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Pure Desire Podcast

Pure Desire Ministries
Recovery
Pornography
Betrayal Trauma
Mental Health
Sexual Addiction
Community Support
Pure Desire
Christianity
Trauma
Shame
Addiction
Parenting
Sexual Health
Marriage
Compulsive Sexual Behavior
Healing
Addiction Recovery
Counseling
Sexuality
Community

Your biblically based and clinically informed approach to breaking free from compulsive sexual behavior and healing from betrayal.

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Latest Episodes

Many couples long for deeper intimacy but struggle to talk openly about sex, desire, and connection. Avoided conversations can create distance, misunderstanding, and loneliness, even in marriages built on love and faith.

In this episode, Jeff and Sh... more

Many young adults wonder if their past struggles will prevent them from experiencing healthy, lasting relationships. Shame, secrecy, and fear of rejection can make honest conversations about sexuality feel impossible. In this episode, John and Haley ... more

Many couples enter marriage with love, faith, and commitment but still feel unprepared for the realities of sexual intimacy. Unrealistic expectations, cultural messages, and a lack of understanding can leave couples disconnected and unsure how to bui... more

Many people feel defeated when old patterns return, wondering why they keep struggling despite their desire to change. But relapse is not just a failure. It can reveal patterns that need to be understood and healed.

In this episode, Robert Vander Me... more

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Recent Guests

Robert Vander Meer
Counselor, clinician at Pure Desire; pastor and author
Pure Desire Ministries
Episode: 476 - Identifying The Pattern of Relapse
Curt Thompson
Psychiatrist and author of The Deepest Place, The Soul of Shame, and The Anatomy of the Soul
Curt Thompson, MD
Episode: 473 - The Soul of Shame w/ Dr. Curt Thompson
Dr. Kurt Thompson
Guest speaker slated for summit
Ph.D. in Psychiatry (as referenced)
Episode: 472 - Recovery Can’t Happen Alone | Summit Roundtable
Dr. Sean McDowell
Guest speaker slated for summit
Christian apologist and educator
Episode: 472 - Recovery Can’t Happen Alone | Summit Roundtable
Michelle Mays
Licensed professional counselor, speaker and leading expert in betrayal trauma and partner recovery
Center for Relational Recovery
Episode: 471 - Healing From The Betrayal Bind w/ Michelle Mays
Alan Hlavka
Pastor at Good Shepherd Community Church in Boring, Oregon; long-time contributor to Pure Desire content
Good Shepherd Community Church (Boring, OR)
Episode: 469 - How Spiritual Disciplines Can Porn-Proof Your Life
Sam Jolman
Author of The Sex Talk You Never Got; Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in men's issues, marriage counseling and sexual abuse recovery
Author, Counselor
Episode: 468 - Recognizing The Lies We Believe w/ Sam Jolman
Joshua Broome
Former adult film performer and advocate for healthy sexuality
Joshua Broome (personal)
Episode: 467 - What is Godly Sexuality? W/ Joshua Broome
Matthew Raabsmith
Relationship specialist, co-leader of the Raabsmith team, author of Building True Intimacy
Raabsmith Team
Episode: 465 - Developing Pain Tolerance w/ Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith

Hosts

Nick Stumbo
Host of Pure Desire Podcast; long-time facilitator of recovery-focused content
Ashley Jamieson
Co-host focusing on practical guidance and guest discussions

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Sexual idolatry vs idolatry of self

    Christians should approach this material with caution. While it whole heartedly rejects sexual idolatry, it validates and affirms a therapeutic syncretism with “my body-my choice” self idolatry. Using “trauma” language to justify unforgiveness, masking and blame-shifting sin as “triggers” and setting up a perpetual victim-offender dynamic. I hope the resources do actually help people stuck in compulsive sexual sin to find freedom, but from a marriage standpoint the control dynamic they are creat... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Tovarishrob
    United States4 months ago
  • Healing from betrayal

    This has really helped me in my journey of healing from betrayal trauma, along with my Betrayal and Beyond group and curriculum!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Anonymous Sloth 07
    United States7 months ago
  • Biblically based, Clinically Informed

    I love this podcast because over the years, I’ve learned I can trust the biblical foundation and, at the same time, get authentic, concrete help with my recovery journey.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    WholeImpact
    United States8 months ago
  • Always helpful

    This podcast has become my lifeline and most frequently shared with others. It is a tool my husband and I use for our ongoing health, and was absolutely critical in the most challenging days of our healing and recovery from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Thank you, pure, desire ministries!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    RK81!
    United States8 months ago
  • What an encouraging podcast! Useful tools with backing from clinical experience and biblical faith. Can't recommend this podcast enough.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    CalMumm2026
    8 months ago

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Guests are typically experts in therapy, pastoral care, or survivor experiences.
The format is actionable with practical tools for couples and individuals.
Listeners praise biblically grounded, clinically informed recovery guidance.

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472 - Recovery Can’t Happen Alone | Summit Roundtable
Q: Why attend the summit in person versus virtually?
Attending in person provides a stronger sense of community, real-time connection, and the energy of a large shared experience, while virtual access still offers breadth of content and the option to engage remotely or host group viewings.
471 - Healing From The Betrayal Bind w/ Michelle Mays
Q: Can focusing on betrayal recovery lead to spouses leaving their marriage?
Michelle explains that healing can empower individuals to make healthier choices, including the difficult option of ending an unsafe relationship, but the goal is to restore safety and hope whether that means rebuilding the marriage or pursuing healthier paths if needed.
466 - Building Emotional Stability & Resilience
Q: How do we know if this is an area of strength or growth for us?
Heather explains that emotional stability is the ability to stay calm and balanced under stress, and even when it's a strength, it should remain a growth area because we're inherently emotional beings with ongoing capacity to improve.
468 - Recognizing The Lies We Believe w/ Sam Jolman
Q: What is the role of arousal in this framework, and how should one respond to it in a healthy way?
Arousal should be seen as a natural response to things that matter; bless and understand it, then steward it wisely rather than immediately labeling it as lust.
468 - Recognizing The Lies We Believe w/ Sam Jolman
Q: Sam, why is it important to engage our own story of sexual formation rather than just focusing on behaving differently?
Because understanding the deeper stories and the shame that shape our sexuality empowers us to address root causes, not just symptoms, leading to lasting freedom.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Pure Desire Podcast

What is Pure Desire Podcast about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A biblically grounded, clinically informed show exploring recovery from compulsive sexual behavior and betrayal trauma. Episodes blend scripture, neuroscience, and practical tools, covering topics like denial, disclosure, trust rebuilding, and emotional regulation within relationships. Guests range from clinicians and pastors to survivors and authors, often focusing on couples recovery, shame resilience, and faith-centric approaches to healing. A notable strength is the integration of faith with evidence-based strategies, plus regular coverage of training resources, live summits, and actionable steps for long-term transformation.

Listeners are likely seeking concrete guidance for recovery, relationship restoration, and spiritual growth, of... more

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1. Robert Vander Meer
2. Curt Thompson
3. Dr. Kurt Thompson
4. Dr. Sean McDowell
5. Michelle Mays
6. Alan Hlavka
7. Sam Jolman
8. Joshua Broome

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