
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 880 | Founded | 8 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | ComedyRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

J&J are joined by celebrity hairstylist Chris Appleton, known for styling Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian, to talk about hair, confidence and dating as a dad of two. Chris explains how hair can empower you, help you see yourself clearly, and change... more
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J&J dive into New Year’s resolutions and float the idea that partners should choose each other’s goals, mostly because Jordana would like to veto Mike’s marathon plans. They get into listener emails, including one from a woman confused about being in... more
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Anytime he “imagines” how a relationship might end for him, he imagines him breaking the woman’s heart and her never getting over it. Wake up, Jared, you’re not god’s gift. Take a sec and imagine you’re the one getting dumped.
Just not into it. Really enjoy the subscriber eps and regular banter.
I appreciate the hosts’ honesty about their personal lives—especially Jordana’s openness around fertility and the death of her father. Her reflections on his final year and the struggles that preceded 2025 deeply resonated with me. While painful, I found comfort in hearing her articulate an experience that’s so hard to name: loving someone and continuing to show up even when they won’t help themselves.
Jordana, I know you read these reviews—thank you for sharing. Wishing you, Mike, and your bab... more
These guys are just so great and are like comfort food. So happy for Jordan’s new babies and Jared new new move! Thanks for posting on this day after Christmas holiday cause I’m listening!!
** also without fail he always asks Jordana how she is and before she can answer he just rants about himself as if he doesn’t do that enough at all other times. Such a self absorbed person. yikes.
1. The singing. It’s too much and takes away from the stories
2. When he tries to be philosophical…yikes. Especially on a topic that isn’t that deep, he ends up just rambling and doesn’t make any sense.
3. His obsession with how women talk about breakups and tik tok is just strange for grown man
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Focusing on the intricacies of modern dating, this podcast brings together humor and honest reflections about navigating relationships in today's world. The hosts discuss a wide range of topics, including dating app interactions, breakups, polyamory, and social media dynamics. Notably, they explore both the comedic and emotional aspects of dating, inviting listeners to share their dilemmas and experiences. This approach not only makes for entertaining listening but also offers relatable insights into the complexities of love and relationships, making it a go-to resource for anyone trying to understand the ever-evolving dating landscape.
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Recent guests on U Up? include:
1. Julie Krafchick
2. Yue Xu
3. Kat Sadler
4. Kamie Crawford
5. Whitney Cummings
6. Danielle Carolan
7. Brooke Miccio
8. Atsuko Okatsuka
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