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For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday... more

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Recent Guests

Joe Swanberg
Director and filmmaker known for The Sun Never Sets and Easy
Filmmaker
Episode: I Was That Cliché Divorced Guy, and I Knew It
Carla Lalli
Chef and cookbook author
Food writer and chef
Episode: How to Feed Your Feelings After Divorce
Blake Martin
Psychologist; Modern Love essayist
Independent; author of a Modern Love essay
Episode: In 24 Hours, My Whole Life Changed
Jess Zakira Wise
Organizer and host of sex/ play parties
Independent organizer in California
Episode: Hosting an Orgy Is About More Than Just Sex
Bridget Todd
Tech writer and podcaster discussing AI and intimacy
Episode: I Don’t Trust A.I. But I Told it Everything
Jenny Singer
Writer and Modern Love contributor
Writer, The New York Times Modern Love column
Episode: Am I Too Anxious for Love?
Dr. Eli Sheff
Expert in polyamory and researcher focusing on children of polyamorous families
Polyamory research and advocacy
Episode: Is Polyamory Right for You?
Kyla Harris
Guest on Modern Love episode about disability and sexuality
individual
Episode: My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter
Robby Hoffman
Comedian and actor
Actor/Comedian
Episode: 'The Interview': Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets

Host

Anna Martin
Host focusing on love stories and conversations; affiliated with The New York Times.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 17.3k ratings
  • Must admit, I miss the Meghna and spoken essay

    I feel so bad about writing this but also know that Anna Martin can handle this. It’s her. I just can’t listen to her overly-casual interview style which is a little too confident for me. I don’t think she gets the best from the guests and does way too much talking and personal sharing. We’re not here to get to know her better. We know she’s young (31 presently) and single, which she tells us often, but basic interviewing skills can be adopted even at her age. It’s so cringy to hear her laugh an... more

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    Maur’s Apple Music
    United Statesa month ago
  • Where the essays go?

    I have been a long time listener of this podcast. I subscribe to the New York Times podcasts. I miss when the authors or celebrities would read these beautiful essays. Now they are behind a paywall after I already paid to listen to the podcast. Seems like a gimmick to make more money. Could we please bring back the reading of the essays on the podcasts episodes?

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    312Rach
    United Statesa month ago
  • Mid w room for improvement

    Some of these reviews are really mean and insensitive. While I understand the frustration, being more constructive may serve us better and I hope you aren’t recipients of the discontent you’re spewing.

    I feel Anna is not grounded in the interviews. Sometimes she seems too excited, sometimes too youthful, sometimes too focused on self and sometimes too performative. If there isn’t a return to the stories being read I hope Anna can get back to focusing on the essence of the stories/authors whil... more

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    VonoJenks
    United Statesa month ago
  • Stop rephrasing what the interviewee says!

    It seems to be a NYT thing because they do it on The Daily as well. The host spends half their time rephrasing something that the guest explained quite articulately and clearly. Very unnecessary.

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    BigMike311
    United Statesa month ago
  • The issue is Anna.

    I love the stories and essays that are read. But I find myself skipping episodes because I don't like Anna's interview style. All she asks is, "Tell me about that." And the interspersed, "huh." Her cadence is bothersome FOR ME. I do still listen to the podcast, but sometimes I dread it. I would like a different host, I think.

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    AStaceC
    United Statesa month ago

Listeners Say

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Some reviews highlight strong production quality and insightful guest choices, while others crave the return of the essay-reading format.
Listeners appreciate the deep, personal storytelling and vulnerability of guests, though some critique the interview style as host-centric or interruptive.
Feedback consistently notes the host's interviewing style as a defining factor in listener satisfaction, with mixed opinions on energy and pacing.

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Hosting an Orgy Is About More Than Just Sex
Q: What challenges did you encounter early on?
Navigating consent in unstructured environments, figuring out practical rules and safety measures, and learning through trial and error about how space, lighting, and venue shape behavior.
Hosting an Orgy Is About More Than Just Sex
Q: How did you get into hosting play parties?
It started from a personal curiosity and a belief that group sex could be more about connection and care than mere performance, leading to a DIY approach to creating safe, inclusive spaces.
Am I Too Anxious for Love?
Q: What was the turning point that led to engagement and a more stable relationship?
Meeting a partner who exhibited decency, calm presence, and genuine listening, coupled with ongoing therapy and medication management, allowed them to plan a future together with clear, collaborative discussions about milestones.
Am I Too Anxious for Love?
Q: How did you approach introducing your anxiety to a new partner?
She gradually shared her experiences, and the new partner similarly disclosed anxiety; they built a framework of honesty, open conversations, and mutual support to navigate challenges.
Am I Too Anxious for Love?
Q: What changed when you started dating again after your earlier experiences?
Dating became a controlled exposure that helped build confidence; she used first dates as practice, learned to tolerate anxiety, and gradually found partners who supported honest communication.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Modern Love

What is Modern Love about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show centers on intimate, real-life stories and conversations about love, relationships, and the complexities of human connection. Across episodes, listeners hear personal narratives—from grief and family dynamics to non-traditional relationships, parenting, and sexuality—often anchored by expert or guest perspectives that illuminate societal norms and personal growth. The format blends memoir-like storytelling with probing interviews, producing both revealing personal stakes and broader reflections on love in modern life. Notable strengths include a diverse slate of guests and topics, a strong narrative throughline on vulnerability, and thoughtful exploration of love's joys and complications. Potential listeners who enjoy deeply human ... more

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1. Joe Swanberg
2. Carla Lalli
3. Blake Martin
4. Jess Zakira Wise
5. Bridget Todd
6. Jenny Singer
7. Dr. Eli Sheff
8. Kyla Harris

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