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The Psychology of Relationships

Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Relationships
Love
Attachment Styles
Happiness
Self-Awareness
Conflict Resolution
Communication
Personal Growth
Emotional Health
Marriage
Loneliness
Sexual Wellbeing
Dating
Self-Worth
Responsive Desire
Dating Apps
Mindfulness
Emotional Intimacy
Therapy
Attachment Theory

Every couple has a story: the sparks, the late-night talks, the fights about nothing, and the moments that change everything. So why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart? The answer isn’t luck; it’s psychology. Join Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the hit podcast Dateable and authors of the book 'How to Be Dateable,' as they navigate this next phase of long-term committed rela... more

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Money can create some of the biggest tensions in a relationship—but the conflict usually isn’t just about money. It’s about what money represents: security, freedom, control, priorities, and the future you want to build together. Julie & Yue are join... more

Sometimes the things we do to protect ourselves from getting hurt are the very things that create distance in our relationships. Julie & Yue are joined by psychologist and relationship researcher Dr. Raquel Peel to explore why we sometimes sabotage h... more

Most people enter relationships without ever being taught the skills needed to sustain one. Communication, conflict, intimacy, and emotional responsibility are often learned through trial and error instead of intention. Dr. Alexandra Solomon—licensed... more

What if healthy relationships require more than simply falling in love? Many traditional relationship models teach couples to merge into one shared identity, but that approach can sometimes weaken connection instead of strengthening it. Dr. Sara Nass... more

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Recent Guests

Raquel Peel
Relationship researcher, TEDx speaker, psychologist
Independent researcher and lecturer
Episode: Relationship Self-Sabotage: Why We Push Away the Love We Actually Want w/ Dr. Raquel Peel
Dr. Sara Nasserzadi
Social psychologist, relational architect, author of Love by Design
Author, Love by Design
Episode: The New Science of Emergent Love: How to Build Relationships That Grow Instead of Collapse w/ Dr. Sara Nasserzadi
Vanessa Marin
Licensed psychotherapist and author of Sex Talks
Sex Talks / Vanessa Marin Counseling
Episode: Sex Talks: The Five Conversations Every Couple Needs To Transform Their Love Life w/ Vanessa and Xander Marin
Xander Marin
Vanessa's husband and collaborator
Sex Talks / Book authors
Episode: Sex Talks: The Five Conversations Every Couple Needs To Transform Their Love Life w/ Vanessa and Xander Marin
Pharaoh Kyle
Spiritual coach, entrepreneur, and energy healer
Self-employed / Energy healing practice
Episode: How to Break Toxic Relationship Cycles for Good w/ Pharaoh Kyle
Dr. Tasha Eurich
Organizational psychologist, researcher, and best-selling author of Insight
Independent researcher/Author
Episode: The Science Behind Knowing Yourself: How Self-Awareness Changes the Way You Love w/ Dr Tasha Eurich
Matthew Fray
Relationship coach, writer of An Open Letter to Shtty Husbands, and author of This Is How Your Marriage Ends
Author/Relationship Coach
Episode: How To Avoid That Big Breakup or Divorce: The Relationship Warning Signs Most Couples Miss w/ Matthew Fray
Vanessa Van Edwards
Behavioral researcher, bestselling author of Cues and Captivate, founder of Science of People
Science of People
Episode: Creating Chemistry: The Hidden Signals of Attraction and Connection w/ Vanessa Van Edwards
Paul Eastwick
Professor of psychology at UC Davis; director of Attraction and Relationships Research Lab; co-host of Love Factually
University of California, Davis
Episode: Love Factually: Debunking the Biggest Lies We’re Told About Finding Love w/ Paul Eastwick & Eli Finkel

Hosts

Yue Xu
Co-host of relationship-focused programs; long-running host with expertise in dating psychology and relationship science.
Julie Krafchick
Co-host and author with a focus on dating culture, attachment, and practical relationship skills; regular host alongside Yue Xu.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 145 ratings
  • Helpful Perspectives

    Rather professional, experienced, or unsure I enjoy this show because of the range of guests and topics discussed. I think people forget how many of us are given great advice or perspective without special credentials. Not everything in the show applies to me but I enjoy listening to different takes and pocket others for more thought later. Thank you for these interesting discussions. I’ve recommended quite a few episodes.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Briana-J
    United States2 months ago
  • Save your time

