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The Hook Up

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Relationships
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Dating
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Communication In Relationships
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Communication
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Sexual Health
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Relationship Check-Ins
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Sexual Relationships

The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.

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Recent Guests

Flynn Martin
Subject of State Of Man documentary and former Manosphere influencer
State Of Man (ABC iview documentary)
Episode: Getting Out Of The Manosphere W/ Flynn Martin
Elisabeth Shaw
CEO of Relationships Australia New South Wales; clinical and counselling psychologist
Relationships Australia New South Wales
Episode: Is Abandonment A Form Of Abuse?
Dr. Milica Stilinovic
Postdoctoral researcher researching technological harm, digital extremism, and governance of emerging technologies
University of Sydney
Episode: We Need To Chat About Smart Glasses and Consent
Jason Ong
Professor Director at Melbourne's Sexual Health Centre
Melbourne's Sexual Health Centre
Episode: No Ones Wearing Condoms Anymore And It’s A Huge Problem
Jordan Barr
Friend of the show, guest on topics around dating
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Angela White
Guest providing sexual advice and expertise
Adult film star / educator
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Will Gibb
Guest who shared circumcision story and experiences
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Dan (Daniel Foxx)
Guest with hot takes on breakups and dating culture
Individual
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Blake Pavey
Guest discussing dating dynamics and height
Public figure (viral TikTok discussion)
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Hosts

Dee Salmin
Host of The Hook Up; frequently guides conversations and hosts discussions with guests.
Pip Rasmussen
Co-host and regular host, actively driving dialogues and interviews.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 1.8k ratings
  • Disspaointed with the views of the hosts

    I used to really like the hook up, it opened my mind to a lot of ideas and I gained a better understanding of my sexuality and the sexuality of others.

    In the last few years though, I find it’s got a common running theme of talking down men. I now feel quite alienated and that men are made out to be the root of all relationship and sexual problems.

    Very disappointing that it’s not as inclusive and really pushes a line to hate on hetero males. Just because we are male, doesn’t me we are inhe... more

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    JacksonTuckers
    Australiaa year ago
  • Dom Ep

    Another male beat up!!! Come on ABC break up this rubbish dynamic and get a male co host in. The views of these feminist hosts are way too biased

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    127366272
    Australiaa year ago
  • Mardi Gras ep

    Legends for doing a Mardi Gras ep. Super informative, honest and non-judgemental. My 18 year old self would've felt so supported hearing these tips! Feeling safe enough to let loose and have a ball, that’s the key. Safety. Look out for each other x

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Fierce Girls Fans
    Australia2 years ago
  • Great podcast

    Thanks for diving into all these topics.

    Apple Podcasts
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    vejdud
    Australia2 years ago
  • Five Stars!

    Love this poddie! Topical and relatable content. Five stars!!

    Apple Podcasts
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    Megawatzz
    Australia2 years ago

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Is Abandonment A Form Of Abuse?
Q: What signs should people look out for to determine if abandonment could be abusive, and what should they do about it?
The guest notes that the behavior sits within a context of other concerning actions; if the partner justifies it, refuses to see the problem, or lacks a plan to change, it's a serious warning sign and a signal to reassess the relationship's safety and seek support.
Is Abandonment A Form Of Abuse?
Q: What are some of the issues with this behavior of using abandonment, whether that's on a hike or in a shopping center or a foreign city or at a party?
Elisabeth explains that abandonment is a red flag and, unless there is a clear plan to address it, it undermines safety and trust in the relationship; the key is recognizing it as a pattern, not a one-off, and pushing for accountability and boundaries.
What It Means If You Like Getting Caught Or Watching People Have Sex
Q: What makes voyeurism or exhibitionism appealing beyond just the act itself?
Laura highlights meaning, emotional dynamics like jealousy or compersion, and the shared arousal from the partner's pleasure, with emphasis on consent and mutual understanding within the relationship.
What It Means If You Like Getting Caught Or Watching People Have Sex
Q: How should couples approach masturbation in bed while a partner is sleeping?
The advice centers on clear communication about boundaries, ensuring that such acts are not a signal of rejection and are discussed openly to avoid misunderstandings or hurt feelings.
What It Means If You Like Getting Caught Or Watching People Have Sex
Q: Is there an ethical way to pursue these fantasies, especially if you want people to watch?
The ethical approach emphasizes explicit consent from anyone who is seen, opt-in viewing, clear boundaries, and discussion of what is allowed in various settings (online, private risk play, or organized play spaces).

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2. Elisabeth Shaw
3. Dr. Milica Stilinovic
4. Jason Ong
5. Jordan Barr
6. Angela White
7. Will Gibb
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