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"You Are A Lot" (an ADHD/AuDHD podcast)

Jen Kirkman
ADHD
Audhd
Mental Health
Autism Spectrum Disorder
Emotional Regulation
Time Management
Emotional Dysregulation
Procrastination
Neurodivergence
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
Self-Care
Executive Function
Self-Esteem
Patreon
Self-Efficacy
Boundaries
Perfectionism
Self-Compassion
Executive Functioning
Motivation

This is the "You Are A Lot" (an ADHD/AuDHD podcast) and I'm your host, Jen Kirkman. Has anyone ever said to you, "Um, you're kind of a lot?" If they have this podcast is your new favorite show. Welcome to You Are a Lot in ADHD, AuDHD podcast. I'm your host Jen Kirkman. On this show, I talk about my personal experience of my later in-life diagnosis as an AuDHD human. That is ADHD and Autism Spectru... more

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Latest Episodes

A personal episode about self-trust through my own AuDHD. I talk about what self-trust actually means for me and how it ties into the self-concept episode from earlier this month. I get into why beating ourselves up after we don't follow through only... more

Two years after receiving my AuDHD diagnosis (a combination of autism spectrum disorder (ASD-1) and ADHD I'm revisiting what it is to be AuDHD with radical honesty and a lavalier microphone from my bed, because BURNOUT. In this episode I'm opening up... more

In this episode, I dig into something I cannot believe I haven't talked about yet in almost three years of doing this podcast: the self-concept. It's the story we carry about who we are, and for most of us with ADHD, that story was written by other p... more

In this episode, I respond to a listener letter from my We Are A Lot community about something so many of us struggle with: what to do with yourself when you have two appointments in one day and the hours in between feel like a black hole. We talk ab... more

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Episode: Patreon Only Episode #57: Letting Go Of My Fantasy Schedule: An interview with my ADHD Coach Paula Engebretson

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Jen Kirkman
Host of the show, guiding episodes and sharing personal experiences with AuDHD/ADHD.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 490 ratings
  • Fantastic podcast!!!!

    This is such a smart podcast — has provided so much helpful info and the Patreon offerings are really excellent — well worth the membership!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Bookworm4306
    United Statesa month ago
  • A true gift

    This podcast has been maybe the single best resource I have found as I navigate through my son’s diagnosed adhd and my own (undiagnosed but so so real). The extra episodes and especially the body doubling sessions I have access to through Patreon have been such valuable tools for me as I’ve navigated a very tough year. Thanks Jen! I honestly feel like I’d not be taking all the steps my family needs to take without this content and community.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jesshogue
    United Statesa month ago
  • Jenn is the best

    I’ve always been a fan of Jenn and her insight on all things comedy, mental health and daily struggles is intriguing & helpful. Love the podcast!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    TommyBoyLIVE
    United Statesa month ago
  • Amazing!

    Jen is a hilarious comedian and actress! What she’s doing with this podcast just adds to her legacy. Definitely worth a listen.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    TClark7016
    United Statesa month ago
  • Jen is a gem

    Engaging, smart, accessible, and fun. And in case anybody was wondering, this show has like three ads in it, far fewer than many of the shows I listen to.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Relationscapes
    United Statesa month ago

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Patreon-supported extras are frequently highlighted as especially valuable
Listeners praise the host for being thoughtful, relatable, and validating for ADHD/AuDHD experiences
Many appreciate the mix of humor, research, and practical tips for daily life

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Episode #54: Weird Habits & Traits: Is it ADHD/AuDHD? Part 1
Q: What's a weird habit of yours that you wonder if it's tied to your ADHD, AuDHD?
Many people shared unique traits that all related closely to ADHD or AuDHD experiences, prompting the host to analyze them in depth.
PATREON ONLY EPISODE 36 "MEDICATION" TEASER
Q: What relief were you looking for?
It's essential to define what relief you expect from medication before discussing it with your doctor.
EPISODE 25 "MEAN SELF-TALK & HARSH FEEDBACK"
Q: How can I explain RSD to neurotypicals without seeming incapable?
Kirkman advises being cautious about oversharing and suggests that managing one's own expectations and feelings about criticism is vital, emphasizing that it's essential to communicate needs clearly without overwhelming others.
EPISODE 25 "MEAN SELF-TALK & HARSH FEEDBACK"
Q: How do you handle negative thinking, like beating yourself up for not accomplishing tasks?
Kirkman suggests that underneath negative thinking is often a desire to improve and that individuals should untangle their thoughts and identify constructive elements rather than engaging in self-criticism.
EPISODE 26 "IS IT ADHD OR ME?"
Q: How do I know that something is my adhd or my personality?
Jen explains that ADHD influences thoughts and behaviors but does not solely define individual personality.

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A thoughtful, host-driven show focused on ADHD and AuDHD lived experiences, self-understanding, and practical strategies for managing daily life. Across solo episodes and hosted conversations, the emphasis is on validation, self-compassion, and actionable routines—from scheduling and energy management to emotional regulation and mindset shifts. Listeners often encounter a blend of personal anecdotes, research references, and coaching-style tips aimed at reducing stigma and helping neurodivergent adults feel seen and capable. A notable throughline is reframing productivity and self-worth around individual rhythms rather than rigid norms, with a strong invitation to explore community resources and Patreon for deeper content.

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