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The Covert Narcissism Podcast

Renee Swanson, Bleav
Covert Narcissism
Emotional Abuse
Healing
Mental Health
Relationships
Covert Narcissistic Abuse
Self-Improvement
Narcissistic Abuse
Gaslighting
Narcissism
Parenting
Self-Care
Childhood Trauma
Therapy
Divorce
Emotional Healing
Self-Doubt
Family Dynamics
Boundaries
Emotional Manipulation

Covert narcissistic abuse crushes one’s soul. This podcast is devoted to understanding covert narcissistic abuse, its effect on the victims, and how to heal.

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Ever asked someone "are you okay?" and gotten a four-syllable "I'm fine" that clearly meant the opposite? That's passive-aggressive behavior — and it's one of the sneakiest patterns to name out loud, because it's built to be deniable.

In this episod... more

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What if the episode you already listened to still has more to teach you the second time around?

In this throwback episode of the Covert Narcissism Podcast, Renee revisits one of the most-requested episodes in the show's history — the original breakd... more

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Covert narcissism doesn't just create crisis moments — it leaves your nervous system stuck in a chronic state of hypervigilance long after the argument ends. You can get good at managing the spike, catching yourself mid-reaction, and still lie awake ... more

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Ever ignored a gut feeling on a date because you wanted to "give him a chance"? In this episode, I'm sharing a conversation from Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse — host Dr. Kerry McAvoy sits down with Dr. Jennie Young, a PhD linguist and creator... more

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Recent Guests

Jenny Young
PhD linguist, creator of Burned Haystack Dating Method
Self-employed/Author
Episode: Narcissist or Not? Decoding Red Flags in Dating Apps & Texts (with Dr. Jenny Young)
Don Hennessy
Irish psychotherapist and author of How He Gets Into Her Head
Independent practitioner
Episode: Narcissistic Abuse & Predatory Behavior: You've Been Made to Think It's Your Fault
Lisa D. Stinson
Clinical psychologist and author of The Obligation Myth
Substack and author
Episode: How to Set Boundaries With a Toxic Aging Parent (Without the Guilt)
Anne Wintemute
Co-founder and CEO of Aimee Says
Aimee Says
Episode: Covert Abuse, Restricted Autonomy, and the AI Tool Aimee Says
Rachel Bernstein
Licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in cult intervention and reacclamation
Los Angeles-based clinician
Episode: The Cult of Two: How Covert Narcissists Use Mind Control in Relationships with Rachel Bernstein LMFT
Dr. Debi Silber
Founder and CEO of the PBT Institute; leading expert in betrayal recovery
PBT Institute
Episode: Why You Can’t Move On After Covert Narcissistic Abuse | Betrayal Trauma Explained with Dr. Debi Silber
Barb Nangle
Boundaries coach
Episode: Codependency, Trauma, and Why Boundaries Change Everything: Barb Nangle (Part 1)
Dee Dee
Guest sharing her personal experience with covert narcissism
Episode: Covert Narcissism: You’re Allowed to Pause Before Deciding to Stay or Leave
Jacquie Roar
Country rock star, mother, and survivor of a narcissistic relationship
Episode: Covert Narcissism in Dating: Jacquie Roar Shares Her Story of Survival and Healing

Host

Renee Swanson
Host of The Covert Narcissism Podcast

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.5k ratings
  • Thank you

    I am grateful for this podcast. Your insights and shared experiences are invaluable to so many people. Thank you Renee for leading those of us who are still trapped towards the light one step at a time.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dreaming of the day
    Australia2 months ago
  • Finally some clarity and validation

    Renee has lived it and done the research. Just the realization that the problematic things that were going on in my relationship that I thought were unique to my ex were not. Other people experienced the same type of behavior and habits that I did and there’s a reason and a name for it and you are not alone. Narcissistic abuse can make you feel so isolated and even guilty for staying but this is a community that understands and provides not only support but the knowledge you need to deal with... more

    Audible
    5
    Cindy Gardner
    United States4 months ago
  • Good podcast !

    Podcast Addict
    5
    inga
    5 months ago
  • The illusion of choice

    Renee compassionately and articulately addresses the dark web of narcissistic abuse. This analogy to Dracula is brilliant! It unpacks the realities of living with a covert narcissist, while protecting victims from any blame or shame. She is a voice of clarity in an ever increasing crowded environment of narcissistic abuse.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Hpytobefree
    United States5 months ago
  • Twilight zone

    I can’t tell you how many times over THREE DECADES, I said to myself and others “am I in the twilight zone!” The flipping the narrative, gaslighting, weaponised silence, cold distance when I was unwell or going out with friends (rarely!), and the charming offence to everyone else (until he reached his limit then withdrawn and sullen, obviously my fault because we stayed out too long). Sometimes I’m embarrassed it took me this long to escape and establish my own life, but most of the time I’m in... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MåğïçŠțǎṟ
    Australia5 months ago

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Consistently clear-eyed about manipulation and recovery
Community-focused and reassuring for healing journeys
Honest, trauma-informed storytelling with actionable advice
Genuine, empowering and practical for survivors
Valuable resource for understanding covert narcissism and boundaries

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Narcissistic Abuse & Predatory Behavior: You've Been Made to Think It's Your Fault
Q: So Don, could you distill down to what their ultimate goal was in these coercive relationships?
The ultimate goal is sexual entitlement and power—restructuring the partner's thinking to maintain control, with the sexual dynamic being central to that manipulation.
Covert Abuse, Restricted Autonomy, and the AI Tool Aimee Says
Q: Where do you see Aimee in five years?
The guest envisions Aimee becoming ubiquitous and central to addressing coercive control globally, with broader access, accountability for behavior, and deeper integration into legal and protective processes over time.
Covert Abuse, Restricted Autonomy, and the AI Tool Aimee Says
Q: What differentiates Aimee Says from ChatGPT in practice?
Aimee Says uses specialized background processes, higher safety parameters, and privacy protections, including not training on user inputs and outputs, plus features like event tagging, bubble charts, timelines, and binders that are tailored to survivors of relationship abuse and legal prep.
Setting Boundaries After Narcissistic Abuse: What It Really Feels Like
Q: Was boundaries language present in your early relationships, or did you have to learn to voice them later?
Miranda explains that early on boundaries were not clearly expressed and only later, during the relationship and after, did she start articulating them, facing pushback that prompted growth.
Setting Boundaries After Narcissistic Abuse: What It Really Feels Like
Q: Did you guys know what boundaries were before entering your relationship, or was it something you learned later?
Both guests describe initially not fully understanding boundaries, then discovering them through healing, with many boundaries being learned and reinforced over time as they separated from the narcissistic dynamic.

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A podcast focused on understanding covert narcissistic abuse and its impact on survivors, with a strong emphasis on healing, boundaries, and community support. Across episodes, listeners hear personal narratives from survivors, expert insights on abuse dynamics, and practical tools—from coaching and therapy to group programs—that help people reclaim autonomy, set boundaries, and navigate complex family dynamics, including parental alienation and co-parenting. A notable strength is the integrated approach: earnest storytelling paired with actionable frameworks, community resources, and ongoing coaching options that support long-term recovery. This mix makes it helpful for anyone seeking validation, clarity, and concrete steps toward healing ... more

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2. Don Hennessy
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