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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

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Dating
Relationships
Comedy
Dating Apps
Mental Health
Nicole Byer
Love
Parenting
Los Angeles
New York
Therapy
Rupaul's Drag Race
Drag Race
Personal Growth
Sonic the Hedgehog
Marriage
ADHD
Coming Out
Valentine's Day
Dating Experiences

Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!

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Drag queen superstar Onya Nurve (Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S17) joins Nicole to talk about the time she was catfished on a dating app by a high school creep! Onya also sets the record straight on her true dynamic with the Season 17 girls, revealin... more

Nicole's photographer, Kim Newmoney (VOGUE, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE) chats with her about the logistics and managing a harem of 7 hot men. They talk about men who claim they want casual relationships but get territorial when another guy whose interest, a... more

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Comedian Bresha Webb (Run the World, Hacks) joins Nicole to share her terrible experience accientally dating a Hollywood scammer. Bresha also shares the story of a guy who paid for their dinner using a coin purse full of laundry quarters, what happen... more

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Comedian and writer Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) returns to the podcast! He shares how a group blind date quickly turned into a one-on-one nightmare with a horrible, drunk Jubilee "celebrity." Plus, Elliot and Nicole talk about what it's like ... more

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Kim Newmoney
Photographer and skater, featured guest on the episode
Self-employed (photography)
Episode: Juggling A 7-Man Harem (w/ Kim Newmoney)
Bresha Webb
Comedian and actress known for The Proud Family, Run the World, Hacks
Actor/Comedian
Episode: Dating a Hollywood Scammer (w/ Bresha Webb)
Eliot Glazer
Comedian and author of The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Gay
Episode: The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Date (w/ Eliot Glazer)
Lydia Butthole Kollins
Drag queen, contestant on RuPaul's Drag Race Season 17 and All Stars 10
Drag Race/ButtTootKing
Episode: The Truth About TV Showmances (w/ Lydia B Kollins)
Willam Belli
Iconic drag queen, RuPaul's Drag Race alum, host of Love is a Drag
Drag Empire / Race Chasers
Episode: Sharing Trade (w/ Willam Belli)
June Jambalaya
Drag queen and RuPaul's Drag Race Season 14 contestant
Drag performance / entertainment
Episode: My Career Ruined my Relationships (w/ June Jambalaya)
Liza Treyger
Comedian and host of That's Messed Up; guest on the episode
Comedy
Episode: Hiring a Zoom Stripper (w/ Liza Treyger)
Sabrina Jalees
Comedian, actor, and writer; voice/star of Mating Season
Mating Season (Netflix)
Episode: Creatively Building a Family (w/ Sabrina Jalees)
Trixie Mattel
Legendary drag queen, RuPaul's Drag Race alum, founder of Trixie Cosmetics
Trixie Cosmetics
Episode: Setting Relationship Boundaries (w/ Trixie Mattel)

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Nicole Byer
Host of the show

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 25.3k ratings
  • Cheesecake

    Where do I sign to get the Applebees Apple chimi cheesecake back?!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MARYBETHDB
    United Statesa month ago
  • Nicole: I Will Date You

    I can’t imagine a more likable person than Nicole - sad I just discovered this but happy I have plenty to go through in the archives. Keep it up and IDEA! If things keep going well with nice man do a spinoff “why won’t you marry me?” That ends with the wedding

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Fleecy Mag
    United Statesa month ago
  • I love Nicole

    I feel like I could listen to Nicole on the toilet and it would still be so entertaining. From the first time I was aware of her I loved her so much. She always makes me laugh and has such a good and smart perspective. Grateful for you and your podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Grovergoelz44
    United States2 months ago
  • The cozy friend hug you didn’t know you needed

    Love love this show, I have been single for a while and I’m cool with it but good to hear other people are living and thriving single too!!!! And it’s soo funny, at least once an episode I’m laughing so hard Everyone on the Q train is just staring at me. If only they know.

    Also Nicole idk if you read these but I went to my first solo movie two weeks ago and now it’s a thing!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Manhattan_horsegirl
    United States2 months ago
  • Disappointing…

    Sabrina jalees came on and told a beautiful and devastating story about her fertility and miscarriage experience. Was expecting Nicole to handle it with so much more care and thoughtfulness than she did. All Nicole could muster was some shock and incredulity. The rest was apathy central. Girl. Plus, Nicole trying to grasp at straws to assert some sort of queerness when we know that’s a far stretch, as Sabrina was just making a joke about Sarah mcalachlan, left a bad taste in my mouth. Girl if t... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Asg62626
    Israel2 months ago

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Listener feedback often mentions how the show blends personal stories with practical relationship takeaways.
Some listeners critique coverage when guests touch sensitive topics, noting the need for careful handling.
A common theme is appreciation for inclusive, LGBTQ+ perspectives and diverse guest lineups.
Fans highlight Nicole Byer's warmth and sharp interviewing as a standout strength.
Guests' candid dating stories drive both humor and relatable insights.

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Talking Points

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The 'Goblintimacy' Dating Trend (w/ Devon Walker)
Q: What is goblintimacy and why would someone try it on a date?
Goblintimacy is a trend where someone shows up on a first date in a 'goblin' state, i.e., the worst version of themselves, to test how a potential partner handles vulnerability and to see if honesty and rapport can matter more than polish.
Sharing Trade (w/ Willam Belli)
Q: What's your advice for single people out there?
Be enough for yourself first; recognize your own worth and don't rely on someone else to complete you. If needed, tell yourself and others you are worthy of a healthy relationship before seeking one.
My Career Ruined my Relationships (w/ June Jambalaya)
Q: What advice would you give to single people listening right now?
Be authentic and present who you are; don't try to fit a mold to please others, and trust that you will attract someone who aligns with your true self.
Creatively Building a Family (w/ Sabrina Jalees)
Q: Without spoiling it, what is one of your favorite storylines that you worked on in Mating Season?
The storyline where Penelope visits the 62 million men who visited a controversial website and she shoots them, which blends gonzo humor with a sharp take on vengeance and justice.
Writing Heated Rivalry (w/ Rachel Reid)
Q: What was it like seeing your book become a TV show?
It was beyond expectations; the adaptation felt like a natural progression that could elevate the work, and the process was exciting, with a lot of care put into getting the characters right.

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The show centers on dating, relationships, and romantic life with a candid, humorous lens. Conversations rotate among comedians, LGBTQ+ guests, relationship experts, and public figures who share personal dating experiences, boundary-setting, therapy, and modern love in a culture saturated with apps, fame, and social media. Episodes often blend intimate storytelling with practical relationship insights, plus light sponsorships woven into the chat. A standout throughline is exploring authenticity and self-worth in dating, from open relationships to long-term partnerships, all delivered with warmth, humor, and no-holds-barred honesty. This mix of humor, real talk, and diverse guest perspectives makes it appealing for listeners seeking relatabl... more

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2. Bresha Webb
3. Eliot Glazer
4. Lydia Butthole Kollins
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7. Liza Treyger
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