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What's the Reality?

And Love Media
Love Is Blind
Relationships
Reality TV
Reality Television
Perfect Match
Dating
The Ultimatum
Personal Growth
Temptation Island
Motherhood
Married At First Sight
Love
Marriage
Mental Health
Communication
Love Is Blind UK
Love and Relationships
Divorce
The Bachelor
Denver

What’s The Reality is your all-access backstage pass into the wild and unpredictable world of your favorite TV personalities and influencers. Hosted by Amber Desiree (AD) from Love Is Blind and Perfect Match, every episode dives deep into love, relationships, breakups, makeups, and all the drama you didn’t see on screen. From unfiltered interviews with your favorite reality stars and celebrities t... more

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On this week's episode of What's The Reality, AD sits down with Katisha from Love Is Blind: UK Season 2 and Love Is Blind: After the Altar to get all the tea from across the pond.

Katisha opens up about how the experience changed the way she stands ... more

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On today's episode of What's The Reality, AD is giving both Ashley and Killian the chance to tell their side of one of The Ultimatum's most talked about breakups. In this special He Said, She Said episode, they each reflect on their time on the show,... more

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In this special BONUS EPISODE of What's The Reality, AD sits down with her close friend and The Ultimatum cast member Jessica Grace fresh off the reunion.

Jessica opens up about her experience on the show, her proposal to Edris, and what really happ... more

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The Ultimatum has been making headlines, and now Hayley is sharing her side of the story.

Spoiler Alert: If you haven’t finished The Ultimatum finale and reunion yet, save this episode and come back once you’re caught up!

On this week's episode of ... more

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Jimmy Presnell
OG friend from Love Is Blind, contestant on Perfect Match
Love Is Blind / Perfect Match
Episode: From Love Is Blind to Perfect Match: Jimmy Presnell Sets the Record Straight!
Chandi Dayle
Former Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader, age-and-career transitioner into coaching
Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders (DCC)
Episode: Inside America's Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders with Chandi Dayle
Jimmy Sotos
Contestant on Perfect Match and reality TV personality
Self-described content creator, brand Jump Shot
Episode: Jimmy Sotos Thought Nick Lachey Was a Bombshell, Drops a Diss Track & Opens Up About his Post-Villa Depression
Alison Ogden
Contestant on Perfect Match
Perfect Match
Episode: Sophie & Alison Reveal What REALLY Happened After Perfect Match!
Marissa George
Former Love Is Blind and Perfect Match contestant, now attorney
Episode: From Perfect Match to Married: Marissa George Tells All
Ally Lewber
Participant from Vanderpump Rules and Perfect Match
Self/TV personality
Episode: Perfect Match’s Ally Lewber Tells Her Side of the Story
Sydney McGregor
Contestant on Temptation Island, Season 2
Temptation Island cast
Episode: Temptation Island’s Sydney McGregor: Reunion Drama, Mikey & Xzavier, and What You Didn’t See
Mark Walberg
Temptation Island host
Temptation Island (Fox/USA network era)
Episode: Mark L. Walberg on Being Temptation Island’s Unofficial Therapist
Justin Sylvester
Emmy-nominated host of E! News and Yesterday's podcast co-host
Episode: Summer House Scandal and Bachelorette & Mormon Wives Chaos w/ Justin Sylvester

Host

Amber Desiree
Host of the show, conducts interviews with reality-TV personalities, covers relationship dynamics and post-show life.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 748 ratings
  • Awful audio

    I love this podcast but the sound is awful!

    Someone please fix AD’s mic volume!!! I have to turn the volume all the way up and still can barely hear her.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    CS______
    United States10 days ago
  • Is it just me?

    Love it!!! But I turn my headphones all the way up and it’s still hard to hear the content. Not sure if it’s just my phone? Doesn’t happen with other podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    EmmyPixie
    United States5 months ago
  • A mother, a girls girl, a goddess

    AD, Amber Desiree, from the second you graced our screens on LIB, I was immediately obsessed with you! Your character, honesty, and sense of humor brings such a ray of light. I LOVE your podcast and look forward to it weekly. I know you’re going to keep it real and get us all the tea. I’m sure it’s a ton of work, so thank you for all you do for your fans! Can’t wait to continue following your career and life as it evolves!!

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    5
    Supmayz
    United States5 months ago
  • Stop saying ‘mmhmmm’ every time your guest speak. It’s so distracting. Just let them speak first.

    Seriously. I can’t get through one episode of yours because of how annoying this is.

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    1
    Podcastlistener10101
    Australia6 months ago
  • Love the new series Star crossed

    Love Blake and G and the new starcrossed series. Kind of like how they got together. I’ve always enjoyed reality dating shows because I’m such a sap and I love love. It’s nice when you see two people you support from their respective shows that you love come together. I loved the first episode of the new series “starcrossed” I think they were great first choices as contestants and we need an update on how the date went since it sounded like they went on a second date 😊 looking forward to more e... more

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    jgomes007
    United States6 months ago

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Many reviews praise depth and hard-hitting questions that feel journalism-like while staying respectful.
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Fans appreciate the host's empathetic yet firm interviewing style and the ability to pull candid insights from guests.

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The Ultimatum's Ashley & Killian: Two Sides, One Messy Breakup
Q: What would you tell the other person who issued the Ultimatum if you could go back?
She emphasizes listening and taking things at face value, avoiding delusive optimism, and not ignoring warning signs.
The Ultimatum's Ashley & Killian: Two Sides, One Messy Breakup
Q: What was the biggest lesson you learned in your child marriage?
Ashley describes learning to speak up for herself, set boundaries, and stop defaulting to pleasing others; she also notes a gradual shift toward trusting her own judgment and prioritizing her well-being.
Inside America's Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders with Chandi Dayle
Q: What led you to retire from the team and how did you decide the time was right?
She describes a long, thoughtful process where coaching opportunities and physical fatigue, including injuries, suggested it was time to move on, even as she loved performing and wanted to finish her career on her own terms.
Temptation Island’s Sydney McGregor: Reunion Drama, Mikey & Xzavier, and What You Didn’t See
Q: What is your current relationship with Mikey and Xzavier now?
We've taken time apart; we've spoken at the reunion, and I've tried to keep things respectful. I'm focusing on myself and my move to LA while staying open to future possibilities with people who align with my values.
Summer House Scandal and Bachelorette & Mormon Wives Chaos w/ Justin Sylvester
Q: What was your first experience like on reality TV?
Amber describes a cautious start on reality TV, where she learned the ropes behind the scenes, felt the pressure of being public about her identity, and realized the long arc of visibility could be both challenging and liberating.

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This show centers on reality TV personalities, their relationships, breakups, and the behind-the-scenes dynamics that viewers don't always see. Conversations mix candid relationship reflections, accountability talk, and life after fame, often with a focus on dating-show ecosystems, social-media scrutiny, and personal growth. It's noted for sharp questions, empathetic hosting, and guests who bring insider perspectives from across major reality franchises. A standout aspect is the host's ability to blend tough topics with warmth and humor, making it appealing for fans who want both tea and real-world takeaways on relationships and fame.

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Recent guests on What's the Reality? include:

1. Jimmy Presnell
2. Chandi Dayle
3. Jimmy Sotos
4. Alison Ogden
5. Marissa George
6. Ally Lewber
7. Sydney McGregor
8. Mark Walberg

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