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Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love

Ashley Jameson, Heather Kolb, Pure Desire Ministries
Betrayal Trauma
Sexual Addiction
Pure Desire
Sexual Health
Pornography
Addiction
Recovery
Counseling
Parenting
Marriage
Relationships
Support Groups
Divorce
Communication
Pornography Addiction
Addiction Recovery
Emotional Health
Infidelity
Healing
Betrayal and Beyond

Since 2016, Ashley Jameson and Heather Kolb have supported, educated, and equipped women to experience sexual health, healing from betrayal trauma, and success in relationships. We know what it’s like to be in crisis—searching for answers—and continually hearing the churchy answer. Each week, you’ll hear real talk about sex and relationships from a biblical and clinical perspective.

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

In this episode, we answer the following questions:

- I’m six months into my husband’s second attempt at recovery, and I’m afraid he may be sober without tru... more

Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

In this episode, we answer the following questions:

- As a woman who struggles, I carry so much shame about it. Sometimes I wonder if this behavior says some... more

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

In this episode, we answer the following questions:

- Since in recovery, I see some changes in my husband, but I still experience defensiveness, blame-shifti... more

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.

On today’s episode, we answer the following questions:

• I’m struggling to trust that my husband is being honest about relapses, especially when I don’t alwa... more

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Recent Guests

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Educator and expert in integrating psychology and spirituality for trauma and addiction
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Cyndi Gillingham
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Andrea Rogers
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Hosts

Ashley Jameson
Host of Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love with a clinical and faith-informed perspective.
Heather Kolb
Co-host bringing clinical and biblical perspectives on sex, love, and betrayal recovery.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 77 ratings
  • Honest, Compassionate, and Helpful

    Ashley and Heather make a great team. I love their courage to tackle subjects others would shy away from. Their episodes are the perfect combination of honesty, compassion, and helpful advice. This podcast is a must-listen for anyone navigating betrayal trauma!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BeautyintheBrokenness
    United States7 months ago
  • Highly reccomend

    This is a fantastic podcast that discusses the issues we all are thinking about and want to talk about. I highly recommend sharing this with the women in your life.

    One thought is to maybe make the transitions to advertising a little smoother. When you’re talking about sensitive topics and then a man comes on discussing the summit or other great information it feels a little abrupt and unsettling.

    Thanks for tackling these very important issues!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Janelljoy75
    United States2 years ago
  • Short, Sweet, & powerful

    I’m so thankful for these ladies. What they have done in this ministry has brought life to my life!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Knlabcr5
    United States2 years ago
  • Insightful

    Great answers to the questions. I love how you both have different knowledge on the question and feed off each other in a fun way.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rilloc
    United States2 years ago

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Listeners appreciate practical guidance for betrayal trauma and healing in relationships.
A few note transitions to sponsor content could be smoother but praise the depth of conversations.
Honest, compassionate, and helpful—hosts tackle difficult topics with courage and care.

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121 - Realistic Expectations for Sex Addiction Recovery
Q: Just as I was beginning to heal, I discovered my husband has had sexual fantasies involving my sisters and close friends. Is this common in addiction and how do I recover from such a personal betrayal?
That level of personal betrayal signals a deeper hurt requiring specialized betrayal-trauma counseling; it's important to protect oneself, seek professional support, and work toward rebuilding trust and safety while acknowledging the unique hurt involved.
121 - Realistic Expectations for Sex Addiction Recovery
Q: Our second question says, I see my husband making meaningful recovery changes, but I'm concerned he still views sex, his biological need, as a solution to his addiction. How do we understand healthy sexuality, intimacy and responsibility without placing his recovery on me?
Healthy sexuality should be mutual and collaborative, with both partners feeling loved and cared for; couples should work on establishing shared intimacy, clear communication, and boundaries so that recovery isn't positioned as the partner's sole responsibility.
121 - Realistic Expectations for Sex Addiction Recovery
Q: So first question is, since in recovery, I see some changes in my husband, but I still experience defensiveness, blame shifting, and lack of empathy. Can true recovery happen without accountability, emotional safety, and genuine empathy?
True recovery requires accountability, emotional safety, and genuine empathy; sobriety alone isn't enough, and without ownership of harm and emotional connection, healing for the relationship is unlikely.
120 - The Painful Process of Rebuilding Trust
Q: How can trust be rebuilt and when is it healthy to reintroduce sexual intimacy into a marriage?
Trust rebuilding often starts with a temporary period of abstinence to reduce pressure, followed by honest, bounded disclosure and consistent, empathetic actions from the partner in recovery; intimacy should be reintroduced only when both partners feel safe and the betrayed partner has observed meaningful, ongoing change.
117 - The Disturbing Reality of Sexual Addiction
Q: What does healing look like after disclosure when trust feels shattered?
Healing involves ongoing work beyond initial disclosure, including betrayal and beyond resources, journaling feelings, naming underlying emotions, seeking counseling, and engaging in recovery groups to restore safety and connection over time.

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Two experienced hosts bring a blend of biblical insight and clinical perspective to sex, relationships, and betrayal recovery, with a steady emphasis on communication, boundaries, and safe emotional grounding. Episodes frequently tackle topics like porn use, healing from betrayal trauma, healthy intimacy, and faith-informed approaches to recovery, often featuring practical frameworks, group support, and resources for individuals and couples navigating crisis. The show stands out for its empathetic, no-nonsense approach to difficult conversations, clear actionable guidance, and a consistent focus on safety, honesty, and gradual progress in healing and relationship repair.

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