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Artwork for Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press
Parenting
Child Development
Respectful Parenting
Emotional Regulation
Child Behavior
Parenting Techniques
Family Dynamics
Boundaries
Parenting Challenges
Emotional Intelligence
Parenting Strategies
Emotional Development
Resilience
Sibling Rivalry
Separation Anxiety
Independent Play
Discipline
Toddler Behavior
Whining
Strong-Willed Children

In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting aut... more

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Artwork for Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Latest Episodes

A four-year-old melting down at school drop-off... A 21-month-old who's started pulling her own hair when she's frustrated or overwhelmed... Two very different situations—but the same missing piece. Janet explains why our instinct to soothe, distract... more

What do we do when our child erupts into a full-blown tantrum—suddenly becoming what author Loryn Brantz calls a "spicy nugget"? The award-winning author and illustrator returns to Unruffled to talk about her new children's book, "I Am a Spicy Nugget... more

A two-and-a-half-year-old has become increasingly anxious and fearful. She often becomes overwhelmed but can't explain what's wrong beyond saying she's scared, and she wants to be picked up or removed from the situation. Her mom wonders where comfort... more

How frustrating is it when our kids won't listen! A parent describes her exhausting visit to a relative's house that wasn't baby-proofed. Her 15-month old son became fixated on climbing stairs. She tried to use what she understands as gentle discipli... more

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Recent Guests

Melani Ladygo
RIE's executive director and longtime RIE associate, teaching parent, infant, and toddler classes.
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Episode: Why Parents Need RIE (with Melani Ladygo)
Andrew Lynn
Online coach who specializes in assisting men with emotional trauma and personal development.
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Episode: Becoming Untriggered (with Lavinia Brown and Andrew Lynn)
Grace Lautman
A therapist, eating disorder clinician, and trauma specialist
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Episode: Eating Disorders, Healthy Body Image: What Parents Need to Know (With Grace Lautman, CN, LMHC)
Harry Grebler
A RIE associate and experienced parenting guide, trained in Pickler pedagogy and Waldorf education.
Episode: Sleep, Baby, Sleep (with Hari Grebler)
Loryn Brantz
Author and illustrator known for her relatable poetry and experiences in parenting, including raising a child with disabilities.
Episode: 3 Ways to Lift Your Parenting Spirits (with Loryn Brantz)
Dr. William Stixrud
Neuropsychologist, co-author of 'The Self-Driven Child' and 'What Do You Say?'
Episode: In an Age of Anxiety, How to Stop Worrying and Raise Less Stressed Kids (with Dr. William Stixrud)
Dr. Tina Payne Bryson
Author and parenting educator, co-author of "The Way of Play".
The Center for Connection
Episode: Play That Builds Skills and Bonds Us (with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson)
Lavinia Brown
Inner child healing expert
Episode: It's Not Too Late to Stop Yelling or Spanking (with Lavinia Brown)
Elsa Chahin
President and CEO of Pickler-Loxy USA
Pickler-Loxy USA
Episode: The Joy in Letting Babies Move Freely (with Elsa Chahin)

Host

Janet Lansbury
Host of Unruffled; authority on respectful parenting; author and consultant promoting No Bad Kids and No Bad Kids Master Course.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 5.9k ratings
  • Important for every parent

    A great podcast the way Janet narrates is very captivating and sounds like a dear friend talking to you. I listened to her even before having my baby. I love listening to her daily as a daily affirmation:D

    Thank you for the work you do.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mayalucid
    Poland24 days ago
  • Useful and grounded

    This is the only parenting podcast I listen to. Janet has such a simple way of addressing complex topics and I really appreciate how she approaches everyone, the children and adults with respect. She also helps parents advocate for themselves in their relationships with their children, which is a little different than some other approaches I’ve seen with “gentle parenting.” I definitely recommend this podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    evangeline_etc
    United States3 months ago
  • Great Anecdotal Suggestions for RIE Parenting

    I came across Janet’s blog while searching for respectful authoritative parenting advice. After reading a few essays, I purchased the Master Class and started listening to the podcast. The way Janet reinforces parents’ confidence in relating to their children and handling specific situations is so helpful. Her presentation on the podcast is very casual and easy to absorb. I appreciate Janet’s work and the RIE approach. I find it refreshing compared to authoritarian advice from relatives. T... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Krystalpm
    United States4 months ago
  • ?

    Found this podcast through a parent group. It’s not always applicable to highly active, strong willed kids. The host’s vocal fry voice is grating on my nervous system. Her voice is all over the place. The info is good but it takes forever to get to the point.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Ericagonzalez
    United States6 months ago
  • Game changer

    This is the simplest most resonant advice i’ve found which has given me the north star of recognising my own state rather than being swept away by my toddlers state!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Salmacca
    Australia7 months ago

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Critics occasionally note long episode lengths and debate medical/academic credibility, but common feedback highlights utility and compassionate approaches.
Many value the emphasis on honoring children's emotions without permissiveness.
Listeners praise the calm, non-judgmental guidance and practical strategies for real-life parenting.

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Can We Overcome Our Upbringing?
Q: How can I overcome my instincts, or how I was raised, to be able to be a better mother? Am I too late?
Janet reassures that it's never too late to change and outlines a plan to start practicing clear, confident boundaries with children and, where appropriate, with other adults, while staying compassionate and self-forgiving.
The Answer to Hitting
Q: What should we do when she talks about hitting or says things like she wants to hit until someone bleeds?
Recognize she's in a zone of dysregulation and misdirect the interaction toward connection and safety, rather than punishment; sit with her, validate her feelings, and communicate that you will help her through the uncomfortable moment while not allowing the behavior to continue.
The Answer to Hitting
Q: Hi Janet, I'm not really sure where to start. I somewhat know what is going on, but I feel very overwhelmed and defeated by the problem I'm having with my almost two and a half year old daughter.
The child's behavior is signaling overwhelm and a need for support; respond with empathy, acknowledge the feelings, and create a space where the child can express scary thoughts safely. Rather than forcing stop signals, help her feel seen and grounded, especially during the pregnancy transition.
How Forcing Kids to Do Stuff Backfires (And What to Do Instead)
Q: What should we do instead of physically restraining a child to brush their teeth?
Lead with a calm, casual approach, offer autonomy, place the task within a routine, and maintain a positive connection; acknowledge feelings, model behavior, and back off when needed, so the child feels ownership and cooperates willingly rather than being forced.
Why Parents Need RIE (with Melani Ladygo)
Q: What do you believe is the biggest gift that RIE gives to parents and children?
It is the trusting relationship and the peacefulness that RIE instills, helping parents to see their child's capabilities and engage with them comfortably.

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A thoughtful, practice-oriented show focused on respectful parenting for infants and toddlers. Episodes center on validating children's feelings, establishing calm boundaries, and leading with connection rather than control, often reframing common caregiver struggles as opportunities for collaboration and growth. Across episodes, listeners hear concrete, non-punitive strategies rooted in the No Bad Kids framework, with a strong emphasis on secure attachment, empathy, and guiding children toward autonomy. The show often weaves in personal anecdotes, educational theory, and practical tips for navigating daily parenting challenges, transitions, and family dynamics, making it useful for parents, caregivers, and professionals seeking a calm, con... more

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