
We're Behk & LAH /ehl-uh/ and we are your hosts of the podcast, Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! We have casual conversations with brave people about their past toxic relationships with a funny, light-heartedness that might have you crying but hopefully, some laughing too.
Our mission is to shed light on toxic relationships, providing a source of comfort, knowledge, and guidance for ... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 111 | Founded | 2 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsPersonal JournalsSociety & Culture | |||

🎃 The pumpkins are out, the candles are lit, and your favorite duo is back with our annual Cozycore Autumn episode!🕯️🍂
In this year’s cozy, heartwarming (and slightly spooky) special, Behk and LAH are slowing things down to celebrate all things c... more
While we’re brewing up something cozy and spooky for next week’s Halloween special, we’re bringing back last year’s fan-favorite Halloween Spectacular! Settle in with your pumpkin spice and enjoy this one from the vault…🎃
In this special spooky edi... more
In the final chapter of Emily’s story, we witness what it looks like to rebuild a life with intention, gentleness, and love. After surviving profound betrayal, Emily makes a brave move toward a fresh start — both physically and emotionally. With quie... more
In this next chapter of Emily’s journey, we pick up where Part One left off — delving into her second marriage and the dark, hidden betrayals she uncovered. What she thought would be a fresh start spirals into a nightmare when she learns her husband ... more
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I recently found this podcast and I throughly enjoy the hosts interaction with their guests.
Sensitive but also light hearted where appropriate. Keep the episodes coming!
This podcast should be mandatory listening for anyone navigating relationships. This podcast covers the gambit from holding narcissists accountable for their behaviors, understanding those behaviors and where they spawn from and what to expect, to finding the resources and strength to break free while knowing you are not alone!!! So many incredible stories shared, so many tales of courage and triumph. Thank you Behk and Lah for the public service you are doing here for everyone!!!
I absolutely love this podcast! The hosts are empathetic but also appropriately funny. I love how they provide insightful commentary that I have learned a lot from.
What an absolutely insane way to live your life. Would be sad if it wasn't also vile. Sounds like finding information on your ex is a lot of time and effort to pour into someone who's been living an entire life beyond you for years and years now, and also like a great way to broadcast your inability to move forward with your own life.
I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts about similar topics. This one does a great job for a lot of reasons. The hosts are sensitive of course, but when there is an appropriate moment to joke and laugh they do, which is refreshing - as one who can relate to a lot of the guests I also know that after time perspective can give us the healthy humor when we reflect on these situations. Great job!
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This series focuses on real-life stories and courageous discussions about navigating toxic relationships, blending humor with heartfelt insights. Throughout its episodes, it features personal accounts of listeners and guests who share their experiences with narcissism, emotional manipulation, and the varied forms of abuse they have encountered. The conversations aim to provide validation, encouragement, and information for those experiencing similar challenges, elucidating the complexities of healing and personal growth amidst adversity. Unique in its approach, the hosts foster a supportive and relatable environment where difficult topics are addressed with both gravity and levity, making it a comforting resource for listeners seeking under... more
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1. Bryan Power
2. Veronika Goodnight
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4. Jen Peters
5. Kim Davis
6. Charlotte Rivers
7. Steven Talbot
8. Bre Wolta
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