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"You Are A Lot" (an ADHD/AuDHD podcast)

Jen Kirkman
ADHD
Mental Health
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
Emotional Dysregulation
Executive Function
Time Management
Patreon
Friendship
Autism Spectrum Disorder
Self-Care
Trauma
Emotional Regulation
Personal Development
Audhd
Recognition, Response, Euphoria
Genetic Predisposition
Childhood Experiences
Behavioral Health
American Psychiatric Association
Medication

This is the "You Are A Lot" (an ADHD/AuDHD podcast) and I'm your host, Jen Kirkman. Has anyone ever said to you, "Um, you're kind of a lot?" If they have this podcast is your new favorite show. Welcome to You Are a Lot in ADHD, AuDHD podcast. I'm your host Jen Kirkman. On this show, I talk about my personal experience of my later in-life diagnosis as an AuDHD human. That is ADHD and Autism Spectru... more

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In this episode, I'm talking about the "laziness lie" from Dr. Devon Price's book Laziness Does Not Exist and how believing you're lazy if you don't help people can quietly destroy your boundaries. I get into why some relationships leave you exhauste... more

In this episode, I talk about the emerging idea of ADHD and hyper-curiosity - the intense urge to explore, research, and learn everything right now. Hyper-curiosity can fuel creativity and discovery, but it can make modern life harder to manage. Chec... more

In this episode, I'm talking about ADHD understimulation: what it is, why it feels so much bigger than boredom, and how it can leave you feeling physically stuck, mentally foggy, restless, or exhausted. I compare understimulation to procrastination a... more

Why is it so hard to do something we say we want to do—like meditation? In this episode, Jen responds to a listener from her Patreon community who says she knows meditation is good for her but can't get herself to do it consistently. The conversation... more

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Jen Kirkman
Host of You Are A Lot (neurodivergent-focused personal exploration with research-backed insights)

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 420 ratings
  • Jen Kirkman comedy fan…and then she did THIS.

    Jen Kirkman’s voice pulled me in immediately, and I’m still not entirely sure why — our lives look very different on paper, yet somehow feel deeply familiar.

    I’ve been a fan of Jen since Chelsea Lately and Drunk History days. On Chelsea, she was razor-sharp and fearless. On Drunk History, her episode—legendary. Even then, she had that rare mix of intelligence, precision, and ridiculousness. Instantly infatuated.

    I’m 50 and was only recently diagnosed with ADHD, after years of advocating for my... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Alyssa in Atlanta
    United States2 months ago
  • Now I finally understand what the hell has been going on with me my entire life

    I just want to give a huge shout out to Jen Kirkman, who by virtue of this podcast has completely changed my understanding of my own brain. Honestly I was only slightly ADHD curious when I started listening to this, and I had no idea the impact that it would make. Jen explains things so clearly and backs them up with so much research. and more than anything delivers with an incredible amount of humanity and compassion. I'm already 51 and it's a bummer that I didn't understand any of this stuff u... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SideHustlerSuki
    United States3 months ago
  • I feel seen!!!

    I’ve only listened to episode one. SHE IS SAYING ALL THE THINGS IVE EXPERIENCED INCLUDING THE ONE SURFING CLASS AND CONCERN ABOUT THE FOOTSTRAP!

    I have a new favorite podcast.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Apollo133
    United States4 months ago
  • Impressive quality! I’m SO GRATEFUL!!!

    Prompted to review (1st time EVER 🤯) after hearing the CNS-regulation with polyvagal theory ep. SO well-researched and presented. Almost every episode has exactly what I want to learn (highly “nutritious” and very low fluff/wasted time rambling “empty calories”). SO educational and RELEVANT/relatable ( appreciated as an irreverent 48 y.o. single child-free woman diagnosed 28 yrs ago with a raging case of ADHD and now suspected ASD!! )

    Impressive quality! I’m SO GRATEFUL!!! Hope to contribute ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    megdidit
    United States4 months ago
  • Helping Me Feel Normal

    I started listening to this podcast a few weeks ago and change is starting slowly.

    Jen makes me feel normal. The best advice (so far) has been creating routine. Which I have started, in small steps and it has been very helpful. I am listening and getting tips and tricks to help me in my day to day, but not feeling overwhelmed, which is key.

    Thank you for keeping it real and being open about the struggles.

    I started talking to my friends and my son about some of the challenges and they face... more

    Apple Podcasts
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    beastmaster68
    United States4 months ago

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Hosts feel relatable and compassionate, with practical tips.
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Clear, research-backed insights help normalise neurodivergence.
Content blends humor with tough topics in a respectful way.

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Episode #54: Weird Habits & Traits: Is it ADHD/AuDHD? Part 1
Q: What's a weird habit of yours that you wonder if it's tied to your ADHD, AuDHD?
Many people shared unique traits that all related closely to ADHD or AuDHD experiences, prompting the host to analyze them in depth.
PATREON ONLY EPISODE 36 "MEDICATION" TEASER
Q: What relief were you looking for?
It's essential to define what relief you expect from medication before discussing it with your doctor.
EPISODE 25 "MEAN SELF-TALK & HARSH FEEDBACK"
Q: How can I explain RSD to neurotypicals without seeming incapable?
Kirkman advises being cautious about oversharing and suggests that managing one's own expectations and feelings about criticism is vital, emphasizing that it's essential to communicate needs clearly without overwhelming others.
EPISODE 25 "MEAN SELF-TALK & HARSH FEEDBACK"
Q: How do you handle negative thinking, like beating yourself up for not accomplishing tasks?
Kirkman suggests that underneath negative thinking is often a desire to improve and that individuals should untangle their thoughts and identify constructive elements rather than engaging in self-criticism.
EPISODE 26 "IS IT ADHD OR ME?"
Q: How do I know that something is my adhd or my personality?
Jen explains that ADHD influences thoughts and behaviors but does not solely define individual personality.

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What is "You Are A Lot" about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A compassionate, research-informed show focused on ADHD and AuDHD experiences, especially as they unfold in adulthood. The host blends personal lived experience with current neuroscience to normalize neurodivergent challenges, offer practical skills (emotional awareness, rest, organization, and planning), and validate listeners who feel “a lot.” Episodes frequently cover emotional regulation, nervous system tuning, and everyday strategies for managing attention, routines, and relationships, often with a warm, humorous touch. The format tends to mix expert insights, coaching-style tips, and personal stories, making complex topics feel accessible and actionable for anyone navigating neurodivergence, caregiving, or mental health in daily life.... more

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