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The Psychology of Relationships

Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Relationships
Love
Attachment Styles
Communication
Self-Awareness
Conflict Resolution
Emotional Health
Personal Growth
Happiness
Sexual Wellbeing
Self-Worth
Responsive Desire
Emotional Intimacy
Psychology
Healthy Relationships
Romantic Relationships
Emotional Regulation
Positive Psychology
Spontaneous Desire
Stress

Every couple has a story: the sparks, the late-night talks, the fights about nothing, and the moments that change everything. So why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart? The answer isn’t luck; it’s psychology. Join Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the hit podcast Dateable and authors of the book 'How to Be Dateable,' as they navigate this next phase of long-term committed rela... more

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How do you actually know if someone is a good match for you—not just on paper or in the early spark, but in a way that lasts over time? So much of modern dating emphasizes chemistry, shared interests, and surface-level alignment, yet research shows t... more

Ever notice how wanting closeness can suddenly make you feel trapped or how independence can quietly turn into emotional distance? To continue the conversation from last week, Julie & Yue chat with Mark's now-wife Kylie McBeath, relationship educator... more

When one person pulls away and the other leans in harder, the result is often frustration, confusion, and emotional exhaustion. In this episode, Julie & Yue talk with Mark Groves—human connection specialist, author, and founder of Create the Love—abo... more

There’s a quiet pressure many people carry: the feeling that they’re running out of time. Time to find love. Time to settle down. Time to make it all happen before the clock says otherwise. In this episode, Julie & Yue are joined by therapist and adv... more

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Recent Guests

Mark Groves
Human connection specialist, author, founder of Create the Love
Create the Love
Episode: The Real Work of Love: Healing Attachment Wounds & Choosing Growth in Relationships w/ Mark Groves
Beth Gulotta
Therapist and advocate for untraditional life paths
Episode: Quieting the Clock: Letting Go of Timeline Anxiety in Love & Life w/ Beth Gulotta
Shirzad Chamine
Author, coach, founder of Positive Intelligence
Positive Intelligence
Episode: The Saboteurs That Are Killing Your Relationships w/ Shirzad Chamine
Casey Caston
Marriage coach and author
Marriage365
Episode: When Your Marriage Nearly Falls Apart: Lessons in Repair & Reconnection w/ Casey & Meygan Caston
Meygan Caston
Marriage coach and author
Marriage365
Episode: When Your Marriage Nearly Falls Apart: Lessons in Repair & Reconnection w/ Casey & Meygan Caston
Dr. Laurie Santos
Yale professor and psychologist, and host of The Happiness Lab
Yale University
Episode: The Science of Lasting Happiness (Inside & Outside Of Relationships) w/ Dr. Laurie Santos
Todd Baratz
Therapist and author of 'How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind'
Instagram Account - YourDiagnonsense
Episode: The Truth About Relationships: What’s Confusing, Frustrating, and Totally Normal w/ Todd Baratz
May Lee
Former CNN journalist and anchor, now engaged for the first time at age 57
Episode: Finding Love at Any Age: Why It’s Never Too Late to Build the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted w/ May Lee
Ramit Sethi
Netflix host, bestselling author, and creator of Money For Couples
Money For Couples
Episode: What Healthy Couples Need To Understand About Money In Order To Build Their Rich Life w/ Ramit Sethi

Hosts

Julie Krafchick
Co-host of The Psychology of Relationships, Julie Krafchick also previously co-hosted the Dateable podcast. She brings insights from her experiences in navigating relationships and personal growth.
Yue Xu
Co-host of The Psychology of Relationships, Yue Xu is known for her work on the Dateable podcast, with a focus on relationships and personal development.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 82 ratings
  • Hosting A Capitalist Trainer?

    Shirzad Chamine trains CEOs… why is he telling people how to conduct relationships?

