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You're Not Crazy: A Podcast for Cycle Breakers with Toxic Parents

Torie Wiksell
Borderline Personality Disorder
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Therapy
Mental Health
Dysfunctional Family Dynamics
Family Dynamics
Toxic Relationships
Radical Acceptance
Boundaries
Self-Compassion
Empowerment
Setting Boundaries
Coaching
Personal Boundaries
Emotional Abuse
Anger
Emotional Regulation
Self-Help Industry
Tony Robbins
Patreon

Psychotherapist and Coach, Torie Wiksell, is no stranger to talking about challenging and dysfunctional family dynamics. In addition to specializing in working with the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders as both a therapist and coach, Torie grew up with a mother who had an unmanaged personality disorder.

Torie has spent a significant portion of her 12... more

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In today’s episode, I’m sharing one of the most important mindset shifts for healing from narcissistic parents or emotionally immature parents: stop asking if they’re a “good person” and start focusing on their repeated behaviors.

So many cycle brea... more

Lately, I’ve caught myself spiraling into self-gaslighting quite a bit—wondering if I’m exaggerating my childhood trauma, if maybe my mom wasn’t really a narcissist, or if I’m just “too sensitive.” If you’ve ever doubted your own reality, you’re defi... more

In this episode, therapist and boundaries coach Torie Wiksell (and fellow cycle breaker) exposes the myth of “no contact as a fad” and validates the years—sometimes decades—of exhausting effort cycle breakers pour into maintaining relationships with ... more

Can boundaries actually work with a toxic parent? In this week’s episode of You’re Not Crazy, host Torie Wiksell, therapist, boundaries coach, and fellow cycle breaker, unpacks one of the most common (and confusing) questions adult children of narcis... more

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Torie Wiksell
Torie Wiksell is a psychotherapist and boundaries coach specializing in working with adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders. With over a decade of experience in the mental health field, she brings personal insights from her own upbringing alongside her professional expertise. Her approach is warm and relatable, making complex family dynamics more approachable for listeners.

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4.7 out of 5 stars from 76 ratings
  • One sided

    Therapy is supposed to help clients explore their experiences safely--not push a narrative that always casts one side as the villain.

    Adult children sometimes have addictions, etc. Parents don’t have to and shouldn’t have to put up with adult children’s toxic behavior. ITS NOT ALWAYS PARENTS… just because she has unresolved parent issues doesn’t mean all adult children who go no contact is because of the parent!!

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    6321356763322
    United Statesa month ago
  • Very helpful information

    This podcast has been very clarifying for me and my family’s dynamics. I didn’t realize until this past year how much tolerance I had developed for such toxic behaviors by others. This has also been very validating bc my sister and I have convos about trying to figure out what’s going on in our family and this podcast has brought up a lot of things we brought up with each other organically. It’s hard to understand if you don’t grow up with this kind of family bc on the outside they appear as sai... more

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    5
    Oikos_Queen
    United Statesa month ago
  • Great for us with BPD moms, takes too long to get to the topic

    First off, this is an amazing podcast if you’re an adult with a borderline mother and an enabling father (or another combo). I feel seen, validated, nodding along to most of it, triggered (in a good way), and taken a lot of Tori’s advice to use in my relationship with my borderline mom and enabler dad. It’s helper to clarify why I’m feeling what I’m feeling. I am empowered. So, thank you. You’re talking about issues that I have never heard another podcaster talk about. That being said, I agree w... more

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    GirlyShopper
    United States2 months ago
  • Incredibly Healing Podcast!!

    I am on a healing journey, trying to recuperate from my toxic and dysfunctional family. In a very low moment recently, I searched for self-help podcasts and found Torie’s, and though I’m only a few episodes in, I feel better already. Listening to her is so soothing and validating, and I am excited to continue this journey!

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    5
    Dogmom0999
    United States3 months ago
  • Life Changing

    This podcast has helped me more than any other resources I’ve found. So thankful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Callie2884
    United States3 months ago

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Some critiques mention an excessive focus on promotional content which can detract from the episode's main topic.
Overall, the community aspect and sense of understanding are frequently highlighted as strengths of the show.
Many listeners find the insights validating and empowering, especially those dealing with toxic family dynamics.

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You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: What should I do when my mom gives me the silent treatment for months?
Consider setting emotional boundaries and recognize that not addressing the dysfunctional patterns may be necessary.
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Q: How do you move past the feeling that you are the problem?
This involves processing trauma, practicing self-compassion, and recognizing the impact of unhealthy relationships.
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Q: How do I say no?
Start with surface-level responses that feel safe and gradually work up to being more honest as you gain comfort.
You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: How do I handle feelings of guilt or selfishness when I set boundaries?
Recognize that feeling guilty is often a manipulation tactic, and over time, with consistent boundary setting, these feelings will lessen.
You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: How do you break free from a codependent relationship with your parent?
It requires therapy to learn how to sit with challenging emotions and start making decisions that align with who you truly are.

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This podcast focuses on navigating the complexities of relationships between adult children and their parents, specifically those struggling with personality disorders like borderline and narcissistic personalities. The host shares practical advice, personal anecdotes, and professional insights, guiding listeners through their healing journeys and emphasizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Each episode tackles various topics related to emotional health, nurturing self-acceptance, and empowering listeners to break the cycles of dysfunction in their familial relationships. Noteworthy is the focus on cycle breakers—those who strive to change harmful family dynamics—making the content resonate with individuals seeking support and... more

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