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First Dates & Soulmates: A Romance Podcast

Meg Casebolt & Nikki McKnight
Bridgerton
Heated Rivalry
Hockey
Friends To Lovers
Romance
Vampires
Second Chance Romance
Relationship Dynamics
Making Spirits Bright
First Dates & Soulmates
MM Romance
Himbo
Two Wrongs Don't Make a Playwright
Reality TV
Space Romance
Buffalo Bills
Queer Historical Romance
Asexuality
Always Be My Maybe
Sentient Object Romance

First Dates & Soulmates is a romance podcast where craft meets culture, hosted by romance author Meg Casebolt and pop culture devotee Nikki McKnight. Expect trope frameworks, feminist film critiques, author interviews, and sometimes ridiculous readalongs.

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Latest Episodes

Somewhere between You’ve Got Mail and a phone plan you forgot to cancel, a whole subgenre of rom-coms decided that the sexiest thing you can do is fall for someone’s grief-texts before you know their face, their name, or the fact that you have no bus... more

The Grump isn’t just the villain and the Sunshine isn’t just a naive ingenue.

Nikki and Meg finally tackle the grumpy sunshine archetype after 115 episodes of somehow avoiding it, breaking down why it works, where it curdles into “just an asshole,” ... more

The 1970s gave us Star Wars, Watergate, the sexual revolution, and what critics apparently decided to call romantic comedies.

Nikki and Meg are back with the next chapter of Rom-Coms Through the Ages, and this week’s entries are Grease (1978) and An... more

If you’re into your 100th reheat of Heated Rivalry and you’re looking for your next favourite, Nikki and Meg have you.

This week they’re breaking down what actually makes the Game Changers series work and the emotional formula underneath the fandom.... more

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Recent Guests

Joanna Lowell
Queer historical romance writer
Self-published/Big Five experience; pen name Joanna Lowell
Episode: Historically Extraordinary: Joanna Lowell on Queer & Trans Victorians, Bohemian Spaces, and the Duke Problem
Jessica Topper
Romance author featured as a guest in year two
Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Dr. Fandom
Guest referenced as a contributor in year two
Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Katie Freund
Guest referenced as a year-two participant
Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Olivia Carter
Pen name for Andrea Jones, guest in year two
Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Matt Wardell
Guest in year two
Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Emmy Wardell
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Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Nora Pritchard
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Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins
Sarah Ferrandina
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Episode: We’re Ranking for “Heated Rivalry Cu*k Chair” and Other Second Year Wins

Hosts

Meg Casebolt
Co-host of First Dates & Soulmates, guiding interview topics and episode structure.
Nikki McKnight
Host of the show, co-hosting and guiding craft and industry discussions.

Reviews

4.3 out of 5 stars from 18 ratings
  • Such intelligent discussion

    I found you through the Always be my Maybe episode and am really enjoying your discussions of tropes and your chemistry together. Very entertaining!

    Apple Podcasts
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    emma33
    Australia5 months ago

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Fans enjoy the behind-the-scenes industry insights and guest diversity.
Positive notes on entertaining yet thoughtful approach to romance culture.
Many appreciate practical takeaways for writers and publishers.
Listeners praise the nuanced trope analysis and chemistry between hosts.

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67 | Inside Eden Finley’s Shared Hockey Romance Universe (From Fake Boyfriends to Puckboys)
Q: How old is Damon, really?
They acknowledge age as a flexible element and acknowledge a preference among authors to avoid strict math, with Eden noting that ages are debated but not central to enjoying the stories; fans sometimes push for a precise answer, which she avoids to preserve flexibility.
67 | Inside Eden Finley’s Shared Hockey Romance Universe (From Fake Boyfriends to Puckboys)
Q: Question, what is the silliest reason you've ever scrapped a storyline?
Eden explains that in the original Fake Boyfriend series, a pairing between Jett and Oli didn't have the sexual tension needed, so she scrapped it and pivoted to focus on growth that could lead to a stronger connection later in the series.
Romance Novellas, Word Counts, and Killing Your Darlings (feat. Author AJ Claremont)
Q: What's the expectation of the reader when you reach for a novella instead of a novel?
Readers want a complete, compact arc with meet-cute, tension, and a satisfying ending delivered faster, often with higher tempo and less subplots, serving as a teaser or a quick immersion into a world or couple.
Historically Extraordinary: Joanna Lowell on Queer & Trans Victorians, Bohemian Spaces, and the Duke Problem
Q: How do you handle pronouns and gender in historical settings?
She discusses using modern language where necessary to help readers understand, while also showing historical flexibility with pronouns, like using they/them for a non-binary character in a Regency context to reflect both authenticity and reader accessibility.
Historically Extraordinary: Joanna Lowell on Queer & Trans Victorians, Bohemian Spaces, and the Duke Problem
Q: What inspired you to shift toward queer historical romance?
The author describes growing up with little queer representation in historical romance, rediscovering interest during grad school, and deciding to bring together political and social themes with romance by centering queer characters and collaborations.

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