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The Girlfriends: Trust Me Babe

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Domestic Violence
Kansas City
Roger Golubski
Justice System
Domestic Abuse
Murder
Kelly Harnett
Addiction
Sexual Assault
Prison System
Police Misconduct
Gail Katz
Mental Health
Intimate Partner Violence
Suicide
DNA Doe Project
Joel Rifkin
Archery
Heidi Balch
Pace Women's Justice Center

When a group of women from all over the country realise they all dated the same prolific romance scammer they vow to bring him to justice.

In this brand new season of global number 1 hit podcast, The Girlfriends, Anna Sinfield meets a group of funny, feisty, determined women who all had the misfortune of dating a mysterious man named Derek Alldred.

Trust Me Babe is a story about the protective... more

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Latest Episodes

Why did it take law enforcement so long to pay proper attention to Derek Alldred’s pattern of fraud against women all over the country?

In bonus episode four, Anna takes a deep dive into the investigation that finally brought Derek down, and the s... more

When Derek Alldred was finally convicted in 2017, it was far from his first run-in with the law.

In fact, more than a decade earlier, he found himself in the crosshairs of one determined California fire investigator, named Tom Oldag, who suspected... more

Confronting your bestie’s terrible boyfriend about his toxic behaviour can be tempting, but is it always the best course of action? How do you strike a balance between protecting your friend from becoming isolated, and being honest with them about yo... more

In the years leading up to Derek’s conviction, his victims sometimes came forward to the media about their experiences.

But when they did so, the reaction from the public wasn’t always sympathetic.

In bonus episode one, Anna takes a closer look... more

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Recent Guests

Rosamund Adukissi-Debrah
Ella's mother, advocate for clean air and asthma awareness
Ella Roberta Foundation; World Health Organization Breathe Life Ambassador
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E20: Rosamund Clears the Air
Lejla Damon
Bosnian survivor born out of sexual violence during the Bosnian War
Advocate for children born of sexual violence; War Child volunteer; Grace International trustee
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E19: Lejla Fights for the Invisible
Antonia Crane
Writer, activist, former Lusty Lady dancer
Activist, author of Spent
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E18: Antonia Pickets the Lusty Lady
Tooba Sarwari
Afghan woman cricketer and survivor who escaped the Taliban
Afghanistan cricket community / survivor
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E17: Tooba Stumps the Taliban
Gwen Strauss
Author, The Nine
Author of The Nine
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E16: Hélène Outwits the Nazis
Jacquie Davis
Bodyguard and security professional; operations director of Optimal Risk Group
Optimal Risk Group
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E15: Jacquie Saves a Hostage
Visaka Dharmadasa
Mother and peace-builder who negotiated with LTTE
Association of War-Effected Women / Sri Lanka peace-building activist
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E14: Visaka Sparks a Ceasefire
Silvia Vasquez-Lavado
Founder of Courageous Girls; mountaineer and survivor advocate
Courageous Girls / Courageous Minds
Episode: The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E13: Silvia Climbs to the Top of the World
Dr. Marvelle McCain Parker
Executive Director of the Emmet Till and Mamie Till Mobley Institute and activist
Emmet Till and Mamie Till Mobley Institute
Episode: The Girlfriends S4/Bonus Ep 5: Sparking A Movement

Hosts

Anna Sinfield
Host of The Girlfriends Spotlight and creator/host of related series; focuses on women-led stories of resilience and justice
Khadijah Hardaway
Host/guest in survivor and advocacy-focused episodes; works on storytelling around violence and justice

Reviews

4.2 out of 5 stars from 53 ratings
  • Season 5 -- Trust Me Babe. What a great show! Really interesting and engaging. Great host! Will go back to other seasons and look forward to the next ones!

    Podcast Addict
    5
    maybeMarisaM
    a month ago
  • Distracting sounds

    I’m only on first season but all the goofy sounds/music in between every few sentences is too annoying to continue. I can’t pay attention. It’s too distracting.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Cme61
    United States3 months ago
  • Flooded with too many Ads

    The show is flooded with Ads so it’s impossible to listen to. The constant interruptions mean you simply can’t lose yourself in the story.

    I understand people have to make a living but this amount is ridiculous.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    LLC_1000
    United Kingdom3 months ago
  • May not be able to make it through season 3, the "victim" is not even remotely a reliable narrator. Updated after bonus episode 3 to horrible.

    Podcast Addict
    1
    BMcA
    9 months ago
  • 15 minutes of actual content/ 15 minutes of ads

    Most of this podcast is ads and a long intro song.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    JazmineMM
    United Statesa year ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Listeners note strong, compelling survivor-focused storytelling with impactful real-world outcomes.
The show's focus on women-led advocacy and justice resonates, but pacing/ads can be a distraction for some listeners.
Guests bring diverse expertise and powerful personal experiences, strengthening credibility and emotional resonance.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

Apple Podcasts
#133
United States/True Crime
Apple Podcasts
#57
United Kingdom/True Crime
Apple Podcasts
#123
Canada/True Crime
Apple Podcasts
#78
Australia/True Crime
Apple Podcasts
#173
France/True Crime
Apple Podcasts
#160
New Zealand/Top Podcasts

Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E20: Rosamund Clears the Air
Q: What are you most proud of, both of you, after experiencing such a loss?
Rosamund and Anna discuss resilience, maintaining family life, and channeling grief into advocacy, education, and bereavement work to help others live with loss while pushing for systemic change.
The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E17: Tooba Stumps the Taliban
Q: Do you remember the first moment you realized you could play cricket at a serious level?
Tooba recalls an early classroom moment that sparked her love for the sport and the realization that she could lead a team, which laid the foundation for her later selection to the national team.
The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E19: Lejla Fights for the Invisible
Q: What happened when you met Ina and how did that change your sense of belonging?
Meeting Ina allowed Leila to share her experiences with someone who understood the trauma of being born out of sexual violence, removing the burden of explaining everything and helping her feel seen and understood.
The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E19: Lejla Fights for the Invisible
Q: How did you feel making that choice to try and find your biological mother?
I felt it was a casual decision at first, but I knew it could be challenging and that I might not find her or she might not want to be found; still, it was a step toward understanding my history and seeking connection.
The Girlfriends S3/Bonus Ep 1: Lisa and Bruna
Q: How has this impacted your work as a judge?
Having had an incarcerated daughter has informed my decisions about the length of sentences and the approach to rehabilitation in the justice system.

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This series focuses on women-led investigations into wrongdoing, injustice, and resilience, blending true-crime storytelling with social advocacy. Episodes spotlight survivors, advocates, and professionals who mobilize communities to seek accountability—often exploring themes like abuse, displacement, labor rights, and systemic reform. The format emphasizes intimate, personal narratives interwoven with broader context, highlighting how gossip, testimony, and collective action can drive change, even when institutions fall short. A standout element is the long-running emphasis on women's agency across diverse fields, from labor organizing to peace-building, with guests who turn personal experience into policy or cultural impact. For potential... more

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3. Antonia Crane
4. Tooba Sarwari
5. Gwen Strauss
6. Jacquie Davis
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