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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Melanie Curtin
Relationships
Personal Growth
Intimacy
Mental Health
Masculinity
Vulnerability
Polarity
Communication
Borderline Personality Disorder
Community Support
Dating
Emotional Intelligence
Relationship Dynamics
Boundaries
Emotional Regulation
Emotional Support
Nice Guy Syndrome
Emotional Safety
Parenting
Community Living

Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't ... more

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Artwork for Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Latest Episodes

Ever lie there afterward wondering what she’s really thinking? The romantic night is all set up -- the hotel, the champagne, the view -- and your d*ck doesn’t cooperate. Or it’s over in three minutes. Again.

Here, we back the curtain on what it’s ac... more

First some stats on premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile dysfunction:

• Close to 33% of men don’t respond to Viagra or Cialis, and a full 50% of men who start on them quit within a year or less of use

• Premature ejaculation (PE)... more

Ever feel like your body has stopped cooperating in the one place you most need it to? Or it's totally hit-or-miss -- in one man's words: "I never knew whether I was going to ejaculate at all. I had no control over it."

Erectile dysfunction (ED), pr... more

“I know I’m a good guy - I’m kind and compassionate and caring … so why don't girls want me??”

This was one of Scott's main concerns in middle and high school. It felt like it was happening for everyone around him, but not him.

Fast forward a few d... more

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Recent Guests

Jana Danielson
Pelvic floor specialist and educator
Episode: 433: Premature, delayed, or can't get it up? This 1 muscle is your secret weapon (ft. Jana Danielson)
Scott Kaltenbaugh
Men's work professional; guest on the episode discussing overcoming being overlooked by women and masculine energy balance.
The Man She Craves / Evolutionary Men
Episode: 432: Have you ever felt overlooked by women? (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
Karen Bigman
Podcaster and sex educator
Taboo to Truth, Life and Sex After 50
Episode: 429: Mid-life men: 3 categories of sex toys that'll rock your world! (ft. Karen Bigman)
Timour Kosters
Co-founder of Edge City
Edge City
Episode: 428: Is a popup village the perfect place to find your person (or deepen with your beloved)?' (ft. Timour Kosters)
Violet Lange
Sex educator and coach focusing on trauma-informed approaches to dating, relationships, and sexuality
Self-employed / Violet Lange Coaching
Episode: 427: All the single ladies: the top 3 dating challenges for women! (ft. Violet Lange)
Freya Graf
Sex educator and yoni mapping therapy specialist
Freya Graf Coaching / The Labia Lounge / The Man Cave
Episode: 426: She's crowd-sourcing the process of finding a boyfriend! (ft. Freya Graf)
Susan Bratton
Intimacy expert and founder of Drive Desire and Better Lover
Drive Desire / Better Lover
Episode: 425: How weird is sex gonna get in the age of AI? (ft. Susan Bratton)
Aaron Lee
Retreat attendee and participant in group work
Evolutionary.Men
Episode: 424: GuyTalk: 'This is where you get your master’s degree in men’s work.'
Jason Lange
Relationship coach focusing on men
Self-described relationship coach
Episode: 423: Not having the sex you want in your relationship? Reverse polarity could be involved. (ft. Jason & Violet Lange) [replay]

Hosts

Jason Lange
Co-host and relationship coach, frequent guest sharing expertise on polarity, presence, and embodied practice
Violet Lange
Co-host and guest, expert in trust, embodiment, and relationship dynamics

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 475 ratings
  • Worth every episode

    I started listening in February and made my way through all 426 episodes. This podcast has genuinely changed the way I approach myself, my relationships, and personal growth. The advice is practical, honest, and actually applicable to real life. If you’re a man who wants to grow, take ownership, and become a better version of yourself, Dear Men is absolutely worth your time.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChrisW_86
    United States2 months ago
  • misandry at its best

    “ he was so focused on getting hard and staying hard “ women telling men how to deal with their penis when they couldn’t possibly know what it’s like! misandry imagine a man trying tell women what to concentrate on!! give me a break

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Buffaloguy
    United States3 months ago
  • This is great

    So insightful and informative. Has information I don’t get anywhere else.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    greg30577
    United States9 months ago
  • Trust me. This is the best and most insightful podcast out there about all facets of Men’s health.

    Tied for first with Evolutionary Men. Melanie and Jason rock.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DaddoDarcy
    Canadaa year ago
  • Powerful, practical and deeply respectful of men

    Melanie’s interviews or absolute gold – grounded, clear, and incredibly validating for the good men I work with who want real love and feel stuck. Whether you’re dating, healing, or just trying to understand yourself better as a man, this show delivers!

    As a dating coach, for midlife men, dear men is one of the few podcasts I trust enough to recommend to my clients. Melanie’s conversations are insightful, compassionate, and rooted and emotional intelligence.

    I’ve sent dozens of clients to this... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SizzleKutz
    Canadaa year ago

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Listeners praise practical, transformative dating and relationship guidance.
Guests and hosts are seen as credible authorities in masculine/feminine energy and healthy communication.
Many remark on the value of embodiment and presence in real-life interactions.

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433: Premature, delayed, or can't get it up? This 1 muscle is your secret weapon (ft. Jana Danielson)
Q: Why are Kegels not always the solution for a hypertonic pelvic floor?
Kegels can worsen a tight pelvic floor; the emphasis should be on relaxation and coordinated contraction-rest cycles, not just hardening the pelvic floor, with a broader approach including breath and postural work.
433: Premature, delayed, or can't get it up? This 1 muscle is your secret weapon (ft. Jana Danielson)
Q: What makes sexual health a bellwether for overall health?
The guest explains that when sexual function is thriving, it reflects systemic health, including circulation, hormones, and nerve function, and that addressing root causes like breathing and pelvic floor mechanics improves both sexual function and general well-being.
428: Is a popup village the perfect place to find your person (or deepen with your beloved)?' (ft. Timour Kosters)
Q: Can you share a few moments or talks that stood out during Edge City events?
Moments range from stargazing in the Andes during a residency-themed evening, to singing circles in a consciousness house, to spontaneous beach trips and cargo of collaborative workshops—these experiences illustrate how Edge City blends learning, social life, and meaningful togetherness.
428: Is a popup village the perfect place to find your person (or deepen with your beloved)?' (ft. Timour Kosters)
Q: One of the questions I had was, how do you feel like the dating dynamics at Pop-Up Villages differ from the real world?
Dating at Edge City tends to be more contextual and emergent because people meet in multiple settings over a month, which provides better signals about compatibility; there's less pressure of one-on-one encounters and more opportunities to observe different sides of someone.”
420: 'I know what I need to do ... I just don't do it.' (ft. Jason Lange)
Q: Can you explain how the pattern 'I know what I need to do, I just don't do it' shows up in life and with clients?
The line marks the gap between awareness and embodiment. Real change happens when awareness translates into embodied action through group support, state training, and repeated practice, rather than relying on talk therapy alone.

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A show focused on dating, relationships, and male self-improvement through a blend of practical coaching, embodiment work, and candid conversations. Episodes frequently explore polarity, presence, and healthy leadership within relationships, often featuring coaches, clinicians, and thought leaders who discuss real-world strategies for attraction, communication, and emotional safety. Notable threads include how to navigate modern dating, how hormones and biology shape intimacy, and how group and mentorship dynamics accelerate personal growth. The format often pairs actionable tips with personal stories, making it both practical for listeners aiming to improve themselves and insightful for partners seeking deeper connection. A standout elemen... more

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