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Where Do We Go From Here?

Jessica Van Der Wyngaard
Purity Culture
Josephine Butler
Divorce
Mental Health
Christianity
Women's Rights
Ghosting
Contraception
Parenting
Cost Of Living Crisis
Single Women
Housing Instability
Financial Responsibility
Embodiment
Sexual Health
Dating Apps
Race
Evangelical Church
Emotional Independence
Church Community

A weekly podcast deconstructing purity culture, sex and other real life stuff for thoughtful Christians and exvangelicals alike.

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Normally, our Rom-Com Recaps are exclusive to our Patreon partners, but for December we're sharing this one on the main feed as a thank-you and a holiday treat.

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In this special interview, EDJ sits down with writer and cultural critic Anna Rollins, author of Famished, to talk about the haunting overlap between purity culture, diet culture, and the ways women learn to shrink themselves — in body, desire, and v... more

In Part 4 of our On Premarital Sex series, Jess and Devi wrap up the conversations that have taken over your DMs and headphones all month long. After exploring progressive sexual ethics with Mathias Roberts, vocational celibacy with Peter Valk and Dr... more

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Recent Guests

Anna Rollins
Author of Famished, a book discussing the interplay of food, sex, and growing up under purity culture
Episode: Starved of Desire: How Purity Culture and Diet Culture Intertwine
David Ayers
Sociologist with over 30 years of experience studying evangelical sexual behavior.
Grove City College
Episode: On Premarital Sex Part 4: Sin or Not a Sin?
Katherine Freeman
Leader, writer, and speaker at the intersection of faith, justice, and culture.
Melanated Faith
Episode: On Premarital Sex Part 3: Making Sexual Decisions with Wisdom — Not Fear
Peter Valk
Licensed professional counselor and director of Equip, co-founder of the Nashville Family of Brothers, called to vocational singleness.
Nashville Family of Brothers
Episode: On Premarital Sex Part 2: Reimagining Celibacy
Dani Treweek
Christian pastor and theologian focused on Biblical Singleness, sexuality, and worldview formation.
Single Minded Ministry
Episode: On Premarital Sex Part 2: Reimagining Celibacy
Mathias Roberts
Therapist and author of Beyond Shame, creating a healthy sex life on your own terms.
Mathias Roberts
Episode: On Premarital Sex Part 1: What are the rules when there are no rules?
Lydia Adéla
Somatic sexologist, holistic intimacy coach, and tantric body worker.
Episode: What We Can Learn from a Somatic Sexologist
Angela Herrington
Author of "Embracing the Old Witch in the Woods"
Episode: Deconstructing Christian Patriarchy and Reclaiming Feminine Energy
Marissa Franks-Burt
Co-author of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting, she discusses the impact of evangelical parenting philosophies.
Episode: Grace for Parents, Healing for Kids - Chatting to the authors of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting

Hosts

Jessica van der Weingard
EDJ

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 352 ratings
  • Safe Place for Thoughtful Conversations

    I am continually impressed by this podcast! I love how Devi, Jess, and other hosts have meaningful and thought provoking conversations. The guests are phenomenal, with helpful backgrounds and perspectives. I love this safe space for needed conversations!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mtnmermaid15
    United States6 months ago
  • Incredibly Helpful

    I discovered this podcast in 2020 via an episode on online dating, which was incredibly helpful for me at the time as I was walking through my own app dating journey. Shortly after, I met the partner whom I ended up marrying three years later. Having grown up with some purity culture messaging, the episodes helped me navigate so many questions I had about dating, relationships, and how we could define what living a Christian life means. It helped me figure out how to have a healthy relationship.... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    KMURPHPA
    United States9 months ago
  • Real and informative

    I was skeptical that there would be enough to talk about but purity culture and its fallout provides plenty of fodder. Devi (and Jess) is smart, asks thoughtful questions, and provides a critical lens that really allows the listener to draw their own conclusions.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    dafreiberg
    United States2 years ago
  • Not For Me

    I’m a transgender woman who believes that God loves me exactly as I am, and blesses my transition. You’re right, listening to the interview with dr. David Bennett regarding Andy Stanley sermon was traumatizing and disturbing. I wish I would have heeded your warning. Because of all that I’ve been through as a former evangelical, born and raised, I am not able to be a part of these conversations at this time. However, I am grateful that you are facilitating them. thanks for helping me get more cle... more

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    wwboy1
    United States2 years ago
  • Transformational

    This podcast has been so transformational for me over the last 2+ years in discovering how purity culture has impacted my life and taking steps toward a healthier sexuality. Plus Jess and Devi are the best hosts! Bravo!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    satellite.90
    United States2 years ago

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Listeners appreciate the safe space for nuanced discussions around purity culture and sexuality.
The show attracts critical feedback as some feel it doesn't adequately represent all perspectives, particularly those who experienced trauma with evangelical teachings.
Many find the conversations to be transformative and empowering, helping them navigate personal challenges post-purity culture.

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On Premarital Sex Part 3: Making Sexual Decisions with Wisdom — Not Fear
Q: How do you define abstinence today in your own life?
I think of it as a pursuit of greater value, similar to fasting, where I sacrifice natural human needs for a greater good in my relationship with God.
On Premarital Sex Part 3: Making Sexual Decisions with Wisdom — Not Fear
Q: What was it like for you growing up in purity culture?
It was challenging, but my parents did a good job emphasizing that virtue is not just tied to sexual activity but encompasses character and emotional well-being.
On Premarital Sex Part 1: What are the rules when there are no rules?
Q: How do we want to move in this new terrain of sexuality?
We should start by examining our desires and the shape of our shame, and determine our individual values and ethics in this new context.
On Premarital Sex Part 1: What are the rules when there are no rules?
Q: What do we need to be aware of as we're kind of venturing into this quote unquote dark forest, this different terrain?
We need to be aware of the shame we carry from purity culture and how it influences our sexuality.
Starved of Desire: How Purity Culture and Diet Culture Intertwine
Q: Can you talk about why our religion or Christianity pushes us into perfectionistic ideals that are totally unrealistic?
Anna mentions that rigidity in beliefs and the focus on certainty within purity culture can lead to harmful self-judgment and unrealistic standards.

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Engaging with the complexities of purity culture and its societal implications is a recurring theme across episodes. Thought-provoking discussions explore the intersections of faith, sex, and relationships within conservative Christian contexts, frequently addressing the influence of traditional teachings on modern experiences. Unique insights come from both the hosts and their diverse range of guests, who bring a wealth of knowledge from academia, literature, and personal narratives. The podcast provides a critical lens for listeners looking to navigate and redefine their beliefs regarding sexuality and spirituality, making it relevant for both current Christians and those who have distanced themselves from evangelical backgrounds.

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2. David Ayers
3. Katherine Freeman
4. Peter Valk
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