Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam BlackwellSam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 766 | Founded | 8 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessMental Health | |||
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Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend broke up with her and is now pretending like he didn't
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- Lifesaver
I have listened to JBU for years now and I truly cannot thank these two enough for the wisdom and comfort they have provided me though good and the bad times. It’s been so therapeutic, often way more helpful than my IRL therapy sessions. I appreciate their thoughtful, empathetic, deeply helpful perspectives and insights. It’s so refreshing and I just love listening to these two so much. Thank you for sharing your energy, time, and gift with us. You make this world a better place.
Apple Podcasts5mdubbbb88
United Statesa month ago - Life saving advice
I’ve been listening to this podcast since the very first minute it aired and it has been soothing me through some of the hardest times in my life. I love you guys with all my heart, it’s been a privilege to listen along while you sort through everybody’s mess, including your own, with so much care and wisdom. ♥️♥️♥️
Apple Podcasts5n.shirin
Germany3 months ago - Like very insightful friends
Listening to this podcast has genuinely helped me think more securely about relationships and I recommend it often to friends. The hosts are imperfect people who have been on their own path of emotional growth and security. They do a great job of pulling from their own experiences and personal research to give the best advice they know how to give. Their candor and vulnerability is so genuine and refreshing. Listening to this podcast is like listening to two very insightful friends work through ... more
Apple Podcasts5LfdeshaneUnited States3 months ago - Pass
It’s quite rich that two sexual deviants believe they are qualified to dispense relationship advice. These abominations should focus on repenting from their perverse lifestyles instead of trying to help others heal from broken relationships. Gays should have a little humility instead they are proud of their sinful behavior. Sad world we live in today when this filth is somehow entertainment.
Apple Podcasts1Nik88865United States3 months ago - Came for the relationship advice…
Stayed for Sam casually dropping obscure and challenging vocabulary that has me reaching for my dictionary multiple times an episode.
Apple Podcasts5nikkigoddessgoddamnUnited States3 months ago
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Apple Podcasts | #191 | United States/Health & Fitness/Mental Health |
Apple Podcasts | #216 |  Canada/Health & Fitness/Mental Health |
Apple Podcasts | #48 |  Chile/Health & Fitness/Mental Health |
Apple Podcasts | #77 |  Philippines/Health & Fitness/Mental Health |
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Apple Podcasts | #117 | Chile/Health & Fitness |
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Two hosts deliver relationship guidance with a mix of warmth, candor, and practical strategies. Episodes center on letters and real-life scenarios—breakups, cohabitation with an ex, parenting, boundaries, and navigating love under non-traditional dynamics—grounded in empathy, accountability, and actionable steps. Recurring themes include anxious attachment, communication, self-care, and boundaries, with occasional sponsorship moments and cultural recommends. The format blends personal anecdotes with evidence-informed perspectives, and the hosts often acknowledge limits by clarifying they aren't licensed therapists, while still prioritizing listener safety and growth. This show is notable for its queer perspective, direct honesty, and its ha... more
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