
Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most ... more
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 187 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a... more
Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.
Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic
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Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are... more
Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of ... more
In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS.
Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026
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📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
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The Female Dating Strategy 10/19/22: I have worked in a homeless shelter and I have met many souls without a home. I find this post cast episode extremely biased, polarized, and not reflecting the reality. I am removing my subscription right now.
You can Read my story about this topic on my blog cyclorbit.blog
As a 28 year old woman I’ve been on a journey of de-centering men for a few years now. I would consider myself a radical feminist but I have found that with the internet taking a red pill nose dive it’s so hard to find sources that truly help me reject the patriarchal socialization that our society has forced onto me. This is one of those sources. Support the patreon and become part of their online community.
I’m totally on board with the rad fem philosophy, but I think there’s a fundamental problem with the advice given on this podcast, which rests on a faulty premise: that you can teach men how to treat you. This may work early on, but it’s due to compliance, not character change. Men will edit their behavior to maintain access to you, but their actual capacity, relational stance, etc., is unlikely to have changed, and you might not find that out until you’re attached, have entangled your lives, ha... more
The handbook review episode is one of my favorites in a long time. All of the episode topics are fantastic. Guests are great too! I would recommend inviting Gemma Hartley and Zawn Villines.
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A sharp, candid show focused on female empowerment, dating strategy, and cultural critique from two main hosts who dissect relationships, sex, pop culture, and politics with a no-nonsense, fearlessly opinionated lens. Topics span from boundary setting and self-respect to discussions of feminism, accountability, and how societal norms shape women's dating lives. The cadence combines personal anecdotes, practical takeaways, and provocative takes on modern relationships, making it appealing to listeners seeking bold perspectives and actionable mindset shifts. A standout is the consistent emphasis on self-value and community among women, often countering mainstream dating narratives and encouraging listeners to level up personally and relationa... more
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