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The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy
Relationships
Feminism
Dating
The Female Dating Strategy
Gender Roles
Patriarchy
Self-Worth
Women Empowerment
Mental Health
Dating Standards
Gender Dynamics
Female Dating Strategy
Logical Fallacies
Misogyny
Female Friendships
Emotional Maturity
Emotional Abuse
Female Empowerment
4B Movement
Motherhood

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most ... more

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Latest Episodes

Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!

Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.

Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies apply

What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by ... more

What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can lea... more

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Recent Guests

Lundy Bancroft
Author and expert on abusive relationships and toxic masculinity
Self-employed
Episode: Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity
Dr. Jane Ward
A powerhouse feminist scholar and author
University of California, Santa Barbara
Episode: The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward
Dr. Gail Dines
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Amber Akilla
Content creator and influencer focused on personal empowerment and critical thinking.
Episode: Being Hot and Having Fun With Amber Akilla
Kate Anthony
Former Grey's Anatomy actress, author, critically acclaimed podcast host, and high-conflict divorce coach.
Episode: Anatomy of a Divorce with Kate Anthony
Dr. Ashni Dhawale
An expert specializing in animal behavior, focusing on behavioral and cognitive adaptations in macaques.
Episode: Monkey Business: What the Animal Kingdom Can Teach Us About Modern Dating

Hosts

Patricia
Host of The Female Dating Strategy; frequently frames discussions around boundary setting, empowerment, and feminist dating strategy.
Rose
Co-host and central moderator; anchors discussions with feminist dating strategy insights and guest-led conversations.

Reviews

4.1 out of 5 stars from 2.5k ratings
  • Fun and informative, and much needed perspective for women's issues, relationships, work, etc. I don't always agree with them (they often lean too radfem for me, such as the strange hate for princesses, and are pro abortion while I'm not) but I still like listening. It makes dusty men very angry, so clearly they're doing something right! Lol

    Podcast Addict
    4
    harvestar
    2 months ago
  • Get different hosts

    I used to love this show but the current hosts are boring… I can barely get through an episode now.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    AshCatSilver
    United States3 months ago
  • Don't Fall For Hobosexual Sob Stories

    The Female Dating Strategy 10/19/22: I have worked in a homeless shelter and I have met many souls without a home. I find this post cast episode extremely biased, polarized, and not reflecting the reality. I am removing my subscription right now.

    You can Read my story about this topic on my blog cyclorbit.blog

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    Cyclorbit
    5 months ago
  • Every woman NEEDS this podcast.

    As a 28 year old woman I’ve been on a journey of de-centering men for a few years now. I would consider myself a radical feminist but I have found that with the internet taking a red pill nose dive it’s so hard to find sources that truly help me reject the patriarchal socialization that our society has forced onto me. This is one of those sources. Support the patreon and become part of their online community.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Geranium87
    United States5 months ago
  • Winning the battle but losing the war…

    I’m totally on board with the rad fem philosophy, but I think there’s a fundamental problem with the advice given on this podcast, which rests on a faulty premise: that you can teach men how to treat you. This may work early on, but it’s due to compliance, not character change. Men will edit their behavior to maintain access to you, but their actual capacity, relational stance, etc., is unlikely to have changed, and you might not find that out until you’re attached, have entangled your lives, ha... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    PEEZA82
    United Kingdom6 months ago

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Listeners praise the candid, empowering approach and strong host dynamics.
Critics point to perceived bias and occasional off-topic episodes, but many still find value in strategies and community.
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Read widely, watch many films, and learn to think critically about what you consume.
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Q: How did you start at Lainey Gossip?
Sarah started her own site before being invited to contribute regularly to Lainey Gossip after a contest.
Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Q: What is men's responsibility in regard to the growing impact of pornography?
Dines indicated that men should critically examine how pornography affects their view of women and their own sexuality, and work to educate themselves and others.
Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Q: What are your impressions about the show Adolescence, and what do you feel it got right and wrong regarding portrayals of masculinity?
Dr. Dines shared that the show accurately illustrated the lack of adult guidance for boys affected by the manosphere but failed to emphasize the role of pornography in shaping masculinity.
Podcast Host Audition: Anti Heroes and Villainesses
Q: So what will we be discussing today, Cassandra?
Anti-heroes and villainesses, what we can learn from them and what Hollywood is afraid of.

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A sharp, community-driven dating strategy podcast that centers women's empowerment, boundary setting, and personal safety in relationships. Across episodes, the hosts dissect dating dynamics, feminist theory, and pop culture through candid stories, practical tactics, and skeptical critiques of patriarchal norms. The show frequently features guests and evolving formats that broaden discussions to include intersectional perspectives and real-world applications of the Female Dating Strategy. It's likely to appeal to listeners who want actionable advice, community validation, and provocative takes on dating, sexuality, and gender dynamics.

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1. Lundy Bancroft
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3. Dr. Gail Dines
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6. Dr. Ashni Dhawale

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