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Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire
Purity Culture
Gender Roles
Marriage
Christianity
Complementarianism
Evangelicalism
Christian Marriage
Patriarchy
Mental Health
Abuse
Parenting
Pornography
Masculinity
Sexual Abuse
Love & Respect
Southern Baptist Convention
Evangelical Church
Consent
Mental Load
Christian Counseling

Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!

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What happens when one spouse is neurotypical and the other is neurodivergent, or when both spouses have different neurodivergent needs? Rebecca sits down with Dr. Stephanie Holmes, co-author of Uniquely Us, to explore the realities ... more

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Can a pastor bounce back from scandal and reclaim the spotlight? Sheila and Rebecca unpack Carl & Laura Lentz’s book Overcoming Infidelity, exploring the difference between forgiveness and accountability, the privilege of celebrity ... more

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What do we do with Bible passages that seem to portray God as indifferent to violence against women? Sheila sits down with Dr. Helen Paynter of the Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence to explore disturbing Old Testament stori... more

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Recent Guests

Stephanie Holmes
Neurodiverse marriage specialist and co-author of Uniquely Us
Episode: Episode 347: Uniquely Us—Neurodivergence and Marriage with Dr. Stephanie Holmes
Helen Paynter
Head of the Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence and a scholar who writes about biblical violence.
Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence
Episode: Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter
Hannah Hunt
Editor on Called to Serve project
Called to Serve project
Episode: Episode 343: Called to Serve - Are We Burying Women's Talents in the Ground?
Sheila Gregoire
Author, speaker, researcher, founder of Bare Marriage
Bare Marriage
Episode: Episode 342: Mica Miller’s Death and “The Sex Is For Men” Problem
Kristin Du Mez
Historian and author of Live, Laugh, Love; explores white evangelicalism, gender, and culture
Author, Historian
Episode: Episode 340: Live, Laugh, Love with Kristin Du Mez
Elissa Yukiko Weichbrodt
Author of Look Like a Lady; art history professor
Author of Look Like a Lady; University-affiliated
Episode: Episode 339: Look Like a Lady--the 5 Visual Tropes of Womanhood that Keep Us Small
Elizabeth Berget
Writer and author of Love Like a Mother
Author of Love Like a Mother
Episode: Episode 338: What if God is Like a Mother Too? (Love Like a Mother)
Sally Hope
Author of No Visible Scars; founder of Always Hopeful recovery program for abuse survivors
Always Hopeful / No Visible Scars
Episode: Episode 337: Why Do Evangelicals Ask Women to Do Such Risky Things if They Say They Protect Women?
Dannah Gresh
Author of And the Bride Wore White; purity culture advocate
Dannah Gresh (author)
Episode: Episode 332: When Purity Culture Supporters Try to Rewrite History (Dannah Gresh Case Study)

Hosts

Sheila Wray Gregoire
Host with strong focus on marriage, parenting, and sex; data-driven and critical of harmful narratives in evangelical spaces
Rebecca Lindenbach
Co-host; leads discussion, researches church culture and purity culture
Keith
Guest participating in discussions and explorations of topics, adds external perspectives

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 2.3k ratings
  • Excellent info

    As an evangelical Christian for the last 26 years, I find this content to be an excellent expository presentation of harmful teachings within the church related to marriage. I appreciate the way they dissect every harmful idea and call out authors and ministries by name. It’s important to know what Christian authors and ministries are endorsing harmful ideas. It’s heartbreaking to see so many marriages fail because of inappropriate advise from so-called Christian “experts”

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    5
    InSoCal2
    United States2 months ago
  • Lack of courtesy

    The podcasters continually interrupt and talk loudly over each other, and talk so fast that it seems like they are afraid they won’t get the opportunity to say what they want to say. I find it disrespectful to each other and disrespectful to the listeners. It’s a lack of basic courtesy, and makes it appear that each one thinks that what they are saying is more important than what the other person has to say.

