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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
Relationships
Modern Dating
Dating
Picky Eaters Vs. Settling
Dating Apps
Relationship Seriousness
Self-Reflection
Emotional Connection
Self-Love
Commitment Issues
Communication
In-Person Networking
Emotional Health
Communication In Relationships
Personal Standards
Breakup Recovery
No Contact
Intentionality In Relationships
Situationships
Dating Norms

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigat... more

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In the world of dating apps, it's easy to get caught up in the endless cycle of messaging without ever meeting in person. Join us as we explore the art of the ask-out – or hinting at an ask-out if you're reluctant to make the first move. We discuss h... more

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Have you ever gotten that unwanted sexual message or pic on a dating app? You're certainly not alone, which is why we need to talk about digital sexual consent and what dating apps are doing about it. We're joined by Dr. Mindy DeSeta, a sexologist an... more

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What's the difference between having standards and not being so picky that there's no one that's good enough to date? Join us as dive into a nuanced look of the fine line that allows you to meet people at your level – while also having an abundance m... more

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Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Doctorate in clinical sexology, board certified sex therapist, and licensed mental health counselor
Works with Hily as a sexologist and sexual educator
Episode: S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent
Drea Renee
Host of the podcast Hey Babe, Can We Talk? where she discusses her dating experiences and insights.
Hey Babe, Can We Talk?
Episode: S21E7: Breaking The Cycle Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men w/ Drea Renee
Jordana Abraham
Co-host of U Up? and co-founder of Betches
Betches
Episode: S21E6: The Real Reason Dating Makes Us So Angry (That No One Talks About) w/ Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid from U Up?
Jared Freid
Co-host of U Up? and comedian
U Up?
Episode: S21E6: The Real Reason Dating Makes Us So Angry (That No One Talks About) w/ Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid from U Up?
Cassidy Davis
Host of Chaotic Singles Parties and engaged after meeting her fiancé at her own party
Chaotic Singles Party
Episode: S21E3: Chaotic Singles Party: Inside Edition w/ Cassidy Davis
Casey Caston
Co-founder of Marriage 365
Marriage 365
Episode: S20E21: What To Know About Marriage (Before You're Even Married) w/ Casey & Meygan Caston
Meygan Caston
Co-founder of Marriage 365
Marriage 365
Episode: S20E21: What To Know About Marriage (Before You're Even Married) w/ Casey & Meygan Caston
Matchmaker Maria
Fourth-generation matchmaker and author of Ask A Matchmaker
A Gobbit Match
Episode: S20E20: Ask A Matchmaker w/ Matchmaker Maria
Jase Lindgren
Co-host of Multiamory, relationship and communication expert
Multiamory
Episode: S2019: Doing Love Differently w/ Dediker, Jase & Emily of Multiamory

Hosts

Yue Xu
Co-host, active dater turned dating insider, known for insightful discussions and personal anecdotes related to modern dating.
Julie Krafchick
Co-host, active dater turned dating insider, celebrated for her relatable insights and supportive approach to modern dating.

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.6k ratings
  • Can’t get past the voices

    I like the content but am unsubscribing due to the stuffed nose, nasal sounding voice. I have tried several times but can’t get past it.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    CherokeeDF
    United Statesa month ago
  • The only dating podcast you’ll ever need

    The Dateable Podcast hosts feel like wiser sisters who ask good questions on the things that matter. I bought their book and honestly feel like it’s the ONLY book you’ll ever need when dating. They address both the reasons why we’re all so burned out and the traps we often fall into (hello Validation Trap and Love on Demand - that’s me!) and then take you through the questions that help you get super clear on how to date with intention. On top of that, I think they really understand the depths o... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LACarolyn626
    United States2 months ago
  • BEST COMBINATION OF SELF LOVE & GROWTH

    Yue and Julie are my favorite duo to listen to. They give me the hug I needed and always leave us with actionable takeaways and a refreshing sense of freedom (never judgment). I personally know Yue, and I can tell you: what they share is how they live 💛

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Carolcarolcarolcarolina
    United States2 months ago
  • Dating with Kindness

    This podcast is the best in class. Julie and Yue come prepared with notes, speak clearly, and don’t interrupt the guests. They are on a mission to help you feel better about dating. Like true professionals, they don’t get lost on tangents, they don’t dive into politics. What I’m saying is this podcast is soothing not inflammatory. Everyone is welcome in the audience. I’m a 40 year old man who is absorbing how woman my age think and feel about the dating scene

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    @chris_h00d
    United States3 months ago
  • Validating Women’s Experiences

    You ladies should REALLY take a look at Jennie Young and what she is doing. The reason so many women are into Burned Haystack is because we are being validated after years and years of dating predatory, creepy men. Your Pollyanna position on why women are unhappy with the selection of men is really, really outdated and icky. There is a way to encourage people to be open to connection without totally invalidating the very real experiences women who date men have in dating. Ew to the gaslighting a... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Shalma M.
    United States3 months ago

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The hosts are praised for their actionable advice and the insightful discussions they have, often leading to transformations in listeners' dating lives.
Criticism sometimes centers around the amount of banter, which some feel distracts from the main content.
Listeners appreciate the emotional support and relatability given by the hosts, which makes the content feel personalized.
Overall, the podcast is viewed as a comprehensive resource for dating advice, resonating particularly well with younger women.

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S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent
Q: What are some signs you can pick up on the convo that indicate readiness for more intimate discussions?
Leading conversations towards affection and checking for verbal cues can help gauge interest before sending explicit content.
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent
Q: How does the consent guard feature help foster healthier interactions?
It creates a culture of respect and empowers users to choose what content they want to engage with, enhancing the dating experience.
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent
Q: How does this feature work on Hily?
Hily uses machine learning to detect explicit content and notifies the receiver with a consent request before showing the image or message.
S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent
Q: What does digital sexual consent encompass in your opinion?
Digital sexual consent ensures users are not bombarded with unsolicited explicit content, creating a safer and more respectful environment.
#brunchtalk: What To Do When You're Relationship Ends Out of Nowhere
Q: What do you think happened in the listener's relationship?
The abrupt end suggests he may have felt overwhelmed after reaching certain milestones, leading him to lose interest when things became more mundane.

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Focusing on the complexities of modern dating and relationships, this show explores relevant themes such as attachment styles, the influence of dating apps, the meaning of monogamy, and the expectations surrounding love in today's society. The hosts provide insights from real daters and experts, tackling a wide array of topics including healing from breakups, dating in one's 30s, and navigating emotional health. With a relatable and compassionate approach, listeners are encouraged to reflect on their dating life while receiving actionable advice on creating and maintaining meaningful connections.

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1. Dr. Mindy DeSeta
2. Drea Renee
3. Jordana Abraham
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6. Casey Caston
7. Meygan Caston
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