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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.

Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-ju... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.

Thank you to our sponsors...

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is... more

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Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the break... more

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!

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Recent Guests

Jordana Abraham
Co-host of UUP (Dear Shandy guests on episode)
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Jared Freid
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Episode: U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Mel Owens
Second Golden Bachelor
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Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Peg Munson
Reality TV contestant and Mel's partner
Episode: LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Andrew Spencer
Reality TV star from Bachelor in Paradise
Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
Alexe Godin
Reality TV star from Bachelor in Paradise
Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
Jeremy Simon
Reality TV personality and contestant on Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427
Bailey Taylor Brown
Reality TV personality and contestant on Bachelor in Paradise
Episode: LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427
Jared Fried
Comedian and guest on the episode who adds humor to the recap.
Episode: The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 6 | WOMEN TELL ALL | Recap & Review - Ep 422

Hosts

Sharleen Joynt
Host of Dear Shandy, dating-advice and reality-TV recap; insider perspective from a former Bachelor contestant.
Andy Levine
Co-host, dating advice and commentary; provides humor and personal anecdotes.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 7.3k ratings
  • Love these two ! But the loooong rants !

    They are a light in my day ✨ Love you both ! Their laughter makes my day ! The Bachelor recaps and Q&A are my favourite. I notice lately some ads popping up in the middle of them talking. Oh , but the rants! They sometimes get sooooo off topic ! It feels really disrespectful to the person who wrote in. Can you please focus more on the person in need of help ? I was listening to the Q&A about all the dogs in the house , and it made me sad that they used the word “ crazy “ to describe them. They c... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    hgdsyiobdst
    Canada5 days ago
  • Great, witty banter

    Sharleen and Andy are great conversationalists, with intelligent, funny, and kind commentary. And they both have great laughs!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    PPaczki
    Switzerland5 days ago
  • Long time listener

    My favorite couple podcast by far. Always looking forward to hearing their perspectives

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Huge Jamie Scott Fan
    United States7 days ago
  • Great podcast

    I really enjoy these two. Excellent podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ktwnz
    New Zealand9 days ago
  • Shandy 4ever

    Love me some shandy

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jojoba458
    United States9 days ago

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Consistent mix of practical advice and genuine, funny commentary keeps episodes engaging.
Banter is relatable and warm, making relationship topics feel approachable.
Insightful, thoughtful relationship coaching woven into entertaining recaps.
Hosts feel authentic and supportive, like friends you'd want to hang with weekly.
High-quality discussions on ethics and dynamics in dating media are appreciated.

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Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
Q: How should Elle approach art and decorating with her partner?
They advise gradual, step-by-step integration of Elle's art preferences into shared space, starting with small, non-controversial pieces and gradually expanding as trust and compromise grow, ensuring both partners feel heard and valued.
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
Q: What can Kay do about the aggressive co-opted business?
The hosts encourage Kay to recognize her own value, consider starting anew rather than being undermined, and to set firm boundaries, possibly pursuing formal action if the situation warrants, while maintaining professional focus on her strengths and rebuilding her career independently.
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
Q: How should Danielle handle her moody husband and the impact on daily life?
They recommend a two-part approach: have a direct why-focused conversation to understand underlying dissatisfaction, followed by giving space when moodiness persists, and choosing boundaries and separate activities to prevent daily life from being overwhelmed by moodiness.
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462
Q: Should I put my foot down and ask him to stop stealing my jokes, or should I let it go and be more supportive?
Offer a calm, explicit boundary that you want him to stop taking your material and to either credit you or develop his own material; acknowledge his passion but emphasize the need for personal ownership and collaboration that respects your creativity.
Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460
Q: Anonymous asks about dating someone who was the 'worst' but with great sex, and whether chemistry can mask deeper issues; have you dated people who bring out the worst in you?
Yes, both hosts share experiences of past relationships where chemistry was high but values and honesty were misaligned, stressing that long-term compatibility and shared values matter more than peak chemistry.

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What is Dear Shandy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two hosts blend dating guidance with reality-TV recap commentary, delivering thoughtful relationship coaching alongside sharp, entertaining takes on contemporary dating culture. Episodes typically mix Q&As, couple-focused recaps, and pop-culture banter, with attention to ethics, communication, and personal growth within partnerships. The format frequently features candid humor, practical tips, and occasional sponsor reads, all delivered through a warm, relatable dynamic between long-time partners who offer both lived experience and insider perspectives from reality-TV circles. Notably, the duo styles their content as approachable relationship storytelling—part advice, part recap—while maintaining a light, bawdy sense of humor that has broad... more

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1. Jordana Abraham
2. Jared Freid
3. Mel Owens
4. Peg Munson
5. Andrew Spencer
6. Alexe Godin
7. Jeremy Simon
8. Bailey Taylor Brown

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