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It's Not Me, It's You

John Kim and Vanessa Bennett
RelationshipsSociety & Culture

A therapist couple explores and processes their own issues, disproving the misconception that therapists have their shit together and that their relationships are perfect.John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and best selling author of "I Used To Be A Miserable F*ck" and “Single. On Purpose.” Vanessa Bennett is a licensed marriage and family therapist, codependency and mindfulness coach. They both have private practices and live in Altadena, California, where they are raising a baby and two chickens. more


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5 out of 5 stars from 177 ratings
  • New podcast?

    Are you guys doing anymore podcasts together??

    Apple Podcasts
    United States2 years ago
  • So relatable

    Really loving this podcast. John and Vanessa are so down to earth, and willing to speak frankly about tough subjects. I’m learning a lot.

    Apple Podcasts
    Mel McYay
    United States2 years ago
  • is there sth odd with the speed of this audio?

    Sara MI
    3 years ago
  • Fresh and therapeutic

    John Kim is raw, witty, and vulnerable. Self-aware and willing to learn. A dream come true in a man, right? Ha. I love listening to him on his shorts on the angry therapist.. what surprised me here was Vanessa. I love her intelligent insight and assertiveness.. she helps bring the depth .. she knows a lot about the psychology of it all... if relationships haven’t always been smooth sailing for you, these two will resonate with you. As an accomplished woman myself, I appreciate their take on ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    United States3 years ago
  • The best podcast

    I look forward to new episodes every week!! I love how open and honest v+j are. The topics they cover are so relatable. I usually don’t like when couples share lessons about relationships, but I actually trust these two because they are therapists who are still learning and growing. Love love love

    Apple Podcasts
    United States3 years ago

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