
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 944 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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Jared and Jordana are getting ready for Fourth of July weekend, where Jared will be staying with Jordana, finally! Then Jared shares the funniest wedding guest he's ever met, a guy with Oakleys on the back of his head who somehow became the life of s... more
Jared is back from his book tour convinced dating is rougher than ever, and he and Jordana break down why so many singles are feeling burnt out. Then they tackle whether asking for someone's Instagram or Snapchat before a first date is a hookup red f... more
Jared shares the wildest piece of weight loss advice he's ever gotten from a fan at a country club, leading to a discussion about criticism, internet comments, and why the people who care enough to complain might actually be your biggest fans. Then, ... more
The Knicks' recent success is creating a wave of new fans, and Jared explains why sports foster community, connection, and shared experiences, while Jordana compares it to the passion people have for Bravo and reality TV. Then J&J tackle one of adult... more
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Big fan of this show but really disappointed to hear the Hilton ad - Hilton houses ICE agents. U up, please stop partnering with Hilton!
Have been a loyal listener since 2018 and a paid subscriber as well, but had to cancel because of the thinly veiled money grab with “adding video” to justify the insane price increase. No one cares about video! And their attitude talking about it was a turnoff. Jordana saying she actually “hopes” less people subscribe so she can be more personal….
About what? Ronny having diarrhea? I’m sorry but the subscriber episodes rarely have substance that make it worth it to pay.
Y’all, seriously didn’t mention the obvious reason Home Depot guy has that job. The same reason most people work jobs. He has money issues that he doesn’t feel comfortable discussing. They don’t share finances so she has no insight into his debts. He’s working to get out of debt.
Men are asking if u were surprised to have twins bc they know that either twins happen naturally (scary to them) or on purpose via IVF
I used to love love this podcast. Lately just not the same. With the use of “like like” or “literally” all the time. I’m also not a fan of the guests lately. Seems to be more of a talk-show about the hosts lives and not about actual dating content. Bring back guests like Maria Matchmaker, Logan Ury etc.
Update
Happy for Jared’s relationship but his book doesn’t sound exciting at all
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This show centers on modern dating with a sharp, humorous take from two hosts who break down dating apps, relationship dynamics, and the cultural forces shaping romance. Episodes mix practical relationship advice with personal stories, reader emails, and industry chatter—ranging from AI in dating to cheating, therapy, and the realities of dating in the social-media era. A notable strength is the duo's ability to blend candid banter with actionable guidance, often featuring guest experts or insiders from dating media. The format occasionally incorporates sponsor reads and pop culture crossovers, giving it broad appeal for listeners navigating dating, relationships, and modern communication.
What stands out: a candid, no-nonsense vibe that o... more
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Recent guests on U Up? include:
1. Dr. Orna Guralnik
2. Jacob Hoff
3. Samantha Wynn Greenstone
4. Sharleen Joynt
5. Andy Levine
6. Uncle J Train
7. Emma Willman
8. Tiff Barra
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