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Are We Into This? with Cosmopolitan

Millie Court and Clare Stephenson
Dating
Cosmopolitan
Relationships
Relationship Advice
Narcissism
Trust In Relationships
Unrequited Love
Friendship
Relationship Dynamics
Domestic Labor
Cheating In Relationships
Relationship Privacy
Treat Them Mean, Keep Them Keen
Sexuality
Social Media
Perfectionism In Relationships
Online Dating Culture
Satisfied Partnerships
Password Sharing
London

You’ve got questions, and we’ve got answers (kinda). Join us every week, as we pose one big, chaotic, culturally-relevant question — from the trivial to the existential — and unpack it with the help of Cosmo cover stars, relationship experts, and you! Is it fair to red flag someone for their height? What’s the worst dating profile crime? Can you ever be friends with an ex? We’re about to find out.... more

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Latest Episodes

Whether we’re adapting to a post-honeymoon stage dip in our sex lives or going through a bit of a dry spell, most of us, at one point or another, have likely been hyperaware of how much sex we’re having with our partners — and even fretted over wheth... more

Be honest… have you ever sneakily gone through your partner’s phone? What did you find? How did you feel after? Did you regret it, or were you vindicated?

Whatever the reason for it, loads of us have been guilty of having a cheeky little look at our... more

Sophia and Cinzia from The Girls Bathroom podcast are this week’s question-askers! And they want to know: can you ever really trust someone who’s cheated before? Or is it true that once a cheater, always a cheater?

Millie and Clare unpack it all and... more

Do all the house chores fall to you? Are you the one who books flights, buys birthday cards, or remembers to renew the car insurance? In short: do you feel like you’re parenting your partner?

Well, you’re not alone — this week, one reader is asking ... more

Love Island season 13 runner-up Jasmine G Müller is our question-asker of the week! In the villa this summer, Jasmine became a fan fave for speaking her mind and putting the boys in their place.

When strong women assert themselves like this, they ca... more

Your friend is criticising your partner or just flat out dislikes them… should you listen? Should they listen if you don’t like theirs?

Millie and Clare get into all this and more, with a little surprise appearance from one of Millie’s closest frien... more

Olivia Attwood is our August digital cover star — and this week’s question-asker! Off the back of a big break-up, the presenter, podcast host, and Love Island alum is asking Millie and Clare whether ‘don’t settle’ is realistic or toxic relationship a... more

At some point throughout your dating history, you’ve probably labelled an ex a ‘narcissist’, right...? Maybe they loved the sound of their voice a bit too much or had a habit of putting people down to big themselves up? Yep.

Well, you’re not alone. ... more

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Recent Guests

Sophia (The Girls Bathroom)
Guest from The Girls Bathroom podcast
The Girls Bathroom
Episode: The Girls Bathroom ask: Can you ever trust a cheater?
Cinzia (The Girls Bathroom)
Guest from The Girls Bathroom podcast
The Girls Bathroom
Episode: The Girls Bathroom ask: Can you ever trust a cheater?
Megan Wallace
Cosmo contributor and editor of the Substack Pulp
Cosmopolitan; Substack Pulp
Episode: Are you parenting your partner?
Olivia Attwood
Digital cover interview subject and question author, known from Love Island and TV projects
Olivia Attwood / TV personality
Episode: Olivia Attwood asks: is ‘don’t settle’ just a toxic ideal?
Amy May Ellis
Cosmopolitan Sex & Relationships Editor; guest on episode
Cosmopolitan
Episode: Are you dating a narcissist?
Lili Reinhart
Actress known for Riverdale, Hustlers, and The Love Hypothesis promotional material mentioned in episode
Self / Public figure
Episode: Lili Reinhart asks: can friends survive unrequited love?

Hosts

Millie Court
Host and co-host; central on-air presence guiding discussions and framing questions.
Clare Stevenson
Co-host of the show; handles discussion leadership and guest integration.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 61 ratings
  • Oh Dear!

    How incredibly dull & both trying to sound like they know what they are talking about. Go back to the day jobs

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Cinta1969
    United Kingdoma month ago
  • So fun!

    Already obsessed with this podcast! Love the vibe between Millie and Clare <3 Listening feels like chatting with your girls – can’t wait for more!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    red_h3ad
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Fun, fresh, full of laughs

    Suchhhhh a down to earth, girly vibe! So relatable

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Amymay245
    United Kingdom2 months ago

Listeners Say

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Guest insights from relationship experts and Cosmo personalities
Casual, witty dialogue with practical dating tips

Top Relationships Podcasts

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The Girls BathroomSophia & Cinzia
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Boj & Kate Have A Lot On Their Plate
Boj & Kate Have A Lot On Their PlateKate Lawler / Podmasters
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Thrive SoloLucy Meggeson

Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Love Island’s Jasmine: Does ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ actually work?
Q: How should someone balance being playful and teasing with respect and clear interest?
The consensus is to keep banter light and situational, read the other person's cues, and ensure there is mutual interest and honesty rather than playing perpetual games.
Love Island’s Jasmine: Does ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ actually work?
Q: What is your take on whether the 'mean banter' tactic actually helps or harms relationships long-term?
The panel mostly agrees it can be entertaining in the moment but risks toxicity and miscommunication, with many contributors advocating authenticity and avoiding repeated nastiness.
Love Island’s Jasmine: Does ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ actually work?
Q: Hi Millie and Claire. And I think I had a slight rep in that villa of being kind of scary, a little bit intimidating. I think I'm just good at putting men in their place. So I wanted to know is treat them mean, keep them keen, good advice or bad advice?
Jasmine suggests it's partially true in certain dynamics, but emphasizes being confident, honest, and respectful, and that vulnerability and clear communication ultimately lead to healthier connections.
Lili Reinhart asks: can friends survive unrequited love?
Q: Hi, Cosmo listeners. It's Lili Reinhart here, and this week I need you to tell me, can a friendship ever recover from one person having unrequited feelings?
The hosts and guests acknowledge it can be possible in some cases if there's genuine care and open communication, but it's highly situational and depends on how the friendship is valued and whether both sides are willing to navigate potential changes.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Are We Into This? with Cosmopolitan

What is Are We Into This? with Cosmopolitan about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This show centers on contemporary relationship questions and dating culture, blending candid host banter with guest insights from Cosmopolitan editors and relationship experts. Recent topics cover relationship dynamics, perfectionism in partnerships, online dating, narcissism in dating, unrequited love, and the evolving role of social media in romance. Episodes frequently weave in listener perspectives, on-street opinions, and pop culture benchmarks to unpack how modern dating norms intersect with personal growth, communication, and long-term compatibility. A standout trait is the mix of light, humorous framing with practical takeaways and expert context, creating a relatable yet advice-forward format for anyone navigating love, sex, and fr... more

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2. Cinzia (The Girls Bathroom)
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4. Olivia Attwood
5. Amy May Ellis
6. Lili Reinhart

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