
“Where You Left Them” is the podcast from Dadhugsforyoursoul, the relationship repair and self-help phenomenon run by Harry on social media, with tens of millions of views each month.
Dadhugs has helped thousands of people to solve their painful relationships, walk away from the wrong partner situations and – most of all – build themselves up with practical advice they can carry into more fruitful... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 35 | Founded | 8 months ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessMental HealthRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

Our letter this week comes from James, and it's fair to say that he is deep in the confusion and pain of a difficult relationship. Like so many of us, he just needs answers!
We discuss his complicated situation, and Harry provides some suggestions f... more
When you are as visible as fresh-from-the-BBC Harry is, people who you used to know are going to find you....
This week, Emma is delighted at Harry's momentary discomfort when an old flame gets in touch!
As in all things break-up based, there's a l... more
Today we have a really interesting letter - Rob is at a point in his relationship that we don't usually get to see: he's at a decision point. His marriage is stable and he loves his wife but he feels that the spark has gone and he is experiencing som... more
We're back! Back to the familiar format of a letter from a listener - and this one is such a common theme: why do we give sympathy and care to those who hurt us the most!
Anisha wrote in with details of a break up we all can understand: her husband ... more
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I truly love these podcasts. They often make me cry because the stories remind me of my own experience with an avoidant partner.
The podcast & other social media posts they do really make you feel like they’ve given you a big hug! ❤️
Having hit a wall consuming quite heavy (and I suppose dry) material, I’m bingeing this equivalent of Agony Aunt and Uncle 😉
Admittedly slightly uncomfortable with the proximity to private agonies but there are occasional pearls of wisdom from the conversation. Also, it’s such an accessible way to learn via examples of lived experience from both hosts, as well as the anonymous author plus several commentators in the ‘bonus’ episodes.
Am I missing something? Why on earth has no one done this (... more
I like Harry a lot and I understand the device of the partner but I find the friend irritating. I’m just waiting for her to finish the banal commentary. Annoying voice too. Sorry - I guess I’m being mean. But I don’t know why I should listen to her ‘thoughts’, it’s like listening to my neighbour rattle on. Harry has earned his chops.
It is wild how common the kind of relationship crises discussed here is. Particularly ironic is how such a devastating and isolating experience has the potential to bring us together to work through this process of healing. Kudos to Harry and Emma for seeing their own difficult healing processes as an opportunity to support others through this painful yet potentially RICH experience. Their blunt honesty and brutal compassion cuts through the fluff of how we deceive ourselves, encouraging us to... more
Sometimes I feel really stupid when I think about what I have been willing to tolerate from past partners. Listening to other people’s relationship stories is the cure for that. Firstly, it’s good to know I’m not the only one to have overlooked and excused poor behaviour. Second, and most importantly, I realised that if I can feel empathy and compassion for people who have had similar experiences, then I can give those things to myself too.
Harry and Emma are a joy to spend time with ❤️
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This show centers on real relationship stories submitted by listeners, with Harry and Emma offering live reactions, practical guidance, and candid insights. Episodes cover a wide range of relationship dynamics—from infidelity and emotional abuse to financial dependence, attachment styles, and healing—often emphasizing self-worth, boundary-setting, and seeking professional support. A notable pattern is the blend of empathetic storytelling with actionable takeaways, encouraging personal growth and healthier future partnerships. The format is conversational, accessible, and grounded in concrete examples, sometimes including broader conversations about mental health and self-care that resonate beyond individual episodes.
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