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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.

Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories t... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand FINALE, aka Episode 9.

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! They never miss a Love Is Blind season, and today they're excited to unpack BOSTON with you! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-5.

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Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 5.

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind Netherlands, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Batch 2, aka Episodes 6-8.

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Recent Guests

Luke Wesselhoff
A guest on Ultimatum Season 4
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Episode: LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
Monica Payne
A guest on Ultimatum Season 4
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Episode: LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
Blake Robertson
Contestant on The Ultimatum, season four
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Episode: The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
Megan Thee Stallion
Musician and guest for a challenge in the episode
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Episode: Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474
Dave Hand
Australian reality TV personality and winner of Perfect Match Season 4 (co-winner with Sophie Willett)
Australian TV/Netflix Perfect Match
Episode: Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
Jared Freid
Co-host of UUP
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Jordana Abraham
Co-host of UUP (Dear Shandy guests on episode)
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Amy Chan
Relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp
Renew Breakup Bootcamp
Episode: Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Peg Munson
Reality TV contestant and Mel's partner
Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430

Hosts

Sharleen Joynt
Host of Dear Shandy; former Bachelor contestant; insider perspective on dating and reality TV.
Andy Levine
Co-host of Dear Shandy; dating-advice commentator; banter-focused humor and practical relationship insights.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 7.6k ratings
  • Great podcast

    Stumbled upon this when a Traitors USA finally came to the BBC here in London. They’re funny, sharp, and insightful. Emotionally mature. Irreverent and silly in a laugh out loud way. Sensitive dealing with eg racist or sexist stuff (LIB Netherlands thinking of you). Thank you !

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    nebraskacity
    United Kingdom3 days ago
  • The Dutch

    Heee I love your podcast but would love to say as well as a Dutchie, that we have 18 million people in this country. Not 300.000 👻 for the rest, keep up the good work!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ms.listening
    Netherlands5 days ago
  • Love these two ! But the rants are AWFUL !

    They are a light in my day ✨ Love you both ! Their laughter makes my day ! The Bachelor recaps , Q&A , and call ins are my favourite. I notice lately some ads popping up in the middle of them talking. Oh , but the rants! They sometimes get sooooo off topic ! It feels really disrespectful to the person who wrote in. Can you PLEASE focus more on the person in need of help ? ! I would love a separate podcast about your take on things , but please , please stop doing this on your regular episodes! ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    hgdsyiobdst
    Canada16 days ago
  • Love them

    I’m new to the podcast but going through the back log- they are so charming, I could listen to them all day!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    macklerich17
    United Statesa month ago
  • Fun listen

    They do a great job breaking down all the “love” shows. Great insight and thoughts on all the interesting characters in reality TV land. I really enjoy listening to Dear Shandy on my drives.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BG in Blythewood
    United Statesa month ago

Listeners Say

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Many appreciate honest, non-judgmental discussions and relatable personal stories.
Some drop comments on occasional tangents but still highlight strong chemistry and quality advice.
Several reviews mention sponsorships feeling integrated and useful.
Listeners praise the hosts' banter, warmth, and thoughtful dating takes.
Fans value the depth of relationship insights paired with entertaining recaps.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Dear Shandy Turns 6! Anniversary Q&A Answering YOUR Questions! - Ep 494
Q: What is the hardest part of your relationship at this point in life?
The hardest part is never taking each other for granted and staying mindful to appreciate the other person daily, even as life evolves.
Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
Q: Carnivore Forever asks how to distinguish actual incompatibility from personal anxiety about a partner's dietary choices and how to become more accepting without forcing change.
The hosts acknowledge the validity of the concern but advocate for curiosity and openness, encouraging the listener to understand the reasons behind dietary choices, see shared values, and adapt shared meals and life plans to accommodate each other rather than demand immediate change.
Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
Q: Anonymous asks about a six-year relationship with long-distance challenges and ailing parents, seeking guidance on how to proceed or end the relationship with care.
They advise recognizing the realities of long-distance strain, the impact of caregiving on priorities, and the importance of clear communication and boundaries; if the situation prevents a healthy long-term plan, it may be best to consider moving on with a compassionate letter and a clear plan for closure.
LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483
Q: What was the most surprising thing about your growth during the show?
That growth wasn't fully shown on the edit; real conversations and the depth of trust built in private were more significant than what most viewers saw.
The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
Q: What happened the night of the arrest, and how do you view the events now?
Blake describes the events as a back-and-forth escalation during a heated argument, emphasizes that he left the area to deescalate, notes that alcohol played a complicating role, and maintains that he should not have physically engaged; he also argues the arrest was a mischaracterization of the broader dynamics.

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What is Dear Shandy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A sharp, witty duo blends relationship coaching with reality-TV recaps, offering practical dating wisdom alongside candid commentary on contemporary dating culture. Episodes often swing between deep-dive analyses of couples' dynamics, live Q&As, and extended Love Fest-style interviews with real-life couples or notable reality-TV figures. The tone is warm but no-nonsense, with humor, personal anecdotes, and frequent sponsor reads that keep the conversation accessible and entertaining. A standout trait is the banter-driven chemistry between the hosts, who mix entertainment insight with actionable relationship takeaways, making it appealing to fans of both dating-advice shows and reality-TV analysis. Expect thoughtful discussions on communicat... more

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2. Monica Payne
3. Blake Robertson
4. Megan Thee Stallion
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6. Jared Freid
7. Jordana Abraham
8. Amy Chan

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