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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory
Non-Monogamy
Polyamory
Relationships
Communication
Jealousy
Mental Health
Non-Monogamous Relationships
Relationship Dynamics
Anxiety
Therapy
Dating Apps
Consensual Non-Monogamy
Personal Growth
Breakups
Communication In Relationships
Conflict Resolution
Communication Tools
Multiamory Essential Tools For Modern Relationships
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Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.

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On this episode of the Multiamory Podcast, we're answering a listener who has been polyamorous for almost two decades, is upfront with every partner that he is non-hierarchical, and keeps running into the same problem: once a new person shows up, the... more

Today we're talking about missing past relationships and partners, even if they hurt you or weren't good experiences. Most advice just says to get over it, but we're going to spend some time on why you miss these people and how wanting someone and en... more

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This week we're excited to welcome back Kim Tallbear to the show to talk about polyamory as a political movement. Kim TallBear (Sisseton-Wahpeton Oyate citizen) is Professor of American Indian Studies at the University of Minnesota, Twin Cities. She ... more

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We're discussing hinge partners this episode, specifically what to do when a hinge partner is struggling at being a good hinge. We've got some updated research to go over since our last episode about hinges, and we'll have some actionable ways to dea... more

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Kim TallBear
Professor of American Indian Studies at the University of Minnesota, Twin Cities, and author of Native American DNA
University of Minnesota, Twin Cities
Episode: 601 - Polyamory as a Political Movement with Dr. Kim TallBear
Patrick Bex
Aeroace advocate, content creator, and author known for fluentlyaspec platforms educating about aromantic and asexual experiences
Aeroace advocacy / fluentlyaspec
Episode: 597 - What are Asexuality and Aromanticism (with Patrick Bex)?
Sheva Rajaee
Licensed marriage and family therapist, Director of the Center for Anxiety and OCD, author of Relationship OCD
Center for Anxiety and OCD
Episode: 596 - Relationship OCD and Non-monogamy (with Sheva Rajaee MFT)
Orit Krug
Dance and movement therapist; somatic approaches to relationship anxiety and trauma healing
Somatic pathway to healing; polyamory advocate
Episode: 591 - Shift Anxious Attachment with Your Body, Not Your Brain (with Orit Krug)
Nicole Thompson
Queer sex and relationship therapist, researcher, host of the Modern Anarchy Podcast
The Pleasure Practice; Modern Anarchy Podcast
Episode: 585 - The First Study on Relationship Anarchy with Dr. Nicole Thompson
Dr. Marie Thouin
Author and compersion researcher, coach
What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships
Episode: 584 - Buddhist Perspective on Compersion with Dr. Marie Thouin
Paul Eastwick
Professor of psychology at UC Davis; author of Bonded by Evolution; co-host of Love Factually
University of California, Davis
Episode: 581 - Humor and Attraction with Dr. Paul Eastwick
Eli Finkel
Professor at Northwestern University; Love Factually guest
Northwestern University
Episode: 573 - Is the Non-Monogamy in Vicky Cristina Barcelona Realistic? Film Critique with Love Factually
Gary Ware
Founder of Breakthrough Play, expert in play-based methods
Breakthrough Play
Episode: 570 - Play as Resistance: featuring Gary Ware from Breakthrough Play and Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Hosts

Jase Lindgren
Relationship educator and co-author of a book on modern relationships
Emily Matlack
Relationship educator and co-author of a book on modern relationships
Dedeker Winston
Relationship educator and co-author of a book on modern relationships

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4.8 out of 5 stars from 2.7k ratings
  • Knowledgeable and Real

    There’s truly something for everyone on the Multiamory podcast. The hosts are knowledgeable, thoughtful, and clearly put care into researching and bringing meaningful conversations to the table. As someone who has been practicing ENM for 17 years, I still find myself learning something new or having my own perspectives challenged, after listening. Thank you for being such a valuable pillar in the community and for offering education, insight, and understanding in a space that can often feel misu... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    anora13
    United States7 months ago
  • Indispensable Resource

