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The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Robyn Gobbel
Parenting
Trauma
Co-Regulation
Nervous System
Felt Safety
Connection
Dysregulation
Neuroscience
Mental Health
Child Behavior
Emotional Regulation
Polyvagal Theory
Stress Response System
Oppositional Behavior
Children's Mental Health
Vulnerable Nervous Systems
Grief
Parenting Strategies
Connection Mode
Self-Compassion

Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you k... more

PublishesTwice weeklyEpisodes370Founded6 years ago
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Latest Episodes

Part 1 was about why sticky behaviors stay stuck. Part 2 is where the hope lives. We're diving into the two mechanisms that actually change sticky behaviors at the neurological level. This is the episode that makes the hardest ask of Part - shifting ... more

If you've tried everything and a behavior just won't stop…that's a sticky behavior. Let's dive deeeeeep into the neuroscience behind the behaviors that feel impossible to change. We'll touch on how the brain stores predictions and how the most well-m... more

When kids can't tolerate boredom, it's easy to forget to put on our X-ray vision goggles and chalk it up to too much screen time or even not enough gratitude. Our kids’ reaction to boredom triggers OUR watchdog brain! If we can invite our owl to come... more

A dad - who is also a former foster youth and the director of non-profit supporting foster and adoptive families - shares an honest and tender conversation about what it's actually like to parent kids with big, baffling behaviors when life is also im... more

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Recent Guests

Rose LaPierre
Colleague, referenced as co-teacher for trainings
Episode: EP 262: Why Helpers Burn Out- and what to do about it
Marti Smith
Occupational Therapist, co-author of Creating a Connected Classroom
Marti Smith, OT; co-author of Creating a Connected Classroom
Episode: EP 258: Creating a Connected Classroom with Marti Smith & Amie Huggins
Amie Huggins
Educator in Utah, co-author of Creating a Connected Classroom
Amie Huggins, Educator
Episode: EP 258: Creating a Connected Classroom with Marti Smith & Amie Huggins
Sally Maslansky
Therapist, author, and adoptive mother
Author of A Brilliant Adaptation
Episode: EP 249: Behaviors as Brilliant Adaptations with Sally Maslansky
Julianne Taylor-Shore
A therapist and expert in interpersonal neurobiology and boundaries
Episode: REPLAY: Boundaries that Create Success: Boundaries with Connection Part 2 of 3
Deb Dana
A clinician and therapist with expertise in the nervous system and polyvagal theory
Episode: EP 234: Polyvagal Theory, Hope, Dysregulation, and Repair
Deb Wesselmann
Mental health therapist specializing in trauma and attachment
Deb Wesselmann, LLC
Episode: EP 231: EMDR with Kids with Attachment Trauma with Deb Wesselmann
Sara Sherman
Owner and operator at Dan DeLion Neuro-Relational Family Services
Dan DeLion Neuro-Relational Family Services
Episode: EP 229: NeuroRelational Healing with Guest Sara Sherman
Sybil Cummin
Therapist specializing in supporting parents navigating difficult co-parenting dynamics.
Rising Beyond Power and Control
Episode: EP 228: Supporting Kids who Live Part Time in a Home without Regulation, Connection, or Felt Safety with guest Sybil Cummin

Host

Robyn Gobbel
Host of The Baffling Behavior Show and related programs focused on parenting children with vulnerable nervous systems; internationally recognized children's mental health expert; offers practical, trauma-informed tools for families, educators, and professionals.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 404 ratings
  • You need this

    This has not been all brand new info because I have been parenting a kiddo with special needs for many years. However, Dr. Gobbel put language to the things I had learned about parenting. She validated my feelings and approach and gives real strategies. Most of all she offers empathy for me and empathy that is based on true understanding of what I’m going through. No false sense of “fixing” anything because hopefully we have learned there’s nothing to fix, but a way of navigating life, showing c... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tiff Tiff 901
    United States4 months ago
  • Get a new mic

    Great content! Very helpful for parents. However, Robyn, PLEASE do something about being able to hear the mouth and nose sounds! I can barely listen! Thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Lambpodd
    United States4 months ago
  • Must listen

    Every adult should listen to this podcast-not just parents! Understanding this stuff has helped me in all areas of my life and Robyn explains things so well.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Laurz83
    Australia4 months ago
  • Life-changing

    This podcast has been life-changing for my family and me. I hope to be able to read the book sometime soon! I’m very grateful to have all of this information. Thank you, Robyn!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jpsp3
    United States6 months ago
  • Years of adoring Robyn

    When I was a baby therapist, I had the honor of being trained by Robyn and was profoundly changed by what she taught me. So to later find her book, website, and podcast—oof—such a treat. Her words and resources continue to deeply impact me and the work I do with staff and students every day in my schools.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    kweron
    United States9 months ago

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Listeners frequently mention how the host's calm, compassionate tone helps reduce parental burnout and improve family dynamics.
Educators and clinicians appreciate the neuroscience-backed approaches and doable classroom tips.
Many praise practical frameworks and scripts that aid boundary setting without sacrificing connection.
Listeners cite empathy and validation from the host, with real strategies that help navigate dysregulated moments.

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EP 249: Behaviors as Brilliant Adaptations with Sally Maslansky
Q: Can we give just a little snippet about what dissociative identity disorder is?
Dissociative identity disorder, also called DID, used to be called multiple personality disorder, and it is characterized by disassociated self-states that developed in response to trauma.
REPLAY: Boundaries that Create Success: Boundaries with Connection Part 2 of 3
Q: What does it mean to create boundaries for children?
Boundaries are about creating safety and structure that allows children to feel secure and regulated.
REPLAY: Boundaries with Verbal Aggression with Juliane Taylor Shore: Boundaries with Connection Part 3 of 3
Q: How do you decide what's true and what's not true?
Only you can know what's true for you and what's not true for you.
EP 231: EMDR with Kids with Attachment Trauma with Deb Wesselmann
Q: How does your model support kids with early pre-verbal attachment trauma?
We focus on building a secure relationship with the child and gradually introducing therapeutic techniques to facilitate trust and processing.
EP 231: EMDR with Kids with Attachment Trauma with Deb Wesselmann
Q: When you go and get EMDR trained, what do you learn?
EMDR involves standardized procedures that can be modified to meet the needs of individual clients.

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A highly practical show focused on understanding and supporting children with vulnerable nervous systems through relational neuroscience, co-regulation, and trauma-informed parenting. Episodes span core frameworks for behavior, managing burnout among helpers, troubleshooting parenting strategies, and translating complex neuroscience into actionable steps for families, teachers, and professionals. Unique strengths include clear language around nervous-system states (owl/connection, watchdog, possum), concrete boundary scripts, and scalable resources like clubs, books, and professional trainings, making it especially useful for parents and practitioners seeking real-world impact and ongoing education.

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Recent guests on this podcast include:

1. Rose LaPierre
2. Marti Smith
3. Amie Huggins
4. Sally Maslansky
5. Julianne Taylor-Shore
6. Deb Dana
7. Deb Wesselmann
8. Sara Sherman

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