
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 960 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsComedySociety & Culture | |||

Harry Jowsey joins Jordana and Jared to talk about how he was engaged to 20 women at once for his new Netflix’s show, Let’s Marry Harry, what changed for him after losing his father and why dating is harder when it's played out on social media! Harry... more
Jordana and Jared debate whether it’s okay for your boyfriend to go on a trip with his ex, especially when they still own an apartment together. They also decide if an ex was petty for showing his former girlfriend the engagement ring he bought for h... more
Jared opens up about a fear of his when getting serious with his partner, figuring out how to balance love, family, and a career that keeps him on the road. Then J&J debate whether a husband should text his ex happy birthday and solve a bride’s very... more
Jordana and Jared get a visit from Jordana’s brother, Jon! He joins to pick up a toothbrush but ends up talking about dating in San Francisco, why he wants more banter and “relational chaos,” and whether Jordana can help him find a girlfriend. Then J... more
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Not Jared thinking Howard stern is the king still smh. Still backing that man and saying he’s the greatest interviewer. Literally peanut of a brain. Use the whole thing my guy and try to see all sides inside of your main man who is a literal creep, Howard stern. Jared is just like him. Will only see his side and think he’s right no matter what. Until he’s exposed after enough time.
Just want to say I love the pod. Also, if you run away from a high energy puppy, they will think you are playing and jump on you. Jared moving toward Ron is actually what you want to do. You have to be assertive with what you want from a dog. Stay calm. Don’t pet or talk to him when he’s excited. Let him calm down and then reward the calm. A daily hour walk does wonders for high energy dogs.
Only months into seriously dating, Jared sounds painfully out of touch with singleness and has acquired a smugness that’s off putting. Can’t imagine if he was still single he would agree with Jordana’s “Delete the apps for the rest of the year” advice. Bummer.
Jared and Jordan’s recent take on being overstimulated is so tone deaf, and ignorant. They say a lot of rude stuff and I kept brushing it off, but I’m finally done. Hey guys, maybe not the best idea to talk trash about your listeners.
Love the pod but Jordana sounds like the cheapest person ever. She’s always complaining about how expensive things are. It really gives me the ick lol
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This show centers on modern dating with a sharp, humorous take from two hosts who break down dating apps, relationship dynamics, and the cultural forces shaping romance. Episodes mix practical relationship advice with personal stories, reader emails, and industry chatter—ranging from AI in dating to cheating, therapy, and the realities of dating in the social-media era. A notable strength is the duo's ability to blend candid banter with actionable guidance, often featuring guest experts or insiders from dating media. The format occasionally incorporates sponsor reads and pop culture crossovers, giving it broad appeal for listeners navigating dating, relationships, and modern communication.
What stands out: a candid, no-nonsense vibe that o... more
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Recent guests on U Up? include:
1. Harry Jowsey
2. Jon Skolnick
3. Dr. Orna Guralnik
4. Samantha Wynn Greenstone
5. Jacob Hoff
6. Andy Levine
7. Sharleen Joynt
8. Uncle J Train
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