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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Headgum & Nicole Byer
Relationships
Dating
Comedy
Dating Apps
Mental Health
Nicole Byer
Love
Parenting
New York
Therapy
Los Angeles
Rupaul's Drag Race
Personal Growth
Drag Race
Sonic the Hedgehog
Marriage
ADHD
Coming Out
Valentine's Day
Dating Experiences

Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!

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Latest Episodes

You ready for some good juju? This week, iconic drag queen Jujubee (Drag Race, Stop! That! Train!) joins Nicole to talk about the power of self-love and why she’s officially stopped looking for a relationship. Nicole pays tribute to her first dog, Ch... more

Drag queen Trixie Mattel (Drag Race S7, All Stars 3) returns to the podcast! After experiencing how exhausting it is to navigate a private breakup while smiling through a press tour, Trixie opens up about why she is now fiercely protective of her new... more

Tracie Thoms (RENT, The Devil Wears Prada 2) joins Nicole to discuss her 8-year journey to join the iconic cast of RENT, the wild logic men use to avoid commitment, and why some of them want all the benefits of a girlfriend with zero of the responsib... more

World famous relationship therapist Esther Perel has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over, and how to productively resolve t... more

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Recent Guests

Tracie Thoms
Actress and singer
The Devil Wears Prada 2; Rent; Juilliard
Episode: Measuring Love & Male Delusion (w/ Tracie Thoms)
Esther Perel
Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author; hosts Therapy Sessions and author of Mating in Captivity
Where Should We Begin? (podcast) / Mating in Captivity
Episode: Would You Date YOU? (w/ Relationship Therapist Esther Perel)
Rachel Reid
Author of the Game Changers series and Heated Rivalry
Game Changers / Heated Rivalry
Episode: Writing Heated Rivalry (w/ Rachel Reid)
Sarah Natochenny
Voice actor known for Ash Ketchum; guest on the episode
Voice acting / Animation
Episode: Pikachu, I Choose You! (w/ Sarah Natochenny)
Tan France
Award-winning personality, actor and producer; fashion expert on Queer Eye
Queer Eye | Honorable Gays
Episode: Looksmaxxing Is Psychotic (w/ Tan France)
Nathan Mitchell
Actor known for The Boys (Black Noir) and Ginny & Georgia
Actor
Episode: Astrology's Effect in Relationships (w/ Nathan Mitchell)
Danielle Fishel
Actor, director, and producer known for Boy Meets World and Teen Beat
Actor/Producer
Episode: Life as a 90s Sex Symbol (w/ Danielle Fishel)
Drew Droege
Comedian, actor, and playwright
Guest on episode
Episode: There's a Yelp for BJs (w/ Drew Droege)
Kym Whitley
Legendary comedian and Emmy-nominated actress, guest on the show
Two Funny Mamas / Raisin Whitley
Episode: Our Healthy Era (w/ Kym Whitley)

Host

Nicole Byer
Host of the show, guiding the interview and sharing personal dating experiences

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 25.2k ratings
  • This podcast is hilarious, fun, and joyful. I love Nicole, and she is a great interviewer.

    Podchaser
    5
    Amanda James
    21 days ago
  • Love the show

    Been a long time Nicole fan! I miss nailed it baking competition so much you and Jacque were perfect. This show is great. But I am disappointed by the Ginger minj (spelling) episode. Just another platform to allow a very problematic person get away with the harm the continue to perpetuate. Hope for better accountability with the guest stars. Love that you are an ally! When Nicole wins I feel like I win. Go Nicole!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Judd93
    United States22 days ago
  • Thank you!

    I love this podcast so much! i look forward to each new episode. It seems like everyone and their mother is doing a podcast these days but I find that this one is really easy to listen to, entertaining & funny.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    myshannona
    United States2 months ago
  • Great Host, Great Show

    Nicole can wring a good anecdote from a paper bag, but her episode with Tan France is OTHER WORLDLY.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    L-Dilla
    United States2 months ago
  • One Request

    Nicole! Girl! You know your podcast is fire but it’s time you graduate from calling “the nice man in your life” to boyfriend!! It’s time!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Spendal3
    United States2 months ago

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Talking Points

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Writing Heated Rivalry (w/ Rachel Reid)
Q: What was it like seeing your book become a TV show?
It was beyond expectations; the adaptation felt like a natural progression that could elevate the work, and the process was exciting, with a lot of care put into getting the characters right.
Having "The Body" (w/ Fantasia Royale Gaga)
Q: Would you date me?
Fantasia enthusiastically agrees, signaling openness to dating Nicole in a hypothetical scenario.
Worst Hookup EVER (w/ Jasmine Masters)
Q: What would you say to single people looking for love?
Just go on dates and give people a chance, because even if they're not your perfect match, you can often find friendship or learn more about what you want in a partner.
Worst Hookup EVER (w/ Jasmine Masters)
Q: J Jasmine, what's one of the best dates you've ever been on?
A memorable beach date with a partner who set up a candlelit blanket and made the moment feel special, illustrating how thoughtful, simple gestures can create lasting romantic memories.
The Torture of Working with an Ex (w/ Nicholas Scheppard)
Q: If you meet someone in a year when you are ready to date again, what do you hope to find?
I would like to have a really just awesome time together and to ensure that we both look at ourselves and are open to personal growth.

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2. Esther Perel
3. Rachel Reid
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