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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.

Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-ju... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8.

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The ... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8.

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.

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Recent Guests

Dave Hand
Australian reality TV personality and winner of Perfect Match Season 4 (co-winner with Sophie Willett)
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Episode: Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
Jordana Abraham
Co-host of UUP (Dear Shandy guests on episode)
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Mel Owens
Second Golden Bachelor
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Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Peg Munson
Reality TV contestant and Mel's partner
Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Andrew Spencer
Reality TV star from Bachelor in Paradise
Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
Alexe Godin
Reality TV star from Bachelor in Paradise
Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
Jeremy Simon
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Episode: LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427
Bailey Taylor Brown
Reality TV personality and contestant on Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427

Hosts

Sharleen Joynt
Host of Dear Shandy, dating-advice and reality-TV recap; insider perspective from a former Bachelor contestant.
Andy Levine
Co-host, dating advice and commentary; provides humor and personal anecdotes.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 7.4k ratings
  • I only listen for Sharleen’s laughs!

    I’m so happy I found you guys! I’m currently on a mission to listen to every single podcast. I can’t say enough about your chemistry and how much I love how much Andy makes you laugh. There’s so much more I can say about the podcast and the endless work you both put into it but I just have to say I literally laugh every time Sharleen laughs😂

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ginagaliano
    United States5 days ago
  • Yay!

    I am SO happy you’re talking love island! This is my first time watching after being coerced by my 20 something daughters. 😬I am really enjoying your takes! I’ve missed your bachelor talks, but this is even better!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    handmama
    United States13 days ago
  • Less reality recaps

    You both are truly one of my favorite podcasts! I’ve been listening since the very beginning…. I know that so many of your reviews say how much they love your recap episodes but I personally rarely listen to a recap episode. I don’t watch all that much reality TV and I much prefer your Q&As, thoughtful interviews, and more intellectual episodes.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Taya R
    United States13 days ago
  • Thanks Sharlene and Andy!

    This podcast has it all; humor, intelligence, fun-facts, relationship advice, pop culture, tangents, I could go on. Love listening to the two of you dissect every topic imaginable 😆

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    h€r
    United States19 days ago
  • Love these two ! But the loooong rants !

    They are a light in my day ✨ Love you both ! Their laughter makes my day ! The Bachelor recaps and Q&A are my favourite. I notice lately some ads popping up in the middle of them talking. Oh , but the rants! They sometimes get sooooo off topic ! It feels really disrespectful to the person who wrote in. Can you please focus more on the person in need of help ? I was listening to the Q&A about all the dogs in the house , and it made me sad that they used the word “ crazy “ to describe them. They c... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    hgdsyiobdst
    Canada25 days ago

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Consistent mix of practical advice and genuine, funny commentary keeps episodes engaging.
Banter is relatable and warm, making relationship topics feel approachable.
Insightful, thoughtful relationship coaching woven into entertaining recaps.
Hosts feel authentic and supportive, like friends you'd want to hang with weekly.
High-quality discussions on ethics and dynamics in dating media are appreciated.

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Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
Q: How do you handle a partner's habits that affect your attraction, like sensitive smells or other annoyances?
The hosts advocate a mix of practical adjustments (diet changes, behavioral tweaks like separate spaces, and humor) with honest communication; acknowledge that changes may take time, and approach the issue with empathy and collaboration rather than blame.
Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
Q: Should I text casually to show interest after a date if I'm unsure of the other person's feelings?
The hosts suggest taking a proactive approach in cases where there are clear signals of interest, but they argue that not every person will respond in the same way; if the other person is engaged, a light follow-up can work, but avoid over-texting or pressuring, and be prepared for any outcome.
Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
Q: Is Jasmine allowed to explore meeting Jack Sparrow while in a committed relationship?
The hosts acknowledge it as a permission question and generally grant it, but advise careful consideration of what is missing in the current relationship and recommend honest conversations before taking action.
Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
Q: Should Julie lend money to friend who is facing ongoing financial hardship due to health and schooling costs?
They advise caution with finances between friends, recommending emotional support over financial aid and suggesting approaches like non-monetary help or GoFundMe to avoid imbalanced dynamics.
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
Q: How should Elle approach art and decorating with her partner?
They advise gradual, step-by-step integration of Elle's art preferences into shared space, starting with small, non-controversial pieces and gradually expanding as trust and compromise grow, ensuring both partners feel heard and valued.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Dear Shandy

What is Dear Shandy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two hosts blend dating guidance with reality-TV recap commentary, delivering thoughtful relationship coaching alongside sharp, entertaining takes on contemporary dating culture. Episodes typically mix Q&As, couple-focused recaps, and pop-culture banter, with attention to ethics, communication, and personal growth within partnerships. The format frequently features candid humor, practical tips, and occasional sponsor reads, all delivered through a warm, relatable dynamic between long-time partners who offer both lived experience and insider perspectives from reality-TV circles. Notably, the duo styles their content as approachable relationship storytelling—part advice, part recap—while maintaining a light, bawdy sense of humor that has broad... more

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2. Jordana Abraham
3. Jared Freid
4. Mel Owens
5. Peg Munson
6. Andrew Spencer
7. Alexe Godin
8. Jeremy Simon

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