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The Psychology of Relationships

Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Relationships
Love
Attachment Styles
Happiness
Conflict Resolution
Communication
Self-Awareness
Emotional Health
Personal Growth
Loneliness
Sexual Wellbeing
Self-Worth
Responsive Desire
Emotional Intimacy
Marriage
Positive Psychology
Healthy Relationships
Psychology
Emotional Regulation
Romantic Relationships

Every couple has a story: the sparks, the late-night talks, the fights about nothing, and the moments that change everything. So why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart? The answer isn’t luck; it’s psychology. Join Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the hit podcast Dateable and authors of the book 'How to Be Dateable,' as they navigate this next phase of long-term committed rela... more

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Early experiences quietly shape how we attach, communicate, and handle conflict in adult relationships—without us even realizing it. In this episode, Vienna Pharaon, marriage and family therapist and author of The Origins of You, explores the five co... more

Strong, lasting relationships aren’t just about chemistry or shared interests—they’re about how we relate to each other every day. Julie & Yue sit down with Dr. Adam Bandelli, psychologist and relational intelligence expert, to dive into why relation... more

For decades, the 5 Love Languages have shaped how we understand connection—but relationships, culture, and expectations have evolved, and our framework for love might need an update. In this episode, Molly Owens, CEO and founder of Truity, introduces... more

With marriage rates on the decline, do people still want to get married—and why does it still carry so much emotional and cultural weight? In this episode, Julie & Yue sit down with Allison Raskin, mental health advocate, relationship coach, and auth... more

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Recent Guests

Adam Bandelli
Psychologist and relational intelligence expert
Bandelli & Associates
Episode: The Science of Strong Partnerships: Why Relational Intelligence Matters From Early Dating To Years In w/ Dr. Adam Bandelli
Molly Owens
CEO and founder of Truity Psychometrics (personality testing site)
Truity Psychometrics
Episode: The New 7 Love Styles: What Modern Research Reveals About Love Languages w/ Molly Owens of Truity Psychometrics
Allison Raskin
Mental health advocate, relationship coach, author of I Do, I Think
Author, Speaker
Episode: Choosing Marriage (Or Not): Deciding If Marriage Is Right for You w/ Allison Raskin
Dr. Greg Matos
Psychologist and author of The Rise of Lonely, Single Men
Better Love Project
Episode: Why So Many Men Are Struggling in Modern Love (And What We Can Do About It) w/ Dr Greg Matos
Diane Strachowski
Relationship Expert and Licensed Psychologist
backtolovedoc.com / Dr. Diane Strachowski
Episode: The Psychology of Love Bombing: Why Fast Love Isn’t Always Safe Love w/ Dr Diane Strachowski
Eli Finkel
Social Psychologist and Director of the Relationships and Motivation Lab at Northwestern University
Northwestern University
Episode: Compatibility Explained: What Actually Predicts Lasting Love & Relationships w/ Eli Finkel
Kylie McBeath
Relationship educator, co-author of Liberated Love
Self/Lib­erated Love network
Episode: The Hidden Cost of Avoidant Attachment: Why Pushing People Away Doesn’t Protect You w/ Kylie McBeath
Mark Groves
Human connection specialist, author, founder of Create the Love
Create the Love
Episode: The Real Work of Love: Healing Attachment Wounds & Choosing Growth in Relationships w/ Mark Groves
Beth Gulotta
Therapist and advocate for untraditional life paths
Episode: Quieting the Clock: Letting Go of Timeline Anxiety in Love & Life w/ Beth Gulotta

Hosts

Julie Krafchick
Host of The Psychology of Relationships; co-host of Dateable; co-author of How to Be Dateable
Yue Xu
Co-host of The Psychology of Relationships; co-host of Dateable; partner in exploring relationship psychology

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 101 ratings
  • It’s ok

    I question the people who say there’s only 1% of the population that are narcissists. This is entirely false because narcs DO NOT seek mental help. This stat is wrong and the very nature of the disorder should be proof enough.

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    Autumn's Eden
    United Statesa month ago
  • Mark Groves, March 12, ‘26

    The guest, Mark Groves, clearly had some good points and what sounds like effective relationship tools. However, I felt like he used so much fuzzy therapy-speak that I only understood about 50% of what he was talking about. When he was asked for concrete examples, he mostly gave some vague therapy wrapped descriptions. I think he had good stuff. I just wish I understood it.

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    CMEoivey
    United Statesa month ago
  • Self indulgent therapy speak

    Imagine a long conversation with some of the most intolerable people you’ve ever had to listen to. Many of them seriously unqualified to be giving therapeutic advice, nevertheless using as much therapy speak is as a humanly possible

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    2
    salukimike9
    United Statesa month ago
  • Hosting A Capitalist Trainer?

    Shirzad Chamine trains CEOs… why is he telling people how to conduct relationships?

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    StardustBabe
    United States2 months ago
  • Smart, Honest, Professional

    I truly enjoy this podcast and the depth of the conversations that are shared. The topics are always relevant, thoughtful, and grounded in real-life experience. Without fail, I walk away from each episode with two or three real “gems” that I can immediately apply in my own life.

    What I especially appreciate is how practical and actionable the advice is. It’s not just theory — it’s insight that actually helps you grow.

    Their book Dateable has also been incredibly impactful for me. It’s been a mea... more

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    The Gym Sherpa
    United States2 months ago

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Hosts provide actionable insights and clear takes on dating and long-term partnerships.
Engaging, thoughtful analysis of relationships that's practical and science-based.

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The New 7 Love Styles: What Modern Research Reveals About Love Languages w/ Molly Owens of Truity Psychometrics
Q: How should people use this framework in dating and relationships?
Use it as a language to articulate needs and preferences, not as a rigid compatibility test; discuss and align with partners, and focus on what truly lands with them rather than what you personally prefer.
The New 7 Love Styles: What Modern Research Reveals About Love Languages w/ Molly Owens of Truity Psychometrics
Q: Why expand to seven love languages and how were they developed?
The seven emerged from a large-scale data-driven process using responses from millions of test-takers, identifying new categories like intellectual and emotional connections, and refining the language to reflect contemporary relationship dynamics.
The New 7 Love Styles: What Modern Research Reveals About Love Languages w/ Molly Owens of Truity Psychometrics
Q: What are the original five love languages and where did they come from?
They were defined by a Christian marriage counselor in the 80s and early 90s, focusing on what partners want to receive and how to express love, but they were framed within a gendered, traditional view of marriage which modern research suggests needs updating.
Why So Many Men Are Struggling in Modern Love (And What We Can Do About It) w/ Dr Greg Matos
Q: What inspired you to write the article about lonely, single men?
Dr. Matos discusses spending time with women and listening to his audience, recognizing a pattern of men needing to develop emotional skills and vulnerability, which spurred the viral Psychology Today piece.
Choosing Marriage (Or Not): Deciding If Marriage Is Right for You w/ Allison Raskin
Q: How important are conversations about divorce, therapy, and side-issues in early dating?
These conversations reveal a lot about a potential partner's flexibility, views on commitment, and readiness to seek help when needed, which helps determine long-term compatibility.

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Two hosts explore relationship psychology through expert interviews and real-life stories, translating science into practical tools for navigating attachment, communication, finances, happiness, and growth in long-term partnerships. Episodes feature researchers, therapists, and renowned authors who illuminate how desire, money, parenting, and conflict shape relationships, with actionable takeaways you can apply in dating, marriage, and beyond. The show often emphasizes personal accountability, emotional regulation, and systems for healthier connection, making it a valuable listen for professionals and couples alike who want evidence-based relationship insights.

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