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Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn
Relationships
Dating
Mental Health
Therapy
Communication
Friendship
Marriage
Running
Modern Dating
Dating Apps
Communication In Relationships
Social Media
Self-Discovery
New York City
Wedding Planning
Personal Growth
Narcissism
Infidelity
Support Systems
Cohosts For Life

Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.

Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.

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Ilana's recording sick, the Syracuse course is officially over and she's not ready to talk about how much she'll miss it, and she saw Hilary Duff sell out MSG and has a lot of feelings. Two listener questions this week: how many drinks on a first dat... more

Amanda Katz joins the podcast to share the story of ending a long-term relationship after realizing her partner never fully grasped that she truly did not want children. We talk about the difference between "maybe someday" and knowing something about... more

Jordanne Sculler, licensed mental health counselor and relationship therapist, joins the podcast to unpack why so many of us keep repeating the same dating patterns—even when we know they're not working. We talk about the psychology behind unhealthy ... more

This week, a 4am pregnancy craving for a discontinued pasta dish spirals into one of the wildest nights of our lives, ending in a comped multi-course meal at Moriah, NYC's #1 Italian seafood restaurant, care of the original chef himself (Chrissy Teig... more

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Recent Guests

Amanda Katz
Fitness instructor, running and strength coach, host of her own podcast
Episode: What Choosing Yourself Actually Looks Like
Jordanne Sculler
Therapist running a group practice in New York City; specializes in healthier, authentic relationships
Private practice, New York City
Episode: Why You Keep Dating the Same Person in Different Fonts
Lexi Hidalgo
Host of the Moments Podcast
Moments Podcast
Episode: Stop Asking Your Friends These Dating Questions (Ask Yourself These Instead) | Part 2
Courtney Kocak
Author of Girl Gone Wild memoir; podcaster and comedian
Bad Place / Courtney Kocak
Episode: Finding Love After Hitting Rock Bottom
Dr. Darcy Sterling
New York City-based licensed therapist, host of We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling
We Need To Talk / Dr. Darcy Sterling
Episode: How to Stop Mistaking Anxiety for Chemistry
Ilana Dunn
Director of Matchmaking at Lox Club
Lox Club
Episode: Why Modern Dating Isn't Working for You
Dr. Shamara Howard
Sexual relationship therapist and sexologist
Use Your Mouth; onthegreencouch.com
Episode: Are Women's Standards Too High?
Linnea Sage
Actor, voice actor, creator of The Jewish Dating Game
The Jewish Dating Game
Episode: Stop Chasing Uncertainty in Dating
Brandi Davis
Licensed marriage and family therapist; owner of Back Pocket Counseling
Back Pocket Counseling
Episode: Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)

Hosts

Ilana Dunn
Host of the show Seeing Other People
Jake
Co-host of Seeing Other People

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Disappointed lately

    Guests lately have not had compelling stories and aren't great speakers - just rambling on about their not so exciting

    dating history.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Accidental listener 19874
    United States4 months ago
  • Love how genuine and fun Ilana is. love this pod

    I love this podcast I feel like I’ve grown up with the host Ilana. She’s so wise and kind and is a great interviewer

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Missamychan
    United States4 months ago
  • Love it

    Just wanted to thank you for your work <3 love listening

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ihhyuvivokükr
    Australia6 months ago
  • Awesome podcast

    Listen to this on my way to work every week. Enjoy hearing about other people experiences with love.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Music-notes
    United States6 months ago
  • Podcast Interview Turned New Friend

    Absolutely loved being a guest and talking all things Love Is Blind, dating since reality tv and getting a personalized dating app audit from Ilana! Loved her energy and girl talk! Truly vibed and def got a new friend now!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ChaseLife With Kelly
    United States8 months ago

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Critiques occasionally note overly long ad reads or guest pacing in some episodes.
Guest diversity and practical dating advice are frequently praised.
Listeners admire Ilana's authenticity and interviewing skill, often calling the host a genuine friend figure.

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What Choosing Yourself Actually Looks Like
Q: Is there anything that we didn't discuss that you were hoping to share?
There is beauty in the decision to prioritize your own needs and values, and to trust that the people who enter your life will respect your choices and your boundaries.
What Choosing Yourself Actually Looks Like
Q: For anyone who's going through something like what you went through, where maybe they thought they found their person and there's this big misalignment in what they want in their future, or they were on the same page and now they're not, what advice would you give them?
Take your time and choose yourself; it's simple in concept but incredibly hard in practice, and surrounding yourself with people who support that decision is crucial.
Are Women's Standards Too High?
Q: What outdated relationship advice needs to die?
The adage Don't go to bed angry is outdated; it ignores practical needs for de-stressing and safer, calmer conversations. A better approach is to schedule a time to discuss the issue when both are ready, and to approach it with the goal of solving the problem rather than proving a point.
Stop Chasing Uncertainty in Dating
Q: What are the signals that singles obsess over that actually tell you almost nothing, and what subtle behaviors predict a real connection?
In the show, authentic moments and shared experiences trump scripted questions; the spark comes from how people react under pressure, how they support others on stage, and the level of vulnerability they show, which is far more telling than traditional interview-style questions.
How to Stop Mistaking Anxiety for Chemistry
Q: Hi Ilana. How do you know the difference between healthy standards and rigid walls when dating?
Standards are important but they can't be absolute gatekeepers; if they become impossible to meet while no one fits, you need to reassess which ones can be balanced by compensating in other areas and consider what you're protecting yourself from.

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Dating-focused conversations featuring real stories, expert insights, and practical frameworks for navigating modern relationships. Episodes commonly cover communication, boundaries, personal growth, and therapy, often blending clinical perspectives with candid personal experiences from guests and hosts. Noteworthy elements include a strong emphasis on empowerment, self-trust, and evolving relationship dynamics across dating, commitment, and reconciliation. The show regularly features therapists, dating coaches, content creators, and public figures sharing practical advice and relatable anecdotes, making it helpful for listeners seeking actionable guidance and reassurance in their dating lives.

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Recent guests on Seeing Other People include:

1. Amanda Katz
2. Jordanne Sculler
3. Lexi Hidalgo
4. Courtney Kocak
5. Dr. Darcy Sterling
6. Ilana Dunn
7. Dr. Shamara Howard
8. Linnea Sage

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