
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 453 | Founded | 9 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Comedy InterviewsSociety & CultureRelationshipsComedy | |||

You ready for some good juju? This week, iconic drag queen Jujubee (Drag Race, Stop! That! Train!) joins Nicole to talk about the power of self-love and why she’s officially stopped looking for a relationship. Nicole pays tribute to her first dog, Ch... more
Drag queen Trixie Mattel (Drag Race S7, All Stars 3) returns to the podcast! After experiencing how exhausting it is to navigate a private breakup while smiling through a press tour, Trixie opens up about why she is now fiercely protective of her new... more
Tracie Thoms (RENT, The Devil Wears Prada 2) joins Nicole to discuss her 8-year journey to join the iconic cast of RENT, the wild logic men use to avoid commitment, and why some of them want all the benefits of a girlfriend with zero of the responsib... more
World famous relationship therapist Esther Perel has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over, and how to productively resolve t... more
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This podcast is hilarious, fun, and joyful. I love Nicole, and she is a great interviewer.
Been a long time Nicole fan! I miss nailed it baking competition so much you and Jacque were perfect. This show is great. But I am disappointed by the Ginger minj (spelling) episode. Just another platform to allow a very problematic person get away with the harm the continue to perpetuate. Hope for better accountability with the guest stars. Love that you are an ally! When Nicole wins I feel like I win. Go Nicole!
I love this podcast so much! i look forward to each new episode. It seems like everyone and their mother is doing a podcast these days but I find that this one is really easy to listen to, entertaining & funny.
Nicole can wring a good anecdote from a paper bag, but her episode with Tan France is OTHER WORLDLY.
Nicole! Girl! You know your podcast is fire but it’s time you graduate from calling “the nice man in your life” to boyfriend!! It’s time!!!
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Listeners tend to lean into candid, humorous conversations about dating, relationships, and personal growth, often framed by celebrity guests, performers, and experts. Episodes mix behind-the-scenes career stories with practical relationship insights, dating culture, and sometimes provocative takes on modern romance. The show stands out for its unapologetic host energy, wide range of guests from drag culture to therapy, and willingness to tackle sensitive topics with humor and openness. Potential listeners will likely enjoy witty banter, relatable dating tales, and guest perspectives that blend entertainment with relationship psychology.
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Why Won't You Date Me? launched 9 years ago and published 453 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on Why Won't You Date Me? include:
1. Tracie Thoms
2. Esther Perel
3. Rachel Reid
4. Sarah Natochenny
5. Tan France
6. Nathan Mitchell
7. Danielle Fishel
8. Drew Droege
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