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You're Not Crazy: A Podcast for the Adult Children of Parents with Borderline and Narcissistic Personality Disorders

Torie Wiksell
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Borderline Personality Disorder
Mental Health
Boundaries
Therapy
Toxic Parents
Family Dynamics
Emotional Abuse
Cycle Breakers
Emotional Health
Healing Journey
Setting Boundaries
Toxic Family Dynamics
Boundary Setting
Dysfunctional Family Dynamics
Parenting
Toxic Relationships
Codependency
Gaslighting
Self-Compassion

Torie Wiksell, is no stranger to talking about toxic parents and dysfunctional family dynamics. As a therapist Torie focuses on supporting the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders. She also grew up with a mother who had an unmanaged personality disorder and understands the uniquely complicated aspects of these relationships. Torie brings a refreshingly r... more

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Latest Episodes

When you set a boundary with a narcissistic parent, or a parent with unmanaged borderline personality disorder, they tend to push back by acting like they don't get it. They argue, they question whether your boundary is even reasonable, they pull you... more

You finally set the boundary and for about five seconds you felt proud of yourself. Then your parent pushed back and wished you could take it all back.

When you have a parent with narcissistic or unmanaged borderline personality disorder, boundaries... more

That moment where your brain short circuits because your parent just looked you dead in the eye and insisted the situation you’re describing never happened at all. 

When you grow up with a narcissistic parent or a parent with unmanaged borderline pe... more

If you’re dealing with toxic in-laws and feeling unsupported by your partner, this episode is for you.

Today we’re talking about one of the most requested topics I’ve avoided covering for a long time: navigating dysfunctional in-law relationships wh... more

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Torie Wiksell
Host of You're Not Crazy and therapist focused on confident boundaries and cycle breaking.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 135 ratings
  • Just What I Needed!

    I appreciate this podcast so much! It is validating every feeling I have with my origin family, eek! I'm taking notes while listening to each episode, reinforcing my existing knowledge and expanding on it. Your podcast has taken away so much of my self blame and always thinking that I was the problem. With the podcast and my therapist, I’m putting my energy into how to deal and heal from the realization that there is a lot of toxicity in my family. I’m learning that I am not “too dramatic” and ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kcook1212
    United States12 days ago
  • Vocal Fry

    I feel like there is great and helpful advice in this podcast, but the hosts vocal affectation is so distracting that it’s difficult to listen. When the host reverts to their natural tone, it’s great.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    JTea908
    Canada2 months ago
  • I can’t believe I’ve just now found this!

    I needed this podcast so much! I’m in therapy and just realized the dynamics of my family and childhood. I have a stack of books to read but as a single mom of two little girls, my reading time is very limited. Now I can listen while I’m running around doing things. I’m trying to hard to be the mom my girls deserve so I have SO MUCH TO HEAL! Thank you!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    tiffywatts
    United States2 months ago
  • Incredible

    I finally feel heard! Such a great podcast with great advice. I get so much validation from listening to Torie, it’s like she grew up in my household!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ashleya3
    United States2 months ago
  • Thank you

    Brilliant advice. Easy to digest, clear and informative. Incredibly helpful. Can’t thank you enough for your work in this area Torie.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    craniobel
    New Zealand4 months ago

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You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: What should I do when my mom gives me the silent treatment for months?
Consider setting emotional boundaries and recognize that not addressing the dysfunctional patterns may be necessary.
You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: How do you move past the feeling that you are the problem?
This involves processing trauma, practicing self-compassion, and recognizing the impact of unhealthy relationships.
You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: How do I say no?
Start with surface-level responses that feel safe and gradually work up to being more honest as you gain comfort.
You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: How do I handle feelings of guilt or selfishness when I set boundaries?
Recognize that feeling guilty is often a manipulation tactic, and over time, with consistent boundary setting, these feelings will lessen.
You Asked, I Answered: A Q&A Episode
Q: How do you break free from a codependent relationship with your parent?
It requires therapy to learn how to sit with challenging emotions and start making decisions that align with who you truly are.

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The show centers on adult children navigating toxic parenting, especially with borderline and narcissistic traits. Episodes combine therapist-led guidance, lived experience, and practical strategies for boundaries, safety, and healing within dysfunctional family systems. Notable throughlines include radical acceptance, cycle-breaking tools, affordable therapy resources, and promotion of ongoing programs like the Cycle Breakers Vault. Listeners often seek validation, actionable steps, and a compassionate, nonjudgmental approach to healing from emotionally volatile family dynamics.

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