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For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more

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Mark Duplass and Katie Aselton’s lives are completely intertwined. They’ve been married for almost 20 years while collaborating on films, raising children and spending as much time together as possible. The two see the same therapist, are nearly cons... more

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Lauren Bans was seven months pregnant when she realized she needed a divorce. Suddenly, she found herself heartbroken, terrified, and completely unable to make decisions or think about the future.

One day, her sister suggested they visit an escape r... more

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When people stop Ramy Youssef on the street, it's usually not because they're mega-fans of his comedy. Instead, they mostly just want to pet his dog. It's not until they walk away, he says, that they recognize him from his semiautobiographical sitcom... more

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Isabel Allende began writing daily letters to her mother when she was a teenager. Over the next several decades, they exchanged over 24,000 of them. Allende credits their letter writing with removing the need for small talk and creating a deep bond b... more

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Recent Guests

Mark Duplass
Film-maker, director and actor; part of the couple featured
Independent film/duo with Katie Aselton
Episode: Is Codependency Good?
Katie Aselton
Film-maker, director and actor; part of the couple featured
Independent film/duo with Mark Duplass
Episode: Is Codependency Good?
Lauren Bans
TV writer
LA-based writer
Episode: I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak. Only This Worked.
Ramy Youssef
Comedian and subject of the episode
Actor/Comedian
Episode: Love Lessons From Ramy Youssef’s Dog
Isabel Allende
Author and chronicler of family histories
Author, The House of the Spirits; Chilean writer
Episode: Isabel Allende and Her Mother Told Each Other (Almost) Everything
Tracy Clark-Flory
Writer and journalist
The New York Times
Episode: My Mom Had a Secret Daughter. I Finally Found Her.
Ruhama Wolle
Author of I Hope You Elope; Bridesmaid survival guide author
Author; Glamour contributor
Episode: No, I Won't Be Your Bridesmaid
Elizabeth Banks
Actor, producer, and director featured in Modern Love conversation
Actor, The Hunger Games/The Miniature Wife
Episode: Elizabeth Banks Married Her College Sweetheart. They’re Still in Love.
Stefanie Gunning
Guest sharing her Modern Love story and personal journey
Independent contributor/author
Episode: My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough

Hosts

Anna Martin
Host of Modern Love
Helena de Groot
Host of Creation Myth

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 17.1k ratings
  • Too many interruptions.

    Anna Martin, please trust that your interviewee can speak for themselves without constant interruption/clarification by you.

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    sun_0411
    United Statesa month ago
  • Empty

    I’m so sad- this used to be my favourite podcast. What was a weekly love-story expertly honed by authors is now the dime-a-dozen format of interviewing celebrities (who, because it is not their job, cannot tell a great story). Your ads tout the excellence of the NY Times breaking news in war zones…and then you ask celebrities “oh my god HOW CUTE WAS HE??” It’s been years- please bring the essay back.

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    Charlottenewy
    Australiaa month ago
  • Mixed bag

    I find some recent episodes still pull me into someone’s life and inner world. Listening to this Bridesmaids episode I’m loosing my mind , I had no idea rich people got so crazy about consumerism and control and n their weddings … I cannot relate to this and sounds so insane to “make” people buy and perform … have a potluck , resist the toxic consumption.

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    Themzez
    United Statesa month ago
  • They ruined this show!

    This show used to be a treasured pocket of joy in my week. They used to invite a guest to read a story from the column and then discuss it after. I absolutely loved hearing the stories spoken aloud. They came to life and often left me feeling so deeply, whether that was loss or wonder or joy. Now it is a vapid talk show that inspires nothing in me. I actually grieved a little when they changed it. Please please please bring back the old format!!

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    🐛🫜🌻
    United Statesa month ago
  • Not about love anymore

    I used to love this podcast. I thought the stories and format were really relatable and engaging. This is a podcast for a different audience now and it’s very disappointing. As many have mentioned there are a lot more celebrity features instead of real stories. There is also a much larger focus on intercourse and sexuality instead of a focus on love which I recognize has a good amount of overlap but Anna manages to make almost all topics about sex even when the interviewee doesn’t bring it up. O... more

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    chrisallan12
    United States2 months ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Positive notes often mention high emotional impact and thoughtful host questioning.
Some critics dislike format changes and celebrity focus, preferring the essay-read approach.
Listeners value the intimate storytelling and moving guest conversations.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

Apple Podcasts
#31
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#132
Canada/Top Podcasts
Apple Podcasts
#19
Canada/Society & Culture
Apple Podcasts
#83
United Kingdom/Society & Culture
Apple Podcasts
#232
Italy/Top Podcasts
Apple Podcasts
#44
Australia/Society & Culture

Talking Points

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I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak. Only This Worked.
Q: How did escaping rooms affect plans for motherhood and life after the breakup?
The escape rooms provided practical momentum—helping her plan for the nursery, build confidence, and eventually decide to induce and manage the birth amidst COVID restrictions.
I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak. Only This Worked.
Q: What sparked the idea to try escape rooms as a healing method?
Lauren describes being guided by her sister into escape rooms during a period of paralysis after the breakup, which gave her a concrete focus and a way to reclaim agency.
Is Codependency Good?
Q: What has keeping such closeness taught you about parenting and life apart from each other?
They discuss how their closeness informs parenting, the need to protect personal space, and the ways in which each partner supports the other's ambitions while still maintaining separate identities and pursuits.
Love Lessons From Ramy Youssef’s Dog
Q: What has Basha taught you about love?
That it's okay to do nothing with another being and simply be present, which taught Ramy the value of stillness and the depth of unforced affection.
Love Lessons From Ramy Youssef’s Dog
Q: Does the dog choose the human or does the human choose the dog, or is it a bit of both?
Ramy discusses how initial interest can evolve; the right dog often finds you in return when you stay open, and the bond can redefine what you thought you wanted.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Modern Love

What is Modern Love about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A reflective, relationship‑focused program that blends personal storytelling with interviews from a diverse roster of guests. Episodes often center on love, family, vulnerability, and the complexities of intimate life, sometimes anchored by literary or cultural figures and occasionally featuring celebrities discussing their partnerships, parenthood, or personal journeys. A standout element is the mix of intimate memoir-style storytelling with conversations that unpack emotions, identity, and life choices, offering practical insights alongside moving narratives. The show occasionally experiments with format and guests, which can be hit‑or‑miss for longtime listeners, but remains a notable destination for those drawn to human stories about co... more

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Recent guests on Modern Love include:

1. Mark Duplass
2. Katie Aselton
3. Lauren Bans
4. Ramy Youssef
5. Isabel Allende
6. Tracy Clark-Flory
7. Ruhama Wolle
8. Elizabeth Banks

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