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Faith was never meant to be boring, predictable, or safe.

The Aggressive Life is a faith podcast for people who want more than the usual answers. Author, adventurer, and pastor Brian Tome brings an honest, gritty, and sometimes unexpected take on following God in the real world. One week he might unpack what the Bible actually says about a question you’ve wrestled with. The next, he might tell a ... more

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What if the idea of finding your soulmate is actually keeping you from finding a great marriage? Brian Tome has been married to his wife, Libby, for 38 years, and he's convinced of one thing: soulmates don't exist.

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“God will never give you more than you can handle.” It's one of the most common things Christians say to encourage someone going through a hard time. But is it actually true? What does the Bible say? Brian thinks we've got it all wrong.

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Brian Tome spent two weeks deep in the Alaskan wilderness with his son Jake and two of his closest friends, chasing a lifelong dream of hunting moose. What followed was an adventure filled with grizzly bears, brutal weather... more

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What scares Brian Tome? What has he changed his mind about? And what does he really think about getting older?

In the first episode of Ask BT Anything, Brian answers questions submitted by listeners, with no preparation and no idea what's coming. He... more

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Recent Guests

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Host

Brian Tome
Author, pastor and speaker frequently hosting interviews with faith-based leaders, adventurers, and professionals.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 1.2k ratings
  • Getting Aggressive

    Powerful & Impactful Podcast that will get you moving. From Finances to Marriage to Politics, BT& Dirt & sometime special guests will hep you become more aggressive & getting more out of life!

    Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

    ~ 1 Thessalonians 5:11

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jice2020
    United Statesa year ago
  • My favorite podcast

    I just got my copy of Joni Martin’s new book and lo &behold; here he is on my favorite podcast

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LOS-Blues
    United Statesa year ago
  • Favorite Podcast

    I rarely listen to music because anytime I am driving I am listening to podcasts. This one is by far my favorite because it reminds me each time I listen who I am on this planet for, and motivates me to be aggressive!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    2728872)
    United Statesa year ago
  • Entertaining & Engaging

    This podcast is number one very entertaining. I look forward to every post and find humor and relation in his talks. I also feel like after every podcast I leave with an action step to take to make my life better and better serve God's purpose. Also - not just for men! I'm a 25 year old female and find so much value in the teachings.

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    5
    abbyz33
    United Statesa year ago
  • Real, actionable, encouraging, relatable

    One of the best podcasts to slot into your week. BT makes following Jesus real for us everyday folks.

    Apple Podcasts
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    djbmw4
    United Statesa year ago

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Powerful & impactful with actionable takeaways.
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Highly regarded for its honesty and actionable steps for growth.

Talking Points

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There Is No Such Thing as a Soulmate
Q: Do you think people in your interactions with young people who are asking this question, do you think they think that out of fear, like, I don't want to mess up, I don't want to ruin it, or do they do it out of, like, I don't know, selfishness or laziness?
Tome says young people face social and economic expectations, including pressure to become financially stable before marriage and fewer opportunities to meet people through work. He argues that marriage can be a partnership in building stability.
There Is No Such Thing as a Soulmate
Q: What even is a soulmate? What do you think the definition of soulmate is?
Tome says people often mean a person who completes them and is perfectly compatible. He rejects that expectation, saying marriage is built by becoming the right person, choosing a compatible partner and growing together.
Ask BT Anything: What Scares Me, What I'm Rethinking & Getting Personal
Q: Is it possible, can you completely forgive someone and still decide you don't want them close to you anymore?
Brian says forgiveness can free someone from bitterness without restoring trust or access. He distinguishes forgiving a person from returning them to a role or relationship that could be harmful.
Ask BT Anything: What Scares Me, What I'm Rethinking & Getting Personal
Q: How do you actually know when it's God speaking versus your own voice?
Brian says scripture provides the foundation because God will not contradict it. He pays attention to thoughts that seem consistent with Jesus and checks significant impressions with trusted friends and the people affected.
Spend Your Money Before It's Too Late
Q: Why do you do that? Why make these choices? Why lean in?
Judd and Log explain that scheduling adventures in advance protects time for what matters. Brian adds that Die With Zero inspired him to spend money on a shared experience with Jake rather than put it off.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Aggressive Life

What is The Aggressive Life about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show centers on faith-driven personal growth, often through bold, action-oriented discussions with guests who span faith leadership, adventure, and stories of resilience. Episodes frequently tackle tough topics—from retirement, mental health, and leadership to spiritual warfare and healing—framed around living aggressively in a faith-filled life. A notable strength is bringing high-profile guests (survival adventurers, pastors, artists, and first responders) into candid conversations that blend practical life advice with Christian perspectives, making it appealing to listeners who want actionable steps and real-world faith applications. A recurring edge is the host's direct, unapologetic tone and willingness to tackle controversial or c... more

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