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The Regulated Parent

Afshan Tafler
Parenting
Autism
PDA
ADHD
OCD
Nervous System
Nervous System Regulation
Nervous System Resilience
Co-Regulation
Anxiety
Emotional Needs
Shame
Parenting a High Needs Child
Grief
Self-Compassion
Motherhood
Healing
Parenting Challenges
Grief and Loss
High-Needs Children

If you're raising a hypersensitive, high-needs child — including Autism, PDA, OCD, ODD, ADHD, or anxiety — this podcast is for you. I'm Afshan Tafler, a Nervous System Resilience Coach for parents like you. Here, we talk about what most people don’t: how it really feels, how your nervous system responds, and how to find your way back to calm, courage, and connection — even on the hardest days. You... more

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You’ve been told to “just stay calm” while your child rages, hits, or destroys things — and then quietly beaten yourself up when you couldn’t. Here’s the truth: you are not supposed to feel calm in those moments. It isn’t possible — and chasing calm ... more

It was 1 a.m., and Alma Galván was in tears. Both of her sons had severe autism, ADHD and sensory differences. Doctors told her to institutionalize her oldest son, and daily two-hour meltdowns had become normal. She remembers thinking, *"This isn't l... more

If I could offer you one tool that took my PDA, autistic son's aggressive behaviors from 5 hours of daily meltdowns and destruction, to less than 30 minutes a few times a week — would you want it?It's four letters. W.A.I.T. — Why Am I Talking.In this... more

"I lost it on my child. I'm damaging them." "My child is still struggling. I must not be doing enough." "We don't fit in anywhere. Something must be fundamentally wrong with us."

If you've felt any of those things — you're not broken. You're stuck i... more

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Recent Guests

Alma Galván
Founder of BrainWorx; founder of Alma Integration
BrainWorx / Alma Integration
Episode: Ep. 53 The Movements That Rewired Her Sons' Brains — and Kept Her Alive

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Afshan Tafler
Host of The Regulated Parent

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 44 ratings
  • So helpful and healing

    I have found comfort and wisdom listening to Anshan. Her episodes are usually under 30 minutes and I emerge with self forgiveness, greater calm and tools for my journey with my high needs teen.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Monica Butterfly
    United States8 months ago
  • The show so many of us didn’t know we needed

    I am the parent of a probably PDA almost six year old boy and this podcast is an absolute godsend for me, helping me to understand how my own nervous system and childhood trauma are triggered by adopting a low demand parenting style in order to try to meet my child’s needs.

    The presenter’s voice is so calming in itself and I always feel after listening to it as if I’ve both learnt something AND sat in a healing sound bath for a while. Highly recommended to all parents of high needs kids.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Laura Jessica B
    United Kingdom9 months ago
  • Wonderful Podcast!

    I love this podcast. Afshan’s skillful words and gentle way of being has helped me so much through periods of grief and burnout as the mom of a PDA Austistic child.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Small Business Owner
    United Statesa year ago
  • Loving the healing here

    Really enjoying how Afshan connects with her audience and offers learned lessons and insights to other moms of ND kids

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mks245888
    United Statesa year ago

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Gives practical tools that feel doable in tough moments
Well-suited for parents juggling multiple high-needs kids
Clear, compassionate approach to nervous system work for parents

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What is The Regulated Parent about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A guidance-focused show for parents navigating hypersensitive and neurodivergent children, with a strong emphasis on nervous-system regulation, safe co-regulation, and presence over force. Episodes center on practical frameworks (e.g., waiting, six-part regulation plans, recognizing and re-framing shame, and redefining success through the child's nervous system) drawn from the host's personal caregiving journey and coaching work. Listeners often encounter compassionate storytelling, trauma-informed perspectives, and actionable exercises designed to reduce burnout, improve connection, and foster resilience in families.

Noteworthy aspects include a consistent emphasis on internal regulation as the foundation for external change, the integrat... more

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