
A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic... more
| Publishes | Monthly | Episodes | 198 | Founded | 6 years ago |
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BPD Emptiness & Why It Hollows You Out
BPD emptiness is at the core of lack of self and it will
hollow other people out. You over-give, you love, you
care, try to help, rescue and fix. People with Borderline
Personality Disorder do not receive what ... more
Do BPD’s Forget Feelings For You?
Do people with BPD forget their feelings for you? Do people with BPD have an unstable “attachment” to the way they feel and again they’re feelings that you think might be about, towards, or actual feelings for you?... more
BPD Exws What is The Pathway To Healing and What Is Not?
BPD Exes what is the pathway to healing? It is not merely researching and "understanding" Borderline Personality Disorder. That canactually become a block to your healing and recovery process.... more
Do Codependents over-function in BPD relationships or emotionally, in life, generally? The odd person/professional out there claims, yes, that's what's going on. No, it's not what is going on for anyone with Codependency. People with Codependency are... more
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Mahari tells it like it is, and it is much appreciated. Her knowledge is not flattering to pwbpd, or to us partners—and it shouldn’t be. Leaving the confusing and discombobulating relationships with those afflicted is hard work and we need the honest and hard pill to swallow wake up call. This podcast really helps break down how we end up in codependency, as rescuers, fixers, caretakers and the nuances of how the BPD sees us and relationships.
Every episode is exactly what happened to me. It will always blow my mind how similar these situations are. Completely discarded out of the blue and she moved on immediately with someone else and begged for me back months later and I was her favorite person again. I recommend anyone struggling with a discard to check out Reddit sub BPD loved ones. This podcast and that subreddit helped me survive. Starting from scratch again. Thank you to this pod!
Having recently been discarded by my BPD suffering girlfriend of 5 years and discovering my own codependency (which allowed me to suffer, tolerate and excuse horrible abuses), this podcast helps me to see both myself and her extreme behavioural shifts in a light that was needed while I suffered. Now ended, I struggle with grief and while that’s a process I need to go through alone, the wisdom here is like a good friend- supportive and (hopefully) ultimately, liberating. Thank you.
This has resonated with me so personally and deeply, it has really been hard finding content that I align with and that but almost exactly on what I have gone through and need help in overcoming. Anyone that has dealt with a narcissist or someone with BPD and struggled with detaching themselves all throughout the push and pull and abuse. THIS is it
I really tried to like this podcast but her voice is just annoying, repetitive and I don’t care for it.
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Across episodes, this show offers blunt, experience-based guidance for people navigating relationships impacted by Borderline Personality Disorder. Sessions often center on trauma bonds, codependency, boundaries, no-contact strategies, and practical steps to protect one's mental health while healing from painful breakup dynamics. The host leverages decades of clinical work to dissect patterns like idealization, devaluation, monkey branching, and reactive abuse, while highlighting the limits of therapy and the importance of personal recovery. A standout trait is the host's direct, no-nonsense tone combined with actionable frameworks for co-parenting, boundary-setting, and reclaiming safety and self-worth. The format frequently features viewe... more
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