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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
Relationships
Modern Dating
Dating
Picky Eaters Vs. Settling
Dating Apps
Relationship Seriousness
Emotional Connection
Self-Reflection
Self-Love
Commitment Issues
Communication
In-Person Networking
Emotional Health
Communication In Relationships
Personal Standards
Breakup Recovery
No Contact
Intentionality In Relationships
Situationships
Feminism

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigat... more

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As we approach the new year, we're bringing you a special series: the 8 days of dating optimism, where we air the top episodes that restored our hope and confidence in finding our person.

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As we approach the new year, we're bringing you a special series: the 8 days of dating optimism, where we air the top episodes that restored our hope and confidence in finding our person.

On this next episode, we're chatting with our friend Sheryl a... more

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As we approach the new year, we're bringing you a special series: the 8 days of dating optimism, where we air the top episodes that restored our hope and confidence in finding our person.

On the first episode, we're chatting with Christina Bradley, ... more

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Being detached doesn't mean that you don't care or give up on dating. But it does mean that you know your worth and aren't going to settle for less than treatment because you got attached to someone or the idea of a relationship working out. We're jo... more

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Christina Bradley
Author of Which Way to Happiness
Episode: 8 DAYS OF DATING OPTIMISM: Trust In Your Timing (Day #1)
Sabrina Bendory
Founder of A New Mode, author of 'Detached: How to Let Go, Heal and Become Irresistible'
A New Mode
Episode: S21E17: How To Be Detached in Dating Yet Still Open For A Relationship w/ Sabrina Bendory
Phil Wilkinson
A single British man in his 40s who has done the inner work to finally become emotionally available and ready for a committed relationship.
Public Relations Agency
Episode: S21E16: Inside A Man's Journey To Becoming Emotionally Available & Ready For A Relationship
Ellecia Paine
Sex, love and relationship coach and host of the podcast "Nope, We're Not Monogamous".
Nope, We're Not Monogamous
Episode: S21E14: Designing The Love Life That's Meant For You w/ Ellecia Paine
Rory Uphold
Author of A Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating
Episode: S21E13: Surviving The Horrors of Dating w/ Rory Uphold
Steve Budd
English professor and performer known for his one-man show about love and relationships.
Los Positos Community College
Episode: S21E12 The Commitment Conundrum w/ Steve Budd
Kendra Allen
Breakup coach and host of Heal Your Heartbreak podcast
Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast
Episode: S21E11: The Art Of Moving On (After Heartbreak) w/ Kendra Allen
Charles Duhigg
A Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author.
Formerly of The New York Times
Episode: S21E10: How To Be A SuperCommunicator On Your Next Date (Or In Your Relationship) w/ Charles Duhigg
Dr. Mindy DeSeta
Doctorate in clinical sexology, board certified sex therapist, and licensed mental health counselor
Works with Hily as a sexologist and sexual educator
Episode: S21E8: Dating Apps, D*ck Pics, and Sexts: Why We Need Digital Sexual Consent w/ Dr. Mindy DeSeta

Hosts

Yue Xu
Co-host and dating expert
Julie Krafchick
Co-host and dating expert

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.6k ratings
  • Great content..but the vocal fry…ugh

    These girls are great and I love their content, but I can’t listen anymore because the vocal fry is just so bad.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Spicybrain
    United States2 months ago
  • I must listen for single people

    Julie and Yue share stories that are relatable, their views are insightful and they give practical, actionable advice. I often recommend this podcast to my clients!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kelly Bonanno
    United States3 months ago
  • not asking ChatGPT…

    “Let me ask chatGPT” or “I consulted chatGPT” is such an instant turnoff. I don’t wanna hear AI garbled answers to things in my real life, nor my podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    hollisterkiss
    United States3 months ago
  • Can’t get past the voices

    I like the content but am unsubscribing due to the stuffed nose, nasal sounding voice. I have tried several times but can’t get past it.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    CherokeeDF
    United States3 months ago
  • The only dating podcast you’ll ever need

    The Dateable Podcast hosts feel like wiser sisters who ask good questions on the things that matter. I bought their book and honestly feel like it’s the ONLY book you’ll ever need when dating. They address both the reasons why we’re all so burned out and the traps we often fall into (hello Validation Trap and Love on Demand - that’s me!) and then take you through the questions that help you get super clear on how to date with intention. On top of that, I think they really understand the depths o... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LACarolyn626
    United States4 months ago

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Comments on the hosts' ability to foster open discussions about complex dating topics make this show standout for those seeking understanding and advice.
Some feedback points out challenges with ad frequency and pacing, suggesting that editing could enhance the listening experience.
Many reviews highlight the emotional support and personal growth strategies shared, resonating deeply with those navigating the dating landscape.
Listeners appreciate the relatable and insightful content, often finding the hosts' perspectives refreshing and supportive.

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8 DAYS OF DATING OPTIMISM: Just Say Yes (Day #2)
Q: What are some ideas you have for me so I can get out there but not burn myself out?
Explore smaller scale events or activities that fit your interests. Find one a month to avoid feeling overwhelmed while still allowing for social engagement.
8 DAYS OF DATING OPTIMISM: Trust In Your Timing (Day #1)
Q: What advice would you give your younger self?
Take a deep breath for a start and trust in the timing of your life.
#brunchtalk: Is This Weird To Do In Dating?
Q: What do you think about the question "Are you a happy person?" when asked on a dating app?
Julie finds it odd and believes it can feel like a test, while Yue thinks the delivery matters more than the content of the question.
S21E16: Inside A Man's Journey To Becoming Emotionally Available & Ready For A Relationship
Q: What are some signs that someone's actually doing the real work versus being more performative?
It's about action rather than words, showing up and being present, making plans. It's recognizing the difference between past behaviors and current actions.
S21E12 The Commitment Conundrum w/ Steve Budd
Q: What advice would you give your 40-year-old self?
Steve advises to focus on the connection with people rather than the outcome of marriage and to be more present in experiences.

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Content focuses on the complexities and nuances of modern dating and relationships, addressing pressing questions such as the relevance of monogamy, expectations from dating apps, and the evolving motives behind seeking love. Insightful conversations with both everyday daters and experts highlight various aspects of dating, including emotional availability, personal growth, and the balance between intentionality and spontaneity. Listeners can expect encouragement and relatable advice that empowers them to navigate their dating journeys with confidence, compassion, and a sense of humor. The podcast stands out for its direct audience engagement, addressing listener questions and fostering a supportive community.

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4. Ellecia Paine
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