
For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 512 | Founded | 11 years ago |
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Janene Lin loathed the moment when the dinner bill would hit the table. When her date would pay, she felt like her love was for sale. Splitting the bill felt like no one had anything at stake. Most of the time, she would pay the bill herself, but tha... more
One thing that comforted Denise Ryan after her divorce was that she and her ex-husband still talked every day. Even though they lived apart, they were still co-parenting their son, Alexander, and they were constantly jumping on the phone to tell each... more
The actor Alan Cumming is not the man his father wanted him to be. Growing up, Cumming says, his father had specific ideas about how he should look and what he should do with his life, ideas he enforced with abusive violence. However, Cumming tried t... more
For most of her life, Kelly McWilliams has felt as though people aren’t seeing her clearly. Kelly is biracial, and she was raised to be proud of her identity: she grew up surrounded by African American culture and literature. But when she walks into ... more
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The interviewer style is prying and uncomfortable, digging over and over to try to have the guest saying things that they may not want to say. Sadly I will unsubscribe, the original podcast used to be so good.
A parent’s systematic violence toward their young child (Alan Cumming interview) shouldn’t be referred to as a difficult “relationship.” That implies reciprocity. In the case of a kid small enough that the parent has near-total control over his/her well-being, the damage only goes in one direction. Mr Cumming’s nonviolent resistance of dressing & acting as his quirky young self, come what may, was so damned brave. I loved that.
The inane drama, the upspeak….Where did the essays go?
I have found myself skipping more and more episodes due to lack of interest. The last “interview” with Kelly McWilliams was insufferable. I made it through 10 min before throwing in the towel. Please bring back the essays!
I understand that there must be an audience who enjoys this new format, otherwise they wouldn’t continue to make episodes this way, but in that case, can there be a second Modern Love podcast where it’s like the original? Just reading the essays from the column? There is something really powerful about hearing the essays without extra dialogue and conversation.
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The show centers on intimate, real-life stories and conversations about love, relationships, and the complexities of human connection. Across episodes, listeners hear personal narratives—from grief and family dynamics to non-traditional relationships, parenting, and sexuality—often anchored by expert or guest perspectives that illuminate societal norms and personal growth. The format blends memoir-like storytelling with probing interviews, producing both revealing personal stakes and broader reflections on love in modern life. Notable strengths include a diverse slate of guests and topics, a strong narrative throughline on vulnerability, and thoughtful exploration of love's joys and complications. Potential listeners who enjoy deeply human ... more
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Recent guests on Modern Love include:
1. Janene Lin
2. Denise Ryan
3. Alan Cumming
4. Kelly McWilliams
5. Taylor Tomlinson
6. Joe Swanberg
7. Carla Lalli
8. Blake Martin
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