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Artwork for Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

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Parenting
Child Development
Respectful Parenting
Emotional Regulation
Child Behavior
Family Dynamics
Parenting Techniques
Boundaries
Parenting Challenges
Emotional Intelligence
Parenting Strategies
Emotional Development
Sibling Rivalry
Resilience
Separation Anxiety
Independent Play
Discipline
Toddler Behavior
Parent-Child Relationships
Whining

In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting aut... more

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Artwork for Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

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When toddlers are in resistance mode, simple routines like bathing, bedtime, buckling into a car seat, or holding hands near traffic become daily struggles. One mother writes that her two-year-old’s constant, intense resistance “is overwhelming. I fi... more

A single parent writes that she is frustrated and exhausted by her almost 3-year-old’s constant resistance. Every aspect of their lives is either a negotiation or a struggle: dressing, leaving the house, getting into his car seat, drop-offs at school... more

A parent describes her past year as “brutal” and lists a series of traumatic life events. “I am not okay,” she admits. She says she doesn’t have the energy to remain unruffled when dealing with her kids and feels that she is failing them. While this ... more

When our kids won't go with the flow of the day and seem to push back on everything, it's often because they're sitting on feelings they can't easily express. In this episode, Janet responds to a note from a parent whose nine-year-old son won't respo... more

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Melani Ladygo
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Lavinia Brown
Online coach focused on helping mothers overcome childhood trauma and connect with their emotions.
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Episode: Becoming Untriggered (with Lavinia Brown and Andrew Lynn)
Andrew Lynn
Online coach who specializes in assisting men with emotional trauma and personal development.
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Episode: Becoming Untriggered (with Lavinia Brown and Andrew Lynn)
Grace Lautman
A therapist, eating disorder clinician, and trauma specialist
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Episode: Eating Disorders, Healthy Body Image: What Parents Need to Know (With Grace Lautman, CN, LMHC)
Harry Grebler
A RIE associate and experienced parenting guide, trained in Pickler pedagogy and Waldorf education.
Episode: Sleep, Baby, Sleep (with Hari Grebler)
Dr. William Stixrud
Neuropsychologist, co-author of 'The Self-Driven Child' and 'What Do You Say?'
Episode: In an Age of Anxiety, How to Stop Worrying and Raise Less Stressed Kids (with Dr. William Stixrud)
Dr. Tina Payne Bryson
Author and parenting educator, co-author of "The Way of Play".
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Episode: Play That Builds Skills and Bonds Us (with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson)
Elsa Chahin
President and CEO of Pickler-Loxy USA
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Episode: The Joy in Letting Babies Move Freely (with Elsa Chahin)

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Janet Lansbury
Parenting author and consultant specializing in respectful parenting

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 5.9k ratings
  • All filler no content anymore

    I feel like this podcast has really gone downhill. She used to give some tangible tactics but now every episode is the same. “Have a respectful and authentic dialogue with your child.” Great, but that’s all it ever is, over and over. Just filling time between ads.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Leslietron
    United States2 months ago
  • Important for every parent

    A great podcast the way Janet narrates is very captivating and sounds like a dear friend talking to you. I listened to her even before having my baby. I love listening to her daily as a daily affirmation:D

    Thank you for the work you do.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mayalucid
    Poland3 months ago
  • Useful and grounded

    This is the only parenting podcast I listen to. Janet has such a simple way of addressing complex topics and I really appreciate how she approaches everyone, the children and adults with respect. She also helps parents advocate for themselves in their relationships with their children, which is a little different than some other approaches I’ve seen with “gentle parenting.” I definitely recommend this podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    evangeline_etc
    United States6 months ago
  • Great Anecdotal Suggestions for RIE Parenting

    I came across Janet’s blog while searching for respectful authoritative parenting advice. After reading a few essays, I purchased the Master Class and started listening to the podcast. The way Janet reinforces parents’ confidence in relating to their children and handling specific situations is so helpful. Her presentation on the podcast is very casual and easy to absorb. I appreciate Janet’s work and the RIE approach. I find it refreshing compared to authoritarian advice from relatives. T... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Krystalpm
    United States6 months ago
  • ?

    Found this podcast through a parent group. It’s not always applicable to highly active, strong willed kids. The host’s vocal fry voice is grating on my nervous system. Her voice is all over the place. The info is good but it takes forever to get to the point.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Ericagonzalez
    United States8 months ago

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A few reviewers say episodes take too long to reach practical advice or include too much discussion between solutions and sponsor messages.
Listeners praise Lansbury's calm, reassuring delivery and say her advice helps them feel more confident as parents.
Many value the respectful approach to children's feelings, boundaries, and parent-child relationships, and share episodes with families or clients.
Some listeners find the guidance thoughtful but repetitive, saying it can lean on the same principles without enough concrete tactics.

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When Toddlers Resist Absolutely Everything
Q: Is doing that a distraction from his emotions and telling him that his emotions are scary and we can't handle them? Or are we helping break this cycle that he's stuck in?
Janet says reading can be helpful if it genuinely calms the child, but parents can also set limits around repeated requests and let him express frustration. She suggests building predictable requests into the bedtime routine and considering whether he needs more chances to express feelings earlier in the day.
When Toddlers Resist Absolutely Everything
Q: Is there anything else we could be doing to support her through such an enormous transition, especially when so many everyday situations turn into physical struggles?
Janet says the resistance is an expected response to major change and toddler development, rather than a relationship crisis. She recommends tighter, earlier boundaries and fewer choices around transitions and safety, while responding empathetically to the child's feelings.
Choose Not to Battle with Your Child (Here's How)
Q: How can I make things a little less challenging?
Lansbury recommends taking calm leadership during transitions, not negotiating or offering choices when the child is struggling, easing pressure around potty learning, and trusting his interests and development.
Choose Not to Battle with Your Child (Here's How)
Q: How can I make him feel secure in that?
Lansbury says the parent can face separations confidently, allow the child to express feelings, and trust that he can work through them. She sees his play with the monkey as a form of processing the separation.
Damage Control When We Feel Like We're Failing
Q: How do I make this time of failure less bad for my kids?
She recommends not labeling the period as failure, making space for brief moments of attentive connection, putting devices away when possible, and being honest with children when attention must be elsewhere.

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Janet Lansbury answers parents' questions about everyday challenges with babies, toddlers, and, at times, older children. Episodes typically center on a listener's letter or family scenario, which she uses to explain respectful parenting and offer guidance on boundaries, transitions, big feelings, sleep, play, sibling relationships, and parent-child connection. The format is primarily a solo host sharing detailed coaching and personal reflections, with occasional conversations with guests who bring related expertise or work on children's emotional lives.

The approach emphasizes seeing children as capable people, leading calmly, and making room for feelings rather than relying on scripts, rewards, or quick fixes. Parents looking for a consi... more

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2. Melani Ladygo
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