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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Melanie Curtin
Relationships
Polarity
Masculinity
Dating Apps
Nice Guy Syndrome
Intimacy
Vulnerability
Healthy Masculinity
Community Support
Sexual Attraction
Consent Education
Emotional Awareness
Personal Growth
Emotional Intelligence
Trust
Psychological Patterns
Personal Development
Women’s Experiences In Relationships
Empathy
Toxic Masculinity

Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't ... more

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Artwork for Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

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Recent Guests

Dr. Luke Adler
Practitioner blending traditional Chinese medicine with breathwork and meditation
Independent practitioner / Breathwork advocate
Episode: 406: How do you strengthen your masculine energy? (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)
Luke Adler
Doctor of Chinese medicine and a breathwork facilitator
Self-described breathwork practitioner
Episode: 404: Do you need to let go? (ft. Luke Adler)
Amy Gahran
Author of Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator, research-based guide to relationship options
Author/Researcher
Episode: 403: Do you really want to take the next step in your relationship -- or is it just what's expected? (ft. Amy Gahran)
Rhaina Cohen
Author of "The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life With Friendship at the Center"
Episode: 391: 'What Relationships Would You Want, if You Believed They Were Possible?' [The Ezra Klein Show]
Bob Werner
Foreskin restoration expert, researcher, and one of the moderators of the Reddit forum on foreskin restoration.
Reddit forum on foreskin restoration
Episode: 390: What is foreskin restoration? (ft. Bob Werner)
Michael Smith
Intactivist and educator focused on circumcision education
Episode: 384: What's the impact of circumcision on a man? (ft. Michael Smith, Intactivist Educator)
Sam Mandel
Co-founder and CEO of Ketamine Clinics Los Angeles
Ketamine Clinics Los Angeles
Episode: 379: Can ketamine really treat depression (and PTSD and ADHD)? (ft. Sam Mandel)
Meghan Blake
CEO and founder of Good Kitty Co, a sexual wellness company.
Good Kitty Co
Episode: 376: UTIs are a gargantuan sex problem. Here’s a concrete way you can help! (ft. Meghan Blake of Good Kitty)
Setareh Vatan
Therapist and expert on complex PTSD
Episode: 364: What exactly is complex PTSD, and how do you know if you have it? (ft. Setareh Vatan)

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Melanie Kurtin
Co-host and advisor; leads conversations on dating, relationships, and personal growth with a direct coaching style.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 461 ratings
  • This is great

    So insightful and informative. Has information I don’t get anywhere else.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    greg30577
    United States3 months ago
  • Trust me. This is the best and most insightful podcast out there about all facets of Men’s health.

    Tied for first with Evolutionary Men. Melanie and Jason rock.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DaddoDarcy
    Canada6 months ago
  • Powerful, practical and deeply respectful of men

    Melanie’s interviews or absolute gold – grounded, clear, and incredibly validating for the good men I work with who want real love and feel stuck. Whether you’re dating, healing, or just trying to understand yourself better as a man, this show delivers!

    As a dating coach, for midlife men, dear men is one of the few podcasts I trust enough to recommend to my clients. Melanie’s conversations are insightful, compassionate, and rooted and emotional intelligence.

    I’ve sent dozens of clients to this... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SizzleKutz
    Canadaa year ago
  • Dear Men, these are great learning opportunities

    I have listened to Dear Men, Melanie’s podcast, for several years. This podcast has reminded me of many important lessons and I’ve learned from this show and her work, enriching my personal life and personal relationships meaningfully and for the better.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    GreenRavenPhotography
    Canadaa year ago
  • Awesome

    This is the best podcast I have ever found for dating and relationships. My favorite co-host is Jason but I’ve listened to nearly every episode and none of them disappoint!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rod Lighttning
    United Statesa year ago

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Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Positive feedback on coaching quality and guest diversity.
Engaging and practical relationship guidance from a trusted host pair.
Listeners praise the show's vulnerability and actionable steps for men.

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398: 'No other decision has impacted my day-to-day happiness more than this.' (ft. Kubir)
Q: What kind of advice would you give to other people that are interested in this kind of thing, but they're not maybe sure?
Check your assumptions at the door. The reasons for and against communal living may not align with your preconceptions.
382: Erectile dysfunction isn't about what you think. (PART I) (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)
Q: How does fear impact men's health and sexual function?
Fear can cause physical tension and emotional distress, leading to issues like erectile dysfunction by interrupting the flow of energy and blood to the reproductive areas.
382: Erectile dysfunction isn't about what you think. (PART I) (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)
Q: What is the cause of erectile dysfunction from a traditional Chinese medicine perspective?
Erectile dysfunction can stem from multiple factors, with fear being a significant emotional driver that affects physiological functions.
380: What exactly IS polarity? (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
Q: Can you talk a little bit about what happens when a woman is in her feminine and a man is in his masculine?
When a woman is in her feminine, it can feel really nice to be with a man who's in his masculine because there's a strong attraction and a strong pull.
380: What exactly IS polarity? (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
Q: Can you just kind of define for us, what does it mean for a person of either gender to be in her masculine or to be in her feminine?
When a woman is deeply in her feminine, there's a state of flow and ease and surrender and pleasure, and really being in the five senses.

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A practical, relationship-focused show that helps men improve dating, sex, and partnerships through expert interviews, personal stories, and actionable frameworks. Topics span relationship design, masculine presence, boundaries, intimacy, and community support, with recurring emphasis on personal growth, emotional literacy, and taking ownership of one's dating and relational life. Notable strengths include accessible, real-world guidance, diverse guest perspectives on nontraditional relationship paths, and a strong emphasis on accountability and self-improvement for men. The format often blends coaching, firsthand experiences, and strategic negotiation, making it useful for listeners seeking tangible steps to healthier relationships and gre... more

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