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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari
Borderline Personality Disorder
Codependency
Trauma Bonding
Mental Health
Emotional Dysregulation
Therapy
Childhood Trauma
Trauma Bond
Emotional Abuse
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Healing
Trauma
BPD
Idealization
Trauma Recovery
Relationships
Relationship Dynamics
Trauma Bonds
Emotional Trauma
Emotional Health

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic... more

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A. J. Mahari
Counselor and trauma recovery coach with decades of experience helping individuals recover from BPD-related relationship breakups and related dynamics.

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3.9 out of 5 stars from 388 ratings
  • Extraordinarily helpful insights

    Having recently been discarded by my BPD suffering girlfriend of 5 years and discovering my own codependency (which allowed me to suffer, tolerate and excuse horrible abuses), this podcast helps me to see both myself and her extreme behavioural shifts in a light that was needed while I suffered. Now ended, I struggle with grief and while that’s a process I need to go through alone, the wisdom here is like a good friend- supportive and (hopefully) ultimately, liberating. Thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    dehmigaahd
    United States23 days ago
  • Exactly what I have been searching for

    This has resonated with me so personally and deeply, it has really been hard finding content that I align with and that but almost exactly on what I have gone through and need help in overcoming. Anyone that has dealt with a narcissist or someone with BPD and struggled with detaching themselves all throughout the push and pull and abuse. THIS is it

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ünkńown
    United States2 months ago
  • Yikes

    I really tried to like this podcast but her voice is just annoying, repetitive and I don’t care for it.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    KBx5
    United States2 months ago
  • Helpful

    Thank you for this content!!

    It’s hard to find any good information on BPD abuse. I truly appreciate the help as I’m reaching more and more clarity. Not an easy thing to do in these relationships. Especially one of almost three decades.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    RebeccaLynn44
    United States3 months ago
  • Finally Felt Understood

    This podcast put words to an experience I struggled to explain for years. The host’s description of what it’s like being in a relationship with someone with BPD matched my reality and helped me realize I wasn’t misinterpreting or exaggerating what I went through. It was validating and relieving. If you’ve been in relationship affected by BPD, give this podcast a listen.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Weasel_Teats
    United States5 months ago

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A segment emphasizes safety and healing, resonating with many going no-contact after breakups.
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BPD On/Off Relationship Can You Change To Make It Work?
Q: Will receiving treatment for codependency make a relationship with a person with borderline personality disorder more tolerable and healthy, or is that also futile?
It is futile; codependent denial mixed with a fantasy bond does not resolve the issues in the relationship with a person who has BPD.
Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings Why pw BPD Get More Than Average
Q: Do individuals with BPD get more tattoos?
Yes, individuals with BPD tend to get more tattoos as a form of self-expression and coping mechanism.
Borderlines Don't Value You in Dating or Relationships
Q: If my girlfriend valued me, why did she keep ties with her ex?
Individuals with BPD may not properly value their partners and often return to previous relationships due to a disorganized attachment style and an inability to maintain healthy boundaries.
Am I a Codependent in a Heartbreaking Cycle Of a Bpd Relationship or Breakup?
Q: Can you be codependent without the strong need to do things for others to be loved?
Yes, it's possible as codependency can manifest in various forms, not limited to needing to please others.

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What is Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This show centers on navigating relationships affected by Borderline Personality Disorder, with a strong focus on codependency, trauma recovery, and boundary-setting. Episodes span practical guidance for leaving toxic dynamics, handling trauma bonds, and managing co-parenting or parallel parenting after BPD-related breakups. A recurring theme is the importance of genuine recovery before attempting to help others, plus candid talk about therapy, treatment credibility, and protecting one's own mental health. A distinctive angle is the blend of blunt, experience-backed insight with actionable steps for listeners in various stages of healing, including no-contact strategies and self-empowerment.

A standout characteristic is the host's long-run... more

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