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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Melanie Curtin
Relationships
Personal Growth
Intimacy
Mental Health
Masculinity
Vulnerability
Polarity
Communication
Borderline Personality Disorder
Community Support
Dating
Emotional Intelligence
Relationship Dynamics
Emotional Safety
Boundaries
Emotional Regulation
Emotional Support
Nice Guy Syndrome
Parenting
Community Living

Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't ... more

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Artwork for Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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... and here she shares the top 5 things men ask the d*ck doc. :)

[Content note: This episode includes a detailed description of male sexual assault. It starts around minute 8:50 and runs for ~5 minutes. Please take care of yourself while listening,... more

How do you deal with mismatched libidos? It's one of the biggest issues couples face.

Ever lie in bed next to someone you’re deeply attracted to ... and talk yourself out of reaching for her? In one man’s words: “We’re married, and I can’t even touc... more

Ever feel like sex is less of a good time and more of a test you can’t afford to fail?

In the words of one man from my sex research: “I’m afraid of giving a bad performance and not being invited back.”

After coaching men for over a decade, I can te... more

Ever lie there afterward wondering what she’s really thinking? The romantic night is all set up -- the hotel, the champagne, the view -- and your d*ck doesn’t cooperate. Or it’s over in three minutes. Again.

Here, we back the curtain on what it’s ac... more

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Recent Guests

Scott Kaltenbaugh
Relationship and sexuality educator who discusses his experiences with sexual performance anxiety
Episode: 436: How do you get out of your head around sex? (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
Luke Adler
Men's coach and doctor of acupuncture and Chinese medicine
Episode: 434: Your erection is about more than just blood flow - this is a critical missing element (ft. Dr. Luke Adler) [replay]
Jana Danielson
Pelvic floor specialist and educator
Episode: 433: Premature, delayed, or can't get it up? This 1 muscle is your secret weapon (ft. Jana Danielson)
Karen Bigman
Podcaster and sex educator
Taboo to Truth, Life and Sex After 50
Episode: 429: Mid-life men: 3 categories of sex toys that'll rock your world! (ft. Karen Bigman)
Timour Kosters
Co-founder of Edge City
Edge City
Episode: 428: Is a popup village the perfect place to find your person (or deepen with your beloved)?' (ft. Timour Kosters)
Violet Lange
Sex educator and coach focusing on trauma-informed approaches to dating, relationships, and sexuality
Self-employed / Violet Lange Coaching
Episode: 427: All the single ladies: the top 3 dating challenges for women! (ft. Violet Lange)
Freya Graf
Sex educator and yoni mapping therapy specialist
Freya Graf Coaching / The Labia Lounge / The Man Cave
Episode: 426: She's crowd-sourcing the process of finding a boyfriend! (ft. Freya Graf)
Susan Bratton
Intimacy expert and founder of Drive Desire and Better Lover
Drive Desire / Better Lover
Episode: 425: How weird is sex gonna get in the age of AI? (ft. Susan Bratton)
Aaron Lee
Retreat attendee and participant in group work
Evolutionary.Men
Episode: 424: GuyTalk: 'This is where you get your master’s degree in men’s work.'

Hosts

Jason Lange
Co-host and relationship coach, frequent guest sharing expertise on polarity, presence, and embodied practice
Violet Lange
Co-host and guest, expert in trust, embodiment, and relationship dynamics

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 479 ratings
  • Worth every episode

    I started listening in February and made my way through all 426 episodes. This podcast has genuinely changed the way I approach myself, my relationships, and personal growth. The advice is practical, honest, and actually applicable to real life. If you’re a man who wants to grow, take ownership, and become a better version of yourself, Dear Men is absolutely worth your time.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChrisW_86
    United States3 months ago
  • misandry at its best

    “ he was so focused on getting hard and staying hard “ women telling men how to deal with their penis when they couldn’t possibly know what it’s like! misandry imagine a man trying tell women what to concentrate on!! give me a break

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Buffaloguy
    United States4 months ago
  • This is great

    So insightful and informative. Has information I don’t get anywhere else.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    greg30577
    United States9 months ago
  • Trust me. This is the best and most insightful podcast out there about all facets of Men’s health.

    Tied for first with Evolutionary Men. Melanie and Jason rock.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DaddoDarcy
    Canadaa year ago
  • Powerful, practical and deeply respectful of men

    Melanie’s interviews or absolute gold – grounded, clear, and incredibly validating for the good men I work with who want real love and feel stuck. Whether you’re dating, healing, or just trying to understand yourself better as a man, this show delivers!

    As a dating coach, for midlife men, dear men is one of the few podcasts I trust enough to recommend to my clients. Melanie’s conversations are insightful, compassionate, and rooted and emotional intelligence.

    I’ve sent dozens of clients to this... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SizzleKutz
    Canadaa year ago

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Listeners praise practical, transformative dating and relationship guidance.
Guests and hosts are seen as credible authorities in masculine/feminine energy and healthy communication.
Many remark on the value of embodiment and presence in real-life interactions.

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Talking Points

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437: PeopleTalk: What happens when you want it more than your partner? (ft. Z and Trillium)
Q: If you had it to do again, what would you have said to your ex-husband, Zee? And what would you have said to your ex-wife, Trillium, if you were going to bring this up?
Z says she would try to stay grounded, ask about her partner's experience and work together on a solution. Trillium says he would want a therapist present to help create a safe conversation about sexual needs and shame.
437: PeopleTalk: What happens when you want it more than your partner? (ft. Z and Trillium)
Q: How do you navigate it when one member of a couple wants something more than the other?
The speakers recommend understanding and communicating each partner's experience, discussing needs in a safe setting, seeking appropriate support, and honestly assessing whether both partners want to work on the relationship.
436: How do you get out of your head around sex? (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
Q: How do you get out of your head during the act itself if that's something that's important to you?
Scott suggests using more than the penis, focusing on a partner's pleasure, allowing for successes that build confidence, and letting go of shame around consensual desires and fantasies.
436: How do you get out of your head around sex? (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
Q: What does it feel like for you when you're in your head around sex, or has felt like for you in the past?
Scott describes pressure to do things the right way, from asking someone out to making sex pleasurable, and fear of messing up or failing to meet expectations.
434: Your erection is about more than just blood flow - this is a critical missing element (ft. Dr. Luke Adler) [replay]
Q: Can you tell me a little bit about your personal experience of this journey?
Adler recounts developing exhaustion and post-orgasmic illness symptoms amid work and financial pressure. He says shadow work, men's-group support, rest, and allowing himself to receive care accompanied gradual improvement in his symptoms and relationship with sex.

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A show focused on dating, relationships, and male self-improvement through a blend of practical coaching, embodiment work, and candid conversations. Episodes frequently explore polarity, presence, and healthy leadership within relationships, often featuring coaches, clinicians, and thought leaders who discuss real-world strategies for attraction, communication, and emotional safety. Notable threads include how to navigate modern dating, how hormones and biology shape intimacy, and how group and mentorship dynamics accelerate personal growth. The format often pairs actionable tips with personal stories, making it both practical for listeners aiming to improve themselves and insightful for partners seeking deeper connection. A standout elemen... more

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