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The Psychology of Relationships

Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Relationships
Love
Attachment Styles
Happiness
Self-Awareness
Conflict Resolution
Communication
Personal Growth
Emotional Health
Marriage
Loneliness
Sexual Wellbeing
Dating
Self-Worth
Responsive Desire
Dating Apps
Mindfulness
Emotional Intimacy
Therapy
Attachment Theory

Every couple has a story: the sparks, the late-night talks, the fights about nothing, and the moments that change everything. So why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart? The answer isn’t luck; it’s psychology. Join Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the hit podcast Dateable and authors of the book 'How to Be Dateable,' as they navigate this next phase of long-term committed rela... more

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What if the healthiest relationship isn’t the one that follows the traditional blueprint—but the one that actually fits the people in it? Julie & Yue are joined by relationship coach and educator Ellecia Paine to explore how inherited expectations ca... more

Being single can easily feel like something we’re supposed to endure until we find someone—but what if it’s actually an opportunity to build a life you genuinely love? Julie & Yue are joined by John Kim, licensed therapist and author of Single On Pur... more

A fulfilling sex life isn’t just about chemistry or technique—it’s about feeling comfortable enough to communicate, explore, and be vulnerable with each other. Julie & Yue are joined by licensed psychotherapist and sex therapist Ian Kerner, author of... more

When does wanting love become needing it? For some people, relationships can become a source of obsession, validation, and emotional dependence—making it difficult to feel secure without another person. Julie & Yue are joined by Sherry Gaba, LCSW, ps... more

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Recent Guests

John Kim
Licensed therapist, author of Single On Purpose and founder of the Angry Therapist Movement
The Angry Therapist Movement
Episode: Single on Purpose: How to Stop Waiting for a Relationship to Start Your Life w/ John Kim
Ian Kerner
Licensed psychotherapist, nationally recognized sex therapist, author of She Comes First
Author and therapist
Episode: The Psychology of Better Sex: How Intimacy Can Strengthen Your Relationship w/ Dr. Ian Kerner
Sherry Gaba
Licensed psychotherapist, relationship addiction expert, and author
Wake Up Recovery for Codependence
Episode: Love Addiction: Why You Can’t Stop Chasing Relationships (And How to Break the Cycle) w/ Sherry Gaba
Ken Page
Psychotherapist, author of Deeper Dating, host of the Deeper Dating podcast
Deeper Dating
Episode: Stop Trying to Be More Lovable: How Your Greatest Gifts Can Transform Your Relationships w/ Ken Page
Simone Milasas
Relationship educator and co-author
Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?
Episode: Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?: Why Partnership Should Be a Choice, Not a Necessity w/ Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt
Brendon Watt
Relationship educator and co-author
Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?
Episode: Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?: Why Partnership Should Be a Choice, Not a Necessity w/ Simone Milasas and Brendon Watt
Lauren Korshak
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Mindful Matchmaker / Private Practice
Episode: The Truth About Attachment Styles: Why You’re Not Just Anxious or Avoidant w/ Lauren Korshak
Joe Gavazza
Founder/Advisor at Gavazza Wealth Management, financial advisor
Gavazza Wealth Management
Episode: Money & Relationships: What Financial Compatibility Really Means for Couples w/ Joe Gavazza
Raquel Peel
Relationship researcher, TEDx speaker, psychologist
Independent researcher and lecturer
Episode: Relationship Self-Sabotage: Why We Push Away the Love We Actually Want w/ Dr. Raquel Peel

Hosts

Yue Xu
Co-host of relationship-focused programs; long-running host with expertise in dating psychology and relationship science.
Julie Krafchick
Co-host and author with a focus on dating culture, attachment, and practical relationship skills; regular host alongside Yue Xu.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 158 ratings
  • Came here to learn about relationships

    First episode I hear is about LGBT…. Yawn.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Baileigh27
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love this podcast!

