
You’re exhausted from over-functioning, always managing the chaos just to make it seem okay. You feel alone. Misunderstood. Like no one sees the full story—except you.
Your friends don’t get it. You question yourself constantly. You wonder if you're the problem. You're not.
I understand—because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to be stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship, gaslit into s... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 230 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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This episode is not about fresh starts, resolutions, or manifesting a better year.
It’s for the people who feel heavy, uneasy, or scared as the year changes.
I’m sharing honestly about what the end of the year felt like for me when my life didn’t f... more
The holiday season has a way of revealing what we’ve been trying to ignore. When the pressure to perform, host, or appear “happy” collides with the chaos of an emotionally abusive relationship, everything that’s been buried rises to the surface.
In ... more
This episode explores what happens when the holidays don’t feel magical—when they instead trigger memories of tension, performance, and survival. I reflect on how November and December can awaken body memories of chaos, control, and grief, even years... more
In this episode, I talk about one of the most confusing and insidious forms of manipulation survivors face in high-conflict relationships and co-parenting: Double Speak.
It’s that moment when control hides behind concern — when an email, message, or... more
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I found this podcast and it saved me. Thank you.
Jessica really gets it- thanks so much for sharing the help. It feels so encouraging that I’m not imagining things. Thank you! God Bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
It would be much better if you open the show with a note that listen to the end and find out more about how you can work with me and put all of your self promotion at the end. I’m literally skipping through 6 to 8 minutes of promotion to get to the actual podcast that I want to listen to. Just some food for thought.
Your insights, advice and encouragement have pulled me through my break up from someone I do love, but who was emotionally abusive. I find myself enthusiastically, talking out loud along with your podcast, saying, Yes! Exactly! I needed this, and what you’re doing is going to help a lot of people. Thank you.
Hello, I am a 9 year narc survivor 6 months out. Still healing and dealing with trying to co-parent now. Your podcast I stumbled upon wow, pretty sure we were with the same man. Your stories on how your abuser treated you especially in the episode “cycle of abuse” this has and was my life. It’s been amazing hearing I’m not alone. Thank you
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Content centers around the experiences of surviving emotionally abusive relationships, particularly focusing on narcissistic abuse, trauma bonding, and the impact of gaslighting. The host shares personal anecdotes, practical advice, and strategies to help listeners validate their feelings and reclaim their narratives. Unique insights are offered regarding navigating complex emotional dynamics, particularly post-separation experiences, and the often frustrating processes of family court systems. The approach is supportive, aiming to provide clarity and validation for those who may feel misunderstood or isolated in their experiences with emotional abuse.
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You Are Not Crazy launched 4 years ago and published 230 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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