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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.

Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-ju... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4!

*** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestan... more

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later.

Thanks to our won... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8.

Thank you to our sponsors...

- Go to www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pai... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8.

Thank you to our sponsors...

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Megan Thee Stallion
Musician and guest for a challenge in the episode
Megan Thee Stallion
Episode: Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474
Dave Hand
Australian reality TV personality and winner of Perfect Match Season 4 (co-winner with Sophie Willett)
Australian TV/Netflix Perfect Match
Episode: Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
Jordana Abraham
Co-host of UUP (Dear Shandy guests on episode)
UUP podcast guest
Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Jared Freid
Co-host of UUP
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Amy Chan
Relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp
Renew Breakup Bootcamp
Episode: Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Mel Owens
Second Golden Bachelor
ABC's The Golden Bachelor
Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Peg Munson
Reality TV contestant and Mel's partner
Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Andrew Spencer
Reality TV star from Bachelor in Paradise
Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
Alexe Godin
Reality TV star from Bachelor in Paradise
Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428

Hosts

Sharleen Joynt
Host of Dear Shandy, dating-advice and reality-TV recap; insider perspective from a former Bachelor contestant.
Andy Levine
Co-host, dating advice and commentary; provides humor and personal anecdotes.

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4.9 out of 5 stars from 7.4k ratings
  • Great Ads + Quality Show

    I have only ever written three reviews:

    1. A 5-star review for Rocket Money because they helped me catch a scam charge.

    2. A 1-star review for a car mechanic because they were the scammers.

    3. This review.

    First, I have to admit I'm a little ashamed that I wrote the Rocket Money review before this one, considering I only signed up for Rocket Money because of Dear Shandy (and their incredibly effective ads). I'm trying to make things right now.

    I've been listening since 2021, and this podcast has... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Raceaturtle
    United States3 days ago
  • Loves your Love Island recaps

    Die hard Shandy here! I loved that you guys covered love Island this year and I know you were debating if you will cover it again, but I really hope you guys do next year as typically it is more entertaining. I’m looking forward to your ultimatum recaps now 😊

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jgomes007
    United States4 days ago
  • Love the recaps!

    One of the best recap pods out there. I know it's off brand but I would love a recap of Survivor since it sounds like Sharlene and Andy are fans.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    wingless00
    United States6 days ago
  • Preferred Recappers

    Dear Shandy is the first place I go to when I want a recap. I trust their opinions and love the banter between Sharlene and Andy.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Called2life
    United States7 days ago
  • Oh

    Noooo watch out for dear shandy!!!!!OH NO!!!!!!!

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    United States10 days ago

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Consistent mix of practical advice and genuine, funny commentary keeps episodes engaging.
Banter is relatable and warm, making relationship topics feel approachable.
Insightful, thoughtful relationship coaching woven into entertaining recaps.
Hosts feel authentic and supportive, like friends you'd want to hang with weekly.
High-quality discussions on ethics and dynamics in dating media are appreciated.

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Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Q: How can someone recognize when chemistry is leading them astray, and what should they rely on instead?
Amy introduces the concept of the 'chemistry compass'—an internal guide shaped by early experiences. She suggests evaluating core values and deal-breakers in advance to avoid being swept away by initial attraction.
Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Q: What is the nine-date experiment and how does it help reset someone's dating patterns?
The nine-date experiment requires dating nine different people, not necessarily at once, to broaden horizons, discover what core values matter, and reduce pedestal-like thinking about a single date or type.
Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Q: Tell us about the dating funnel and why you think it helps people date more effectively?
Amy explains the funnel as an inverted five-stage process (prospecting, discovery, evaluation, commitment, retention) and emphasizes diversifying lead sources to prevent dependency on a single channel like apps.
Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
Q: How do you handle a partner's habits that affect your attraction, like sensitive smells or other annoyances?
The hosts advocate a mix of practical adjustments (diet changes, behavioral tweaks like separate spaces, and humor) with honest communication; acknowledge that changes may take time, and approach the issue with empathy and collaboration rather than blame.
Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
Q: Should I text casually to show interest after a date if I'm unsure of the other person's feelings?
The hosts suggest taking a proactive approach in cases where there are clear signals of interest, but they argue that not every person will respond in the same way; if the other person is engaged, a light follow-up can work, but avoid over-texting or pressuring, and be prepared for any outcome.

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What is Dear Shandy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two hosts blend dating guidance with reality-TV recap commentary, delivering thoughtful relationship coaching alongside sharp, entertaining takes on contemporary dating culture. Episodes typically mix Q&As, couple-focused recaps, and pop-culture banter, with attention to ethics, communication, and personal growth within partnerships. The format frequently features candid humor, practical tips, and occasional sponsor reads, all delivered through a warm, relatable dynamic between long-time partners who offer both lived experience and insider perspectives from reality-TV circles. Notably, the duo styles their content as approachable relationship storytelling—part advice, part recap—while maintaining a light, bawdy sense of humor that has broad... more

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1. Megan Thee Stallion
2. Dave Hand
3. Jordana Abraham
4. Jared Freid
5. Amy Chan
6. Mel Owens
7. Peg Munson
8. Andrew Spencer

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