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Where You Left Them - The dadhugsforyoursoul Podcast

Dad Hugs Group
Relationships
Infidelity
Anxious Attachment
Emotional Health
Breakups
Emotional Betrayal
Dadhugsforyoursoul
Emotional Abuse
Mental Health
Relationship Repair
Self-Worth
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Marriage
Attachment Styles
Healing
Long-Distance Relationships
Cancer
Eliza
Relationship Dynamics
Financial Control

“Where You Left Them” is the podcast from Dadhugsforyoursoul, the relationship repair and self-help phenomenon run by Harry on social media, with tens of millions of views each month.

Dadhugs has helped thousands of people to solve their painful relationships, walk away from the wrong partner situations and – most of all – build themselves up with practical advice they can carry into more fruitful... more

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Latest Episodes

Back to the familiar format of a letter from a listener - and this one is another all to common theme.

This week, we hear from Helen.

Helen's story has a bit of everything: financial isolation, the slow unravelling of a long marriage, infidelity, d... more

Today we go back to basics with Harry and ask him some of the most common questions we hear a lot:

- How do you know so much about mid-life women and how did you get to the point of speaking on topics that are relevant to them

- What is Anxious Att... more

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**Content warning: This episode includes discussion of economic abuse and a brief, non-graphic reference to domestic violence. Please listen with care and feel free to skip this episode if these topics may be difficult for you.**

Our very difficult... more

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No letter this week - following the amazing DHFYS reset weekend we're a little tired! So we are giving you a delicate, gentle Q&A session, with some great viewer questions and opening with a gift from one of our amazing followers!

Listen to the audi... more

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Recent Guests

Lucy Meggeson
Author and host of Thrive Solo podcast
Thrive Solo
Episode: S2 Episode 10 - Thriving Solo with Lucy Meggeson
Brittney Emley
Somatic Expert, breathwork facilitator who leads breathwork and somatic practices for the podcast and live events
Brittney Emley (Breathwork/Somatic Expert)
Episode: S2 Episode 8 - More Q&A and the Queen of Zen

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 71 ratings
  • Very very not good

    I say through 3 minutes of ads for a nothing conversation that does not need to he broadcasted.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    MatchingFlame68
    United States2 months ago
  • Love

    I truly love these podcasts. They often make me cry because the stories remind me of my own experience with an avoidant partner.

    The podcast & other social media posts they do really make you feel like they’ve given you a big hug! ❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Janie65XO
    Australia4 months ago
  • Here from Insta

    Having hit a wall consuming quite heavy (and I suppose dry) material, I’m bingeing this equivalent of Agony Aunt and Uncle 😉

    Admittedly slightly uncomfortable with the proximity to private agonies but there are occasional pearls of wisdom from the conversation. Also, it’s such an accessible way to learn via examples of lived experience from both hosts, as well as the anonymous author plus several commentators in the ‘bonus’ episodes.

    Am I missing something? Why on earth has no one done this (... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lucy Shimmers
    United Kingdom4 months ago
  • 50/50

    I like Harry a lot and I understand the device of the partner but I find the friend irritating. I’m just waiting for her to finish the banal commentary. Annoying voice too. Sorry - I guess I’m being mean. But I don’t know why I should listen to her ‘thoughts’, it’s like listening to my neighbour rattle on. Harry has earned his chops.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Rosa bug
    United Kingdom9 months ago
  • Thank you

    It is wild how common the kind of relationship crises discussed here is. Particularly ironic is how such a devastating and isolating experience has the potential to bring us together to work through this process of healing. Kudos to Harry and Emma for seeing their own difficult healing processes as an opportunity to support others through this painful yet potentially RICH experience. Their blunt honesty and brutal compassion cuts through the fluff of how we deceive ourselves, encouraging us to... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Curleybird
    United States10 months ago

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The format feels supportive and has helped people feel understood during painful breakups.
Listeners appreciate the blunt honesty and practical, actionable guidance.
Some listeners wish for more structured storytelling or more guest expertise.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Series 3 Episode 5
Q: What does a properly healthy relationship look like?
There is no perfect, perfectly secure partner; healthy relationships include ongoing insecurities, open communication about triggers, and mutual willingness to grow together rather than treating one person as a project.
S3 Episode 6 - Allowance
Q: Are you ready for questions?
Yes, and the hosts steer the discussion toward concrete guidance on dealing with financial coercion and emotional recovery, not just surface-level chat.
S3 Episode 6 - Allowance
Q: What is your favorite ice cream?
They give a light personal moment, but then pivot back to the serious topic, using the question as a way to ease into the Q&A segment before addressing deeper issues about relationships and healing.
S2 Episode 10 - Thriving Solo with Lucy Meggeson
Q: Lucy, tell us all about where we can find you and your Thrive Solo community.
Lucy explains Thrive Solo, formerly Spinsterhood Reimagined, and how she helps women embrace single life as a path to happiness, purpose, and freedom, with resources including her podcast, book variants, and a membership for single women.
S2 Episode 8 - More Q&A and the Queen of Zen
Q: How do you cope when your partner suddenly leaves you for someone else?
Feel the initial shock and pain fully, then actively shift focus to your own healing and rebuilding. Use somatic tools like breathwork to calm the nervous system, reflect on what you could learn about yourself, and start creating a new life that centers you as the main character.

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The show centers on real relationship stories, with a focus on healing from betrayal, financial coercion, and unhealthy attachment. It blends listener letters with blunt, practical guidance, often highlighting boundaries, autonomy, and personal growth. Across episodes, the hosts normalize tough emotions, mix empathy with actionable steps, and promote self-work through patterns like no-contact, somatic practices, and community resources. A notable facet is the hands-on, anti-therapy-lingo approach that pairs relatable storytelling with concrete tools, packs, and events to support ongoing healing journeys.

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Where You Left Them launched 10 months ago and published 39 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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