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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
Relationships
Modern Dating
Dating
Picky Eaters Vs. Settling
Dating Apps
Relationship Seriousness
Emotional Connection
Self-Reflection
Self-Love
Commitment Issues
Communication
In-Person Networking
Emotional Health
Communication In Relationships
Personal Standards
Breakup Recovery
No Contact
Intentionality In Relationships
Dating Norms
Feminism

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigat... more

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Ellecia Paine
Sex, love and relationship coach and host of the podcast "Nope, We're Not Monogamous".
Nope, We're Not Monogamous
Episode: S21E14: Designing The Love Life That's Meant For You w/ Ellecia Paine
Rory Uphold
Author of A Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating
Episode: S21E13: Surviving The Horrors of Dating w/ Rory Uphold
Steve Budd
English professor and performer known for his one-man show about love and relationships.
Los Positos Community College
Episode: S21E12 The Commitment Conundrum w/ Steve Budd
Kendra Allen
Breakup coach and host of Heal Your Heartbreak podcast
Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast
Episode: S21E11: The Art Of Moving On (After Heartbreak) w/ Kendra Allen
Charles Duhigg
A Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author.
Formerly of The New York Times
Episode: S21E10: How To Be A SuperCommunicator On Your Next Date (Or In Your Relationship) w/ Charles Duhigg
Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Doctorate in clinical sexology, board certified sex therapist, and licensed mental health counselor
Works with Hily as a sexologist and sexual educator
Episode: S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent w/ Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Drea Renee
Host of the podcast Hey Babe, Can We Talk? where she discusses her dating experiences and insights.
Hey Babe, Can We Talk?
Episode: S21E7: Breaking The Cycle Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men w/ Drea Renee
Jordana Abraham
Co-host of U Up? and co-founder of Betches
Betches
Episode: S21E6: The Real Reason Dating Makes Us So Angry (That No One Talks About) w/ Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid from U Up?
Jared Freid
Co-host of U Up? and comedian
U Up?
Episode: S21E6: The Real Reason Dating Makes Us So Angry (That No One Talks About) w/ Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid from U Up?

Hosts

Yue Xu
Co-host, active dater turned dating insider, known for insightful discussions and personal anecdotes related to modern dating.
Julie Krafchick
Co-host, active dater turned dating insider, celebrated for her relatable insights and supportive approach to modern dating.

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.6k ratings
  • I must listen for single people

    Julie and Yue share stories that are relatable, their views are insightful and they give practical, actionable advice. I often recommend this podcast to my clients!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kelly Bonanno
    United States2 months ago
  • not asking ChatGPT…

    “Let me ask chatGPT” or “I consulted chatGPT” is such an instant turnoff. I don’t wanna hear AI garbled answers to things in my real life, nor my podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    hollisterkiss
    United States2 months ago
  • Can’t get past the voices

    I like the content but am unsubscribing due to the stuffed nose, nasal sounding voice. I have tried several times but can’t get past it.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    CherokeeDF
    United States3 months ago
  • The only dating podcast you’ll ever need

    The Dateable Podcast hosts feel like wiser sisters who ask good questions on the things that matter. I bought their book and honestly feel like it’s the ONLY book you’ll ever need when dating. They address both the reasons why we’re all so burned out and the traps we often fall into (hello Validation Trap and Love on Demand - that’s me!) and then take you through the questions that help you get super clear on how to date with intention. On top of that, I think they really understand the depths o... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LACarolyn626
    United States4 months ago
  • BEST COMBINATION OF SELF LOVE & GROWTH

    Yue and Julie are my favorite duo to listen to. They give me the hug I needed and always leave us with actionable takeaways and a refreshing sense of freedom (never judgment). I personally know Yue, and I can tell you: what they share is how they live 💛

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Carolcarolcarolcarolina
    United States4 months ago

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The hosts are praised for their actionable advice and the insightful discussions they have, often leading to transformations in listeners' dating lives.
Criticism sometimes centers around the amount of banter, which some feel distracts from the main content.
Listeners appreciate the emotional support and relatability given by the hosts, which makes the content feel personalized.
Overall, the podcast is viewed as a comprehensive resource for dating advice, resonating particularly well with younger women.

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S21E12 The Commitment Conundrum w/ Steve Budd
Q: What advice would you give your 40-year-old self?
Steve advises to focus on the connection with people rather than the outcome of marriage and to be more present in experiences.
S21E12 The Commitment Conundrum w/ Steve Budd
Q: How do you stay hopeful in your search for love?
Steve shares that he tends to return to a hopeful place, even when discouraged, emphasizing the need for acceptance if it doesn't work out.
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent w/ Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Q: What are some signs you can pick up on the convo that indicate readiness for more intimate discussions?
Leading conversations towards affection and checking for verbal cues can help gauge interest before sending explicit content.
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent w/ Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Q: How does the consent guard feature help foster healthier interactions?
It creates a culture of respect and empowers users to choose what content they want to engage with, enhancing the dating experience.
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent w/ Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Q: How does this feature work on Hily?
Hily uses machine learning to detect explicit content and notifies the receiver with a consent request before showing the image or message.

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Focusing on the complexities of modern dating and relationships, this show explores relevant themes such as attachment styles, the influence of dating apps, the meaning of monogamy, and the expectations surrounding love in today's society. The hosts provide insights from real daters and experts, tackling a wide array of topics including healing from breakups, dating in one's 30s, and navigating emotional health. With a relatable and compassionate approach, listeners are encouraged to reflect on their dating life while receiving actionable advice on creating and maintaining meaningful connections.

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4. The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz
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Recent guests on this podcast include:

1. Ellecia Paine
2. Rory Uphold
3. Steve Budd
4. Kendra Allen
5. Charles Duhigg
6. Dr. Mindy DeSeta
7. Drea Renee
8. Jordana Abraham

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