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Ask a Matchmaker

Maria Avgitidis
Relationships
Dating
Marriage
Online Dating
Matchmaking
Communication
Dating Apps
Agape Match
Mental Health
Modern Dating
Valentine's Day
Gen Z
Therapy
Compatibility
Divorce
Relationship Advice
Friendship
Comedy
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Dating Advice

Ask a Matchmaker is your weekly go-to podcast for all things love and relationships. Hosted by fourth generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonsense insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're look... more

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Psychiatrist and couples therapist Dr. Sue Varma joins Matchmaker Maria to explain why optimism isn't something you're born with, it's a skill you can build. They break down the difference between healthy realism and catastrophizing, why overthinking... more

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Jared Freid is back on Ask a Matchmaker to talk about his new book, Walking Red Flag, and why most dating advice completely misses the average guy's perspective. Jared and Maria dive into the "types of singles," why family setups may be better than ... more

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Amy Chan, author of On Single, joins Matchmaker Maria to break down why so many people feel burned out by dating and what they're getting wrong! They discuss Amy's "dating funnel," why a lack of chemistry on a first date shouldn't always be a dealbre... more

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Matchmaker Maria sits down with writer and mental health advocate Chrissy Rutherford to discuss the Summer House drama behind her essay, Ciara's Story is a Story I Know Too Well. From dating a friend's ex to the complicated realities of interracial ... more

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Recent Guests

Jared Freid
Author of Walking Red Flag, comedian
Author, Walking Red Flag
Episode: Jared Freid Explains the Different Types of SINGLE
Amy Chan
Relationship expert and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp; author of On Single
Renew Breakup Bootcamp; Author of On Single
Episode: Should You Go On A Second Date Without Chemistry? ft Amy Chan
Chrissy Rutherford
Writer, speaker and mental health advocate focused on honest conversations around well-being in the digital age
Freelance/Various
Episode: Is Dating Your Friend's Ex Ever Okay? A Summer House Debate with Chrissy Rutherford
Chrisoula Mavrianos
Matchmaker at Agape Match
Agape Match
Episode: Heated Rivalry Reveals the Reality of Avoidant Dating
Jordan Carlos
Comedian and writer, author of Chore Play
Author, Chore Play
Episode: Doing Chores Literally Saved My Marriage ft. Jordan Carlos
Stefanie O'Connell
Award-winning writer covering Ambition, Money and Power; author of The Ambition Penalty
Author, The Ambition Penalty
Episode: Why Ambitious Women Get Rejected More ft Stefanie O'Connell
Dr. Justin Garcia
Director of the Kinsey Institute, executive director of the Kinsey Institute, faculty at Indiana University
Kinsey Institute, Indiana University
Episode: Wired to Connect: The Science of Love, Lust & Fidelity with Kinsey Institute Director Dr. Justin Garcia
Carli Blau
Sex therapist and clinician
Boutique Psychotherapy (New York, NJ, FL, CT)
Episode: Why Gen Z Is Having Less Sex? ft Dr. Carli Blau
Rachel Williams
Comedian, shining star in New York
Independent comedian, touring
Episode: Your Frictionless Life Is Ruining Your Dating Life! ft Rachel Williams

Host

Maria Avgitidis
Host of Ask a Matchmaker, founder of Agape Match

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 650 ratings
  • Love Maria one of the few that gives actual GREAT advice

    Maria knows what she’s talking about as she has decades of field experience and sees what works and doesn’t. Her advice isn’t jus based off her own thoughts or personal experience it’s based off data from tens of thousands of people

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States2 months ago
  • Great Show 🌸

    Maria’s advice is grounded, actionable and insightful. I appreciate the time and effort she makes to create this podcast and guide us. 💕💕

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    TheRealBabyGorgeous
    United States5 months ago
  • Where is the content?

    I tried a few episodes and had to forward through unrelated personal information before getting to any relevant content. I heard the host on another podcast and liked what she had to say, but I don't know what's going on here.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    HIwilma
    United States7 months ago
  • What am I listening to?

    I listened to an episode that was titled something about dating older…. I’m two thirds of the way in and haven’t heard anything about dating older. The first 15 minutes or so were about the host’s trip to Greece. I wanted to hear about dating, not a super long story about this person’s vacation.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    KTttttt2
    United States7 months ago
  • Thank you!!!

    Thank you for your honesty and transparency always, and especially in your last bunch of episodes addressing the impacts of the current administration, what was the political climate, and is now just a massive divide in peoples morals and values and care for others and how that tremendously impacts dating. Many of the other podcasts are keeping it light, but I appreciate you doing both so well, and how much you care about all people truly shows.💕Thanks for doing what you do and being so brave t... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    GiGeorgi
    United States8 months ago

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Community-building and travel-hosted events are seen as unique value propositions.
Listeners appreciate actionable insight and real-world applications.
A mix of guests and opinions is valued, though some listeners desire tighter focus and better guest autonomy.
Guests frequently highlight practical, data-backed dating ideas.
Some feedback notes interruptive hosting style; others praise humor and warmth.

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Should You Go On A Second Date Without Chemistry? ft Amy Chan
Q: What are your three main takeaways for readers of On Single or listeners of the podcast?
Most people are only one to two shifts away from forming a healthy relationship; patterns can be unblocked with targeted tools, and moving from casual dating to commitment involves practical steps within the five-stage funnel and self-awareness.
Should You Go On A Second Date Without Chemistry? ft Amy Chan
Q: What would you say to someone who is over optimizing dating instead of leading with curiosity?
Focus on building real curiosity and connection rather than performing the perfect date; use the discovery window to assess compatibility rather than chasing a flawless first impression.
Should You Go On A Second Date Without Chemistry? ft Amy Chan
Q: Tell me more about numbness.
Numbness can occur when reward circuits are maxed out by constant stimulation, making it harder to feel chemistry on a real date; the fix is to reduce stimulation before dating and create space for genuine connection.
Wired to Connect: The Science of Love, Lust & Fidelity with Kinsey Institute Director Dr. Justin Garcia
Q: What is Kinsey Institute and what do you do there?
The Kinsey Institute is a leading sex and relationship research center; we publish academic work, maintain a large sexuality-related collection, and conduct ongoing studies to inform the public and scholars about intimate life.
Why Ambitious Women Get Rejected More ft Stefanie O'Connell
Q: How should women respond when a date or partner says they don't want an ambitious woman?
Acknowledge the red flag, recognize it's not about you, and prioritize finding someone who respects and supports ambitions, rather than conforming to someone else's narrow definition of success.

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What is Ask a Matchmaker about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show centers on practical, no-nonsense relationship guidance from a seasoned matchmaking practitioner, often pairing with guests who bring research-backed insights, clinical expertise, or lived experience in dating, sexuality, and love. Topics frequently cover gender dynamics, communication, emotional intelligence, and modern dating friction, with clear frameworks (e.g., dating rules, boundaries) and personal stories to illustrate concepts. A notable strength is the mix of expert analysis and relatable humor, plus frequent travel and community-building angles that tie dating advice to real-life experiences. Listeners can expect candid conversations, actionable tips, and guests who illuminate intersections of love, health, culture, and p... more

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1. Jared Freid
2. Amy Chan
3. Chrissy Rutherford
4. Chrisoula Mavrianos
5. Jordan Carlos
6. Stefanie O'Connell
7. Dr. Justin Garcia
8. Carli Blau

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