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Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40

Shana James
Relationships
Intimacy
Vulnerability
Communication
Love
Andropause
Dating
Emotional Intelligence
Mental Health
Long-Term Relationships
Menopause
Personal Growth
Love and Relationships
Sexual Health
Men's Mental Health
Men's Health
Marriage
Attachment Theory
Emotional Regulation
Divorce

Love between humans is not easy, and most of us never had great examples or education about emotions, communication, sex, or what keeps love alive. When you add the challenges of aging to the mix, love becomes even more complicated. Many people end up settling, or giving up on what they want most. But you don't have to! Dating and relationships become easier when you hear people share vulnerably a... more

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Artwork for Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40

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Many people enter dating determined to avoid conflict. They smile through uncomfortable conversations, overlook comments that don't sit right, or convince themselves they're being "easygoing." Especially for those dating after 40 or dating after divo... more

What happens when the person you love feels more like a roommate than a romantic partner? A dead bedroom isn't just about sex.

For many people, it feels like rejection, loneliness, and the slow loss of emotional connection. It can leave partners wo... more

If you've ever left a date replaying every moment in your head, analyzing every text message, or wondering whether you said the wrong thing, you're not alone. For many people, especially those dating after 40 or dating after divorce, first dates aren... more

What does it take to create a relationship that survives life's challenges and?

My guest, Geoff Laughton, has been married for 44 years. He and his wife have been through experiences that would have ended many relationships, but their marriage has ... more

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Ralph Brewer
Speaker, author, founder of the Help for Men Community and Brotherhood
Help for Men
Episode: #58: The Dead Bedroom Fix: Why Intimacy Dies and How to Bring It Back
Geoff Laughton
Relationship coach and men's coach
Your Relationship Architect (and related coaching ventures)
Episode: #56: How to Create a Conflict-Proof Relationship
Susan Bratton
Intimacy expert to millions; trusted sex advisor
Better Lover / Steamy Sex Ed
Episode: #55: What Women Wish Men Knew About Sex, Desire, and Connection
Brannon Patrick
Therapist, co-host of Therapy Brothers; specializes in betrayal and relationships
Therapy Brothers (brothers' therapy practice)
Episode: #52: The Truth About Betrayal: Why It Happens and How Couples Heal
Tyler Patrick
Therapist, co-host of Therapy Brothers; specializes in addiction and infidelity
Therapy Brothers
Episode: #52: The Truth About Betrayal: Why It Happens and How Couples Heal
Ben Saltzman
Co-founder of the Saltzman approach, Seminar Leader
Saltzman Approach
Episode: #50: How to Keep Love Alive: Real Practices for Conscious, Lasting Partnership
Kerena Saltzman
Gestalt Therapist, Co-founder of the Saltzman approach
Saltzman Approach
Episode: #50: How to Keep Love Alive: Real Practices for Conscious, Lasting Partnership
Eric Fitz Medrud
Psychologist; author of Better Man, A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships and Hotter Sex
Clinical Psychologist
Episode: #49: What to Do When Your Partner Doesn't Meet Your Expectations
Renée Blodgett
Modern mystic, spiritual teacher, author of Magdalene's Journey, TED speaker coach
Bluesoul Earth / Bluesoul Media / Magdalene's Journey
Episode: #48: Where Science and Spirituality Meet in Love and Relationship

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Shana James
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5.0 out of 5 stars from 10 ratings
  • Wow Awesome!

    I so enjoyed this episode because its REAL! I loved knowing there are Men that can be in healthy communication & relationship! My favorite part were the applicable questions and tips to ask your partner in a Weekly Check-In-What a great concept and practice! I’m so excited to hear and lean more to help us take our Marriage to the next level of Love! Shana many thanks for doing this much needed Podcast!

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    Late Blooming
    United States2 years ago
  • Must listen!!!

    I’ve been following Shana’s work for a couple years now and this is definitely her at her best! Insightful, and most importantly, applicable to daily life. I appreciate the honesty and vulnerability that she and her guests bring, and have used what I learned to make my life better. Looking forward to more episodes and how they can help me continue to grow on my journey.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Marchoppi
    United States2 years ago

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Genuine, actionable relationship guidance from a trusted host and guest mix.
Episodes balance vulnerability with practical steps you can apply weekly.
Strong focus on self-worth and boundaries resonates with midlife listeners.

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#58: The Dead Bedroom Fix: Why Intimacy Dies and How to Bring It Back
Q: What role does personal health and presence play in rekindling desire?
Physical health supports confidence and energy, but sustained intimacy comes from inner work—knowing your values, reducing shame, and showing up consistently for your partner with presence and care.
#58: The Dead Bedroom Fix: Why Intimacy Dies and How to Bring It Back
Q: Where do you start when addressing the Dead Bedroom and rebuilding intimacy?
Begin by identifying who you are talking to and addressing attachment styles; work on becoming a secure, honest, and boundary-friendly person, then gradually rebuild trust and open communication with your partner.
#56: How to Create a Conflict-Proof Relationship
Q: Can you tell us a little bit of a background of how you became a relationship coach, men's coach?
Geoff describes a pivot from a corporate career into psychotherapy-adjacent work, with early experiences coaching clients and a transformative intensive with a couple that demonstrated the impact of structured relationship work.
#48: Where Science and Spirituality Meet in Love and Relationship
Q: So give us a little background on how you started exploring awareness and oneness and the teachings you work with?
Renée describes a journey from organized religion to a broader spiritual quest, incorporating modern mysticism, feminine energies, and academic influences, bridging science and spirituality.
#48: Where Science and Spirituality Meet in Love and Relationship
Q: Can I ask you how this has affected your love life since we're talking about the topic of love?
Renée emphasizes the ongoing evolution of romantic life, describing shifts toward sacred relationship and vulnerability as essential for deepening connection.

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This show centers on love, relationships, and intimacy for people over 40, with a strong emphasis on vulnerability, self-work, boundaries, and practical tools to improve connection. Episodes frequently feature therapists, coaches, and authors who share actionable strategies for communicating, managing finances in relationships, navigating midlife transitions, and rekindling desire. A notable strength is the blend of psychological insights with real-world relationship guidance, often framed around personal growth and self-worth. Listeners can expect candid conversations, evidence-informed concepts, and strategies they can apply with partners or in dating, making it helpful for those seeking deeper connection or healthier dynamics in love and... more

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