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The Self-Hype Podcast

Self-Hype
Personal Development
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Attachment Styles
Self-Love
Boundaries
Accountability
Communication
Self-Improvement
Vulnerability
Self-Care
Self-Awareness
Heartbreak
Self-Reflection
Self-Respect
Trauma
Toxic Relationships
Personal Growth
Self-Worth

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and... more

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Latest Episodes

If you just caved and texted your toxic ex, hooked up with him, or stalked his new girlfriend’s Instagram story—take a deep breath. In this solo episode, Eli is letting you off the hook. He breaks down why failure in your healing era is not actually ... more

If you have a history of making a man the absolute center of your universe and abandoning your own life, this episode is your intervention. Eli is breaking down exactly how to protect your independence without sacrificing a secure partnership. He unp... more

What happens when your "perfect on paper" life suddenly falls apart? In this episode, Eli sits down with author and former corporate lawyer SC Perot to talk about surviving the ultimate life plot twist. SC opens up about the acute grief of navigating... more

If you are terrified of losing yourself in another relationship or repeating the same toxic patterns, this episode is your official game plan. Eli answers one of the most common questions he gets: How do I actually "do the work" when I don't currentl... more

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SC Perot
Best-selling author, educator, and joy advocate
Author, Styles of Joy
Episode: How To Use Joy To Rebuild Your Life After Heartbreak w/ SC Perot
Colleen Freeland
Intuitive drinking coach and host of It's Not About the Alcohol podcast
Colleen Freeland Coaching / It's Not About the Alcohol
Episode: Stop Drinking Through Your Breakup: Unhealthy Coping vs. Actual Healing with Colleen Freeland
Jessica Da Silva
Licensed marriage and family therapist and attachment coach, author
Self-authored practice; author of The Anxious Attachment Recovery Workbook
Episode: How To Heal Childhood Wounds And Practice Secure Attachment w/ Therapist & Coach Jessica Da Silva
Tiffany Yu
Award-winning social impact entrepreneur and disability advocate, founder and CEO of Diversability.
Diversability
Episode: How To Turn Self-Love Into Community w/ Tiffany Yu
Gina Moreno
Entrepreneur, coach, and speaker focusing on high-achieving women, particularly Latinas.
Empowermente
Episode: The High Achievers Survival Guide w/ Coach Gina Moreno
Samoana Matagi
A 15-year burn survivor, content creator, and public speaker.
Episode: How To Rebuild Your Identity After Life Changing Trauma w/ Samoana Matagi
Meg Reynolds
Creator of Not The Girl Next Door Podcast and a toxic relationship survivor.
Not The Girl Next Door Podcast
Episode: Avoidant Dating & Why Wanting More Isn’t Asking Too Much w/ Meg Reynolds
Sahara Rose
Celebrated modern spiritual teacher, four-time bestselling author, and host of the Highest Self Podcast
Founder of Rose Gold Goddesses
Episode: Rock Bottom to Reborn: Unlocking Your Feminine Healing Journey w/ Sahara Rose
Jenny Brandemuehl
Author, advocate, and speaker who shares her journey through grief after losing her husband, Mark, in a tragic event.
Episode: How To Turn Your Pain Into Purpose And Find Love Again w/ Jenny Brandemuehl!

Host

Eli Vazquez
Host of The Self-Hype Podcast

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 199 ratings
  • Eli

    Listening to this podcast is like calling your friend after a break up, you feel the comfort, you hear the advice, you’re reminded that your feelings matter and you deserve better. Eli has an amazing way of connecting, and answers all of your questions and doubts without being physically present but just in your ear just like how you would call up a friend to vent. This podcast has an episode for almost every topic you might be going through, I have laughed during some, cried a lot during most b... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Estela. Z
    United States2 months ago
  • Came here from IG

    I have been following you for sometime on Instagram and have been truly blessed and strengthened by your words of encouragement. I have just discovered the podcast and I have a feeling it’s going to be so healing. Thank you. You’re doing the Lord’s work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Crownedthroughfire
    United States9 months ago
  • A true treat

    I had the biggest crush on Eli during his buzzfeed days so just seeing how self aware emotionally available he is makes this podcast even more of a treat to listen to. I’m excited!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Glamazon3
    United Statesa year ago
  • Best dating advice

    Coach Eli is fantastic and knows his stuff!!! I appreciate the no nonsense advice my love life has definitely improved!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    KittyCat9231
    United Statesa year ago
  • Authentic & Real

    Such a fun podcast! Solid and cool advice. Loved listening to Madison Ciccone!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BeachBoss80
    United States2 years ago

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The show feels supportive and motivational, often focusing on healing and self-worth.
Episodes are practical, relatable, and easy to apply to real life.
Guests are credible and bring diverse perspectives on relationships and personal growth.
Some episodes mix humor with tough-love coaching, which resonates with many listeners.
Listeners appreciate the host's authentic, no-nonsense approach to dating and self-improvement.

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Stop Drinking Through Your Breakup: Unhealthy Coping vs. Actual Healing with Colleen Freeland
Q: What should someone look for when deciding to work with you or seek similar help?
If you're asking if you have a problem, you likely do, but the key is whether you're ready to change your relationship with yourself, work on neuroplasticity and stress response, and commit to gradual, sustainable change rather than a forced sobriety.
Stop Drinking Through Your Breakup: Unhealthy Coping vs. Actual Healing with Colleen Freeland
Q: How do you explain the concept of not being 100% sober but still making progress in a sustainable way?
Progress comes from recognizing small wins and regulating the nervous system so you can enjoy a drink without it escalating, framing alcohol as a tool you can manage rather than a coping mechanism, and building a supportive community.
Stop Drinking Through Your Breakup: Unhealthy Coping vs. Actual Healing with Colleen Freeland
Q: From a host perspective, what is the first step you recommend for a high-achieving woman who suspects she has a problem with drinking?
The first step is to stop trying to punish or 'fix' the drinking itself and instead clear the shame around it, acknowledge the need for support, and begin nervous system regulation to increase capacity before addressing the habit.
The Q&A Episode: Situationships, Rebounds, & Why He Blocked You
Q: What should I do if my partner wants to see other people but says 'we're together' at the same time?
Have a candid conversation about boundaries and what 'together' means, pushing for a clear agreement on exclusivity or open dynamics to reduce ambiguity.
The Q&A Episode: Situationships, Rebounds, & Why He Blocked You
Q: How do I know if we're truly exclusive or just in a gray area with dating someone new?
Ask directly about exclusivity and the relationship title; avoid gray language, as it hides insecurity and delays meaningful commitments.

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What is The Self-Hype Podcast about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A candid, coaching-forward show focused on dating, relationships, and personal growth. Episodes blend practical frameworks, self-work, and real-life storytelling—from navigating heartbreak and attachment patterns to redefining self-worth and healthy love. Guests range from therapists and coaches to authors and entrepreneurs, typically offering actionable strategies, mindset shifts, and tools listeners can apply in dating, communication, and self-care. A notable throughline is turning personal experience into teachable insights, with a steady emphasis on boundaries, emotional safety, and community support. The format often includes solo coaching monologues, Q&A, and guest conversations that explore love, resilience, and self-empowerment, mak... more

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Recent guests on The Self-Hype Podcast include:

1. SC Perot
2. Colleen Freeland
3. Jessica Da Silva
4. Tiffany Yu
5. Gina Moreno
6. Samoana Matagi
7. Meg Reynolds
8. Sahara Rose

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