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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.

Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-ju... more

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!

Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and jus... more

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becomi... more

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Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by cal... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4!

*** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with ... more

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Recent Guests

Monica Payne
A guest on Ultimatum Season 4
The Ultimatum
Episode: LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
Luke Wesselhoff
A guest on Ultimatum Season 4
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Episode: LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
Blake Robertson
Contestant on The Ultimatum, season four
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Episode: The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
Megan Thee Stallion
Musician and guest for a challenge in the episode
Megan Thee Stallion
Episode: Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474
Dave Hand
Australian reality TV personality and winner of Perfect Match Season 4 (co-winner with Sophie Willett)
Australian TV/Netflix Perfect Match
Episode: Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
Jordana Abraham
Co-host of UUP (Dear Shandy guests on episode)
UUP podcast guest
Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Jared Freid
Co-host of UUP
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Amy Chan
Relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp
Renew Breakup Bootcamp
Episode: Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Mel Owens
Second Golden Bachelor
ABC's The Golden Bachelor
Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430

Hosts

Sharleen Joynt
Host of Dear Shandy, dating-advice and reality-TV recap; insider perspective from a former Bachelor contestant.
Andy Levine
Co-host, dating advice and commentary; provides humor and personal anecdotes.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 7.5k ratings
  • I appreciate you guys so much.

    I always watch on YouTube but fell asleep listening to you last night. Have been sick and going through a lot of work changes. So I made sure to leave a review. Your dynamic is infectious and I appreciate the energy you put into your podcast/youtube channel so much. Thank you 🤍

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Stephanie Corbett
    United States9 days ago
  • Back to loving Dear Shandy

    It’s been really good lately! Length and frequency of tangents are very under control, you have great Q&A questions, and I love the recaps. My only criticism would be to lose the debate about whether someone needs luck or not at the end of your Q&A questions. It gives me blue balls; I’m ready and waiting for the next question as soon as Sheldon says Good Luck!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Surfer on acid
    United States11 days ago
  • Never a let-down

    I didn’t listen to Ultimatum. Was hoping for Married At First Sight but every other podcast was insightful and entertaining.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    susanebere
    United States11 days ago
  • A Fun Listen

    I remember Sharleen, a fellow Canadian, from The Bachelor years ago, but didn’t realize she had a started a podcast. It came up in my recommended in Apple Podcasts for reality TV recaps, and I decided to give it a listen, not noticing at the time it was Sharleen. I enjoy their recaps and their commentary, but my favourite part has become Andy’s random facts, little tidbits of information are interesting, and I can’t honestly say I learn things from their content! Please more foreign Love is Blin... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    StackableL
    Mexico12 days ago
  • My FAVORITE Podcast

    I’ve been a listener since their very first podcast and they are not only funny but mature and insightful. I don’t always agree with everything but their thoughtfulness always have me listening to them despite our different opinions. Love them!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ShugaM5
    United States18 days ago

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Consistent mix of practical advice and genuine, funny commentary keeps episodes engaging.
Banter is relatable and warm, making relationship topics feel approachable.
Insightful, thoughtful relationship coaching woven into entertaining recaps.
Hosts feel authentic and supportive, like friends you'd want to hang with weekly.
High-quality discussions on ethics and dynamics in dating media are appreciated.

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Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
Q: Carnivore Forever asks how to distinguish actual incompatibility from personal anxiety about a partner's dietary choices and how to become more accepting without forcing change.
The hosts acknowledge the validity of the concern but advocate for curiosity and openness, encouraging the listener to understand the reasons behind dietary choices, see shared values, and adapt shared meals and life plans to accommodate each other rather than demand immediate change.
Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
Q: Anonymous asks about a six-year relationship with long-distance challenges and ailing parents, seeking guidance on how to proceed or end the relationship with care.
They advise recognizing the realities of long-distance strain, the impact of caregiving on priorities, and the importance of clear communication and boundaries; if the situation prevents a healthy long-term plan, it may be best to consider moving on with a compassionate letter and a clear plan for closure.
LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
Q: What was the most surprising thing about your growth during the show?
That growth wasn't fully shown on the edit; real conversations and the depth of trust built in private were more significant than what most viewers saw.
The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
Q: What happened the night of the arrest, and how do you view the events now?
Blake describes the events as a back-and-forth escalation during a heated argument, emphasizes that he left the area to deescalate, notes that alcohol played a complicating role, and maintains that he should not have physically engaged; he also argues the arrest was a mischaracterization of the broader dynamics.
The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
Q: Why did you decide to propose when you felt 60-40 about it?
Blake explains that the decision was made in a moment of uncertainty but with a plan for a long engagement; he and Hayley had discussed staying together, yet things ultimately did not work out as hoped.

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What is Dear Shandy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two hosts blend dating guidance with reality-TV recap commentary, delivering thoughtful relationship coaching alongside sharp, entertaining takes on contemporary dating culture. Episodes typically mix Q&As, couple-focused recaps, and pop-culture banter, with attention to ethics, communication, and personal growth within partnerships. The format frequently features candid humor, practical tips, and occasional sponsor reads, all delivered through a warm, relatable dynamic between long-time partners who offer both lived experience and insider perspectives from reality-TV circles. Notably, the duo styles their content as approachable relationship storytelling—part advice, part recap—while maintaining a light, bawdy sense of humor that has broad... more

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4. Megan Thee Stallion
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6. Jordana Abraham
7. Jared Freid
8. Amy Chan

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