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The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy
Feminism
Female Friendships
Relationships
Gender Roles
4B Movement
Self-Worth
Patriarchy
Toxic Friendships
Financial Independence
Stay-At-Home Girlfriend
Emotional Support
Isolation
Community Building
South Korea
Misogyny
Female Dating Strategy
Loneliness Crisis
Unlearning
Kim Ji-Young, Born 1982
Personal Growth

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most ... more

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In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a... more

Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.

Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic

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Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are... more

Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of ... more

In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS.

Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026

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Recent Guests

Lundy Bancroft
Author and expert on abusive relationships and toxic masculinity
Self-employed
Episode: Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity
Dr. Jane Ward
A powerhouse feminist scholar and author
University of California, Santa Barbara
Episode: The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward
Dr. Gail Dines
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Episode: Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Amber Akilla
Content creator and influencer focused on personal empowerment and critical thinking.
Episode: Being Hot and Having Fun With Amber Akilla
Kate Anthony
Former Grey's Anatomy actress, author, critically acclaimed podcast host, and high-conflict divorce coach.
Episode: Anatomy of a Divorce with Kate Anthony
Dr. Ashni Dhawale
An expert specializing in animal behavior, focusing on behavioral and cognitive adaptations in macaques.
Episode: Monkey Business: What the Animal Kingdom Can Teach Us About Modern Dating

Hosts

Rose
Co-host/Host known for steering conversations on female empowerment and dating strategy.
Patricia
Host/Co-host focusing on dating strategy and feminist discourse.

Reviews

4.1 out of 5 stars from 2.5k ratings
  • Don't Fall For Hobosexual Sob Stories

    The Female Dating Strategy 10/19/22: I have worked in a homeless shelter and I have met many souls without a home. I find this post cast episode extremely biased, polarized, and not reflecting the reality. I am removing my subscription right now.

    You can Read my story about this topic on my blog cyclorbit.blog

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    Cyclorbit
    a month ago
  • Every woman NEEDS this podcast.

    As a 28 year old woman I’ve been on a journey of de-centering men for a few years now. I would consider myself a radical feminist but I have found that with the internet taking a red pill nose dive it’s so hard to find sources that truly help me reject the patriarchal socialization that our society has forced onto me. This is one of those sources. Support the patreon and become part of their online community.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Geranium87
    United Statesa month ago
  • Winning the battle but losing the war…

    I’m totally on board with the rad fem philosophy, but I think there’s a fundamental problem with the advice given on this podcast, which rests on a faulty premise: that you can teach men how to treat you. This may work early on, but it’s due to compliance, not character change. Men will edit their behavior to maintain access to you, but their actual capacity, relational stance, etc., is unlikely to have changed, and you might not find that out until you’re attached, have entangled your lives, ha... more

    Apple Podcasts
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    PEEZA82
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Love the Topics

    The handbook review episode is one of my favorites in a long time. All of the episode topics are fantastic. Guests are great too! I would recommend inviting Gemma Hartley and Zawn Villines.

    Apple Podcasts
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    Shalma M.
    United States9 months ago
  • Too much w*man talking

    Blah blah blah men blah blah blah misogyny blah blah blah queens

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    desire666
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Listeners praise practical dating insights and candid host dynamics.
A bold, unapologetic feminist perspective that's refreshing and empowering.

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#123
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Talking Points

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Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip
Q: What advice do you have for young critics?
Read widely, watch many films, and learn to think critically about what you consume.
Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip
Q: How did you start at Lainey Gossip?
Sarah started her own site before being invited to contribute regularly to Lainey Gossip after a contest.
Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Q: What is men's responsibility in regard to the growing impact of pornography?
Dines indicated that men should critically examine how pornography affects their view of women and their own sexuality, and work to educate themselves and others.
Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Q: What are your impressions about the show Adolescence, and what do you feel it got right and wrong regarding portrayals of masculinity?
Dr. Dines shared that the show accurately illustrated the lack of adult guidance for boys affected by the manosphere but failed to emphasize the role of pornography in shaping masculinity.
Podcast Host Audition: Anti Heroes and Villainesses
Q: So what will we be discussing today, Cassandra?
Anti-heroes and villainesses, what we can learn from them and what Hollywood is afraid of.

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What is The Female Dating Strategy about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A sharp, candid show focused on female empowerment, dating strategy, and cultural critique from two main hosts who dissect relationships, sex, pop culture, and politics with a no-nonsense, fearlessly opinionated lens. Topics span from boundary setting and self-respect to discussions of feminism, accountability, and how societal norms shape women's dating lives. The cadence combines personal anecdotes, practical takeaways, and provocative takes on modern relationships, making it appealing to listeners seeking bold perspectives and actionable mindset shifts. A standout is the consistent emphasis on self-value and community among women, often countering mainstream dating narratives and encouraging listeners to level up personally and relationa... more

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