
You’re exhausted from over-functioning. Always managing the chaos. Always trying to keep the peace.
You feel alone. Misunderstood. Like no one sees the full story—except you.
You question yourself constantly. You wonder if you’re the problem.
You’re not.
This podcast helps you understand emotional abuse, coercive control, narcissistic relationships, and trauma bonds—so you can stop doubting yourse... more
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 244 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & CultureMental HealthHealth & Fitness | |||

“No one sees it. They just think he’s nice.”
If you are in a high-conflict divorce or co-parenting dynamic, you probably feel this in your bones.
One of the hardest parts of covert abuse is that the “nice” isn’t safe. The "helpfulness" isn’t genuin... more
One of the most painful and confusing questions survivors ask is this:
“If I want them to change… how is that different from them wanting me to change?”
On the surface, it sounds the same. Two people. Both asking for change. But it is not the same.... more
This episode puts words to what a trauma bond feels like before there is language for it. The quiet erosion. The logic loops. The way your needs slowly become “too much.” The way calm, rational explanations are used to invalidate your emotional reali... more
Leaving a relationship with someone who has untreated borderline personality traits can feel less like a breakup and more like trying to escape a locked room while being told you’re the one causing the fire.
In this episode, I speak directly to the ... more
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I have only listened to two short podcasts and learned so much already like why my sister rages. I have wanted to know why but now see it was simply about transferring her stuff on me.
Also to stop trying to understand them and to focus on me.
Thank you so much
I found your podcast during a very dark time in my life. Listening to you has made me realize the toxic situation I was in and that this wasn’t normal. I left my 14 year relationship with my two babies. We are safe and free. You probably saved my life because things were starting to get physical
Thank you
I gave this podcast 1 star because of several annoying things that get in the way of listening to content. First, it starts with an incredibly long and detailed advertisement of her services. Just no. Why not start with some interesting content to draw people in? But no. Second, audio quality sucks. It sounds like she is talking through a tin can. Unpleasant. Third, all kinds of unrelated background noises. Distracting and unpleasant. Fourth, the monotone. I’m falling asleep here. Fifth, the con... more
I found this podcast and it saved me. Thank you.
Jessica really gets it- thanks so much for sharing the help. It feels so encouraging that I’m not imagining things. Thank you! God Bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
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This show centers on understanding emotional abuse, coercive control, narcissistic relationships, and trauma bonds, combining personal survivor experience with practical coaching. Episodes typically explore patterns like gaslighting, boundary-setting, no-contact recovery, and navigating high-conflict divorce or co-parenting, often offering actionable steps to rebuild self-trust and safety. Its approach is deeply empathetic, with a focus on validating lived experiences while providing clear guidance for rebuilding clarity and stability after abusive dynamics. A standout element is the host's combined perspective as a survivor and certified coach, plus a resource-rich ecosystem at emotionalabusecoach.com that supports ongoing healing and prac... more
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