
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 464 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsComedyComedy InterviewsSociety & Culture | |||

Drag queen superstar Onya Nurve (Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S17) joins Nicole to talk about the time she was catfished on a dating app by a high school creep! Onya also sets the record straight on her true dynamic with the Season 17 girls, revealin... more
Nicole's photographer, Kim Newmoney (VOGUE, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE) chats with her about the logistics and managing a harem of 7 hot men. They talk about men who claim they want casual relationships but get territorial when another guy whose interest, a... more
Comedian Bresha Webb (Run the World, Hacks) joins Nicole to share her terrible experience accientally dating a Hollywood scammer. Bresha also shares the story of a guy who paid for their dinner using a coin purse full of laundry quarters, what happen... more
Comedian and writer Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) returns to the podcast! He shares how a group blind date quickly turned into a one-on-one nightmare with a horrible, drunk Jubilee "celebrity." Plus, Elliot and Nicole talk about what it's like ... more
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I can’t imagine a more likable person than Nicole - sad I just discovered this but happy I have plenty to go through in the archives. Keep it up and IDEA! If things keep going well with nice man do a spinoff “why won’t you marry me?” That ends with the wedding
I feel like I could listen to Nicole on the toilet and it would still be so entertaining. From the first time I was aware of her I loved her so much. She always makes me laugh and has such a good and smart perspective. Grateful for you and your podcasts
Love love this show, I have been single for a while and I’m cool with it but good to hear other people are living and thriving single too!!!! And it’s soo funny, at least once an episode I’m laughing so hard Everyone on the Q train is just staring at me. If only they know.
Also Nicole idk if you read these but I went to my first solo movie two weeks ago and now it’s a thing!
Sabrina jalees came on and told a beautiful and devastating story about her fertility and miscarriage experience. Was expecting Nicole to handle it with so much more care and thoughtfulness than she did. All Nicole could muster was some shock and incredulity. The rest was apathy central. Girl. Plus, Nicole trying to grasp at straws to assert some sort of queerness when we know that’s a far stretch, as Sabrina was just making a joke about Sarah mcalachlan, left a bad taste in my mouth. Girl if t... more
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The show centers on dating, relationships, and romantic life with a candid, humorous lens. Conversations rotate among comedians, LGBTQ+ guests, relationship experts, and public figures who share personal dating experiences, boundary-setting, therapy, and modern love in a culture saturated with apps, fame, and social media. Episodes often blend intimate storytelling with practical relationship insights, plus light sponsorships woven into the chat. A standout throughline is exploring authenticity and self-worth in dating, from open relationships to long-term partnerships, all delivered with warmth, humor, and no-holds-barred honesty. This mix of humor, real talk, and diverse guest perspectives makes it appealing for listeners seeking relatabl... more
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1. Kim Newmoney
2. Bresha Webb
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7. Liza Treyger
8. Sabrina Jalees
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