    Someone else said it perfectly, so I will repeat. Imagine long conversations with some of the most intolerable people. Would not take relationship advice from them or most of their guests. Disappointing.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    sasaCairo
    United States3 months ago
  • It’s ok

    I question the people who say there’s only 1% of the population that are narcissists. This is entirely false because narcs DO NOT seek mental help. This stat is wrong and the very nature of the disorder should be proof enough.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Autumn's Eden
    United States5 months ago
  • Mark Groves, March 12, ‘26

    The guest, Mark Groves, clearly had some good points and what sounds like effective relationship tools. However, I felt like he used so much fuzzy therapy-speak that I only understood about 50% of what he was talking about. When he was asked for concrete examples, he mostly gave some vague therapy wrapped descriptions. I think he had good stuff. I just wish I understood it.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    CMEoivey
    United States6 months ago
  • Self indulgent therapy speak

    Imagine a long conversation with some of the most intolerable people you’ve ever had to listen to. Many of them seriously unqualified to be giving therapeutic advice, nevertheless using as much therapy speak is as a humanly possible

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    salukimike9
    United States6 months ago

Listeners Say

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Some feedback notes that certain episodes can be dense, with therapy-style language that isn't always accessible.
Listeners praise depth and practicality, appreciating science-backed insights and actionable takeaways.
Guests are varied, offering strong expertise and real-world applicability.
Positive sentiment about the hosts' chemistry and ability to translate research into relatable guidance.
The show is seen as smart, honest, and growth-oriented, with a strong value proposition for dating and relationship improvement.

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Talking Points

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Marriage 101: The Relationship Skills Nobody Ever Taught You w/ Dr. Alexandra Solomon
Q: So what is the secret to a long lasting marriage?
There isn't a magic secret; successful couples work through friction, understand each other deeply, and stay connected by continual self-awareness and mutual growth.
How to Break Toxic Relationship Cycles for Good w/ Pharaoh Kyle
Q: What is a dating sabbatical and how does it help?
A dating sabbatical is a period of intentional silence from dating to reset energy, change environments, and explore what you truly want; it helps break old attraction patterns and allows you to attract a healthier type of partner when you return.
How to Break Toxic Relationship Cycles for Good w/ Pharaoh Kyle
Q: How can someone start recognizing their patterns and changing them?
Start with awareness of patterns, seek support from a coach, therapist, or guide, train yourself in healthy communication, and commit to changing internal beliefs about what love looks like; real change begins with changing the subconscious programming.
How to Break Toxic Relationship Cycles for Good w/ Pharaoh Kyle
Q: What are some signs that a relationship is toxic?
Signs include disempowerment in the relationship, feeling unheard, the other person not valuing or caring about your needs, and a pattern of energy being drained or identity being worn down; toxicity can also manifest in living in cycles that undermine your sense of self.
Love Is Not Enough: Why You Stay in the Wrong Relationships (Even When You Know Better) w/ Mark Manson
Q: What advice would you give to someone stuck in a 'situationship' or a unhealthy dynamic?
Identify patterns, set clear boundaries, and consider whether the relationship earns the right to your fantasy; if not, choose to stop playing the game and seek healthier connections.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Psychology of Relationships

What is The Psychology of Relationships about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Conversations center on relationship psychology, focusing on why partners connect, argue, and grow together. Episodes blend research from psychologists and therapists with hosts' real-life experiences, offering practical tools for healthier communication, secure attachment, and ongoing dating or long-term partnership. A standout angle is translating science into actionable steps—covering topics from self-awareness and emotional responsibility to sex talks, attachment, and breaking toxic cycles. The format regularly features top researchers, clinicians, and coaches who provide evidence-based guidance, while the hosts fuse theory with relatable, real-world examples. This mix makes it especially helpful for listeners seeking tangible strategie... more

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Recent guests on The Psychology of Relationships include:

1. Raquel Peel
2. Dr. Sara Nasserzadi
3. Vanessa Marin
4. Xander Marin
5. Pharaoh Kyle
6. Dr. Tasha Eurich
7. Matthew Fray
8. Vanessa Van Edwards

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