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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Marriage
Friendship
Modern Dating
Communication
Dating Apps
Communication In Relationships
Self-Discovery
Personal Growth
Running
New York City
Social Media
Self-Care
Wedding Planning
Motherhood
Self-Love
Relationship Dynamics

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Latest Episodes

For so much of my life, I thought certain milestones would fundamentally change me. The relationship, the career growth, the apartment, the race finish line, the goals I spent years chasing. I thought I’d feel more confident, more secure, more fulfil... more

Chloe Hechter joins the podcast for a conversation about everything your twenties are actually filled with: changing career paths, feeling behind, navigating dating in New York City, and learning how to stop centering relationships as the main goal. ... more

Ilana's recording this one from her deathbed after missing the Brooklyn Half and sleeping the weekend away while Jake walked 25,000 steps to get a burger. Two listener questions this week: a woman who met a guy in Ireland, and booked another trip at... more

Meg Reynolds is back and we get real about what your twenties actually feel like—uncertain, uncomfortable, and constantly shifting. From turning 27 and questioning everything to navigating dating, friendships, and career paths that don’t look how you... more

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Recent Guests

Annie Jorgensen
Public figure, former Miss Georgia, Joe Millionaire contestant, content creator
Independent
Episode: 30, Single, and Happier Than Ever
Kerry Russo
Creator of UES Things (Upper East Side Things)
UES Things
Episode: Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Trevor Hanson
Therapist and secure attachment expert
Episode: Stop People Pleasing, Start Feeling Secure
Juliette Haas
Guest on Seeing Other People, crisis PR professional and London-bound traveler
Independent PR professional
Episode: Meeting Someone When You Least Expect It
Amy Chan
Author of Unsingle, dating expert
Author, Unsingle
Episode: Why You’re Still Single (It’s Not Bad Luck)
Talia Koren
Dating coach/author and host of Dating Intentionally
Dating Intentionally
Episode: Dating Intentionally: From 150 Dates to Marriage
Ali Jackson
Host of Finding Mr. Height
Finding Mr. Height
Episode: From Dating Burnout to Meeting The One at 37
Dana Joy
Podcaster and Not That Deep host
Not That Deep
Episode: Taking the Pressure Off Dating
Andie Popova
Founder of Ask a Fuckboy, comedian and dating expert
Ask a Fuckboy / Andie Popova
Episode: Are They a Fuckboy or Just Not That Into You?

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host focused on dating, relationships, and actionable advice; frequent guest interviews and personal updates.
Jake
Co-host offering perspective on couple dynamics, dating experiences, and relationship experiments.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United States2 months ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States2 months ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia3 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States3 months ago
  • Podcast Interview Turned New Friend

    Absolutely loved being a guest and talking all things Love Is Blind, dating since reality tv and getting a personalized dating app audit from Ilana! Loved her energy and girl talk! Truly vibed and def got a new friend now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChaseLife With Kelly
    United States5 months ago

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Listeners praise candid, actionable dating advice and relatable guest stories.
Fans appreciate the host's authenticity and straightforward approach to relationships.
Some listeners note long intros or ads detracting from content on rare occasions.
Many find the show encouraging for self-reflection and personal growth, with supportive community feedback.

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Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Q: What advice would you give to someone hosting events to meet new people or potentially date?
Her guidance is to go to events alone if you're nervous, set a small goal like talking to two people, and take the initiative to speak first rather than waiting for others to reach out.
Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Q: How did you decide to leave your corporate job to go full time with UES Things?
She describes the burnout from juggling two jobs, the decision in mid-2025 to quit the corporate role, cover the shortfall with more hours from UES Things, and the eventual full-time jump.
Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
Q: Tell us, when did you start UES Things and what was going on in your life then?
Kerry explains starting the page in 2019, then pandemic pivot in 2020, when restaurants reached out and she monetized gradually through partnerships and merchandise, with a shift toward paid opportunities after re-openings.
Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop & I Have a Big Announcement
Q: How much of an impact should astrological compatibility be considered when getting in a relationship with someone?
They suggest it's not decisive, but if it guides someone to trust their gut, they can consider it while prioritizing communication and testing compatibility through real interaction rather than relying solely on signs.
Stop People Pleasing, Start Feeling Secure
Q: What advice would you give to someone wanting to feel more secure in themselves?
Use a three-step framework: first, uncover the unmet emotional need from childhood; second, list the values you sacrifice in people-pleasing; third, develop concrete ways to fill that need while honoring those values, and finish by praising your character to reinforce progress.

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Three core formats run through recent episodes: with guests who share personal dating journeys, relationship analysis from therapists or authors, and candid updates from the hosts about their own relationship and dating life. Topics span modern dating challenges, engagement, marriage, family dynamics, body image and health influences on dating, as well as career pivots and podcasting entrepreneurship. Unique strengths include a blend of practical, action-oriented dating advice, vulnerable storytelling, and a steady thread of couple dynamics from the hosts, which can help listeners feel seen whether they're single, dating, or committed.

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1. Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
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3. Dating Intentionally
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Seeing Other People launched 6 years ago and published 588 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Annie Jorgensen
2. Kerry Russo
3. Trevor Hanson
4. Juliette Haas
5. Amy Chan
6. Talia Koren
7. Ali Jackson
8. Dana Joy

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