
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 929 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsComedySociety & Culture | |||

J&J get into a recent article where they mention dating has become a luxury in 2026! From $20 coffee dates to the hidden “pink tax” women pay just to get ready, maybe it really is too expensive to date these days. Then they break down Bumble’s new AI... more
This week J&J unpack why lying in a relationship can be worse than cheating itself and debate whether an ex warning a new girlfriend is “helpful” or completely unhinged. They break down a breakup that left one listener scrambling for a new apartment ... more
This week J&J welcome Dr. Orna Guralnik from Couples Therapy to talk about the biggest mistakes couples make before they ever step into therapy! Dr. Orna explains why “agree to disagree” is usually just code for “I’m exhausted trying to change you.” ... more
Jordana and Jared are judging Mother’s Day Instagram tributes like they’re relationship crime scenes. And honestly, some of these captions are screaming “save the marriage post!” They debate whether a woman should warn her ex that she’s pregnant with... more
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I enjoy this show, been listening for years. You all are doing a great job.
I hate to say it, but I was a subscribing member since 2020 and have stopped listening because I don’t find Jordana and Jared relatable at all anymore—-they’ve moved on with their lives and we should have hosts who are better suited to discuss dating topics. There is a lifespan to everything.
Love the pod. Longtime Benefits + JTrain Patreon subscriber. Thrilled to hear Jared sounding genuinely happy lately.
One recurring issue, though: when guests come on that Jared doesn’t already know well — especially fellow podcasters — the energy shifts and he gets oddly combative. Example: I also think Andy Levine being secretive about his career is kind of bizarre. But listening to Jared go IN on him while Andy awkwardly laughs it off was uncomfortable.
I didn’t leave thinking, “Wow, screw A... more
Ok it seems obvious to me that the U Up staff is writing fake emails to match the background of the guest. This was particularly obvious during Jordana’s leave and also during the “married to a gay man” episode. Feels very insincere. Please stop. Or take it a step further and have chat gpt write the fake emails.
Come on guys, another price increase? And such a big jump. The price was just raised recently. I’m a longtime subscriber but I’m out.
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U Up? explores modern dating through candid banter between a comedian and a media founder, often featuring guests who bring perspective on relationships, money, sex, and self-acceptance. Episodes mix personal anecdotes, practical dating advice, and humorous takes on relationship dynamics, with notable attention to open relationships, age gaps, and navigating dating in a apps-driven era. A standout trait is the balance between heavy, real-topic conversations and lighthearted banter, making it approachable for listeners who want relatable guidance and entertainment in equal measure.
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1. Oversharing
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3. @Betches
4. Girls Gotta Eat
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U Up? launched 9 years ago and published 929 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on U Up? include:
1. Samantha Wynn Greenstone
2. Jacob Hoff
3. Sharleen Joynt
4. Andy Levine
5. Uncle J Train
6. Emma Willman
7. Tiff Barra
8. Ashley Gavin
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