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Dating, Relationships, and Disability

Kathy O'Connell
Dating
Disability
Ableism
Relationships
Mental Health
Self-Esteem
Vulnerability
Boundaries
Dating Made Easier
Resilience
Dating Apps
Community Support
Dating With Disability
Body Image
Confidence
Dating and Relationships
Romantic Relationships
Rejection
Online Dating
Disability Rights

We offer strategies, encouragement, and mindset tips on dating with a disability. We talk about how to navigate sexual ableism, focus on your power to attract, and develop happy and healthy relationships.

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The Friendship series has kicked off to examine what is similar and different when a disability is present - and how friendship development is a lot like dating - they both involve vulnerability, taking risks, and acceptance.

Two Friends, 40 Years

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Stage 4 (Active Dating) of her "5 Stages to Dating Success" framework. It's a tactical, mini-workshop style episode pulling content from her curriculum aimed at professionals in the disability field.

6 Key Skills for Active Dating

• Platform Engage... more

Kathy O'Connell shares that she's working on a new book about dating and relationships with a disability — a follow-up to her earlier book Firewalk: Embracing Different Abilities.

The book focuses on two key themes:

• Sexual ableism — the societal ... more

Pauline Bosma is the founder and coordinator of the Rainbow Support Groups, a network of support groups for LGBTQ+ people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Pauline works for Massachusetts Advocates Standing Strong, where she also lead... more

Resources for this episode

How to Write a Kick Butt Dating Profile Guide

Tell me what you want in a dating playbook.

The Five Stage Dating Success Framework is designed to guide people with disabilities through the process of finding meaningful re... more

This is a strategy that can apply to nearly everything in life, not just dating. But of course, we’re going to talk about it as it relates to dating.

When you’re overwhelmed and maybe unsure what the answer is to a dilemma, many times you don’t need... more

Getting back into dating after time away — especially when navigating life with a disability — takes genuine courage. You made yourself vulnerable, put yourself out there, and someone said no. That moment can feel enormous, like a verdict on your wor... more

Register here for the TODAY's free workshop, The Real Work of Dating with Disability: What No One Else Is Teaching. I'll be reviewing how to use a skill set approach to dating with a disability. The workshop will be geared toward professionals but a... more

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Recent Guests

Emily Beecher
Certified life coach with neurodivergent experience (ADHD, PTSD)
Independent coach
Episode: 239 - The Courage to Connect with Emily Beecher
Gabor Kadas
Co-founder of Friending
Friending Inc.
Episode: 237 - Making Friends as an Adult: Why It's Hard and How Friending Helps
Keri Green
Licensed Marriage and Family Counselor; Certified Sex Therapist
Keri Green LMFT
Episode: 235 - Building Confidence in Dating: A Sex Therapist's Perspective
Jeremy Nelson
Founder of Marrying America
Marrying America
Episode: 233 - A Dating App For People Wanting to Marry
Amy Reiley
Nutrition coach who specializes in aphrodisiac foods
eatsomethingsexy.com (and Lips and Guts)
Episode: 231 - Eat Something Sexy!
Pasha Marlowe
Marriage and family therapist and relationship coach with 32 years of experience focusing on neurodiversity and non-apparent disabilities
Worked with Microsoft and IBM on neuro-inclusive practices
Episode: 228 - Finding Neurobelonging: From Self-Acceptance to Partnership
Robin Buckley
Executive coach and clinical psychologist
drrobinbuckley.com
Episode: 226 - Mission Statements for Dating
Joni Woods
Author of Burned, Blocked, and Better Than Ever
Author
Episode: 224 - Burned, Blocked, and Brave: Rewriting Your Story
Anil Gupta
Love Doctor, relationship coach invited onto the show
Episode: 221 - Be So Amazing You Cannot Be Ignored

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Cathy O'Connell
Host of the show; Licensed Mental Health Counselor

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205 - Changing Culture: How Dateability is Redefining Dating
Q: What changes are coming with the relaunch and what will the newer app be like?
The relaunch represents a new chapter with a completely rewritten app; it will be faster, more accessible, visually appealing, with improved filtering and a renewed emphasis on empowering users to control their dating experience.
205 - Changing Culture: How Dateability is Redefining Dating
Q: Can you give us a quick summary of your growth and insights from that growth?
Dateability has grown to around 40,000 users, expanded from a smaller base to the UK, and continues to attract new users daily, with strong organic growth and a focus on creating a safer, more inclusive space where disabled and non-disabled users can connect meaningfully.
215 - The Anti-Ableist Manifesto: Transforming Dating and Relationships
Q: What needs to change in dating apps to be more inclusive?
Dating apps should allow richer, live interactions beyond static photos and short prompts, enabling better assessment of compatibility and values, while also supporting accessibility and in-person engagement opportunities.
207 - Dating with Dyslexia - These Tips Apply to Many
Q: What's one of the most common dating concerns for people with dyslexia?
The fear of rejection, which can be reframed into a constructive focus on what the other person values, like conversation skills and intelligence, turning a potential obstacle into a pathway for meaningful connection.
214 - Dating While Neurospicy
Q: What is the most important message you want listeners who are neurodiverse to hear about finding loving relationships?
The core message is to stop shrinking yourself; embrace your brain's differences, communicate clearly about your needs, and actively seek communities and partners who accept you as you are.

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This show centers on dating, relationships, and sexuality for people navigating disability, blending mindset coaching with practical, action-oriented guidance. Episodes frequently tackle accessibility in dating, disclosure decisions, safety planning, budgeting for dates, and building confidence through structured frameworks. Guests range from therapists and sex educators to tech founders and wellness experts, all contributing tangible tips for authentic connection, safer dating, and inclusive relationships. A standout throughline is turning stigma and ableism into empowering strategies, with episodes that weave personal stories, expert perspectives, and hands-on actions listeners can apply right away to their dating lives.

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Recent guests on Dating, Relationships, and Disability include:

1. Emily Beecher
2. Gabor Kadas
3. Keri Green
4. Jeremy Nelson
5. Amy Reiley
6. Pasha Marlowe
7. Robin Buckley
8. Joni Woods

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