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Ask Elisa: Dating and Relationship Stories + Advice

Ask Elisa
Dating Apps
Dating
Relationships
Seattle, United States
Dating In Late 30s and 40s
Dating Etiquette
Gender Dynamics
Ask Elisa
Dating In Your 40s
Single Life
Hinge
Single Mothers
Dating Culture
Bisexuality
Divorce
Audience Engagement
Dating Profiles
Midlife Dating
Open Relationship
Tacoma, United States

Ask Elisa is a modern dating and relationships podcast featuring authentic interviews, relatable stories, practical advice, and plenty of humor. Feminist and LGBTQIA friendly space

Find humor and connection in discussions that challenge outdated gender roles, traditional narratives, and patriarchal expectations. Episodes include dating stories, dilemmas, and questions sent in from listeners. Join... more

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This is a SPICY episode! I talk with Chrys about her experience in an open relationship, practicing ethical non-monogamy, dating, divorce, the kink community, and more. I had so much fun talking with Chrys!

The listener question that Chrys and I tac... more

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Ask Elisa is a feminist podcast about dating and relationships. Find humor and connection in discussions that challenge outdated gender roles, traditional narratives, and patriarchal ex... more

NOTE FROM ELISA: This episode feels way more personal than the ones I’ve put out so far. It’s scary sharing this much of me for public consumption. In this episode, Jake teases me a lot and some people may think he's not very nice to me. The episode ... more

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Hilary is back to tell two queer dating horror stories. Did you know that women can lie about things too? And I share a story about a dude I matched with on a dating app who was a little too eager and uninhibited.

Send in your dating dilemmas & ques... more

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On this episode of Ask Elisa, (Boy) Kelly recounts their very first match on eHarmony — a weeks-long chat that escalated from sweet to intense, with premature demands, you can't say "cool beans," sexting, a two-hour meltdown, and ultimately an unmatc... more

Ask Elisa celebrates Pride Month with the first LGBTQIA+ guest! Hilary shares her story of dating women and men. I had so much fun talking with Hilary and I learned quite a bit.

As always, I share a question from a listener for my guest and me to re... more

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In this episode, I finally have a male guest! I talk with Kelly (who I call Boy Kelly, because one of my best friends is named Kellee and she gets to be Kellee. Hi Kellee, I love you.) Boy Kelly shares his experience as a straight man on the dating a... more

I apologize for the abrupt ending on this episode. We're new at this; mistakes happen. In this episode, I talk with Morgan. For the past three years, Morgan has chosen not to date. We talk about what it's like to be a single woman in a society that p... more

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Chrys Bean
41, originally from Los Angeles; openly discusses open marriage, bisexual/pansexual exploration, and dating after divorce
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Episode: 014: Open Marriage, Dating, and Divorce w/ Chrys

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Elisa Sparkman
Host of the show, leads interviews, introduces topics, and provides framing for dating and relationship discussions.

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004: The Chatting Phase on Dating Apps w/ Claudia
Q: What is the most important thing to trust in the chatting phase, and how should someone act on it?
Trust your instincts; if something feel off or you sense a mismatch, it's usually accurate. Use clarifying questions to confirm your interpretation and don't ignore gut feelings.
009: Finally! A Male Guest. Dating Discussion w/ Boy Kelly
Q: What are some ways to overcome the fear of rejection when starting to date again?
Draw on personal experience to push past hesitation, practice rejection in low-stakes situations, and remind yourself that you deserve connection; taking small steps and reframing the goal away from a guaranteed outcome helps reduce anxiety.
008: The Choice to Be Single - Flying Solo w/ Morgan
Q: Should people wait until a divorce is final before they start to date?
Responses varied: one host cites a personal boundary against dating someone who is still married; another guest suggests you can date someone who is in the process of divorce if communication and openness are clear and boundaries are respected.
010: Queer Dating for a Happy Pride Month w/ Hilary
Q: What's your take on friends with benefits, and how long should such arrangements last?
The guests advise clarity from the start about whether a casual arrangement is truly casual, caution against turning a casual encounter into a longstanding emotional entanglement, and emphasize that when a friend doesn't want the same thing anymore, it's healthier to end it rather than preserving a friendship at the cost of hurt and insecurity.

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The show centers on candid, listener-driven conversations about dating, relationships, and modern gender dynamics, with a feminist lens. Episodes mix personal dating stories, professional insights from therapists and relationship experts, and practical guidance on boundary-setting, safety, and communication in late 30s and 40s—often exploring apps, breakups, solo living, and how cultural norms shape intimate life. A notable throughline is normalizing imperfect dating experiences while offering concrete takeaways on healthier relationship habits, self-advocacy, and emotional labor. The format blends humor, vulnerability, and real-world dilemmas, making it a practical listen for anyone navigating dating or seeking perspectives on relationship... more

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