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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
Relationships
Modern Dating
Dating Apps
Dating
Communication
Personal Growth
Mental Health
Dating Culture
Breakups
Marriage
Communication In Relationships
Romantic Relationships
Dating Archetypes
Intentional Dating
Self-Awareness
Compatibility
Friendship
Commitment
Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Availability

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigat... more

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Robin Ducharme
Founder and CEO of Real Love Ready, former matchmaker, podcast host and author
Real Love Ready
Episode: S23E9: Becoming Real Love Ready w/ Robin Ducharme
Amanda White
Therapist and founder of Therapy for Women Center
Therapy for Women Center
Episode: S23E7: When "Protecting Your Peace" Keeps You From Love w/ Amanda White
Melissa Perry
Dean of the College of Public Health at George Mason University; epidemiologist; Mindful Epidemiologist columnist
George Mason University; Psychology Today
Episode: S23E5: The Power of Human Connection In the World of AI w/ Dr. Melissa Perry
Kristen Such
Spiritual coach and inner work mentor; host of Alignment Academy Podcast
Alignment Academy
Episode: S23E3: Moving Cities (And Countries) For A Chance At Love w/ Kristen Such
Amir Levine
Author and psychiatrist specializing in attachment theory
Columbia University; author of Attached and Secure
Episode: S23E2: How To Be More Secure In Dating and Relationships w/ Dr. Amir Levine (Author of Attached)
Natalie Carey
Author of Every Body Beautiful
Author/Body Positivity Advocate
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Confident In Your Body (Day #7)
Katie Sturino
Body acceptance advocate, entrepreneur, founder of Megababe
Megababe
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Knowing Your Self Worth (Day #6)
Shan Boodram
Certified intimacy educator and sexologist
Shan Boodram, Sexologist and Author
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Desirable (Day #4)
Case Kenny
Mindfulness-based dating expert and podcaster
New Mindset Whodis
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Reframing Setbacks (Day #3)

Hosts

Yue Xu
Host of Dateable, guides episode themes and discussion flow
Julie Krafchick
Co-host who pivots conversations to personal anecdotes and actionable takeaways

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.6k ratings
  • Love the Content and…

    I like Amanda White’s knowledge, but her upspeaking is so constant that I almost had to turn the episode off. It makes her sound less decisive and less confident.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    AbbyPenny4
    United States21 days ago
  • Validating Women’s Experiences and AI Use

    You ladies should REALLY take a look at Jennie Young and what she is doing. The reason so many women are into Burned Haystack is because we are being validated after years and years of dating predatory, creepy men. Your Pollyanna position on why women are unhappy with the selection of men is really, really outdated and icky. There is a way to encourage people to be open to connection without totally invalidating the very real experiences women who date men have in dating. Ew to the gaslighting a... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Shalma M.
    United States6 months ago
  • An essential listen

    This show offers so many insights and advice for people navigating dating and makes it a less intimidating experience. It’s helped me approach it from a more optimistic, thoughtful, and empowered perspective. Highly recommend for anyone looking to feel a sense of calm and reassurance in their dating journey!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    O.G Wafflez
    United States9 months ago
  • Great content..but the vocal fry…ugh

    These girls are great and I love their content, but I can’t listen anymore because the vocal fry is just so bad.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Spicybrain
    United Statesa year ago
  • I must listen for single people

    Julie and Yue share stories that are relatable, their views are insightful and they give practical, actionable advice. I often recommend this podcast to my clients!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kelly Bonanno
    United Statesa year ago

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Guests and topics are seen as credible and useful for real-life dating situations.
Listeners praise practical, actionable dating advice and relatable hosts.
The show is described as calming, insightful, and supportive for navigating dating.
Many reviews highlight personal growth and improved dating confidence after listening.
Ads and sponsor reads are noted but content remains valuable and consistently helpful.

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S23E9: Becoming Real Love Ready w/ Robin Ducharme
Q: How would you differentiate normal growing pains in a relationship from a relationship that is toxic or unhealthy?
Ducharme says to consider whether there is an underlying sense of peace, safety and respect. Relationships can involve inevitable conflict, but partners should be able to face challenges with kindness and openness rather than leaving someone feeling unsafe or constantly depleted.
S23E9: Becoming Real Love Ready w/ Robin Ducharme
Q: What would you say to a friend who wants to stay loving toward new people after being hurt, without assuming the worst or being naive?
Ducharme recommends not closing herself off, but approaching new relationships with discernment and allowing trust to develop over time. She says people should earn trust through consistent actions, while she remains open and true to herself.
S23E7: When "Protecting Your Peace" Keeps You From Love w/ Amanda White
Q: With the rise of AI therapists, what are your thoughts on that, and what are some of the cultural consequences?
White says AI can provide mental-health support and psychoeducation but is not therapy, which depends on a relationship with an impartial person. She warns that AI can fuel reassurance-seeking and make it harder to tolerate discomfort, nuance and differing perspectives.
S23E7: When "Protecting Your Peace" Keeps You From Love w/ Amanda White
Q: What is the difference between someone being genuinely unhealthy for me and someone who may disappoint me?
White says one interaction usually cannot establish that someone is unhealthy, except in overt cases such as abuse or disrespect. Look for patterns, consider how you feel before and after time together, and assess whether the relationship aligns with your values.
7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Confident In Your Body (Day #7)
Q: What are practical steps to start loving your body today?
Practice mirror talk, choose movements that feel good, eat wholesome foods, and focus on how your body performs rather than how it looks, while also allowing yourself to evolve without chasing a perfect final state.

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The show centers on modern dating, relationships, and personal growth, blending practical dating strategies with thoughtful conversations about mindset, trust, and self-worth. Topics frequently span dating anxiety, navigating online dating, dating economy, authenticity, and how body image or confidence shapes connection. Notable strengths include a steady host duo that foregrounds empathy, actionable takeaways, and accessible discussions with a rotating roster of experts and real-life daters. Listeners can expect a calm, supportive tone, evidence-informed tips, and a wide range of dating scenarios—from singlehood and self-discovery to building healthy partnerships.

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1. Robin Ducharme
2. Amanda White
3. Melissa Perry
4. Kristen Such
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7. Katie Sturino
8. Shan Boodram

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