Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse ExpertHelping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage. You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint th... more
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 152 | Founded | 7 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessMental HealthRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||
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The emotionally abusive relationship can sometimes be hard to define. How long must abusive behavior go on before actually admit that what's really happening is abuse?
How do you know when it’s time to instigate a split? If your partner’s behavior leaves you feeling oppressed and defeated, and they refuse to change, and they also don't want to end the relationship, then what?
Breadcrumbing can be a manipulative way to keep someone in your mind so that you can't fully move forward, keeping you as a pawn in another person's game. In this episode, a person wrote to me talking about their ex, a 13-year breadcrumber!
The way someone talks about their relationship reveals a lot. Abuse victims and perpetrators each have their own language patterns. Knowing these language patterns will help you understand on which side of the fence you're on.
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For being married for 20 years and my 20th anniversary, we spent being abused by my perpetrator. I was at my wits end. I prayed for God to give me a sign after being up for three days emotionally wrecked, and destroyed, not want to give up but knowing that my health has been destroyed knew there was something that had to be done, it’s time.
You have my life brighter again and gave me some much needed hope! Paul two the words right out of my mouth, but also made me understand this whole scenario... more
Apple Podcasts5❣️keeping classy ❣️
United Statesa month ago - Great show to stop the abuser
Boundaries get confused with care and crossing boundaries - cruel behavior, manipulation followed Random acts kindness … it makes you feel crazy
Thankful to Paul to map it out
I don’t see new episodes uploaded , is this project over Paul ?
Apple Podcasts5patricia micaela bessaUnited States2 months ago - Wow. 1st time listener. He gots it!!!!
I just happened to be lead to this pod cast (thank you God) and am in awe. I have learned so much in this few 40 plus minutes. The details and clarity about who my partner is and how I need to handle it; beyond helpful!!! It’s so hard to understand the full scope of people with these disorders when you are not one of them. You can’t fathom that someone would act this way. And not only that way, but intentionally! act that way. so I thank you so much for the information in this podcast and will d... more
Apple Podcasts5ShankgirlUnited States3 months ago - Each Episode Helps!
Paul’s voice and insight helped me get over one of the toughest phases of my life. He helped me realize that the relationship failing was not my fault and also helped me move forward after my ex had convinced me I was the problem…
Apple Podcasts5Millennial Man ReviewerUnited States6 months ago - I don’t want a fat wife
I wanted to learn about the silent treatment; the title of the episode. All I heard was a 25 min rant of how much this man did NOT want a fat, unattractive wife and dreaded watching her eat sweets.
WOW
No, thank you and goodbye.
Apple Podcasts1La Chama GraciosaUnited States9 months ago
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Apple Podcasts | #181 | United States/Health & Fitness/Mental Health |
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Focused on shedding light on the complexities of toxic communication, emotional abuse, and manipulation in relationships, this podcast presents insights that cater to both victims and perpetrators. It tackles subjects such as narcissistic behaviors, verbal abuse, and the characteristics of manipulative interactions, helping listeners recognize harmful patterns before they lead to significant emotional distress. Listeners can expect practical advice, personal anecdotes, and strategies on how to rebuild their sense of self and ensure healthier relationships. The podcast stands out for its dual perspective approach, offering resources not just for identifying abuse but also for managing and healing from the psychological impacts of these toxic... more
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