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Charisma
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Purim
Sukkot
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Noahideism
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Queer Jews Michael Sokolovsky and Rabbi Xava De Cordova play with the multi-millennial dialectic that is the Talmud. Join them as they throw drash, seek prophetic insight and uncover the rabbinic smuttiness inherent in the system.

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Another complication gets added to our last mishnah, the guy walking down the road turns around, and the mystery of a vow with Schrodinger's cat conditions. To ask us questions, email us at xaihowareyou@gmail.com. Support us on patreon at patreon.com... more

Ladies, we've all been there: you're out at girls night, then you and your besties make a 5-way interlocking chain of mutually exclusive but causally dependent vows of Naziriteship. What happens next? Only Hillel knows! To ask us questions, email us ... more

Can you cancel your Nazirite vow because of force majeure? What about grand theft bovine? Also, a rare rare case of Rabbis straight up calling out their predecessors. To ask us questions, email us at xaihowareyou@gmail.com. Support us on patreon at p... more

Finally someone actually gets read to filth in the Mishnah. Also, our first instance of rabbinic bureaucracy! Check out the HiHos at Shel Maala here: bit.ly/shelmaala-5787 To ask us questions, email us at xaihowareyou@gmail.com. Support us on... more

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Recent Guests

Maya Brown
Co-creator/translator, Ways of Awe project collaborator
Ways of Awe
Episode: 270. Xava on Ways of Awe
Jessica Rosenberg
Writer, educator, organizer, calendar maker
Rabbinic/educational community
Episode: 270. Xava on Ways of Awe
Jeannie Wells-Yablonsky
Violinist, Seattle Symphony collaborator
Seattle Symphony
Episode: 270. Xava on Ways of Awe
Lex Rofeberg
Senior Jewish educator at Judaism Unbound
Judaism Unbound
Episode: 246. Xai Judaism, How Unbound Are You? -- Mishnah Nazir
Rena Yehuda Newman
Director of the certificate program in Unbound Judaism
Judaism Unbound
Episode: 246. Xai Judaism, How Unbound Are You? -- Mishnah Nazir
Rafe Nace
Author of When a Human Gives Birth to a Raven
Episode: 243. Nazirites All the Way Down
Miriam Terlinchamp
Executive director of Judaism Unbound, formerly rabbi at Temple Shalom in Cincinnati, involved in various community initiatives.
Judaism Unbound
Episode: 220. Tales of the Unbound
Rafael Neis
Scholar and artist; Professor of history and Judaic studies at the University of Michigan.
University of Michigan
Episode: 209. When a Human Gives Birth to a Raven

Hosts

Michael Sokolovsky
Host of the show; leads discussion and introduces topics; appears across many episodes.
Xava De Cordova
Co-host; rabbi; engages with Mishnah analysis and translates/delivers scholarly insights with humor.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 162 ratings
  • I love Xava and Michael! I've listened to every episode (I started in 2025 so I had to catch up!) and I just love the way they talk about stories in the talmud, Jewish culture, their personal lives, and queer topics generally. As a recent convert (mikvah was Sept 2025), this podcast really helps me feel connected to Judaism!

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Shiphra
    7 months ago
  • Delightful

    I laugh out loud. I learn gay stuff. I love the pod so much that I’m posting what I think is my first ever review on the internet. Thanks, Xava and Michael, for sharing your delightful selves and smutttiness with us.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Julibeanq
    United States2 years ago
  • So Wonderfully Gay

    Charming and endearing. Jewish and gay. Tickles my heart

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Poetik LGF
    United States4 years ago
  • Thank You I Love Your Discussions

    I found your podcast and started at the beginning. I am over the moon grateful for you generous sharing of your insights and beautiful selves. As a queer Jew, your podcast is giving my spirit hope and inspiration. Wonderful tikkun olam! Toda raba!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tamarab1980
    United States5 years ago
  • v good queer disabled jewish content!!!

    also Xava and Michael have beautiful voices, it is an excellent listening experience

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    littlelegion
    United States5 years ago

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Positive feedback emphasizes warmth, humor, and thoughtful interpretation, with praise for guest selections and dynamic conversations.
Listeners describe the show as funny, insightful, and engaging; they appreciate how queer Jewish perspectives are woven into serious study.
Many reviewers highlight how the discussions feel relatable and practically applicable to modern life and relationships.
Audience members often note the hosts' chemistry and accessible approach to dense rabbinic material.

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Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

236. Settling Down
Q: Now that you're married, are you going to cover your hair all the time?
I am trying to return to hair covering, not that I ever formally said goodbye, but I just fell out of the habit of it.
235. Pleasure Reading
Q: What does the Talmud say about the type of reading permitted on Shabbat?
The hosts discuss how the Talmudic texts and interpretations indicate that secular literature should generally not be read on Shabbat, with exceptions based on context and the intent behind the reading.
209. When a Human Gives Birth to a Raven
Q: How does the queer identity relate to reproduction in your findings?
Queer and trans reproduction defies traditional narratives and offers a more inclusive understanding of identity and community.
209. When a Human Gives Birth to a Raven
Q: What drew you to this topic of the mysteries of Rabbinic ideas about reproduction?
The exploration of ancient ideas about reproduction and the nature of the world, which often challenge modern perspectives.
211. Shammai Circumcision Blues
Q: Could you talk a bit about Beit Hillel and Beit Shammai and how we determine the correct halacha?
Generally, we follow Beit Hillel's opinion, which suggests that hatafah dambrit is not necessary, though some later interpretations have led to it being a required part of conversion.

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A lively, knowledge-forward dialogue between two queer Jewish hosts who explore Talmudic text with humor, candor, and personal storytelling. Episodes center on deep dives into classical sources (Rashi, Mishnah Nazir, Nazirite vows, and related rabbinic debates) while layering modern life themes like gender, identity, and ethics. The tone blends scholarly analysis with accessible banter, making dense legal and philosophical material approachable for a broad audience. A standout aspect is the way translation, performance, and collaborative storytelling are used to illuminate ancient debates and connect them to contemporary experiences and social conversations.

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