
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun da... more
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 871 | Founded | 8 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Society & CultureRelationshipsComedy | |||

Happy 2026! It’s the New Year where it is peak breakup time and peak dating app download, and J&J are breaking down why January is when relationships end and downloads surge. They explain Divorce Day, Dating Sunday, and how the fresh start of a new y... more
It’s New Year’s Eve, and J&J are ringing in the new year with bold and actionable personal dating and relationship resolutions. Jordana and Jared dive into listener emails about a NYE kiss ruined by strict no-PDA rules and jealousy over an innocent p... more
Jordana and Jared talk about the strange week between Christmas and New Year when time feels fake, routines disappear, and the pressure to reinvent your life creeps in too late. Jordana’s growing baby countdown is upon us and Jared reacts to becoming... more
Merry Christmas Eve from your friendly elf and what seems to be Jared as sexy Santa? Jared talks about a potential gym flirting moment that leads into a deeper conversation about dating burnout, emotional self protection, and why avoiding risk can st... more
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It’s too much.
I have listened to this show - every episode! - for the past several years and it’s really fun to hear j&j’s banter and take on dating stories. I LOVED the Sean episode from November 2025 and want to share because I think it’s going to receive a lot of hate. I think Sean is just one example of someone dating outside of the conventions/norms and sometimes jordana and Jared seem to get too caught up in what’s “normal” vs showcasing things like open relationships and understanding there’s not just ... more
The most insufferable guest. Jared & Jordana are wonderful though.
Good lord. Loved producer Shawn being back, but this is proof that no matter how good they have it some men will never be happy 😂
Loved the episode!!! But for the love of peace. Please edit out the heavy breathing midway through the episode. It’s all I could hear at full volume
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Focusing on the intricacies of modern dating, this podcast brings together humor and honest reflections about navigating relationships in today's world. The hosts discuss a wide range of topics, including dating app interactions, breakups, polyamory, and social media dynamics. Notably, they explore both the comedic and emotional aspects of dating, inviting listeners to share their dilemmas and experiences. This approach not only makes for entertaining listening but also offers relatable insights into the complexities of love and relationships, making it a go-to resource for anyone trying to understand the ever-evolving dating landscape.
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U Up? launched 8 years ago and published 871 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on U Up? include:
1. Julie Krafchick
2. Yue Xu
3. Kat Sadler
4. Kamie Crawford
5. Whitney Cummings
6. Brooke Miccio
7. Danielle Carolan
8. Atsuko Okatsuka
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