
In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting aut... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 443 | Founded | 11 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Kids & FamilyParenting | |||

A parent wonders if it’s respectful—or even reasonable—to expect to sometimes have an adult conversation with her partner over dinner when their three-year-old constantly interrupts, protests, and demands attention. The situation leaves this mom ques... more
A parent writes that she's struggling with her nearly 2.5-year old's hitting. Her toddler also talks a lot about pushing and hitting her friends "almost as if it's a joke." The parent's various attempts to curb this behavior aren't working, and she's... more
A parent is concerned about the negative, judgmental comments her parents and in-laws make about her children’s behavior and their parenting. She writes that she and her husband try to implement Janet’s advice (with a mix of Montessori). While she sa... more
While every child will eventually and inevitably learn to use the potty, the process can be stressful, frustrating, and often counterproductive for both the child and caregiver. Janet knows it doesn’t have to be this way. In this encore episode, she... more
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This is the only parenting podcast I listen to. Janet has such a simple way of addressing complex topics and I really appreciate how she approaches everyone, the children and adults with respect. She also helps parents advocate for themselves in their relationships with their children, which is a little different than some other approaches I’ve seen with “gentle parenting.” I definitely recommend this podcast!
I came across Janet’s blog while searching for respectful authoritative parenting advice. After reading a few essays, I purchased the Master Class and started listening to the podcast. The way Janet reinforces parents’ confidence in relating to their children and handling specific situations is so helpful. Her presentation on the podcast is very casual and easy to absorb. I appreciate Janet’s work and the RIE approach. I find it refreshing compared to authoritarian advice from relatives. T... more
Found this podcast through a parent group. It’s not always applicable to highly active, strong willed kids. The host’s vocal fry voice is grating on my nervous system. Her voice is all over the place. The info is good but it takes forever to get to the point.
This is the simplest most resonant advice i’ve found which has given me the north star of recognising my own state rather than being swept away by my toddlers state!
I have listened to this podcast since I accidentally found it years ago while single and not even planning on having kids. I am now pregnant and feel so much more confident about knowing what to do when the time comes. I love the various scenarios that cover wide variety of topics. Thank you so much!!
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This show centers on respectful parenting for infants and toddlers, emphasizing empathy, boundaried guidance, and seeing the whole child. Episodes tackle real reader questions about dysregulation, boundaries, sharing, co-parent dynamics, and avoiding shaming, often weaving in practical examples and calm, relationship‑focused approaches. A distinctive trait is the consistent emphasis on parental self‑reflection, co‑regulation, and minimal scripts, with occasional sponsor messages that align with family life. Listeners often cite clear, compassionate guidance that helps reduce power struggles while strengthening parent–child connections; the format also features books, courses, and a long‑running belief that kids thrive when treated with resp... more
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