
《这里有聊 | At home, with love》是一档夫妻视角的播客,Iris和Ian和你聊聊生活、情绪、社会观察以及那些看似平凡却充满趣味的万物。 这里没有标准答案,只分享亲身经历、观点和困惑,用轻松的对话陪伴你理解世界、理解自己,也理解身边的人。 生活本就是一场冒险,让我们在声音里相遇,彼此看见、相互支持,一起温柔而坚定地探索未知。 想跟我们聊聊?欢迎来信: herewetalkpodcast@gmail.com 沟通|关系|倾听|理解|亲密|表达|心理|对话
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吵到上头时,你是不是也想过:“我们是不是不合适?”
承接上期,我们继续拆解关于吵架的四大迷思。这期你将发现:争吵的目的不是为了赢,而是一扇通往对方内心世界的门。
本期听点:
🔹 迷思2:“有冲突 = 不合适” → 真相:两个正常大脑的必然碰撞
🔹 迷思3:“冲突必须被解决” → 真相:学会管理冲突,而非消灭它
🔹 迷思4:“吵架必须分对错” → 真相:关系需要理解,而非判决
🔹 迷思5:“男人理性,女人感性” → 真相:可能是一种情绪泛滥的自我保护
🔹 如何将冲突转化为深... more
「不吵架的夫妻,可能比天天吵的问题还大?」
这期我们聊婚姻里的反常识话题:亲密关系中不可避免的冲突。很多人天真地以为,只要找到方法,所有矛盾都能被一劳永逸地解决。但心理学权威戈特曼夫妇几十年的研究告诉我们一个震惊真相:关系中高达69%的冲突是永久性的,无法被“解决”。
本期听点:
🔹为什么“找到办法就不吵了”是最大的迷思
🔹“可解决冲突” vs “永久性冲突”的区别
🔹人格类型、成长背景、甚至祖先历史如何埋下争吵的种子
🔹学会识别哪些冲突是无法改变的,从而更好地管理关系
理... more
你是否也曾疑惑:“我已经很善于表达了,为什么TA就是听不懂?”本期播客,Ian用亲身经历踩遍所有倾听雷区,Iris带你一起分析“解决型”、“评判型”、“防御型”倾听如何悄悄破坏关系。在"AI当道"的今天,什么是我们无法被替代的价值?本期「这里有聊」,从“倾听”这件小事出发,探讨如何在亲密关系中,给予对方最深度的支持和陪伴。
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Part 1: 一场啼笑皆非的听力测试:你的心理只有包子
00:49 经典误解: “买一个包子”?
02:36 现场测试:三大“送命题”,你能答对吗? more
从心底到嘴边,那一步之遥为何总是最难跨越?当内心的剧场早已落幕,嘴上的沉默却刚刚开始——我们与真实的表达之间,究竟隔着什么?
本期节目,从一个微小的矛盾瞬间切入:关于“她与男同学吃饭”,两个人,一场心事,两种截然不同的内心独角戏。我们想探讨的,不是谁对谁错,而是亲密关系中那种相通的困境。我们邀请你,借用 “127情绪观察法” 这盏灯,一起照亮内心那片丰富而微妙的风景。
关系不是对错题,而是一道开放题。答案,从“看见”自己的情绪开始。
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Part 1: 问题的浮现:从困境到风暴... more
《这里有聊 | At home, with love》是一档关于爱、成长与陪伴的播客。Iris 和 Ian从生活与育儿的经历出发,用轻松自在的聊天方式,为你拆解亲密关系与育儿中的真实困境,以夫妻视角充当你的“情绪翻译官”。
如果生活是一场孤独的冒险,愿我们的对谈能陪伴你一路前行。让我们在声音里相遇,彼此看见,相互支持,一起温柔而坚定的拥抱未知的世界。
想跟我们聊聊?欢迎来信:
herewetalkpodcast@gmail.com
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