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    Fellow flatlander
    United States3 months ago
  • Unhelpful content

    Unfortunately I believe they are more about tearing down a group of people (evangelical men) than building up healthy marriages. Why play clips of other authors/speakers and criticize their motive for telling the truth? Isn’t all that matters is that they are telling the truth?

    I don’t like how Sheila and Rebecca talk about other others/speakers they don’t agree with.

    Also, their arguments about what Luke 6 and Matthew 7 say about good fruit are weak. They were called out on incorrect interpret... more

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    Brism7
    United States3 months ago
  • Sadly misguided

    I used to really like Sheila’s content—she was encouraging intimate enjoyment and freedom in intimacy for women. Biblically.

    Sadly it seems now she is out to bash men… Christian men. And Christian ministries.

    My husband asked me when was the last time she had her people attack “gentlemen’s clubs” or sex trafficking rings… the real monsters.

    Nope—she goes after ministries that are trying to encourage marriage and following the Bible the best they know how.

    Maybe she’ll change back…? I kno... more

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    1
    AnnieFocusd
    United States5 months ago
  • Biblical, evidence based, straight to the truth!

    These podcasts will really challenge you to examine your beliefs and what you've internalized and help you to compare it to Scripture to decide for yourself if individual teachings are TRULY based on the Bible, or someone's faulty interpretation of it for selfish gain. I love all of the interviews Sheila does with people of all different backgrounds. Conservative, Liberal and all on between. Let's take politics and preconceived notions out of the Bible and juat be concerned with what JESUS teach... more

    Audible
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    Brittany
    United States5 months ago

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Many appreciate the willingness to challenge harmful purity culture and patriarchal norms.
Some critics feel the tone can be snarky or biased, but the impact on healing and empowerment is noted.
Listeners praise the rigor and practical guidance for healthier marriages and parenting.

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Episode 347: Uniquely Us—Neurodivergence and Marriage with Dr. Stephanie Holmes
Q: What's the balance between all feelings are valid, or your feelings are valid, and also those feelings don't get to drive the car?
Holmes recommends noticing and regulating intense emotions before trying to resolve a relationship issue. Couples can identify what helps each person return to calm, then fact-check the feeling and discuss the issue when both are able to engage relationally.
Episode 347: Uniquely Us—Neurodivergence and Marriage with Dr. Stephanie Holmes
Q: How do you figure out what's an accommodation versus what would count as more?
Holmes says couples need to consider each person's executive-function profile, personal history, and current capacity, then negotiate accommodations and responsibilities together. Helpful supports should not erase one partner's needs or prevent the other from developing skills.
Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter
Q: How should we look at the law in Deuteronomy 22 that says a rapist must marry the woman?
Paynter says the law required the man to provide for the woman for life and prevented him from divorcing her, in a society where a woman who was not a virgin could be left without means to survive. She acknowledges that the law is not ideal by modern standards and says it should not be treated as a final ethic.
Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter
Q: Can you tell us what the difference is between violence being described and violence being prescribed?
Paynter says described violence is reported by a text without being endorsed, while prescribed violence is when God directs people to commit violence. She urges readers to distinguish the two when interpreting the Old Testament.
Episode 342: Mica Miller’s Death and “The Sex Is For Men” Problem
Q: What is the line between healthy marital intimacy and coercion in a marriage?
Coercion is present when sex is used as a way to control mood or compel behavior, or when one partner cannot freely say no without facing punishment, shaming, or repercussions.

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This show tends to center around marriage, parenting, and sexuality within Christian communities, often challenging traditional purity culture and complementarian norms with research-based discussion and guest expert perspectives. Episodes frequently feature conversations about healthier relationship dynamics, evidence-based parenting approaches, and critiques of evangelical leadership practices, while highlighting practical tools for couples and families. A notable strength is the rigorous use of sources and data to back arguments, along with a willingness to address difficult topics like religious trauma and gender roles. The format often mixes scholarly context with personal anecdotes, creating conversations that are both informative and... more

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4. Sheila Gregoire
5. Kristin Du Mez
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7. Elizabeth Berget
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