    Each of the three hosts have a distinct and incredibly insightful perspective so I can always relate to one of them. They provide super practical resources and research in an accessible and interesting way. I found the podcast seven years ago when I was relatively new to polyamory and I’ve found it the most useful resources of many. It’s been useful through various relationships and phases. I’ve shared the triforce of communication, micro-scripts and RADAR with many friends and family members st... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Yukimynaguchi
    United States10 months ago
  • Another overhyped podcast…

    About people who don’t actually exist or are impossible to find.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    K9 fan
    United Statesa year ago
  • Love it! One request ❤️

    Love the podcast!!! Please normalize the audio throughout the whole show. The talking is rather quiet and the ads are super loud. Thank you!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BeepBoop301
    United Statesa year ago
  • Disappointing misunderstanding of Buddhism

    I have listened to this podcast for many years and mostly I find the hosts to have interesting and thoughtful reflections and introspection. It is so disappointing that despite having some interest in Buddhism they speak about it in the popularist way, further perpetuating the misunderstanding that Buddhism is a way to avoid feeling emotions. Please learn more before spouting these myths further- or just don’t talk about it if you aren’t interested in investigating the religion deeply.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    MissFloweringLotus
    Australiaa year ago

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Listeners value the hosts' thoughtful, well-researched guidance and practical communication tools.
Many find the advice useful across relationship styles, including monogamous, polyamorous, and single listeners.
The hosts' candid, nonjudgmental approach and distinct perspectives help listeners feel understood and learn from one another.
A few listeners note uneven audio levels between conversation and advertisements, and occasional concerns about interruptions or balance among hosts.
Some listeners want more attention to racial and ethnic diversity in the discussion and research.

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601 - Polyamory as a Political Movement with Dr. Kim TallBear
Q: How can decolonization help people heal from harmful beliefs about sexuality and connect in a more loving, authentic, and healthy way?
TallBear distinguishes conceptual discussion from therapeutic work and suggests treating sex as one form of touch and intimacy rather than as uniquely special. She points to asexual polyamorous people as examples of attending to intimacy and connection beyond sex.
601 - Polyamory as a Political Movement with Dr. Kim TallBear
Q: Is there evidence to suggest that people in ethically non-monogamous relationships are more or less politically active than the general population?
TallBear knows of no such evidence and says that, based on the communities she has encountered, non-monogamous people are not necessarily more politically active or radical. She adds that people do not need to make their relationships a political project.
599 - What Do I Do When Both My Partners Want Marriage? Listener Q&A
Q: What do you do when both partners want to marry you?
The hosts recommend clarifying what each partner hopes marriage will provide, keeping the already planned wedding if the couple still wants it, and exploring legal arrangements for parenthood with a UK family-law professional. They also suggest discussing visibility, attendance, and other ways to mark commitment.
596 - Relationship OCD and Non-monogamy (with Sheva Rajaee MFT)
Q: How should a partner disclose ROCD to someone they are dating or with?
Disclose when the relationship feels safe, choose timing carefully, and provide resources rather than airing every thought; avoid bombarding the partner with every intrusive thought.
590 - Is Non-Monogamy Worth the Struggle?
Q: What do you two think is the most challenging thing about practicing non-monogamy?
The panelists discuss shifting personal challenges over time, from coordinating with metamors to navigating jealousy, time management, and the energy required to maintain multiple relationships, especially under societal scrutiny.

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Practical, research-informed conversations about relationships, with a strong focus on polyamory and consensual non-monogamy alongside topics relevant to dating, sex, communication, and emotional wellbeing. Regular hosts Jase Lindgren, Emily Matlack, and Dedeker Winston combine personal experience, listener questions, research, and expert interviews to make complex relationship dynamics more approachable. Episodes offer concrete tools for navigating subjects such as jealousy, boundaries, intimacy, attachment, and relationship structures, while also questioning assumptions about what relationships should look like. The tone is candid and conversational, with room for humor and disagreement as well as careful discussion of identity, stigma, a... more

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