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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari
Borderline Personality Disorder
Codependency
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Trauma Bonding
Mental Health
Hoovering
Emotional Abuse
Trauma
Narcissism
Trauma Bond
Relationship Therapy
No Contact Rule
Trauma Recovery
Emotional Regulation
Therapy
Emotional Turmoil
Childhood Wounds
Healing
Vulnerability
Ghosting

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic... more

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A.J. Mahari
Host and counselor with expertise in trauma recovery and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), bringing over 35 years of experience to her guidance and support.

Reviews

3.8 out of 5 stars from 322 ratings
  • Helpful in a breakup

    I found this podcast to be surprisingly helpful on the heels of a breakup. Don’t let the low production value fool you. If you’re in pain from a relationship with a BPD and are going no contact. This is great for motivation.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Shawn BIPOC
    United States2 months ago
  • Helpful to a young man with BPD

    I’m a young lad with BPD and this podcast is really useful to me - there are some had pills to swallow, sure, but it’s necessary to really see what’s going on - I encourage others with bpd in treatment to listen to this to get an idea of what it looks like on the other side of the fence…

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    ZachSpeedy
    Australia5 months ago
  • Tedious and repetitive

    How many times can you repeat the same tired content? While some of the content is genuinely knowledgeable, it gets tedious quickly with its over-assurance and lack of self-awareness. Also, there is absolutely no sensitivity to how inaccessible good therapy is—most clinicians are clueless and stigmatizing. Dismissing “stigma” shows disregard for realities of MH system. The same healing is more likely if treatment focuses on the wound, not on the adult “behaviors.” Where’s discussion of neurodive... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    BerylH
    United States6 months ago
  • Worth it

    Blunt and generalized, but brutally insightful and passionate

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    1miche111
    United States6 months ago
  • Brilliant & razor-sharp!

    Thanks for all these beautiful insights and clarifications, A. J. ❤️🙏

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    NicolaiB1976
    Denmark7 months ago

Listeners Say

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Some reviews express frustration with aspects of the content that feel repetitive or overly general, indicating varied reception regarding depth and specificity.
Listeners find the insights and guidance provided to be extremely helpful in understanding and navigating emotionally taxing relationship dynamics.
The emotional validation and relatability offered to listeners undergoing breakups with partners exhibiting BPD behavior are frequently highlighted as strengths of the content.
There is a recurring appreciation for the host's direct and insightful approach, often noting the balance of honesty and compassion in her delivery.

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BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?
Q: Will receiving treatment for codependency make a relationship with a person with borderline personality disorder more tolerable and healthy, or is that also futile?
It is futile; codependent denial mixed with a fantasy bond does not resolve the issues in the relationship with a person who has BPD.
Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings Why pw BPD Get More Than Average
Q: Do individuals with BPD get more tattoos?
Yes, individuals with BPD tend to get more tattoos as a form of self-expression and coping mechanism.
Borderlines Don't Value You in Dating or Relationships
Q: If my girlfriend valued me, why did she keep ties with her ex?
Individuals with BPD may not properly value their partners and often return to previous relationships due to a disorganized attachment style and an inability to maintain healthy boundaries.
Am I a Codependent in a Heartbreaking Cycle Of a Bpd Relationship or Breakup?
Q: Can you be codependent without the strong need to do things for others to be loved?
Yes, it's possible as codependency can manifest in various forms, not limited to needing to please others.

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The content focuses on the challenges and complexities surrounding relationships affected by Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), particularly in the context of breakups. It provides insights into navigating emotional turmoil, codependency, and trauma resulting from these relationships. Notable topics include the impact of emotional dysregulation, self-sabotage, and childhood wounds that perpetuate harmful cycles. The host offers guidance on healing, emotional self-protection, and fostering self-awareness, making it a valuable resource for individuals working through the aftermath of relationships with BPD partners and seeking personal growth.

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