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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Marriage
Friendship
Communication
Modern Dating
Communication In Relationships
Dating Apps
Running
Personal Growth
Self-Discovery
Social Media
New York City
Wedding Planning
Motherhood
Narcissism
Infertility
Infidelity

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Latest Episodes

Therapist and co-host of the Therapy Brothers podcast, Tyler Patrick joins the podcast to share his personal story of addiction, betrayal, recovery, and rebuilding trust after everything fell apart. We talk about why betrayal feels so traumatic, what... more

Ilana's back on Love Island (long story), Jake played golf four times in eight days, and we're doing absolutely nothing for July 4th and couldn't be happier about it. Three listener questions this week: someone who got blindsided when a guy ended thi... more

In this raw and emotional follow-up to I Didn't Expect This Relationship to Break Me, an anonymous guest returns to share the final chapter of her story—and the moment she finally found the strength to walk away.

After years of broken promises, emot... more

Brandi Davis (@backpocketcounseling) joins the podcast for a deep dive into modern dating, relationship anxiety, communication, attachment styles, and the patterns that keep us stuck.

As a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Back P... more

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Recent Guests

Cara Dayan
Styling advisor helping people show up better in life and dating
Episode: The Reason You're Not Getting a Second Date
Lauren Makler
Co-founder and CEO of Co-Fertility
Co-Fertility
Episode: Fertility Anxiety, Egg Freezing & Dating Under Pressure
Allison Lane
31-year-old NYC resident, runner, former corporate role in learning and development
Independent speaker/guest
Episode: Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable Being Alone
Joy Burkheimer
Licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship therapist, sexologist
Self-employed / Private Practice
Episode: When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)
Chloe Hechter
Content creator and actor with a background in theater and writing
Independent/Seeing Other People guest
Episode: She Thought She Was “Too Much” Until She Met the Right Person
Meg Reynolds
Host of Not The Girl Next Door; dating life, career, and personal growth advocate
Not The Girl Next Door Podcast
Episode: You’re Not Behind, You’re Just in Your 20s
Annie Jorgensen
Public figure, former Miss Georgia, Joe Millionaire contestant, content creator
Independent
Episode: 30, Single, and Happier Than Ever
Kerry Russo
Creator of UES Things (Upper East Side Things)
UES Things
Episode: Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Trevor Hanson
Therapist and secure attachment expert
Episode: Stop People Pleasing, Start Feeling Secure

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host of the show Seeing Other People
Jake
Co-host of Seeing Other People

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United States3 months ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States3 months ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia4 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States4 months ago
  • Podcast Interview Turned New Friend

    Absolutely loved being a guest and talking all things Love Is Blind, dating since reality tv and getting a personalized dating app audit from Ilana! Loved her energy and girl talk! Truly vibed and def got a new friend now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChaseLife With Kelly
    United States6 months ago

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Critiques occasionally note overly long ad reads or guest pacing in some episodes.
Guest diversity and practical dating advice are frequently praised.
Listeners admire Ilana's authenticity and interviewing skill, often calling the host a genuine friend figure.

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Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable Being Alone
Q: What's your take on therapy and mental health in the context of dating?
Therapy is described as a transformative factor that helped her move from dating disasters to a stable marriage, highlighting accessibility through insurance networks.
Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable Being Alone
Q: What has your personal journey with weight loss and body image been like, and how does that intersect with dating?
She describes a structured, alcohol-free weight loss journey that improved confidence and dating presence, emphasizing the mental work and energy shift over quick fixes.
Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable Being Alone
Q: Can you tell everyone a little bit about who you are and what's going on in your life right now?
Allison introduces herself as a 31-year-old living in NYC, a dedicated runner and marathoner, with a background in learning and development, and a strong emphasis on friendship and family life.
All Our Dates Are at His House — Should I Be Worried?
Q: Hi Ilana, I love your podcast and appreciate you answering listener questions. What should I do about a guy I went on a boring date with two years ago who recently followed me on Instagram?
If you're curious, you could re-engage by replying to one of his stories and see how the conversation goes; otherwise, don't overthink it—there's no need to force something that wasn't a match before.
Fertility Anxiety, Egg Freezing & Dating Under Pressure
Q: I'm 31, single, I live in New York and logically I know I still have time, but emotionally I feel like every failed hinge date suddenly becomes a fertility crisis. How do I stop dating from turning into a fertility panic?
The guest emphasizes listening to your body and values, using data to inform decisions, and not letting fear drive choices. Start with practical steps like learning your fertility status (AMH and baseline workups if appropriate), but primarily focus on aligning dating and family goals with your own timeline, and seek conversations with trusted people in your personal network to ground the decisions in real-life context rather than social pressure.

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Dating-focused conversations featuring real stories, expert insights, and practical frameworks for navigating modern relationships. Episodes commonly cover communication, boundaries, personal growth, and therapy, often blending clinical perspectives with candid personal experiences from guests and hosts. Noteworthy elements include a strong emphasis on empowerment, self-trust, and evolving relationship dynamics across dating, commitment, and reconciliation. The show regularly features therapists, dating coaches, content creators, and public figures sharing practical advice and relatable anecdotes, making it helpful for listeners seeking actionable guidance and reassurance in their dating lives.

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1. Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
2. Ask a Matchmaker
3. Dating Intentionally
4. We Met At Acme
5. Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

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Seeing Other People launched 6 years ago and published 605 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Cara Dayan
2. Lauren Makler
3. Allison Lane
4. Joy Burkheimer
5. Chloe Hechter
6. Meg Reynolds
7. Annie Jorgensen
8. Kerry Russo

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