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    StardustBabe
    United Statesa month ago
  • Smart, Honest, Professional

    I truly enjoy this podcast and the depth of the conversations that are shared. The topics are always relevant, thoughtful, and grounded in real-life experience. Without fail, I walk away from each episode with two or three real “gems” that I can immediately apply in my own life.

    What I especially appreciate is how practical and actionable the advice is. It’s not just theory — it’s insight that actually helps you grow.

    Their book Dateable has also been incredibly impactful for me. It’s been a mea... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    The Gym Sherpa
    United Statesa month ago
  • let’s go!

    dig these 2 ladies Julie & Yue! and now with this cool new Podcast TPOR they are digging deeper into relationships. Maybe because they are both now in relationships!

    Fantastic listening as always u guys are awesome & thriving!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lou Cass
    United Statesa month ago
  • 5 Stars!! Thank you

    Amazing content, Julie and Yue are pros

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    AMTQJT2121
    United Statesa month ago
  • Great podcast for those who want to keep growing in dating or relationships

    I’m so happy that Yue and Julie started this new podcast series. I relied on their Dateable episodes to help me navigate modern dating and its challenges. They truly shaped how I approached dating and relationships.

    Now that I’m in a long term relationship, I realize the work doesn’t stop. It just evolves. Being in a committed partnership required a different mindset, different skill sets, and intentional planning for the future. This podcast meets me exactly where I am in that journey.

    The ep... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    itsatrap111
    United States2 months ago

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Audience members express that they have found actionable takeaways from each episode, significantly benefiting their personal relationships.
The blend of expert advice with relatable anecdotes resonates well, leading to a deeper understanding of relationship dynamics.
Many reviews highlight the engaging chemistry between the hosts, which enhances the enjoyment of the listening experience.
Listeners appreciate the insightful psychological perspective on relationships that the hosts bring, making concepts easy to understand and applicable in daily life.

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The Saboteurs That Are Killing Your Relationships w/ Shirzad Chamine
Q: what is Positive Intelligence in your own words?
Positive Intelligence is a measure of your mastery over your own mind, distinguishing the positive sage from the sabotaging inner voices, and guiding you to strengthen the sage to improve your relationships and performance.
The Science of Lasting Happiness (Inside & Outside Of Relationships) w/ Dr. Laurie Santos
Q: What is the importance of negative emotions in evaluating our happiness?
Negative emotions provide valuable signals that should be acknowledged rather than dismissed, aiding in understanding feelings and relationship dynamics.
The Science of Lasting Happiness (Inside & Outside Of Relationships) w/ Dr. Laurie Santos
Q: What truly makes people happy?
Happiness often does not hinge on achieving external milestones; rather, it is influenced by internal well-being and social connections.
The Truth About Relationships: What’s Confusing, Frustrating, and Totally Normal w/ Todd Baratz
Q: How do people strike the balance between being realistic that we are transitioning out of the honeymoon period versus, oh, this person is not right for me?
It's essential to create a story around experiences rather than making quick judgments about staying or leaving.
Finding Love at Any Age: Why It’s Never Too Late to Build the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted w/ May Lee
Q: What advice would you give to anyone who is struggling and dating right now, thinking, I'm just not going to find my person?
You never know. Don't give up if you still want it. It's about releasing negativity and being open to possibilities, even if you're not searching desperately.

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This podcast examines the intricate dynamics of relationships through the lens of psychology, focusing on how psychological principles can enhance love and connection. Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu engage with various experts to discuss topics such as emotional availability, the impact of attachment styles, and effective communication strategies in relationships. Each episode not only presents theoretical insights but also practical tools and advice aimed at helping listeners nurture and strengthen their own relationships, regardless of their current status. The engaging mix of personal anecdotes and expert discussions brings a relatable quality to the deep psychological concepts explored.

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1. Mark Groves
2. Beth Gulotta
3. Shirzad Chamine
4. Casey Caston
5. Meygan Caston
6. Dr. Laurie Santos
7. Todd Baratz
8. May Lee

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