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The Self-Hype Podcast

Self-Hype
Personal Development
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Self-Respect
Vulnerability
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The Self-Hype Podcast
Healing Journey
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Self-Improvement
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Emotional Trauma
Self-Love
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Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and... more

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It’s time for the quarterly Q&A! In this episode, Eli opens the mailbag to answer the wild, messy, and deeply relatable questions submitted by the Selfhype community. He breaks down exactly why men use "gray language" to keep you in a situationship, ... more

Eli uses the latest season of Love is Blind as a masterclass in modern dating psychology and attachment styles. He breaks down the painful phenomenon of men on “autopilot”—guys who stick around and coast through a relationship simply because they don... more

Is your attachment style standing in your way? Our guest this week, published author, licensed therapist and attachment coach Jessica Da Silva breaks down the science of why we love the way we do. We’re talking childhood wounds, fear of failure, and ... more

If you’ve ever said “He’s avoidant, but our connection is different,” this episode is your intervention. Eli walks you through the real post-breakup cycle of an avoidant man—from love bombing and intensity, to shutdown and defensiveness, to the late-... more

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Recent Guests

Jessica Da Silva
Licensed marriage and family therapist and attachment coach, author
Self-authored practice; author of The Anxious Attachment Recovery Workbook
Episode: How To Heal Childhood Wounds And Practice Secure Attachment w/ Therapist & Coach Jessica Da Silva
Tiffany Yu
Award-winning social impact entrepreneur and disability advocate, founder and CEO of Diversability.
Diversability
Episode: How To Turn Self-Love Into Community w/ Tiffany Yu
Gina Moreno
Entrepreneur, coach, and speaker focusing on high-achieving women, particularly Latinas.
Empowermente
Episode: The High Achievers Survival Guide w/ Coach Gina Moreno
Samoana Matagi
A 15-year burn survivor, content creator, and public speaker.
Episode: How To Rebuild Your Identity After Life Changing Trauma w/ Samoana Matagi
Meg Reynolds
Creator of Not The Girl Next Door Podcast and a toxic relationship survivor.
Not The Girl Next Door Podcast
Episode: Avoidant Dating & Why Wanting More Isn’t Asking Too Much w/ Meg Reynolds
Sahara Rose
Celebrated modern spiritual teacher, four-time bestselling author, and host of the Highest Self Podcast
Founder of Rose Gold Goddesses
Episode: Rock Bottom to Reborn: Unlocking Your Feminine Healing Journey w/ Sahara Rose
Jenny Brandemuehl
Author, advocate, and speaker who shares her journey through grief after losing her husband, Mark, in a tragic event.
Episode: How To Turn Your Pain Into Purpose And Find Love Again w/ Jenny Brandemuehl!
Suzi Jalowsky
Fitness coach and social media influencer, known for inspiring women to pursue fitness regardless of age.
Episode: How To Stay Motivated At Any Age With Coach Suzi Jalowsky
Erin Valente
Licensed trauma and psychedelic therapist
Episode: Unpacking Trauma with Erin Valente: How To Redefine And Heal

Host

Eli Vazquez
Host of open, authentic conversations about dating, love, and personal development, aiming to provide practical advice and relatable stories to listeners.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 198 ratings
  • Eli

    Listening to this podcast is like calling your friend after a break up, you feel the comfort, you hear the advice, you’re reminded that your feelings matter and you deserve better. Eli has an amazing way of connecting, and answers all of your questions and doubts without being physically present but just in your ear just like how you would call up a friend to vent. This podcast has an episode for almost every topic you might be going through, I have laughed during some, cried a lot during most b... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Estela. Z
    United States19 days ago
  • Came here from IG

    I have been following you for sometime on Instagram and have been truly blessed and strengthened by your words of encouragement. I have just discovered the podcast and I have a feeling it’s going to be so healing. Thank you. You’re doing the Lord’s work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Crownedthroughfire
    United States7 months ago
  • A true treat

    I had the biggest crush on Eli during his buzzfeed days so just seeing how self aware emotionally available he is makes this podcast even more of a treat to listen to. I’m excited!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Glamazon3
    United Statesa year ago
  • Best dating advice

    Coach Eli is fantastic and knows his stuff!!! I appreciate the no nonsense advice my love life has definitely improved!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    KittyCat9231
    United Statesa year ago
  • Authentic & Real

    Such a fun podcast! Solid and cool advice. Loved listening to Madison Ciccone!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BeachBoss80
    United States2 years ago

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The podcast appears to be well-received for its practical tips and thought-provoking discussions on love and self-care.
Listeners appreciate the honest and relatable advice shared during episodes.
Many feel positively supported through the conversations around personal growth and relationships.
Comments reflect a strong connection with the host, praising his authenticity and engaging delivery.

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The Q&A Episode: Situationships, Rebounds, & Why He Blocked You
Q: What should I do if my partner wants to see other people but says 'we're together' at the same time?
Have a candid conversation about boundaries and what 'together' means, pushing for a clear agreement on exclusivity or open dynamics to reduce ambiguity.
The Q&A Episode: Situationships, Rebounds, & Why He Blocked You
Q: How do I know if we're truly exclusive or just in a gray area with dating someone new?
Ask directly about exclusivity and the relationship title; avoid gray language, as it hides insecurity and delays meaningful commitments.
The Q&A Episode: Situationships, Rebounds, & Why He Blocked You
Q: Why did my ex block me everywhere after a breakup?
He's hurt and lashing out from the pain of the breakup; his reactions stem from emotional hurt and attachment dynamics, not from your value. The key is to understand his feelings and not take it as a measure of your worth.
The High Achievers Survival Guide w/ Coach Gina Moreno
Q: What made you dedicate your life to helping others?
It started in 2020 during a pivotal time in her life, where she felt lost despite her high achievements.
How To Rebuild Your Identity After Life Changing Trauma w/ Samoana Matagi
Q: What has your journey been like since you made that first video?
It's been quite a journey, and it's led me to help others, including soldiers in Ukraine, showing them how to use prosthetics effectively.

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1. Jessica Da Silva
2. Tiffany Yu
3. Gina Moreno
4. Samoana Matagi
5. Meg Reynolds
6. Sahara Rose
7. Jenny Brandemuehl
8. Suzi Jalowsky

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