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Ethical Non-Monogamy
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Get ready for unfiltered conversations about dating, life, love, sex, and relationships with two best friends who have truly been through it all. From epic dating fails and steamy confessions to the ups and downs of finding real connection, we’re sharing our most raw and relatable stories with plenty of laughs and zero judgment. Whether you’re navigating the single life, figuring out love, or divi... more

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It’s getting real hot this week 🔥 We’re talking all things foreplay — what turns us on, what keeps it interesting, and why it’s way more than just the warm-up. Chan shocks herself (and maybe everyone else) by realizing she actually loves getting hea... more

Love is in the air — and we are so here for it! Big news... Karina and Chan are in relationships! 💕 It started off hot and heavy (are you surprised?) and it’s been going really well. In this episode, we’re getting real about the difference between l... more

This one’s been sitting in the vault — recorded back on August 21st, it’s our lost episode! We’re diving into knowing your worth — in relationships, in life, and within yourself. We’ve gone through the motions, learned the hard lessons, and finally f... more

When Dr. Becky's team reached out and asked if we wanted to have her on we couldn't say yes fast enough! This week we’re joined by Dr. Becky Whetstone, therapist, author, and creator of the new book “I (Think) I Want Out: What to Do When One of You W... more

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Recent Guests

Dr. Becky Whetstone
Marriage and family therapist and author
Episode: I Think I Want Out: Navigating Marriage Crises with Dr. Becky Whetstone
Brook Anderson
Works at NAMI Utah and co-chair for American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
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Episode: The Silent Battle: Mental Health Awareness with Brook
Lauren Hayes
Relationship coach focused on ethical non-monogamy
Episode: Swinging State of Mind: Love, Lust & ENM

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Karina
Shana

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 41 ratings
  • So informative!!

    I have learned a lot from this podcast! Thank you for being so real and open

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jackson Q.
    United States6 months ago
  • The best

    Seriously the best podcast. So real and raw. If you haven’t listened, you should.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rufmoose
    United States6 months ago
  • LOVE this podcast!!

    These guys are hilarious and so real, I absolutely love this podcast!! I have listened to every single one and they’re all so good. I’ve learned a lot in so many aspects of my life from this podcast. So genuine! Chan and Karina will have you rolling on the floor and crying at the same time! Love it!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mrs. Turn
    United States7 months ago
  • Authentic and Relatable

    I absolutely loved the podcast "Not So Secret Lives"! Chan and Katrina are incredibly authentic and relatable, creating a welcoming space for listeners. Their ability to discuss the quiet parts of life out loud is refreshing and empowering. It feels like having a heartfelt conversation with friends. Highly recommend tuning in for genuine insights and inspiring stories!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jagged29
    United States7 months ago
  • Amazing!

    LOVE LOVE LOVE this podcast! So much great insight on so many things, and HILARIOUS!!! I love listening Chan and Karina! Never a dull moment!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JackGotMaBack
    United States9 months ago

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The engaging chemistry between the hosts is frequently highlighted, making the listening experience enjoyable and relatable.
Many commend the show's humor and the ability to tackle sensitive topics in a light-hearted manner.
Listeners appreciate the raw honesty and relatability of discussions surrounding dating and personal experiences.
The podcast is often recognized for its insightful conversations about mental health and relationships, resonating deeply with the audience.

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I Think I Want Out: Navigating Marriage Crises with Dr. Becky Whetstone
Q: In your opinion, what advice do you have for couples who would like to work on their marriage?
Don't do it alone. Especially if you have kids, don't try to manage this yourself.
I Think I Want Out: Navigating Marriage Crises with Dr. Becky Whetstone
Q: What builds like the strongest foundation between two people?
You've got to have two healthy partners that mentally and emotionally take care of themselves.
The Silent Battle: Mental Health Awareness with Brook
Q: What messages do you wish that everyone struggling with a mental health condition or suicidal ideations or thoughts could hear today?
You're not alone, there are amazing people who want you here and want to help you without expecting anything in return.
The Silent Battle: Mental Health Awareness with Brook
Q: What would you say healing looks like?
Healing can be a beautiful disaster, facing the crap within ourselves to fix it, and ultimately developing compassion once we've gone through it.
The Silent Battle: Mental Health Awareness with Brook
Q: What signs should people look out for in loved ones who might be struggling?
Look for direct signs like verbal indications of wanting to end life, erratic behavior, and silent indicators such as burden statements, or absenteeism.

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Conversations center around dating, relationships, personal growth, and mental health, often interspersed with humor and candid storytelling. The hosts explore real-life challenges and experiences, inviting guests from various sectors like mental health and coaching to share insights that resonate deeply with listeners. Themes of empowerment, advocacy, and vulnerability track throughout the episodes, making for an engaging listening experience that offers both laughs and heartfelt advice. Unique elements include candid discussions on sexuality, ethical non-monogamy, and the complexities of modern dating life, all grounded in relatable narratives and open dialogue.

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