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Pure Desire Podcast

Pure Desire Ministries
Recovery
Pornography
Betrayal Trauma
Mental Health
Sexual Addiction
Community Support
Christianity
Pure Desire
Trauma
Addiction
Parenting
Sexual Health
Marriage
Shame
Compulsive Sexual Behavior
Healing
Addiction Recovery
Counseling
Sexuality
Recovery Journey

Your biblically based and clinically informed approach to breaking free from compulsive sexual behavior and healing from betrayal.

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In today’s episode, we dive into one of the most tender and complex challenges couples face after betrayal: rebuilding trust that lasts. Even when sobriety is sustained and growth is evident, many spouses still feel the hidden fear that the “other sh... more

On today’s episode, Nate and Maggie Blaylock share their expertise in helping couples navigate recovery, with a special focus on rebuilding physical intimacy after betrayal. They discuss common mistakes couples make in this area and provide examples ... more

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Carol Jurgensen Sheets joins us again to explore the vital role of empathy in healing relationships affected by addiction or compulsive sexual behavior. She begins by defining empathy and explaining why it’s essenti... more

Dr. Janice Caudill joins us for her first podcast conversation to explore one of the most challenging aspects of recovery: disclosure. She begins by sharing her own background and approach, then walks listeners through what an ideal disclosure proces... more

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Recent Guests

Nate Blaylock
Life and recovery coach, co-owner of Known Counseling Services
Known Counseling Services
Episode: 463 - Rebuilding the Physical Relationship After Betrayal
Maggie Blaylock
CSAT, licensed professional therapist, co-owner of Known Counseling Services
Known Counseling Services
Episode: 463 - Rebuilding the Physical Relationship After Betrayal
Carol Jurgensen Sheets
LCSW, CSAT, CCPS/S, PCC; expert on empathy in couples recovery
Independent clinician and author; Irkum collaborator
Episode: 462 - Developing Empathy For My Spouse w/ Carol Jurgensen Sheets
Dr. Janice Caudill
Texas psychologist specializing in trauma therapy and recovery from sex addiction; author and educator on full disclosure
Intensive Recovery Healing; Intensive Recovery Coaching
Episode: 461 - Walking Through Truth, Honesty, and Disclosure In Your Marriage w/ Dr. Janice Caudill
Jason Martinkus
Co-hosted with Shelley; author and recovery coach
Pure Desire / RiforWomen.com / Redemptive Living
Episode: 460 - Navigating Triggers and Traumas After Year One w/ Jason and Shelley Martinkus
Shelley Martinkus
Co-hosted with Jason; author and recovery coach
Pure Desire / RiforWomen.com / Redemptive Living
Episode: 460 - Navigating Triggers and Traumas After Year One w/ Jason and Shelley Martinkus
Linda MacDonald
Licensed marriage and family therapist; author
Linda MacDonald, LMFT; author of Redeeming the Post Affair Divorce
Episode: 459 - Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce w/ Linda Macdonald
John Begum
Guest host joining the series
Episode: 458 - The Love Language That Matters Most w/ Dr. Gary Chapman
Dr. Gary Chapman
Author, speaker, pastor, counselor; known for The 5 Love Languages
Moody Radio Network (related), author of The Love Languages
Episode: 458 - The Love Language That Matters Most w/ Dr. Gary Chapman

Hosts

Nick Stumbo
Host of the podcast with a focus on faith-informed recovery and organizational leadership.
Rebecca Vandermeer
Co-host in this series, focused on couples recovery and practical guidance.
Heather Kolb
Co-host of the series, contributing to parenting and recovery discussions; author/teacher role.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Healing from betrayal

    This has really helped me in my journey of healing from betrayal trauma, along with my Betrayal and Beyond group and curriculum!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Anonymous Sloth 07
    United States4 months ago
  • Biblically based, Clinically Informed

    I love this podcast because over the years, I’ve learned I can trust the biblical foundation and, at the same time, get authentic, concrete help with my recovery journey.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    WholeImpact
    United States4 months ago
  • Always helpful

    This podcast has become my lifeline and most frequently shared with others. It is a tool my husband and I use for our ongoing health, and was absolutely critical in the most challenging days of our healing and recovery from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Thank you, pure, desire ministries!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    RK81!
    United States4 months ago
  • What an encouraging podcast! Useful tools with backing from clinical experience and biblical faith. Can't recommend this podcast enough.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    CalMumm2026
    4 months ago
  • Hope

    My life fell apart Nov 29th 2024. My wife discovered my addiction. We experienced a miscarriage. I found pure desire. My goal was to listen to all the podcasts within a year. I completed my goal in 11 months. I have completed 7 pillars and currently in compassionate warrior. My life has been transformed. Our marriage has been restored and we are expecting 2nd baby soon. Thank you Nick, Trever, Ashley,Heather and others for your wisdom and practical advice on the podcast. The podcast has been a s... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
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    United States6 months ago

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The show is often described as a lifeline for recovery and a trusted resource for couples navigating betrayal trauma.
Reviews frequently mention the program's impact on healing, relationships, and faith communities.
Audiences value honesty, real-life examples, and compassionate but candid discussion of tough topics.
Listeners praise the combination of scripture, clinical insight, and practical tools for recovery.
Episodes are noted for being actionable, with guests providing tangible strategies and frameworks for repair.

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459 - Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce w/ Linda Macdonald
Q: How can someone rebuild faith after betrayal?
Engaging honestly with God, acknowledging anger and disappointment, and seeking trauma-informed therapy while continuing to pursue integrity and accountable relationships helps restore a fierce but mature faith.
459 - Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce w/ Linda Macdonald
Q: What makes post-affair divorce grief more complex than a standard divorce?
It involves public stigma, intertwined finances and children, and a double hurt—both the betrayal and the dissolution of the marriage—creating a layered, ambivalent loss that is difficult to process.
457 - How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities w/ Dr. Andrew Bauman
Q: What are the three most critical green flags in a church community that supports healing?
A church that is willing to have tough conversations, uses trusted resources, helps people find their tribe (online or offline), and leaders who have done their own healing work to lead with integrity.
457 - How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities w/ Dr. Andrew Bauman
Q: Could you give us a quick overview of who you are and what you do?
Dr. Bauman describes leading the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, helping men outgrow destructive behaviors, addressing infidelity and abuse issues, and focusing on healing and healthy relationships within marriages.
458 - The Love Language That Matters Most w/ Dr. Gary Chapman
Q: How does the love language framework apply to personality differences, like introversion vs. extroversion?
Personality shapes how we express love and how we receive it; understanding dialects and timing—such as private vs. public affirmations—helps tailor expressions to the other person.

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What is Pure Desire Podcast about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show blends biblically anchored guidance with clinically informed strategies to help listeners break free from compulsive sexual behavior and heal betrayal. Episodes consistently center on recovery fundamentals—empathy, disclosure, triggers, and rebuilding intimacy—while featuring clinicians, CSATs, pastors, and recovery coaches who share practical tools, structured exercises, and faith-based perspectives. A notable strength is the consistent integration of professional expertise with real-world casework, including two-member clinical teams, marriage-focused conversations, and parenting strands, all aimed at sustaining long-term growth for individuals and couples within faith communities. This combination of therapy-informed methods and... more

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Recent guests on Pure Desire Podcast include:

1. Nate Blaylock
2. Maggie Blaylock
3. Carol Jurgensen Sheets
4. Dr. Janice Caudill
5. Jason Martinkus
6. Shelley Martinkus
7. Linda MacDonald
8. John Begum

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