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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
Relationships
Modern Dating
Dating Apps
Dating
Communication
Breakups
Personal Growth
Mental Health
Dating Culture
Marriage
Communication In Relationships
Romantic Relationships
Dating Archetypes
Intentional Dating
Connection
Self-Awareness
Compatibility
Commitment
First Dates
Online Dating

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigat... more

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Latest Episodes

Are you truly going to end up alone or is fear making you believe a story that isn’t true? We're back for Season 23 to unpack one of the biggest anxieties in dating: the fear that love might never happen. We discuss why feeling “behind” is often more... more

We often judge how "good" we are at relationships based on our dating and relationship history, but what if it's the least complete picture? In this episode, Julie explores why romantic relationships often become intertwined with our identity, causin... more

What happens when the tools meant to help us heal start getting in the way of how we connect? We're exploring the rise of therapy culture and how “therapy speak” is changing the way we approach dating, conflict, and relationships. We discuss why havi... more

Does going through hard times together make a relationship stronger—or is that just the story we've been told? In this episode, Yue explores whether deep connection is built through shared struggle or if love can grow just as profoundly without adver... more

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Natalie Carey
Author of Every Body Beautiful
Author/Body Positivity Advocate
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Confident In Your Body (Day #7)
Katie Sturino
Body acceptance advocate, entrepreneur, founder of Megababe
Megababe
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Knowing Your Self Worth (Day #6)
Shan Boodram
Certified intimacy educator and sexologist
Shan Boodram, Sexologist and Author
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Desirable (Day #4)
Case Kenny
Mindfulness-based dating expert and podcaster
New Mindset Whodis
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Reframing Setbacks (Day #3)
Ken Page
Psychotherapist, Deeper Dating author
Deeper Dating/Deeper Dating Podcast
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Discovering Your Core Gifts (Day #2)
Dr. Jenny Taitz
Psychologist; author of How to Be Single & Happy
Author, How to Be Single & Happy
Episode: 7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Becoming Single & Happy (Day #1)
Bella DePaulo
Author and social scientist; expert on the single life
University-affiliated researcher, author of Single At Heart
Episode: S22E17: What Everyone Gets Wrong About Being Single (From Someone Who Has Been Single Her Entire Life) w/ Dr. Bella DePaulo
Simone Stolzoff
Author and journalist focused on uncertainty and work
Author of How Not To Know; The Good Enough Job
Episode: S22E16: How To Navigate Uncertainty (In Dating) w/ Simone Stolzoff
Amy Chan
Author of Unsingle; founder of Breakup Bootcamp
Amy Chan / Unsingle
Episode: S22E15: The Dating Funnel That Will Get You From The First Date To A Real Relationship w/ Amy Chan

Hosts

Yue Xu
Host of Dateable, guides episode themes and discussion flow
Julie Krafchick
Co-host who pivots conversations to personal anecdotes and actionable takeaways

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.6k ratings
  • Validating Women’s Experiences and AI Use

    You ladies should REALLY take a look at Jennie Young and what she is doing. The reason so many women are into Burned Haystack is because we are being validated after years and years of dating predatory, creepy men. Your Pollyanna position on why women are unhappy with the selection of men is really, really outdated and icky. There is a way to encourage people to be open to connection without totally invalidating the very real experiences women who date men have in dating. Ew to the gaslighting a... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Shalma M.
    United States4 months ago
  • An essential listen

    This show offers so many insights and advice for people navigating dating and makes it a less intimidating experience. It’s helped me approach it from a more optimistic, thoughtful, and empowered perspective. Highly recommend for anyone looking to feel a sense of calm and reassurance in their dating journey!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    O.G Wafflez
    United States7 months ago
  • Great content..but the vocal fry…ugh

    These girls are great and I love their content, but I can’t listen anymore because the vocal fry is just so bad.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Spicybrain
    United States10 months ago
  • I must listen for single people

    Julie and Yue share stories that are relatable, their views are insightful and they give practical, actionable advice. I often recommend this podcast to my clients!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kelly Bonanno
    United Statesa year ago
  • not asking ChatGPT…

    “Let me ask chatGPT” or “I consulted chatGPT” is such an instant turnoff. I don’t wanna hear AI garbled answers to things in my real life, nor my podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    hollisterkiss
    United Statesa year ago

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Guests and topics are seen as credible and useful for real-life dating situations.
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Many reviews highlight personal growth and improved dating confidence after listening.
Ads and sponsor reads are noted but content remains valuable and consistently helpful.

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7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Confident In Your Body (Day #7)
Q: What are practical steps to start loving your body today?
Practice mirror talk, choose movements that feel good, eat wholesome foods, and focus on how your body performs rather than how it looks, while also allowing yourself to evolve without chasing a perfect final state.
7 DAYS OF DATING CONFIDENCE: Feeling Desirable (Day #4)
Q: What inspired Shan to become a sex educator and how did she get started?
Shan shares a personal origin story of rejecting a negative early sex education and choosing to educate herself, which led to a desire to make sex education engaging and accessible, followed by formal training and ongoing efforts to broaden representation and understanding in her field.
S22E12: The Science of Intimacy, Sex, and Love w/ Dr. Justin Garcia
Q: Help us define what is the difference between intimacy and sex?
Intimacy is the closeness where you feel seen, heard, and understood, while sex is one facet of that broader bond; both can operate in harmony but they are distinct mechanisms.
S22E9: How To Spot A Narcissist (And Not Give Them Your Time & Attention) w/ Dr. Alina Kastner
Q: If you realize you're in a narcissistic relationship, what is the best first step?
The best first step is to seek professional help and to begin zero contact with the narcissist; minimize contact with mutual connections and protect yourself while you plan a safe exit.
S22E9: How To Spot A Narcissist (And Not Give Them Your Time & Attention) w/ Dr. Alina Kastner
Q: What are early red flags in dating that could indicate a narcissistic dynamic?
Early red flags include rapid escalation to intense commitment, excessive love bombing, pushy boundaries, constant need for control, gaslighting, and inconsistent behavior where promises do not align with actions; if consistency cannot be maintained over time, that's a major warning sign.

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The show centers on modern dating, relationships, and personal growth, blending practical dating strategies with thoughtful conversations about mindset, trust, and self-worth. Topics frequently span dating anxiety, navigating online dating, dating economy, authenticity, and how body image or confidence shapes connection. Notable strengths include a steady host duo that foregrounds empathy, actionable takeaways, and accessible discussions with a rotating roster of experts and real-life daters. Listeners can expect a calm, supportive tone, evidence-informed tips, and a wide range of dating scenarios—from singlehood and self-discovery to building healthy partnerships.

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2. Katie Sturino
3. Shan Boodram
4. Case Kenny
5. Ken Page
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