    Experienced podcasters Julie and Yue are curating a great list of topics and experts! 💖 I recommend it to my dating & relationship coaching clients!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MarieThouin
    United Statesa month ago
  • Another great hit by Julie & Yue

    Julie & Yue from the highly acclaimed Dateable podcast have created another hit podcast! They bring so many great stories and relationship wisdom to this new platform and have a stellar guest lineup to ensure listeners walk away with valuable gems to implement in their own relationships. Congrats to you both!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dr. Gladys
    United Statesa month ago
  • Helpful Perspectives

    Rather professional, experienced, or unsure I enjoy this show because of the range of guests and topics discussed. I think people forget how many of us are given great advice or perspective without special credentials. Not everything in the show applies to me but I enjoy listening to different takes and pocket others for more thought later. Thank you for these interesting discussions. I’ve recommended quite a few episodes.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Briana-J
    United States3 months ago
  • Save your time

    Someone else said it perfectly, so I will repeat. Imagine long conversations with some of the most intolerable people. Would not take relationship advice from them or most of their guests. Disappointing.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    sasaCairo
    United States5 months ago

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Some feedback notes that certain episodes can be dense, with therapy-style language that isn't always accessible.
Listeners praise depth and practicality, appreciating science-backed insights and actionable takeaways.
Guests are varied, offering strong expertise and real-world applicability.
Positive sentiment about the hosts' chemistry and ability to translate research into relatable guidance.
The show is seen as smart, honest, and growth-oriented, with a strong value proposition for dating and relationship improvement.

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Single on Purpose: How to Stop Waiting for a Relationship to Start Your Life w/ John Kim
Q: What's your advice to those people that are feeling like, I need to do something to move it forward, and they're like, I don't have that faith yet right now.
Kim recommends accepting social invitations and participating in community activities, even when he does not feel like going, while pairing the intention to meet people with action.
Single on Purpose: How to Stop Waiting for a Relationship to Start Your Life w/ John Kim
Q: So when you made this conscious decision to be single on purpose, what was step number one?
Kim says the first step was acceptance: acknowledging where he was instead of rushing into another relationship or trying to repeat the past.
Love Addiction: Why You Can’t Stop Chasing Relationships (And How to Break the Cycle) w/ Sherry Gaba
Q: What did you do to become happy on your own?
Gaba says therapy and trauma work were central, alongside canoeing, deciding to change, examining her fears of being alone, and learning to care for her younger self.
Love Addiction: Why You Can’t Stop Chasing Relationships (And How to Break the Cycle) w/ Sherry Gaba
Q: What is relationship addiction and how does it show up for people?
Gaba describes it as a process addiction often rooted in trauma or attachment issues, with people chasing the first high of love, losing their identity in relationships, lacking boundaries, and relying on partners for self-worth.
Marriage 101: The Relationship Skills Nobody Ever Taught You w/ Dr. Alexandra Solomon
Q: So what is the secret to a long lasting marriage?
There isn't a magic secret; successful couples work through friction, understand each other deeply, and stay connected by continual self-awareness and mutual growth.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Psychology of Relationships

What is The Psychology of Relationships about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Conversations center on relationship psychology, focusing on why partners connect, argue, and grow together. Episodes blend research from psychologists and therapists with hosts' real-life experiences, offering practical tools for healthier communication, secure attachment, and ongoing dating or long-term partnership. A standout angle is translating science into actionable steps—covering topics from self-awareness and emotional responsibility to sex talks, attachment, and breaking toxic cycles. The format regularly features top researchers, clinicians, and coaches who provide evidence-based guidance, while the hosts fuse theory with relatable, real-world examples. This mix makes it especially helpful for listeners seeking tangible strategie... more

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1. John Kim
2. Ian Kerner
3. Sherry Gaba
4. Ken Page
5. Simone Milasas
6. Brendon Watt
7. Lauren Korshak
8. Joe Gavazza

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