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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more

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Esther Perel is back to join Jordana and Jared to talk about AI girlfriends, if using AI to write a love letter is dishonest, and the real reason we are choosing our phones over in-person connection. J&J and Esther talk about friendship breakups and ... more

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This week, J&J learn that Hinge is banning screenshots, and they question whether this is good for dating or helps cheaters get away with it! They Jordana and Jared see a man who posted his divorce announcement with a thoughtful, brief FAQ and discus... more

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Jared and Jordana are learning about Instagram’s new blur feature for “soft launching” couples in their new segment, Are U Up to Date? They then answer a listener’s email about asking for an engagement ring back after years of marriage and whether it... more

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Jordana and Jared are reading through a listener’s breakup texts, and the list of reasons to end it is long! A cozy cabin weekend in the woods was not as romantic as she thought, with complaints about restaurant choices, what time to go to the farmer... more

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Recent Guests

Heather McMahan
Comedian and actor, special By a Thread on Hulu
Episode: Can Your Marriage Survive Living With Your Parents? ft Heather McMahan
Lauren Lapkus
Emmy-nominated actress, comedian, writer; star of Stuart Fails to Save the Universe on HBO Max
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Episode: Lauren Lapkus Has a Dating App Imposter
Dr. Rosenberg
Gynecologist offering dating and vaginal health advice
Private practice/Queens, NY
Episode: How Long Should Your Husband Wait to Remarry After You Die?
Harry Jowsey
Host of Let's Marry Harry, Netflix dating series
Netflix / Let's Marry Harry
Episode: Harry Jowsey Wants to Be a Stay-at-Home Husband
Jon Skolnick
Jon, Jordana's brother; appears as a guest
Family of Jordana
Episode: Jordana Is Looking for a New Sister-in-Law!
Dr. Orna Guralnik
Couples therapist featured on the show Couples Therapy
Show: Couples Therapy
Episode: Dr. Orna On The Biggest Mistake Couples Make
Samantha Wynn Greenstone
Co-host of I Married A Gay Man podcast
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Episode: Married a Gay Man… And We’re Completely Monogamous ft I Married a Gay Man
Jacob Hoff
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Episode: Married a Gay Man… And We’re Completely Monogamous ft I Married a Gay Man
Sharleen Joynt
Guest from Dear Shandy podcast
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Episode: Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy

Hosts

Jordana Abraham
Host of the show, co-host, co-founder of Betches, active in dating-advice content
Jared Freid
Co-host, comedian, host of U Up? related content

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 21.7k ratings
  • Enough with Endorsing AI

    The recent episode about the AI written card…I’ve been a subscriber and listener for years and years. I’ve seen Jared live multiple times. But more and more I keep hearing ChatGPT and AI mentioned throughout the episodes. And to just casually discuss something that is a very real threat to humanity makes me cringe every time. I have always believed Jared and Jordana are intelligent humans, and so I don’t believe they are unaware of the negative impacts of AI and data centers. So when they speak ... more

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    xcrunner29
    United States24 days ago
  • Downhill

    Both hosts have lost touch with reality in so many ways

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    Groundhogday1173
    United Statesa month ago
  • Wonderful! Lovely!

    Is anybody else annoyed by the PERSISTENT constant affected use of the words “wonderful” and “lovely” by these 2? Can we just speak normally pls?????

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    Coffeetime89
    United Statesa month ago
  • Sept 9 Episode #chefskiss

    I guess you can only write one review for one podcast.. gotta delete my other very high rating but I REALLY liked this episode from sept 9. Idk why I’m surprised every time they have a super nuanced, open, honest dialogue where they aren’t afraid to disagree w each other/the writer, but this one stood out! The tennis conversation- I hadn’t caught all the red flags in the guy as Jared did, and as a woman that’s a wake up call! I also love the idea that scaring away a date shouldn’t be such a fear... more

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    paulmescalwife
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love the show, but please ease up on the self-promotion

    I've been a subscriber for many years. I don’t necessarily listen for the advice, but both the hosts and the people who write in are really relatable and often very funny.... I’m also just incredibly nosy about other people’s dating lives, so it’s always kept me entertained.

    That said, I might have to cancel my subscription because Jared’s compulsive and shameless self-promotion is getting a bit much. Between the book, the special and everything else going on in his career, the first 20–30 minu... more

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    Nipenterprises
    United Kingdom2 months ago

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The banter and chemistry between hosts is a key draw, even when topics get provocative.

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She's Older, He's Younger: Is a 7-Year Age Gap Too Much?
Q: What should she do to pursue the guy despite the age difference?
She should casually express interest, propose a low-pressure meetup like drinks after a kickball game, and clearly state she's open to whatever response he has, so there's an easy out and minimal awkwardness.
Can Your Marriage Survive Living With Your Parents? ft Heather McMahan
Q: What led you to move in with your mom during COVID?
Heather explains it started as a temporary move when she and her husband needed space and safety; over time, they settled in as they reassessed their living situation and priorities.
Dumping Someone in Public: Is It Ever Okay?
Q: What is the healthiest way to handle a difficult breakup that you've grown with since adolescence?
Acknowledge the length and history, allow yourself to grieve, but pursue boundaries and space to rebuild independence. They advise moving on with a gradual separation, seeking support, and avoiding staying in a relationship due to fear of loneliness.
Dumping Someone in Public: Is It Ever Okay?
Q: How do you know if it's the right time to walk away?
They suggest evaluating patterns, recognizing when the relationship stops serving personal growth, and prioritizing self-respect and boundaries, even if emotionally difficult. They emphasize that staying out of habit is not a good reason to stay and recommend practical steps like setting boundaries and considering whether you still see a future.
How Do You Start Dating Again After Divorce?
Q: Dear J&J, Huge fan and subscriber, also obsessed with Jared's food videos on TikTok. My question is for Jordana's mom. I'm a 34 year old single mom of two who just finalized my second divorce. How do I reenter the dating world with confidence?
Dr. Rosenberg advised starting with confidence in yourself, recognizing your ongoing needs, and communicating at a pace that fits your life as a mother. She emphasized not oversharing about past relationships or each child on a first date, and highlighted that dating can be a patient, value-driven process where you prioritize your own well-being and boundaries.

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A candid, humor-forward dating and relationships show where two hosts riff through listener emails, personal anecdotes, and pop culture to dissect modern romance, dating apps, and commitment. Episodes often mix blunt relationship coaching with sharp banter, exploring topics like communication misfires, boundaries, exclusivity, and the social dynamics of couples, friends, and family. A standout trait is the duo's chemistry and willingness to tackle provocative scenarios with practical takeaways, guest-driven conversations, and sponsor breaks that weave into the flow. This combination likely appeals to calm skeptics and die-hard romantics alike, offering actionable advice wrapped in entertainment and self-deprecating humor.

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2. Lauren Lapkus
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5. Jon Skolnick
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