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The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Robyn Gobbel
Parenting
Trauma
Co-Regulation
Nervous System
Felt Safety
Connection
Dysregulation
Neuroscience
Mental Health
Child Behavior
Emotional Regulation
Polyvagal Theory
Stress Response System
Relational Neuroscience
Oppositional Behavior
Children's Mental Health
Vulnerable Nervous Systems
Grief
Self-Compassion
Parenting Strategies

Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you k... more

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I recorded today’s episode just for our practitioners! But parents- you’ll want to listen in, too.

I remember how hard it was at the beginning of my career to recommend to a parent that I thought they could use some support, too. I often felt so unc... more

When life with your kid is this hard, asking for help can take more energy than you have. And the people who love you often don’t know what to do, so they offer advice, or they stay away. 

This conversation with Rose Lapiere is one you can hand to t... more

Sometimes you work so hard to stay ‘calm’ but then realize- it feels totally fake. 

Yeah, that’s because sometimes calm makes no sense!

Sometimes the behavior is serious, and you are mad, and of course you are. 

Regulated doesn’t have to mean calm... more

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Recent Guests

Rose LaPierre
Co-leader of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program
Baffling Behavior Training Institute
Episode: EP 289: What Parents of Struggling Kids Need from their Support People with Rose LaPiere
Chrissy D'Agostino
Co-author of the Early Years Guidebook from the Regulated Classroom
Regulated Classroom
Episode: EP 280: Either You Co-Regulate or You De-Escalate: An Interview with Chrissy D’Agostino
Marti Smith
Occupational Therapist, co-author of Creating a Connected Classroom
Marti Smith, OT; co-author of Creating a Connected Classroom
Episode: EP 258: Creating a Connected Classroom with Marti Smith & Amie Huggins
Amie Huggins
Educator in Utah, co-author of Creating a Connected Classroom
Amie Huggins, Educator
Episode: EP 258: Creating a Connected Classroom with Marti Smith & Amie Huggins
Sally Maslansky
Therapist, author, and adoptive mother
Author of A Brilliant Adaptation
Episode: EP 249: Behaviors as Brilliant Adaptations with Sally Maslansky
Juliane Taylor Shore
Founder of IPNB Austin, therapist focused on boundaries and trauma
IPNB Austin
Episode: REPLAY: Boundaries with Verbal Aggression with Juliane Taylor Shore: Boundaries with Connection Part 3 of 3
Julianne Taylor-Shore
A therapist and expert in interpersonal neurobiology and boundaries
Episode: REPLAY: Boundaries that Create Success: Boundaries with Connection Part 2 of 3
Deb Dana
Expert in the nervous system and Polyvagal Theory.
Episode: EP 235: Parenting in Chronic Protection Mode
Deb Wesselmann
Mental health therapist specializing in trauma and attachment
Deb Wesselmann, LLC
Episode: EP 231: EMDR with Kids with Attachment Trauma with Deb Wesselmann

Host

Robyn Gobbel
Host of The Baffling Behavior Show with focus on parenting children with vulnerable nervous systems; educator, clinician, and author.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 419 ratings
  • Rage bait

    I was so excited to listen to this podcast as it came recommended to me by my child’s therapist and I could barely sit through two episodes first of all because she just repeats herself unendingly, because she doesn’t have a calm rhythm of delivery, and she’s constantly interrupting herself with unnecessary rabbit trails. I wish my stream of the past could erase the time that I spent listening to this horrifying podcast. She talks about how she has examples or things you can apply and never act... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    me,Em
    United States2 months ago
  • Wanted to Love It, But Couldn’t Get Into It

    I gave this podcast several chances because it came highly recommended by a dear friend, but unfortunately, it just wasn’t for me. I found the overall tone very condescending and the pacing painfully slow I constantly felt like I wanted to speed it up. The tonality and delivery were honestly like nails on a chalkboard for me, which made it difficult to stay engaged.

    More importantly, as a parent, I didn’t walk away feeling like I had gained anything particularly useful or applicable to everyday... more

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Vsantory3B
    United States3 months ago
  • Every psychologist needs to hear this

    We are exhausted with professionals who are clueless about the nervous system. Thank you so much for all your content, information, and expertise. We know you’re right because it works. If only every practitioner who worked with any child knew this information, so many children and families would not have to struggle like ours has thank you so much.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    haleigh
    United States3 months ago
  • You need this

    This has not been all brand new info because I have been parenting a kiddo with special needs for many years. However, Dr. Gobbel put language to the things I had learned about parenting. She validated my feelings and approach and gives real strategies. Most of all she offers empathy for me and empathy that is based on true understanding of what I’m going through. No false sense of “fixing” anything because hopefully we have learned there’s nothing to fix, but a way of navigating life, showing c... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tiff Tiff 901
    United States9 months ago
  • Get a new mic

    Great content! Very helpful for parents. However, Robyn, PLEASE do something about being able to hear the mouth and nose sounds! I can barely listen! Thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Lambpodd
    United States9 months ago

Listeners Say

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Overall, listeners praise actionable neuroscience-informed guidance for parenting challenging behaviors.
Pro professionals appreciate the advanced training and community resources offered.
Many describe the host's empathetic, validating approach as life-changing for families.
Listeners widely recommend the show to parents and educators seeking practical, compassionate methods.
Some critique pacing or ad-length, noting better experience when focused on strategies.

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EP 289: What Parents of Struggling Kids Need from their Support People with Rose LaPiere
Q: What should a supporter do if a child becomes dysregulated while they are visiting?
The hosts recommend agreeing on a plan with the parent beforehand. Depending on the family's needs, the supporter might step away, take on a simple task, offer the child a low-pressure distraction, or help create space for the parent to regroup.
EP 289: What Parents of Struggling Kids Need from their Support People with Rose LaPiere
Q: What can support people do when they cannot fix the problem for a family?
Rose and Robyn recommend acknowledging the limits of what a supporter can change, listening without judgment, validating how hard things are, and offering practical help or connection without waiting for the parent to ask.
EP 280: Either You Co-Regulate or You De-Escalate: An Interview with Chrissy D’Agostino
Q: What was the motivation behind creating the Early Years Guidebook and how does it differ from previous frameworks?
The goal was to center attachment and play science for early childhood, separate from the preschool grouping, making the framework accessible and actionable for busy educators and parents with practical, two-minute or shorter practices.
EP 249: Behaviors as Brilliant Adaptations with Sally Maslansky
Q: Can we give just a little snippet about what dissociative identity disorder is?
Dissociative identity disorder, also called DID, used to be called multiple personality disorder, and it is characterized by disassociated self-states that developed in response to trauma.
REPLAY: Boundaries that Create Success: Boundaries with Connection Part 2 of 3
Q: What does it mean to create boundaries for children?
Boundaries are about creating safety and structure that allows children to feel secure and regulated.

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The show centers on decoding baffling child behaviors through a neurobiological lens, emphasizing nervous-system states, co-regulation, and felt safety. Episodes combine practical parenting guidance with professional training options, and recurring themes include reframing behavior, reducing fix-it energy, and promoting presence and relational safety. A distinctive aspect is the integration of trainings, memberships, and programs for both parents and professionals, making it a resource hub as much as a podcast. The host's calm, empathetic approach and use of concrete frameworks (owl, watchdog, possum) stand out as a unique method for supporting families and practitioners alike.

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2. Chrissy D'Agostino
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4. Amie Huggins
5. Sally Maslansky
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