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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Modern Dating
Friendship
Communication
Marriage
Dating Apps
Communication In Relationships
Self-Discovery
Personal Growth
Running
Social Media
New York City
Infidelity
Self-Care
Wedding Planning
Ghosting
Narcissism

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Latest Episodes

Juliette Haas is about to leave a life that works — great friends, a solid routine, and NYC exactly as she always imagined it — to move to London anyway. In this episode, we get into what it really means to choose discomfort on purpose, from solo tra... more

Amy Chan returns to Seeing Other People five years after her first appearance to talk about her new book UNSINGLE and what it actually takes to create a healthy, lasting relationship. We talk about why so many of us keep repeating the same dating pat... more

We're back with Ilana's LA trip recap, a lot to be grateful for, and two listener questions that made us cry. Ilana returns with two unhinged stories — a barista who said something unhinged to every customer and a saleswoman who congratulated someone... more

Ryan is a 43-year-old single dad living in a small coastal town in Mississippi, navigating dating with a uniquely small dating pool — and a clear idea of what he wants. After two divorces, gaining full custody of his kids, and years focused on raisin... more

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Recent Guests

Talia Koren
Dating coach/author and host of Dating Intentionally
Dating Intentionally
Episode: Dating Intentionally: From 150 Dates to Marriage
Ali Jackson
Host of Finding Mr. Height
Finding Mr. Height
Episode: From Dating Burnout to Meeting The One at 37
Dana Joy
Podcaster and Not That Deep host
Not That Deep
Episode: Taking the Pressure Off Dating
Andie Popova
Founder of Ask a Fuckboy, comedian and dating expert
Ask a Fuckboy / Andie Popova
Episode: Are They a Fuckboy or Just Not That Into You?
Dr. Rachel NYC
Clinical psychologist, author of When Life Happens
Book author; clinical practice in NYC
Episode: Life Happens: The Dating Mindset Shift You Didn’t Know You Needed
Jess Cuney
Guest sharing a personal journey to finding a life partner
Episode: "I Found My Life Partner At 42"
Trevor Hansen
Therapist and coach focused on anxious attachment and secure attachment
The Art of Healing by Trevor
Episode: You're Not Unlovable
Erica Spain
Dating guest sharing her experiences and insights
36-year-old jewelry designer based in New Jersey
Episode: Dating at 36: Situationships, Dating Apps, and the Pressure to Find “The One”
Misha Brown
Author of Be Your Own Bestie
Author/Speaker
Episode: How to Start Showing Up for Yourself

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host focused on dating, relationships, and actionable advice; frequent guest interviews and personal updates.
Jake
Co-host offering perspective on couple dynamics, dating experiences, and relationship experiments.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia2 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States2 months ago
  • Podcast Interview Turned New Friend

    Absolutely loved being a guest and talking all things Love Is Blind, dating since reality tv and getting a personalized dating app audit from Ilana! Loved her energy and girl talk! Truly vibed and def got a new friend now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChaseLife With Kelly
    United States4 months ago

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Listeners praise candid, actionable dating advice and relatable guest stories.
Fans appreciate the host's authenticity and straightforward approach to relationships.
Some listeners note long intros or ads detracting from content on rare occasions.
Many find the show encouraging for self-reflection and personal growth, with supportive community feedback.

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Talking Points

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Dating As A Single Dad: Finding Love After Raising His Kids
Q: What have you learned about introducing a partner to your kids?
He describes guarded early years, a tense experience with a previous partner, and the importance of allowing kids to set boundaries and observe first before integrating new relationships.
Dating As A Single Dad: Finding Love After Raising His Kids
Q: How has your relationship with your kids' mother affected your dating life?
He explains they have mostly maintained a practical relationship with the mother living nearby, custody settled, and the kids' needs prioritized; the dynamic underscores why dating can be complicated when children are involved.
"He Found Out I Went on Another Date… Now He’s Acting Weird"
Q: Hi Ilana and Jake. I need help because I fear I've accidentally created a situation. I went on a hinge date and found out it was his friend's roommate.
The hosts advise that there was no explicit breach of exclusivity, but the listener should consider having a direct talk about exclusivity and express their true feelings, including that they'd prefer to be exclusive if that's what they want.
The Relationship That Turned Into a Prison
Q: How did you finally summon the courage to leave?
She reached out to her grandmother and aunt for immediate support, escaped from the moving car when the moment presented itself, and contacted family for safety and police intervention.
You're Not Unlovable
Q: What practical exercise can listeners start with today?
Start by listing evidence for and against the belief of being unlovable, treat it like a courtroom debate, observe the emotional responses, and then rewrite the belief to something nuanced like, 'I am lovable, and some people will see my worth even if not everyone does.'

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Three core formats run through recent episodes: with guests who share personal dating journeys, relationship analysis from therapists or authors, and candid updates from the hosts about their own relationship and dating life. Topics span modern dating challenges, engagement, marriage, family dynamics, body image and health influences on dating, as well as career pivots and podcasting entrepreneurship. Unique strengths include a blend of practical, action-oriented dating advice, vulnerable storytelling, and a steady thread of couple dynamics from the hosts, which can help listeners feel seen whether they're single, dating, or committed.

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1. Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
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3. U Up?
4. Ask a Matchmaker
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Seeing Other People launched 6 years ago and published 579 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Talia Koren
2. Ali Jackson
3. Dana Joy
4. Andie Popova
5. Dr. Rachel NYC
6. Jess Cuney
7. Trevor Hansen
8. Erica Spain

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