爱欲解码札记
泡泡解码局Antiphon欲望、依恋、博弈、幻灭——亲密关系中的谜题，是否有迹可循？我们以6本经典书籍为棱镜，从心理学、社会学、文学甚至神经科学的角度，拆解爱情中的暗码：为什么我们会重复某种情感模式？激情如何转化为承诺？权力博弈如何影响亲密？每期以一本书为线索，结合真实案例与跨界视角，不提供鸡汤答案，只做冷静而温柔的解剖。爱是本能，也是需要破译的文本。
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俪俪安：《泡泡解码局》的听众朋友们，晚上好！我是俪俪安。今晚的节目特别令人期待，我和老陈要带大家一起探讨清华大学汪民安教授的书籍《亲密关系的核心是友谊》中那些发人深省的观点。汪教授在这本书里提出了许多颠覆传统认知的见解，相信会给大家带来全新的思考。话不多说，让我们马上进入今天的精彩内容！一、福柯的启示：友谊如何成为亲密关系的解药俪俪安：首先，书里有个核心观点说“亲密关系的本质是灵活的友谊”。这跟我们平常想的谈恋爱、结婚好像不太一样对吧？这个想法其实是从哲学家福柯那里来的。福柯在几十年前观察到，那... more
俪俪安：各位听众好，欢迎来到《泡泡解码局》。不知道你有没有发现，现在连谈恋爱都像在做“数据匹配题”：交友软件上左滑右滑找“最佳配置”，朋友圈里精心经营“可恋爱人设”，就连分手都有“情感修复攻略”明码标价。这种“冷亲密”现象背后，藏着怎样的时代密码？今天我们邀请老陈，结合社会学家伊娃·易洛思的《冷亲密》，聊聊数字时代的情感困境。你看啊，现在年轻人嘴上喊着“想恋爱”，手指却在交友软件滑到麻木；中年人在相亲角用学历房本“精准配对”，反而失去了心动的能力。易洛思说，这不是技术的错，而是资本主义把“爱”变... more
俪俪安：各位听众好，今天咱们聊聊黛博拉·泰南的《听懂另一半》，说说亲密关系里那些“说不明白”的矛盾。先想问问大家，有没有过这样的经历：比如之前情人节那个视频里，妻子跟丈夫说“今天开会被领导刁难了”，丈夫马上就说“你该准备应急预案啊”“下次记得录音留证据”，结果妻子委屈地说“我就想让你抱抱我”，丈夫却一脸困惑“我这不是在帮你吗”。这种情况为啥老是发生？泰南在书里是怎么解释的呢？老陈：这个场景特别能说明问题，它把男女沟通的核心分歧摆到了台面上。妻子其实是想通过聊天跟丈夫建立情感连接，就像我们平时说的... more
俪俪安：各位听众好，今天我们聚焦西蒙娜·德·波伏瓦的《第二性》，从存在主义哲学、性别文化建构与社会权力的角度，探讨女性如何在历史中被塑造为“他者”（注意这里是单人旁的他，男他）。首先想请老陈：谈谈，波伏瓦提出“女人不是天生的，而是被塑造的”，这个观点为何被称为性别研究的里程碑？她如何将存在主义哲学融入性别分析？老陈：波伏瓦的颠覆性在于，她用存在主义的“他者”概念撕开了性别本质论的伪装。传统观念总把性别差异归为生理注定，但她指出，这是男性为巩固主体地位进行的文化建构。比如中世纪将女性符号化为“圣母... more
跨文化研究：揭示全球一致的择偶本能俪俪安 在戴维·巴斯的研究中，有一个令人震撼的发现：无论你在新几内亚部落还是纽约都市，男性普遍偏爱比自己年轻3.5岁的女性，而女性对伴侣经济资源的重视程度是男性的2.8倍。更有趣的是，面部对称性高、腰臀比0.7的女性面孔和身材，在所有文化中都被视为“高吸引力”。这些数据似乎在告诉我们，择偶偏好并非文化建构，而是刻在基因里的生存指令。那么老陈，您是如何看待这种跨越文明的一致性呢？ 老陈：您提到的这些数据恰恰印证了演化心理学的核心观点——人类的择偶机制是百万年自然选... more
俪俪安：各位听众好，欢迎来到《泡泡解码局》！你是否曾在相亲时被追问“有房有车吗”，或是在恋爱中因“说不说我爱你”与伴侣争执？这些看似琐碎的情感困扰，其实暗藏着人类百万年演化与千年文明的集体密码。今天我们和老陈，一起走进罗兰·米勒的《亲密关系》——这本书用神经科学、演化心理学和跨文化研究，为爱情揭开了一层既理性又温暖的面纱。老陈，第一个问题或许能戳中很多人：为什么男生更容易被颜值吸引，而女生更关注对方的经济能力？这真的是“基因决定”的吗？老陈：俪俪安这个问题，恰恰触及了米勒理论的第一重维度——演化... more
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