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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more

PublishesTwice weeklyEpisodes919Founded8 years ago
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Latest Episodes

J&J are back in the studio, where Jordana reveals it’s actually pretty normal for partners to try breast milk, so does that make it weird if Jared does? Then they get into your emails, starting with a listener whose boyfriend keeps going out of his w... more

Dear Shandy hosts Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine join Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham for a fun Friday Feels crossover at Betches HQ! We get into how they each approach dating advice, why so many people are stuck “analyzing behavior,” and the differe... more

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Ryan Seacrest’s “dating red flags” get J&J talking and how out-of-touch celebrity dating advice can be - waving at people should not be a red flag, Ryan! Jared and Jordana unpack a frustrating Hinge situation where a guy pulls back after 6 dates and... more

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Jordana and Jared kick things off discussing their night before at a fun client dinner that somehow turns into a lesson about the one airplane seat that always survives a crash (allegedly, 11A)! From there, they get into travel drama, including middl... more

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Recent Guests

Sharleen Joynt
Guest from Dear Shandy podcast
Dear Shandy
Episode: Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy
Andy Levine
Guest from Dear Shandy podcast
Dear Shandy
Episode: Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy
Uncle J Train
Guest contributor noted as Uncle J Train, part of the episode's banter and questions
Uncle J Train persona
Episode: What Changes In A Relationship After Kids?
Emma Willman
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Comedian
Episode: My Partner Makes Me Feel Stupid… Now What? ft Emma Willmann
Tiff Barra
Host of Street Hearts, author of The Modern Dating for Dummies
Street Hearts, author of The Modern Dating for Dummies
Episode: I Dumped Him in Public So He “Wouldn’t Make a Scene” ft Tiff Baira
Ashley Gavin
Comedian and host of We're Having Gay Sex
What's News With You / We're Having Gay Sex
Episode: What Are the Rules of an Open Relationship? ft Ashley Gavin
Logan Ury
Relationship scientist, author of How to Not Die Alone
Hinge
Episode: Is “Right Person, Wrong Time” Actually Real? ft Logan Ury
Tess Tregellas
Comedian, actor, improviser, content creator for Betches
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Episode: I Love My Boyfriend But I’m Scared To Move In Together
Bob the Drag Queen
Famous drag artist, comedian, and Broadway performer.
Moulin Rouge! The Musical
Episode: Would You Date Someone With 2 Boyfriends? ft Bob The Drag Queen

Hosts

Jared Freid
Host of the show with Jordana; primary on-air presence, co-creator of the format
Jordana Abraham
Co-host; central to show dialogue and relationship topics

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 21.5k ratings
  • Proud of you Jared

    It’s very difficult speaking up about antisemitism. I thought you approached the listener very thoughtfully. It’s rare to feel seen as a Jewish American these days. I appreciate you. I’m sure it won’t be well received by the masses but *I* am so grateful you spoke to it.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    EM4121
    United States21 days ago
  • It’s not that deep.

    Happy for Jared and his new relationship — he does sound lighter. At the same time, he still takes everything as a personal attack. Assuming a friend muted your IG stories versus engaging with other profiles more frequently, putting them ahead of yours? What a wildly unimportant possibility to waste mental energy on.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    sobarufifrons
    United States21 days ago
  • Don’t agree for once

    Speaking from someone very protective of the Jewish demographic, the recent episode just showed how little Jared is in touch with other cultures. My cousin dated someone from another religion / culture and felt that they were loud and overstimulating for her. And our family is louddddd. It’s not always antisemitic 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Mookieeees
    United States22 days ago
  • “Sight unseen”

    Jared … I think you’re trying to say you end things “on sight” meaning immediately. Please stop it’s making me crazy. And for the love of god - stop interrupting. Saying sorry to interrupt but continuing to do it does not make it any better. I get it, I have ADHD too but you have to let people finish speaking PLEASE.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JLT1984
    United Statesa month ago
  • If you need a drinking game…

    …take a shot every time Jared asks a question, then steamrolls the convo and doesn’t let the other person actually answer it.

    Longtime listener, frequent reviewer, and despite my grievances I do enjoy this show and will keep listening. The magic is the combination of Jared and Jordana. Which is why the mat leave cameos have been so tricky. There were wins and there were losses, there were abandoned eps that some of us just couldn’t get through. Jordana, congrats and also can’t wait to have you ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    CindR214
    United Statesa month ago

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Guests and hosts can clash, but topics stay relevant and entertaining.
Conversations mix humor with real dating advice, great for fans of banter and relationship tips.
Listener feedback highlights desire for balanced hosting and varied guest perspectives.

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Ryan Seacrest’s Dating Red Flags Make No Sense
Q: What should a woman do if a potential partner wants to date platonically first before romance?
Recognize that this may reflect his safety needs or communication style, but if it doesn't align with her own needs, it's fair to reassess and set clear expectations or move on.
My Partner Makes Me Feel Stupid… Now What? ft Emma Willmann
Q: How can someone address this issue without escalating conflict?
The guest suggests clearly expressing how the behavior feels, setting boundaries, and differentiating between a minor habit and a fundamental disrespect, while acknowledging the partner's insecurities and working toward healthier communication or ending the relationship if needed.
Is He Avoiding Sex On Purpose? ft Dr. Naomi
Q: What are people coming to you for in therapy right now?
People are seeking guidance on timeline stuff, adjusting to next life stages, and managing anxiety around change and relationships, with emphasis on mindset and coping rather than just external circumstances.
The Silent Relationship Killer you CAN Avoid ft Aleen Dreksler
Q: Aleen, how do you date your husband while all of that is going on?
The key is to create space for unscheduled quality time, occasionally surprise each other with real-date experiences, and avoid turning every moment into a business meeting; flexibility and shared values are essential.
Would You Date Someone With 2 Boyfriends? ft Bob The Drag Queen
Q: How could I be supportive of my boyfriend exploring the idea of drag while still feeling secure, desired and confident in my role as his partner?
You have an opportunity to be there for him in a way and grow together, because he's still attracted to women and still wants to be intimate with you.

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U Up? explores modern dating through candid banter between a comedian and a media founder, often featuring guests who bring perspective on relationships, money, sex, and self-acceptance. Episodes mix personal anecdotes, practical dating advice, and humorous takes on relationship dynamics, with notable attention to open relationships, age gaps, and navigating dating in a apps-driven era. A standout trait is the balance between heavy, real-topic conversations and lighthearted banter, making it approachable for listeners who want relatable guidance and entertainment in equal measure.

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2. The JTrain Podcast
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1. Sharleen Joynt
2. Andy Levine
3. Uncle J Train
4. Emma Willman
5. Tiff Barra
6. Ashley Gavin
7. Logan Ury
8. Tess Tregellas

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