
Welcome to Anxious to Secure - the podcast for anyone who feels anxious in love and wants to feel calm, confident, and connected. If you’re chasing an emotionally unavailable (Avoidant) partner… If you’re attaching out of fear, not love… Your relationship is running on survival mode. (I’ve been there - and it can change.) 🤍 I’m Jula: an anxious attachment coach + certified life coach. In just 6 m... more
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 128 | Founded | a year ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSelf-ImprovementEducationSociety & Culture | |||

Hands up if you have an anxious attachment and wonder… why do I keep being attracted to avoidant and emotionally unavailable men?
Then this one’s for you..
…and it’s starting to feel like a pattern you can’t break 🖤✨
At first, it feels SO good.
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Are you still feeling anxious in your relationships? Wondering why things never seem to shift, even though you “know” your attachment style?
In this episode, I break down old vs. new attachment theory and show why being anxiously attached doesn’t ha... more
All good guys are taken?
Think there are no secure, emotionally available men left? I’m here to show you why that’s not true… there are actually 620 MILLION single, secure men in the world 🌎 who could be a great match for you.
And the key?
Shifti... more
If you want to heal anxious attachment and stop losing yourself in relationships, this episode is for you.
Finally, break the anxious-avoidant cycle.
Why do anxious women attract avoidant partners?
Why does the relationship feel like your WHOLE wo... more
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The show concentrates on attachment styles and relationship dynamics, especially around anxious attachment and avoidant partners. Across recent episodes, listeners are guided through practical, self-empowering steps to reduce anxiety, strengthen self-regulation, set boundaries, and cultivate secure, interdependent relationships. A distinctive angle is visualizing attachment patterns, using concrete frameworks (like self-leadership and space-giving) and personal storytelling to normalize growth. The host leans into actionable tips—ranging from micro-steps and daily routines to boundary-setting and self-soothing—while grounding advice in attachment theory and emotional regulation. The format blends personal experience with theory, making it l... more
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