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Don't Chase Me : Sex, Love, and Life Beyond the Fairytale

Dave & Andi
Relationships
Mental Health
Onlyfans
Anxiety
Imposter Syndrome
Nashville
Sexuality
Social Anxiety
Massage
Swinger Lifestyle
Social Media
Grief
Childhood Trauma
Sexual Health
Attraction
Trauma
Communication
Rizma
Family Dynamics
Burglary

Fairy tales are nice.Real love is built.

The Lastborns is an unfiltered look at marriage, sex, and life as it actually happens — especially when things get hard. Hosted by Dave and Andi, the show explores what it means to stay connected through conflict, change, disappointment, and the unexpected challenges no one warns you about.

This is a sex-positive, honest conversation about long-term love... more

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Latest Episodes

Hedo stories, pasties, beach exhibitionism, and yes — we’re writing books! In this episode we break down our latest trip to Hedonism II, share how it sparked major growth, and give you the first look at Dave’s book on personal communication (Emotiona... more

This episode goes from naked beaches to one of the most emotional nights of our lives. We talk about the healing, vulnerability, and connection we found at Hedonism, the couple who unexpectedly mirrored parts of our story back to us, and the moment b... more

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This episode starts with a surreal full-circle moment: Dave is heading to the Grand Ole Opry for Jelly Roll’s induction after once being locked up with him when they were teenagers. We also talk about getting packed for Hedonism, why Club MoBay is a ... more

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One simple question turned into a whole conversation. While getting tattooed by an old friend, Dave got asked what we do for a living — and answered with the truth. From there, the room opened up fast. We talk about owning what we do, how people real... more

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Hosts

Dave
Host of The Lastborns: Sex, Love, and Life Beyond the Fairytale; co-host across related shows.
Andi
Host of The Lastborns: Sex, Love, and Life Beyond the Fairytale; co-host across related shows.

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 28 ratings
  • Highlight of the week

    This is by far our favorite podcast. Full of real life vulnerability and great relatable humor.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cbrosin
    United States10 months ago
  • Love it

    I’ve been hooked on Dave and Andy’s podcast from day one. Their knack for turning everyday tasks into hilarious, thrilling stories is unbeatable. You can feel the love between them—and for Stewie too! Keep those episodes rolling!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ArseWhipe
    United Statesa year ago
  • An accurate glimpse

    We’ve listened to a lot of these kinds of podcasts, but can already tell that Dave and Andi are going to help a lot of people with this. Listening to the their open and honest account in ‘First Encounters’ gives a honest and open glimpse into all the benefits of opening your mind and trying something new. Can’t wait to listen to the other episodes!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    2Hot 40s
    United Statesa year ago
  • BIG Lastborn Energy

    As a fellow lastborn, I came to Tales of the Lastborns looking for validation—and Andi and Dave delivered in the most unhinged, hilarious way possible. These two are the perfect storm of chaos and comedy, serving up stories that make me laugh, cringe, and occasionally question my own life choices (in the best way).

    Listening to them feels like hanging out with your funniest, most inappropriate friends who somehow always take things just a little too far—but you’re laughing so hard you don’t car... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    April3p
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Listeners appreciate vulnerable storytelling and chemistry between Dave and Andi.
The hosts' openness and humor feel authentic and relatable, making tough topics approachable.
Audience members enjoy candid conversations that blend personal life with practical takeaways.
The show's mix of sex-positivity with real-life relationship work resonates with couples seeking honest guidance.

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Talking Points

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Naked Cults, Zombie Barbies, and Other Things We Probably Shouldn't Talk About
Q: What is your toxic trait when you're hungry?
I get hangry and become grouchy if I don't eat quickly.
Why Gifts Are Overrated (But DoorDash Isn’t)
Q: What purchases would you instantly make you suspicious if you saw on a joint account?
Purchases like subscriptions to services such as OnlyFans would raise suspicions.
When HBO Taught Us About Sex (And Got It All Wrong)
Q: Do you think kids should be taught a little more obvious, like have more open dialogue rather than it's super shameful?
Yes, it should be less shameful and more age-appropriate, considering when to discuss sex education is crucial.
When HBO Taught Us About Sex (And Got It All Wrong)
Q: How did you learn about sex? Did you have any conversations or anything?
Parents often had awkward or uninformative discussions, leading to confusion in understanding sex education.
When HBO Taught Us About Sex (And Got It All Wrong)
Q: Was HBO worse than Skinimax?
Skinimax had better programming, according to some viewers.

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A candid, relationship-centric show that centers on long-term love, sex-positivity, and navigating real-life challenges within marriage. Episodes mix vulnerability, humor, and practical guidance as Dave and Andi share therapy, trauma processing, parenting tensions, and personal growth, all while keeping a conversational, intimate tone. Listeners can expect raw stories about navigating finances, intimacy, communication, and life transitions—often with travel, music, and community encounters weaving through the episodes. A notable strength is the unfiltered, start-with-honesty approach to difficult topics, which can be both entertaining and genuinely helpful for couples and individuals exploring healthier relationship dynamics.

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