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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Headgum & Nicole Byer
Relationships
Dating
Comedy
Dating Apps
Mental Health
Nicole Byer
Love
Parenting
New York
Los Angeles
Therapy
Rupaul's Drag Race
Personal Growth
Drag Race
Sonic the Hedgehog
Marriage
ADHD
Coming Out
Valentine's Day
Dating Experiences

Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!

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Latest Episodes

World famous relationship therapist Esther Perel has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over, and how to productively resolve t... more

Author Rachel Reid (Heated Rivalry) joins Nicole to chat about the wild, viral success of her steamy queer romance novels and the hit TV adaptation. She shares how she met her husband while performing a smelly, hockey-themed burlesque act, and the dy... more

Comedian and actor Beck Bennett (SNL, What's Our Podcast?) joins Nicole to talk about meeting his wife on a sketch shoot and how his wallet-less first date turned into a romantic, fart-filled sleepover. Beck opens up about surviving long-distance dat... more

Voice actress Sarah Natochenny (Pokémon) joins Nicole for a chat about how voicing Ash Ketchum inspired her to become the adventurous protagonist of her own life. Sarah shares her method for vetting a first date, why she has absolutely zero tolerance... more

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Recent Guests

Rachel Reid
Author of the Game Changers series and Heated Rivalry
Game Changers / Heated Rivalry
Episode: Writing Heated Rivalry (w/ Rachel Reid)
Sarah Natochenny
Voice actor known for Ash Ketchum; guest on the episode
Voice acting / Animation
Episode: Pikachu, I Choose You! (w/ Sarah Natochenny)
Tan France
Award-winning personality, actor and producer; fashion expert on Queer Eye
Queer Eye | Honorable Gays
Episode: Looksmaxxing Is Psychotic (w/ Tan France)
Nathan Mitchell
Actor known for The Boys (Black Noir) and Ginny & Georgia
Actor
Episode: Astrology's Effect in Relationships (w/ Nathan Mitchell)
Danielle Fishel
Actor, director, and producer known for Boy Meets World and Teen Beat
Actor/Producer
Episode: Life as a 90s Sex Symbol (w/ Danielle Fishel)
Drew Droege
Comedian, actor, and playwright
Guest on episode
Episode: There's a Yelp for BJs (w/ Drew Droege)
Kym Whitley
Legendary comedian and Emmy-nominated actress, guest on the show
Two Funny Mamas / Raisin Whitley
Episode: Our Healthy Era (w/ Kym Whitley)
Fantasia Royale Gaga
Showgirl, drag performer and entertainer known as The Body
DIY Dungeon, OutTV
Episode: Having "The Body" (w/ Fantasia Royale Gaga)
Sapphira Cristál
Opera singer, drag performer, and podcast guest
Self-described artist and performer
Episode: Being a Dom (w/ Sapphira Cristál)

Host

Nicole Byer
Host of the show

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 25.2k ratings
  • Thank you!

    I love this podcast so much! i look forward to each new episode. It seems like everyone and their mother is doing a podcast these days but I find that this one is really easy to listen to, entertaining & funny.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    myshannona
    United Statesa month ago
  • Great Host, Great Show

    Nicole can wring a good anecdote from a paper bag, but her episode with Tan France is OTHER WORLDLY.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    L-Dilla
    United Statesa month ago
  • One Request

    Nicole! Girl! You know your podcast is fire but it’s time you graduate from calling “the nice man in your life” to boyfriend!! It’s time!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Spendal3
    United Statesa month ago
  • Too many ads

    I love this podcast and have been listening for years but over 3+ minutes of ads is a lot.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Concerned Listener 1231
    United States2 months ago
  • Come on queens!!!!!!

    I love the podcast and also love all the queens you have as guests, I think all the drag queens(except Mistress Isabel Brooks ugh😒) seem like fun and amazing people and deserve partners, I hope the ones that don’t have a partner and want one get one and if they have one then I hope they are happy as can be with their partner!💕

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    From_Atlanta_Georgia!
    United States2 months ago

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Some episodes draw critique for heavy Drag Race-focused content or edgy humor.
Guests and topics are diverse and engaging, making conversations feel natural and insightful.
Listeners praise the host for empathy and funny, respectful interviews with guests.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Writing Heated Rivalry (w/ Rachel Reid)
Q: What was it like seeing your book become a TV show?
It was beyond expectations; the adaptation felt like a natural progression that could elevate the work, and the process was exciting, with a lot of care put into getting the characters right.
Having "The Body" (w/ Fantasia Royale Gaga)
Q: Would you date me?
Fantasia enthusiastically agrees, signaling openness to dating Nicole in a hypothetical scenario.
Worst Hookup EVER (w/ Jasmine Masters)
Q: What would you say to single people looking for love?
Just go on dates and give people a chance, because even if they're not your perfect match, you can often find friendship or learn more about what you want in a partner.
Worst Hookup EVER (w/ Jasmine Masters)
Q: J Jasmine, what's one of the best dates you've ever been on?
A memorable beach date with a partner who set up a candlelit blanket and made the moment feel special, illustrating how thoughtful, simple gestures can create lasting romantic memories.
The Torture of Working with an Ex (w/ Nicholas Scheppard)
Q: If you meet someone in a year when you are ready to date again, what do you hope to find?
I would like to have a really just awesome time together and to ensure that we both look at ourselves and are open to personal growth.

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Relatable, candid conversations about love, dating, and relationships anchor a witty, high-energy show that blends humor with frank discussions about sex, body image, and queer culture. A steady stream of guests from drag, comedy, design, and activism bring personal anecdotes and practical perspectives on what it means to date, navigate open relationships, and manage public life. The host's sharp humor and empathy help normalize messy realities of modern romance, while episodes often spotlight self-acceptance, friendship, and community as key support systems. A standout trait is the willingness to push boundaries with bold topics and guests who offer diverse lived experiences, making it appealing for listeners who want candid storytelling a... more

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2. Sarah Natochenny
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