
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 450 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsComedyComedy InterviewsSociety & Culture | |||

World famous relationship therapist Esther Perel has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over, and how to productively resolve t... more
Author Rachel Reid (Heated Rivalry) joins Nicole to chat about the wild, viral success of her steamy queer romance novels and the hit TV adaptation. She shares how she met her husband while performing a smelly, hockey-themed burlesque act, and the dy... more
Comedian and actor Beck Bennett (SNL, What's Our Podcast?) joins Nicole to talk about meeting his wife on a sketch shoot and how his wallet-less first date turned into a romantic, fart-filled sleepover. Beck opens up about surviving long-distance dat... more
Voice actress Sarah Natochenny (Pokémon) joins Nicole for a chat about how voicing Ash Ketchum inspired her to become the adventurous protagonist of her own life. Sarah shares her method for vetting a first date, why she has absolutely zero tolerance... more
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I love this podcast so much! i look forward to each new episode. It seems like everyone and their mother is doing a podcast these days but I find that this one is really easy to listen to, entertaining & funny.
Nicole can wring a good anecdote from a paper bag, but her episode with Tan France is OTHER WORLDLY.
Nicole! Girl! You know your podcast is fire but it’s time you graduate from calling “the nice man in your life” to boyfriend!! It’s time!!!
I love this podcast and have been listening for years but over 3+ minutes of ads is a lot.
I love the podcast and also love all the queens you have as guests, I think all the drag queens(except Mistress Isabel Brooks ugh😒) seem like fun and amazing people and deserve partners, I hope the ones that don’t have a partner and want one get one and if they have one then I hope they are happy as can be with their partner!💕
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Relatable, candid conversations about love, dating, and relationships anchor a witty, high-energy show that blends humor with frank discussions about sex, body image, and queer culture. A steady stream of guests from drag, comedy, design, and activism bring personal anecdotes and practical perspectives on what it means to date, navigate open relationships, and manage public life. The host's sharp humor and empathy help normalize messy realities of modern romance, while episodes often spotlight self-acceptance, friendship, and community as key support systems. A standout trait is the willingness to push boundaries with bold topics and guests who offer diverse lived experiences, making it appealing for listeners who want candid storytelling a... more
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2. Sarah Natochenny
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