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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Marriage
Friendship
Modern Dating
Communication
Dating Apps
Communication In Relationships
Running
Personal Growth
Self-Discovery
New York City
Social Media
Wedding Planning
Motherhood
Relationship Dynamics
Narcissism
Infertility

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Latest Episodes

Addie Sellers joins the podcast to share one of the most shocking experiences of her matchmaking career: working with a client who was later convicted and sentenced to 80 years in prison. We talk about the subtle red flags people miss in dating, why ... more

Happy Monday! We're recording from Jake's childhood bedroom fresh off a wedding the night before. We talk about why we're obsessed with vows and speeches, what it's like to hear other couples' love stories and reflect on your own relationship, and th... more

This solo episode is all about hindsight, growth, and the dating choices I understand differently now. I’m reacting to listener-submitted scenarios through two lenses: what past me probably would’ve done, and what I’d do now. We’re talking about emot... more

Lauren Makler joins the podcast for a conversation about fertility anxiety, egg freezing, dating pressure, and the emotional weight so many women carry around timelines. From AMH testing and IVF to secondary infertility, miscarriages, and dating in y... more

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Recent Guests

Joy Burkheimer
Licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship therapist, sexologist
Self-employed / Private Practice
Episode: When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)
Chloe Hechter
Content creator and actor with a background in theater and writing
Independent/Seeing Other People guest
Episode: She Thought She Was “Too Much” Until She Met the Right Person
Annie Jorgensen
Public figure, former Miss Georgia, Joe Millionaire contestant, content creator
Independent
Episode: 30, Single, and Happier Than Ever
Kerry Russo
Creator of UES Things (Upper East Side Things)
UES Things
Episode: Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Trevor Hanson
Therapist and secure attachment expert
Episode: Stop People Pleasing, Start Feeling Secure
Juliette Haas
Guest on Seeing Other People, crisis PR professional and London-bound traveler
Independent PR professional
Episode: Meeting Someone When You Least Expect It
Amy Chan
Author of Unsingle, dating expert
Author, Unsingle
Episode: Why You’re Still Single (It’s Not Bad Luck)
Ali Jackson
Host of Finding Mr. Height
Finding Mr. Height
Episode: From Dating Burnout to Meeting The One at 37
Dana Joy
Podcaster and Not That Deep host
Not That Deep
Episode: Taking the Pressure Off Dating

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host of the show Seeing Other People
Jake
Co-host of Seeing Other People

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United States2 months ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States2 months ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia4 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States4 months ago
  • Podcast Interview Turned New Friend

    Absolutely loved being a guest and talking all things Love Is Blind, dating since reality tv and getting a personalized dating app audit from Ilana! Loved her energy and girl talk! Truly vibed and def got a new friend now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChaseLife With Kelly
    United States6 months ago

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Critiques occasionally note overly long ad reads or guest pacing in some episodes.
Guest diversity and practical dating advice are frequently praised.
Listeners admire Ilana's authenticity and interviewing skill, often calling the host a genuine friend figure.

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When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)
Q: When should someone give a second chance in dating and when is it self-sabotage?
It depends on what you value and whether the second chance aligns with your core boundaries and beliefs; if the behavior signals a risk to your values or repeated patterns, it may be self-sabotage, otherwise it could be a healthy growth opportunity if trust and communication can be rebuilt.
I Thought Hitting My Goals Would Feel Different
Q: Did you ever expect a milestone to change you more than it actually did?
Yes, I found that milestones often don't change me as dramatically as I anticipated; what changes is my day-to-day experience and my ability to appreciate where I am while still aiming for the next thing.
Is It a Red Flag If You Never Fight With Your Partner?
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for one year and we haven't had any major conflicts; is this a red flag or a sign of a healthy relationship?
The hosts explain that there is no single right way to a relationship; some couples have frequent conflicts while others have minimal disagreements. The key is open communication, empathy, and addressing issues early so they don't fester into bigger problems.
Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Q: What advice would you give to someone hosting events to meet new people or potentially date?
Her guidance is to go to events alone if you're nervous, set a small goal like talking to two people, and take the initiative to speak first rather than waiting for others to reach out.
Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Q: How did you decide to leave your corporate job to go full time with UES Things?
She describes the burnout from juggling two jobs, the decision in mid-2025 to quit the corporate role, cover the shortfall with more hours from UES Things, and the eventual full-time jump.

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Dating-focused conversations featuring real stories, expert insights, and practical frameworks for navigating modern relationships. Episodes commonly cover communication, boundaries, personal growth, and therapy, often blending clinical perspectives with candid personal experiences from guests and hosts. Noteworthy elements include a strong emphasis on empowerment, self-trust, and evolving relationship dynamics across dating, commitment, and reconciliation. The show regularly features therapists, dating coaches, content creators, and public figures sharing practical advice and relatable anecdotes, making it helpful for listeners seeking actionable guidance and reassurance in their dating lives.

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1. Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
2. We Met At Acme
3. Ask a Matchmaker
4. Dating Intentionally
5. U Up?

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Seeing Other People launched 6 years ago and published 596 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Joy Burkheimer
2. Chloe Hechter
3. Annie Jorgensen
4. Kerry Russo
5. Trevor Hanson
6. Juliette Haas
7. Amy Chan
8. Ali Jackson

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