
You’re exhausted from over-functioning. Always managing the chaos. Always trying to keep the peace.
You feel alone. Misunderstood. Like no one sees the full story—except you.
You question yourself constantly. You wonder if you’re the problem.
You’re not.
This podcast helps you understand emotional abuse, coercive control, narcissistic relationships, and trauma bonds—so you can stop doubting yourse... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 269 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsHealth & FitnessMental HealthSociety & Culture | |||

Someone recently asked if I'm dating, and my honest answer was "traumatized." In this episode I talk about why that word fits better than a simple yes or no, why a recent connection activated me so quickly, and why my nervous system goes numb instead... more
I break down why parallel parenting is a communication strategy built specifically for high-conflict dynamics, not a failure of one. I talk about what it actually looks like in practice: handling your own parenting time independently, limiting contac... more
Najwa Zebian returns for a second conversation, and this one picks up exactly where the first left off.
Her new book, The One Who Broke You Can't Heal You, comes out August 25th, and we talk through what it actually means to take responsibility for ... more
In this episode I break down pattern blindness, one of the least talked about reasons survivors stay stuck in self-doubt. I explain why family court and even well-meaning friends tend to evaluate coercive control one incident at a time rather than se... more
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Thank you for your podcast ! I find it a great support . By the way your intro is perfect ! Thank you 🙏🏻
I was pretty secure before that relationship, but eventually I felt like I was losing my mind, and this podcast really touches on all aspects of that. It was so mind-warping and isolating for months during the last two discard cycles and somehow even worse after I finally made the choice to go true no-contact. I couldn’t make sense of any of it, I no longer trusted myself, I blamed myself relentlessly for missing something, I asked everyone I knew if they thought I was too blunt or if I should h... more
Downloading the course was the best decision Ive made. Pennies dropped everywhere.
I have only listened to two short podcasts and learned so much already like why my sister rages. I have wanted to know why but now see it was simply about transferring her stuff on me.
Also to stop trying to understand them and to focus on me.
Thank you so much
I found your podcast during a very dark time in my life. Listening to you has made me realize the toxic situation I was in and that this wasn’t normal. I left my 14 year relationship with my two babies. We are safe and free. You probably saved my life because things were starting to get physical
Thank you
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This show's conversation centers on recognizing, naming, and healing from emotional abuse, coercive control, and trauma bonds in intimate relationships. Episodes frequently explore patterns like gaslighting, manipulation, boundary-setting, and post-separation dynamics, often pairing personal experience with clinical insights to help listeners regain clarity, safety, and self-trust. A notable strength is the creator's transparent coaching ecosystem—courses, programs, and a private podcast—that offer structured paths for healing, boundaries, and navigating high-conflict relationships and custody concerns.
Listeners are likely drawn to practical frameworks for understanding abuse, concrete safety strategies, and supportive coaching resources.... more
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