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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Communication
Friendship
Marriage
Modern Dating
Running
Social Media
Dating Apps
New York City
Narcissism
Communication In Relationships
Dating and Relationships
Cohosts For Life
Infertility
Personal Growth
Support Systems
Body Image

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Latest Episodes

A gentle heads-up: This episode touches on pregnancy loss and fertility struggles. We know these topics can be deeply personal and difficult, so please listen with care.

A cancer diagnosis can change every part of your life, including your relations... more

This week, we're letting a random question generator take the wheel, and let's just say things get a little personal. We're talking about whether alone time is essential in a healthy relationship, who would survive longer if we switched lives for a w... more

What if the way we experience dating and relationships has less to do with the other person and more to do with the state we’re in when we experience them? Dr. Sue Morter joins Seeing Other People to talk about how our internal state, nervous system,... more

This week on Cohosts for Life, we're getting into a conversation we've been having more and more as we get closer to becoming parents: will we be sharing our baby on social media? We're talking about where we stand, the boundaries we're considering, ... more

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Recent Guests

Sue Morter
Energy medicine practitioner and teacher of grounding practices, relationship, health, and self-empowerment.
Episode: How to Stop Overthinking and Feel More Grounded in Dating
Dr. Lucette Beall
Researcher/Author focused on brain, dating, and self-trust
Episode: Stop “Shoulding” Yourself: How to Stop Comparing and Start Trusting Yourself
Lisa Virginia Anderson
Tech founder and creator of InvisiBILL
InvisiBILL
Episode: Are You Doing Too Much in Your Relationships?
Stefanos Sifandos
Relationship coach, author of Turned In and Turned On
Be The Queen Signature Program (guest appearance)
Episode: Are You Dating for the Relationship You Actually Want?
Jane Garnett
Former Hollywood producer turned psychotherapist and author of This Time With Feeling
Self
Episode: Getting Unstuck: How to Rewrite the Story You Tell Yourself
Dr. Lucette Bell
Guest mentioned as an amazing guest in a prior recording
Episode: How We’d Date If We Had to Start Over & Dating Your Ex’s Friend
Najwa Zebian
Author of The One Who Broke You Can't Heal You
Author
Episode: The One Who Broke You Can't Heal You
Serena Kerrigan
Author of Let's Fucking Date and dating expert
Self-described dating expert and author
Episode: The Love of Your Life Would Want to Date You
Isabelle Surielow
PhD candidate, matchmaker and relationship consultant
Self-employed / Seeing Other People (guest)
Episode: Why Having a Timeline for Love Can Keep You From Finding It

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host of Seeing Other People; matches with matchmaking expertise and relationship storytelling.
Jake
Co-host introducing and guiding conversations; provides context and pacing.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.3k ratings
  • Love the show!

    This podcast has been a staple in my weekly roundup for quite a while, and I don’t foresee that changing. Ilana and Jake are extremely candid and thorough in their responses to listener questions, and I can’t wait to see how the podcast evolves.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kenzie720
    United States3 months ago
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United States7 months ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States7 months ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia8 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States8 months ago

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Guests and host connect well, with genuine, empathetic interviewing.
Listeners praise honesty and practical dating advice.
Show is a go-to for real stories and actionable tips in dating.

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Are We Posting Our Baby on Social Media?
Q: How do you know whether someone genuinely wants the same future but moves at a different pace, and when does patience become wasting your time?
The hosts recommend an honest conversation about whether he wants marriage and children, how uncertainty affects her, and what general timeline he sees, while noting she needs that information to decide how to move forward.
Are We Posting Our Baby on Social Media?
Q: How would you feel about information from a date with your ex's friend getting back to your ex?
Jake says he would not be concerned about the ex hearing updates, and both hosts suggest focusing on whether the date felt comfortable and whether she wants to see the friend again.
How to Stop Overthinking and Feel More Grounded in Dating
Q: How do you know whether the way you're experiencing another person is about them versus the state that you're experiencing, the state that you're in when you're experiencing them?
Morter says perception is filtered by a person's internal state. Grounding and regulating the nervous system can reduce fear-driven distortion and help someone hear and respond to another person more clearly.
How to Stop Overthinking and Feel More Grounded in Dating
Q: Where do you recommend somebody begins with trying to learn more or feel more comfortable with themselves internally?
Morter recommends starting with nervous system regulation through deep belly breathing, then adding posture and pelvic-floor grounding practices to become more present and less guarded.
The Marriage Conversations We Probably Should've Had Off Mic
Q: What are you most afraid of changing about your relationship once the baby arrives, and what might make it better?
Jake anticipates having less time together but thinks parenting may bring them closer. Ilana worries about the frustration some mothers experience with their partners, and they discuss how work schedules and childcare expectations could affect their relationship.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Seeing Other People

What is Seeing Other People about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show is a candid, conversation-driven look at modern dating and relationships, mixing real-life stories with expert insights. Episodes frequently cover boundaries, self-worth, dating norms, and practical relationship skills, often pairing personal anecdotes with therapist or author perspectives. Sponsorships are woven through host reads, and guests range from clinicians and authors to everyday singles sharing authentic experiences. A standout feature is the mix of practical tips, therapy-informed strategies, and relatable life updates that help listeners navigate dating with clarity and confidence. The format appeals to people who want actionable relationship guidance, self-reflection, and diverse viewpoints on love, sex, and partnershi... more

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Sue Morter
2. Dr. Lucette Beall
3. Lisa Virginia Anderson
4. Stefanos Sifandos
5. Jane Garnett
6. Dr. Lucette Bell
7. Najwa Zebian
8. Serena Kerrigan

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