For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 498 | Founded | 11 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Category | Society & Culture | |||

In 2019, Susie Shaw’s 9-year-old son, William, died in a skiing accident. We talk about grief a lot on this show, but a parent grieving the death of a child is a loss so profound, words don’t feel adequate. It’s hard to know what to say to someone fa... more
When the chef, writer and filmmaker Eddie Huang joined the “Modern Love” podcast to discuss his new novel, “Come Undone,” our host Anna Martin asked him to start by reading a few lines from his 2017 guest essay for The New York Times. In it, Huang ca... more
Elizabeth and Jeff were best friends. They did everything together, from early-morning runs to late-night karaoke sessions. They came up with secret code names for each other and went on undercover missions in their neighborhood. They fought, and mad... more
Growing up, Julian Brave NoiseCat’s father, Ed Archie NoiseCat, wasn’t around much. Other than the occasional ride to hockey practice from his dad, Julian mostly remembers the legends about him. Ed is an artist, famous for his wood carvings and large... more
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Anna Martin, please trust that your interviewee can speak for themselves without constant interruption/clarification by you.
I’m so sad- this used to be my favourite podcast. What was a weekly love-story expertly honed by authors is now the dime-a-dozen format of interviewing celebrities (who, because it is not their job, cannot tell a great story). Your ads tout the excellence of the NY Times breaking news in war zones…and then you ask celebrities “oh my god HOW CUTE WAS HE??” It’s been years- please bring the essay back.
I find some recent episodes still pull me into someone’s life and inner world. Listening to this Bridesmaids episode I’m loosing my mind , I had no idea rich people got so crazy about consumerism and control and n their weddings … I cannot relate to this and sounds so insane to “make” people buy and perform … have a potluck , resist the toxic consumption.
This show used to be a treasured pocket of joy in my week. They used to invite a guest to read a story from the column and then discuss it after. I absolutely loved hearing the stories spoken aloud. They came to life and often left me feeling so deeply, whether that was loss or wonder or joy. Now it is a vapid talk show that inspires nothing in me. I actually grieved a little when they changed it. Please please please bring back the old format!!
I used to love this podcast. I thought the stories and format were really relatable and engaging. This is a podcast for a different audience now and it’s very disappointing. As many have mentioned there are a lot more celebrity features instead of real stories. There is also a much larger focus on intercourse and sexuality instead of a focus on love which I recognize has a good amount of overlap but Anna manages to make almost all topics about sex even when the interviewee doesn’t bring it up. O... more
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A reflective, relationship‑focused program that blends personal storytelling with interviews from a diverse roster of guests. Episodes often center on love, family, vulnerability, and the complexities of intimate life, sometimes anchored by literary or cultural figures and occasionally featuring celebrities discussing their partnerships, parenthood, or personal journeys. A standout element is the mix of intimate memoir-style storytelling with conversations that unpack emotions, identity, and life choices, offering practical insights alongside moving narratives. The show occasionally experiments with format and guests, which can be hit‑or‑miss for longtime listeners, but remains a notable destination for those drawn to human stories about co... more
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Recent guests on Modern Love include:
1. Eddie Huang
2. Elizabeth Laura Nelson
3. Julian Brave NoiseCat
4. Laverne Cox
5. Joseph Osmundson
6. Mark Duplass
7. Katie Aselton
8. Lauren Bans
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