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Heads and Tails

Kate + Jay White
Menopause
Midlife
Mental Health
Relationships
Intimacy
Sleep Disorders
Toxic Relationships
Perimenopause
Chronic Insomnia
Personal Growth
Dating
Sleep Apnea
Hormonal Changes
Travel
Psychology
Vacation
Emotional Well-Being
Dream Sleep Method
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Women's Health

Heads and Tails is a candid, heartfelt and often humorous podcast hosted by longtime couple Jay and Kate White.. ...a psychologist and an OB/GYN who've been married for 26 years. Named for their dual perspectives on the mind and body, this show dives into the real challenges of midlife with warmth, wisdom, and occasional glass of wine. ​ From navigating midlife dating or keeping the spark alive in... more

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Latest Episodes

You're in the same house, the same marriage, the same life — so why do you still feel lonely?

In this episode, Kate and Jay unpack one of the most painful and common midlife relationship struggles: feeling emotionally alone while living a very full... more

Desire mismatch in midlife is common — and it does not mean your relationship is broken. In this episode, Dr. Kate White and Jay White sit down with sexual medicine expert Dr. Kelly Casperson of the You Are Not Broken podcast to talk about why differ... more

Midlife can turn minor conflict into major disconnection—especially when hormones, mental load, and stress push your brain into "flooded" mode. Dr. Kate White and Jay White break down what fighting fair actually looks like in midlife: how to regulate... more

What happens when "be strong" turns into "be silent"? In this episode of Heads & Tails, we sit down with Traver Boehm, founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, to unpack the cultural myth that men must always be tough, unbothered, and emotionally b... more

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Recent Guests

Dr. Kelly Casperson
Urologist; sexual medicine doctor; author and podcaster
You Are Not Broken (book and podcast)
Episode: Episode 19: Dr. Kelly Casperson: Sex, Menopause and Desire
Traver Boehm
Founder of Uncivilized Men's Movement; author of Man Uncivilized; TED Talk speaker
Uncivilized
Episode: Episode 17: Traver Boehm: Pot, Porn, or PBR: What Men Use to Bury Pain—and How to Heal Instead
Dr. Mary Claire Haver
Menopause specialist and author
Episode: Ep. 15: Dr. Mary Claire Haver: Lose the Filter, Keep the Muscle: The Menopause Plan for the Next 30 Years
Chuck Nice
Comedian known for media hosting and science communication.
Episode: Episode 11: Laugh Lines & Life Lines: Midlife with Chuck Nice
Andrea Matsumura
Board certified internal medicine doctor and sleep specialist
SleepGoddessMD
Episode: Episode 5: Unlocking the Secrets of Sleep: Insights from Dr. Matsumura

Hosts

Kate White
Co-host; Gynecologist specializing in menopause and women's health; long-time practitioner with Heads & Tails
Jay White
Co-host; Marriage and family therapist; long-time partner of Kate with a warm, humorous perspective

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 48 ratings
  • Real Talk!

    This podcast is a breath of fresh air! Both podcast hosts bring unique perspectives about issues more people should be talking about. Great info and entertaining!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sol_siren
    United States5 months ago
  • Saved the Day!

    This is just the podcast I needed today. Dr. White delivered my last baby who is now 10 and as I have been experiencing the perimenopause years at the same time that I am also experiencing the teenage years! So helpful to have someone understand what I am going through. Thanks

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Life Support 1983
    United States6 months ago
  • Heads and tails is the best

    I grew up w Kate and she is a rockstar. Way more than I thought when we were stupid teenagers!!!!

    She’s brilliant, a great OB GYN ( I’ve been going to their practice for 25 plus years) , and truly a kind and thoughtful human. Inspirational. I’ve had therapeutic and personal interactions with Jay and he is the same…. Smart , warm, extremely helpful, and again….. a kind soul.

    This podcast nails this “recalibration” phase of life and touches on so many topics that we are wrestling with. Even if ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    charlestonhel
    United States7 months ago
  • Great insight!

    Particularly loved the parenting episode!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MeggoMG
    United States8 months ago
  • The psychology and the science!

    So many things that are happening now in this part of my life. Can totally relate! this hits all of the struggles.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Schuhflypie!
    United States8 months ago

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The show is described as honest, insightful, and calming during challenging life transitions, with practical advice and warmth.
Fans note the dynamic between the couple as a strength and appreciate guest perspectives on health and relationships.
Listeners praise the hosts for being relatable, knowledgeable, and funny while tackling real midlife issues.

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Episode 19: Dr. Kelly Casperson: Sex, Menopause and Desire
Q: How can couples incorporate sex into their routine without feeling pressured?
Prioritize scheduling and planning, treat sex like a five-star experience rather than a rushed event, and use non-sexual closeness (e.g., massages, shared activities) to build safety and arousal over time.
Episode 19: Dr. Kelly Casperson: Sex, Menopause and Desire
Q: What is the best way to approach a conversation about sexual desire without making it confrontational?
Start with normalization, acknowledge that desire fluctuates, and focus on how both partners want to feel and be intimate, then set a personal goal that comes from within each person rather than a demand.
Ep. 15: Dr. Mary Claire Haver: Lose the Filter, Keep the Muscle: The Menopause Plan for the Next 30 Years
Q: How can women manage menopause symptoms effectively?
Women can manage menopause symptoms through lifestyle changes such as diet, exercise, prioritizing sleep, and considering hormone therapy if appropriate.
Ep. 15: Dr. Mary Claire Haver: Lose the Filter, Keep the Muscle: The Menopause Plan for the Next 30 Years
Q: What are the biggest myths or misconceptions about menopause?
Menopause is often mistakenly thought to be a time-limited event, while it actually affects every organ system and can have lifelong symptoms.
Episode 9: Launch, Linger, and Loop Back Home: Parenting on the Edge of the Empty Nest
Q: What do you say to moms who feel trapped in the caregiving role and can't move to the next phase?
Recognize that over-identifying with the caregiving role can elevate stress and affect emotional connection, encouraging a recalibration to focus on the partnership.

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What is Heads and Tails about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A candid, warm, and often humorous exploration of midlife from a husband-and-wife duo who blend psychological insight with medical expertise. Across episodes, they tackle menopause, relationships, parenting teens and aging parents, work-life balance, and personal growth, pairing practical tips with relatable anecdotes. The show typically features expert guests or personal stories that illuminate the physical and emotional changes of midlife, with a tone that feels like a living room conversation rather than a lecture. It stands out for its dual perspectives on mind and body, its emphasis on recalibration over crisis, and its mix of clinical insight, real-world experience, and humor that makes challenging topics approachable for a broad audi... more

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1. unPAUSED with Dr. Mary Claire Haver
2. You Are Not Broken
3. The Tamsen Show
4. The Dr Vonda Show
5. Dr. Streicher’s Inside Information: Menopause, Midlife, and More

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1. Dr. Kelly Casperson
2. Traver Boehm
3. Dr. Mary Claire Haver
4. Chuck Nice
5. Andrea Matsumura

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