
If you’re the adult daughter of a narcissistic, emotionally immature, or emotionally abusive mother, you know the guilt, self-doubt, overfunctioning, and profound impact of your mother wound. I’m Heather Gray, a licensed therapist. On Mother Mayhem, we make sense of childhood trauma and emotional neglect, how they shape your nervous system, your relationship with yourself and others, and why those... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 167 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Mental HealthHealth & Fitness | |||

Do you feel guilty asking for help, putting yourself first, or even having preferences? If you've spent your life feeling like a burden, I’ve got you.
In this episode, we're talking about the invisible rules so many daughters of narcissistic and em... more
Why does making friends and finding community feel so much harder after growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally immature mother?
This week, we talk about how childhood trauma shapes connection, belonging, attachment, and relationships long in... more
What happens when your narcissistic mother starts therapy? What if your emotionally immature or narcissistic mother seems to be changing after years of hurt, manipulation, or emotional abuse? How do you know if the change is real, and what does it me... more
If you've ever walked away from a conversation with your mother feeling confused, doubting yourself, or wondering how you somehow ended up apologizing...I've got your back.
Today we're unpacking some of the most common manipulation tactics daughters... more
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Extra Edit: I had written the first version of this review and then updated it to be less critical without realizing the host had dedicated an entire episode based on my original review (I was taking a break). I will leave the second edit as is but I think potential listeners should know that the host went above and beyond in addressing the issues I brought up. That says so much about her and I believe it reinforces the reasons I believe this podcast is so important for folks affected by narciss... more
Such compassionate, thoughtful, genuine, supportive insights, stories and conversations. I feel so safe, seen and included whenever I see a new episode drop. Thank you for your work.
A show on brainwashing so families are taught to not communicate and walk away from the people who love you the most. Leaving heartbroken parents and families to pick of the pieces missing their children.
This podcast helped me begin to find myself again over the past 2 years. It has helped me grow in ways I didn’t even know I needed to - my partner and kids and I have a much richer, healthier relationship because of it. Thank you Heather for showing me how to recover as a daughter 🩷
I’m 63 and my mom has been gone now 13 years. Still I’m working thru my childhood. I started listening 2 weeks ago and have gone back to listen from the beginning. Thank you for the journey you have curated.
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Daughters navigating the impact of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers find practical guidance, boundaries, and community support. Episodes center on real letters and listener stories, with a steady emphasis on healing from mother wounds, managing boundaries, nervous system regulation, and rebuilding honest relationships. The show combines compassionate coaching, evidence-informed strategies, and a strong community angle (Mayhem Daughters) to help listeners feel seen, less isolated, and capable of meaningful change. A standout trait is the host's blend of warmth, clinical insight, and actionable steps, plus invitations to join a supportive audience network that extends beyond episodes.
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