
Welcome to Mother Mayhem, the podcast for daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers. I’m Heather Gray, licensed therapist and narcissistic abuse recovery expert. If you're healing from the mother wound, emotional neglect, or childhood trauma, you’re in the right place. Start with the first 8 episodes—they lay the foundation for your healing. Learn to understand your experience, set... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 157 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessMental Health | |||

In this episode of Mother Mayhem, we meet a daughter navigating emotional chaos, triangulation, and repeated attachment loss caused by her mother’s unstable relationships.
We’ll explore attachment trauma, toxic family systems, emotional unpredictab... more
This week, we meet a daughter who grew up in a home marked by fear, hypervigilance, emotional instability, and domestic violence.
Although her childhood looked “good” from the outside, her nervous system carried a very different reality underneath ... more
What happens when your life finally becomes calmer… but your body still feels afraid?
In this episode, I talk to a daughter navigating the aftermath of going no contact with her emotionally harmful mother after years of chronic emotional trauma and ... more
Mother’s Day can bring up a lot when you have a complicated, painful, or confusing relationship with your mother.
If you’re a daughter of a narcissistic, emotionally immature, or unavailable mother, this time of year can feel especially heavy. The g... more
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The podcast has been helpful. Just wish there was an option for people like me who want to join the community but can’t afford $40/mo.
More than just a great podcast. Somehow Heather builds a rapport and a relationship with her listeners. The amount she gives to this community cannot be understated.
I used to really like this podcast, and I do think it is very valuable, but lately Heather has been really putting on a “voice” that feels disingenuous. Almost like she is trying to do some spoken word thing. And in the newest episode, as an example, the first 10 or so minutes were all just her reading compliments about herself. It’s unnecessary and really has been turning me off, which is unfortunate. Hoping she takes this feedback and is just more real moving forward.
I am blown away by the level of connection and perception and humor and tenderness this podcast has provided me. While I may not Relate to every story or feeling, this podcast has put words to so much of my lived experience as a mother, a daughter, a human. Thank you, thank you, mother mayhem!
relieved to finally find a podcast about this.
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The show centers on healing from the mother wound, focusing on daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers. Across episodes, listeners hear letters, therapist-guided reflections, and practical steps for boundary setting, nervous-system regulation, and building safer relationships. The host leans into trauma-informed guidance, community support, and actionable strategies for therapy, self-care, and healing within family dynamics. Notable strengths include a warm, empathetic hosting style, a clear framework for recovery, and a strong listener community; occasional feedback notes pacing or tone. Potential listeners who want validation, concrete tools, and a supportive space to explore family trauma will likely find this program co... more
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