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But We Loved

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As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting... more

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Andy Tobias is one of the most well-known financial thinkers in America and was the treasurer of the Democratic National Committee for almost 20 years. He's also the author of "The Best Little Boy in the World." Often considered the first book to ope... more

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Recent Guests

Andy Tobias
Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" and financial thinker
New York Magazine, Democratic National Committee
Episode: The Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" on Gay Loneliness
Mark S. King
Author of My Fabulous Disease, a memoir about his recovery from Crystal Meth addiction
Author
Episode: The New Health Crisis for Gay Men: Crystal Meth
Tom Viola
One of the most important people in the fight against AIDS, who has raised nearly half a billion dollars to combat the crisis.
Broadway Cares Equity Fights AIDS
Episode: Raising Half a Billion Dollars to Fight AIDS
Martha Shelley
An author and poet who helped to found the goals of the first mainstream gay rights movement in the US.
Episode: Gay Rights Activism in the 60s & 70s
Dr. Ellen Broidy
One of the organizers of the first-ever Pride March held in New York in 1970
Episode: Planning the Very First Gay Pride March
Ken Lustbader
Historic preservationist and co-director of the NYC LGBT Historic Sites Project
NYC LGBT Historic Sites Project
Episode: The Transformational Power of Knowing Your Gay History
Bill Glenn
Gay spiritual leader and author of 'I Came Here Seeking a Person, A Vital Story of Grace, One Gay Man's Spiritual Journey'
Episode: A Gay Man Called to be a Priest During the AIDS Crisis
Richard Burns
Board chair of the American LGBTQ+ Museum and long-time activist
American LGBTQ+ Museum
Episode: The American LGBTQ+ Museum’s Board Chair on the Power of Representation
Derek Hodel
Executive director of the New York Buyer's Club in the 80s and 90s, who smuggled drugs into America to save lives during the AIDS epidemic.
New York Buyer's Club
Episode: The AIDS Activist that Smuggled Drugs to Save Lives

Host

Jordan Gonsalves
Host of the podcast, a journalist uncovering untold stories from the LGBTQ+ history through intimate interviews with community elders.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 191 ratings
  • Gonna Miss You 😢

    Hi Jordan my name is Bob. I listened to your final pod tonight and I am so sad that you are not going to be back. Your story almost mirrors mine. I grew up in the West during the 60s and 70s in the church knowing that I was attracted to men older than I and the same age as I. My first experience was with my slightly older best friend and I understood what I needed. I stayed closeted so I would not disappoint my family and church friends. In my 30s I finally came out to myself and had some short ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    RowdyDog!
    United States8 months ago
  • Noble Cause, Problematic Episode Titles

    Jordan Gonsalves’ motivation for creating this podcast is a noble one: to shed light on the incredible courage and hard work of LGBTQIA+ activists over decades to change public perception of our community and to demand equitable treatment. As he shares in his introductory comments for each podcast, his intention is to speak back to his own internalized homophobic shame by bearing witness to the incredible contributions of queer people who have, in many cases, given their lives to change the futu... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Alto-ist
    United Statesa year ago
  • Heartwarming History

    I just discovered this beautiful gay history podcast. The host is a wonderful interviewer & his subjects are fascinating. 👍👍

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SilverKnox
    United Statesa year ago
  • Essential listening.

    Talk about hit the ground running. This is essential listening. LGBTQ history, our history, is in great need of being told and this podcast delivers time and again. Moving, informative and important. Thank you for this, I’ve learned so much.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Networks Theatre
    United Kingdoma year ago
  • A Truly Fantastic Podcast

    As a queer man who remained deeply closeted during the early days of the AIDS crisis due to fear I was deeply moved by the show with Bill Glen (A Gay Man Called to be a Priest) this is a story every member of our community needs to hear. Jordan is producing amazing content that is providing a critical connection between generations.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SFFACS
    United Statesa year ago

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There is a common sentiment that the host skillfully intertwines personal narratives with historical context, making the content engaging and relatable.
Overall, the podcast is viewed as a necessary resource for understanding LGBTQ+ struggles and triumphs throughout history, connecting generations through shared stories.
Some reviews criticize occasional titles and framing of episodes, suggesting a need for more accurate representation of collective histories in certain narratives.
Listeners appreciate the heartfelt storytelling and the importance of shedding light on LGBTQ+ history.

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The Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" on Gay Loneliness
Q: So, Andy, at some point in your coming out journey, you decide to write this book, The Best Little Boy in the World. What was that like?
Andy shares that he wrote the book to tell a story about a world of gay people that was not recognized publicly and needed to be acknowledged.
The Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" on Gay Loneliness
Q: Well, how was it at Harvard being gay?
Andy describes the isolation he felt at Harvard, where he was madly in love with several people during college while remaining completely closeted.
The Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" on Gay Loneliness
Q: What did that mentality sort of create for you in the next chapter of your life?
Andy explains he spent years deeply in the closet while striving to achieve success and recognition in school, trying to conceal his true self.
The Author of "The Best Little Boy in the World" on Gay Loneliness
Q: What was that moment for you when you knew that you were gay or different for the first time as a child?
Andy Tobias reflects that at a young age, he began to realize he was different during a visit to Palm Springs when he saw a picture of a boxer that stirred unexpected feelings within him.
The New Health Crisis for Gay Men: Crystal Meth
Q: When you strip away the addiction and the thrill and the high that you were chasing, what do you think you were really searching for?
What I really needed was a way to process the grief and to honor those who had died and to reaffirm that I'm going to keep going, that I'm going to keep going.

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Frequently Asked Questions About But We Loved

What is But We Loved about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This podcast engages listeners with profound narratives about LGBTQ+ history, spotlighting the stories of elders in the queer community. It features intimate conversations that explore themes such as coming out, resilience, and the impact of the AIDS crisis, offering a rich tapestry of personal experiences that illuminate the struggle for acceptance and understanding in various socio-cultural contexts. The host, a journalist, seeks to bridge generational gaps by highlighting untold stories that were once yearned for during his own upbringing, making it a valuable resource for those interested in LGBTQ+ history and advocacy.

Notably, episodes are framed around significant historical events and personal anecdotes, often blending education wi... more

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1. Andy Tobias
2. Mark S. King
3. Tom Viola
4. Martha Shelley
5. Dr. Ellen Broidy
6. Ken Lustbader
7. Bill Glenn
8. Richard Burns

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