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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Friendship
Marriage
Communication
Communication In Relationships
Modern Dating
Dating Apps
Running
Self-Discovery
Social Media
New York City
Personal Growth
Wedding Planning
Narcissism
Infertility
Infidelity
Support Systems

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Latest Episodes

Jake turns 33, we recap his birthday week, and Professor Ilana is two classes in and already never wants it to end. We get into everything we didn't have time for last week: the creative ways we told our friends we were pregnant, what the first trime... more

Olivia Atwood, Director of Matchmaking at Lox Club, joins the podcast to share how a joke matchmaking project during COVID turned into a career helping people find love—and what happened when she unexpectedly had to start dating again after the end o... more

Dr. Shamara Howard joins the podcast for an eye-opening conversation about how dating is changing—and why that's not necessarily a bad thing. We dive into why more women are choosing to stay single rather than settle, how to tell the difference betwe... more

We're pregnant, we're 15 weeks along, and we've been dying to tell you. This episode is everything: a clip from when we first found out, what the first trimester was actually like (the smell sensitivity, the endless weeks of feeling ill beyond belief... more

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Recent Guests

Brandi Davis
Licensed marriage and family therapist; owner of Back Pocket Counseling
Back Pocket Counseling
Episode: Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)
Julie LaPlaca
Producer on The Bachelor, author of The Love Producer
The Bachelor related production
Episode: What Working on The Bachelor Taught Her About Love
Cara Dayan
Styling advisor helping people show up better in life and dating
Episode: The Reason You're Not Getting a Second Date
Lauren Makler
Co-founder and CEO of Co-Fertility
Co-Fertility
Episode: Fertility Anxiety, Egg Freezing & Dating Under Pressure
Allison Lane
31-year-old NYC resident, runner, former corporate role in learning and development
Independent speaker/guest
Episode: Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable Being Alone
Joy Burkheimer
Licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship therapist, sexologist
Self-employed / Private Practice
Episode: When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)
Chloe Hechter
Content creator and actor with a background in theater and writing
Independent/Seeing Other People guest
Episode: She Thought She Was “Too Much” Until She Met the Right Person
Meg Reynolds
Host of Not The Girl Next Door; dating life, career, and personal growth advocate
Not The Girl Next Door Podcast
Episode: You’re Not Behind, You’re Just in Your 20s
Annie Jorgensen
Public figure, former Miss Georgia, Joe Millionaire contestant, content creator
Independent
Episode: 30, Single, and Happier Than Ever

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host of the show Seeing Other People
Jake
Co-host of Seeing Other People

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United States4 months ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States4 months ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia5 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States5 months ago
  • Podcast Interview Turned New Friend

    Absolutely loved being a guest and talking all things Love Is Blind, dating since reality tv and getting a personalized dating app audit from Ilana! Loved her energy and girl talk! Truly vibed and def got a new friend now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChaseLife With Kelly
    United States7 months ago

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Critiques occasionally note overly long ad reads or guest pacing in some episodes.
Guest diversity and practical dating advice are frequently praised.
Listeners admire Ilana's authenticity and interviewing skill, often calling the host a genuine friend figure.

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Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)
Q: What should someone do when they feel anxious about dating or get caught in comparison on social media?
Acknowledge the anxiety, normalize it, and focus on internal validation and personal goals rather than external affirmation; reduce exposure to feeds that trigger insecurity.
Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)
Q: How can someone stay present in their own life while dating someone they like?
Develop awareness of relationship OCD or over-analytical tendencies, seek habits that keep you grounded in your own routine, and consult a therapist to understand underlying patterns and root motivations.
"All My Friends Are in Relationships and I'm Starting to Feel Left Behind"
Q: Hi Ilana, what should I do if I feel like my social life is being organized around my friends' schedules and their relationships?
Be proactive in reaching out, propose specific activities, and create opportunities for your own plans that don't depend entirely on others' schedules.
"All My Friends Are in Relationships and I'm Starting to Feel Left Behind"
Q: Hi Ilana, my brother has been dating his girlfriend for a little over a year. How do you build a genuine relationship with a sibling's partner without putting them in a bind?
They suggest being respectful of boundaries, communicating with both sides, and venting carefully by keeping conversations constructive and transparent to avoid forcing loyalty choices.
"All My Friends Are in Relationships and I'm Starting to Feel Left Behind"
Q: Hi Ilana and Jake, do either of you have any experience being blindsided in dating?
The hosts discuss the emotional impact of being left after an exclusive step and emphasize learning from the experience, staying open to dating, and communicating clearly about expectations next time.

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Dating-focused conversations featuring real stories, expert insights, and practical frameworks for navigating modern relationships. Episodes commonly cover communication, boundaries, personal growth, and therapy, often blending clinical perspectives with candid personal experiences from guests and hosts. Noteworthy elements include a strong emphasis on empowerment, self-trust, and evolving relationship dynamics across dating, commitment, and reconciliation. The show regularly features therapists, dating coaches, content creators, and public figures sharing practical advice and relatable anecdotes, making it helpful for listeners seeking actionable guidance and reassurance in their dating lives.

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1. We Met At Acme
2. Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
3. U Up?
4. Ask a Matchmaker
5. Dating Intentionally

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Seeing Other People launched 6 years ago and published 613 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Brandi Davis
2. Julie LaPlaca
3. Cara Dayan
4. Lauren Makler
5. Allison Lane
6. Joy Burkheimer
7. Chloe Hechter
8. Meg Reynolds

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