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That's Where I'm At

Laura Richards
Narcissistic Abuse
Boundaries
Healing
Divorce
Trauma
Self-Worth
Trauma Bond
Therapy
Coaching
Domestic Violence
Gaslighting
Self-Love
Divorce Financial Planning
Financial Abuse
Somatic Therapy
Relationships
Sobriety
Core Values
Emotional Eating
Trust Yourself

Welcome to "That's Where I'm At" with your host, Laura Richards! Join Laura Richards, a survivor of narcissistic abuse with 33 years experience, as she guides you through the journey of identifying, healing from, and thriving after emotional and psychological abuse. With a mission to raise awareness, foster emotional recovery, and empower you to love yourself, Laura brings honesty, compassion, and... more

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In this episode of That's Where I'm At, host Laura speaks with Melissa Duge Spiers, an award-winning essayist, screenwriter, and advocate for survivors of religious and narcissistic abuse. Through her writing, memoir Holy Disobedience: Sex, Sin, and ... more

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In this episode of That's Where I'm At, host Laura speaks with Dr. Debi Silber, the world's leading expert on betrayal recovery, founder and CEO of the Post Betrayal Transformation (PBT) Institute, and a PhD researcher whose work has transformed how ... more

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In this episode of That's Where I'm At, host Laura speaks with licensed psychotherapist, creative arts therapist, and Brave Hearts Speak podcast host Lucia Severtson, founder of The Brave Women's Community Center, a trauma-informed, arts-based nonpro... more

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In this episode of That's Where I'm At, host Laura sits down with Deana, Lizzie, and Jane—three women whose story sounds like a Lifetime movie, but every word of it is true. Deana and Lizzie were both married to the same narcissistic man, "Rex," who ... more

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Recent Guests

Lucia Severtson
Licensed psychotherapist and founder of the Brave Women's Community Center
Brave Women's Community Center
Episode: EP 90: Healing Trauma and OCD with Bravery: Lucia Severtson on the Brave Women's Community Center
Liberty Steele
Author of Redeem Years, From Narcissistic Darkness to Light
Author/Speaker
Episode: EP 88: Recognizing and Escaping a Narcissistic Abuser in a Christian Marriage with Liberty Steele
Christine Marie Cocchiola
Therapeutic parenting and divorce custody coach; expert on coercive control
Coercive Control Consulting; iknowyourheart.com
Episode: EP 87: Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola on Coercive Control and How Protective Parents Can Heal the Damage
Courtney Copeland
Integrative somatic practitioner
Episode: EP 86: How Does Trauma Get Stored in the Body and How Can Somatic Healing Help? with Courtney Copeland
Mardi Winder
Strategic divorce consultant and expert in high-conflict, complex, and high-asset divorces
Independent consultant
Episode: EP 85: Understanding Narcissistic Abuse and Coercive Control with Mardi Winder: A Strategic Guide for Women Facing Complex Divorces
Dr. Nadine Macaluso
Dr. Nae, real-life inspiration behind Naomi Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street
Therapist and author
Episode: EP 84: From Trauma to Thriving: Dr. Nadine Macaluso's Untold Story Behind The Wolf of Wall Street
Amy Duggar King
A wife and mom breaking the chains and cycles of abuse
Professional actor and public figure (TLC show alum)
Episode: EP 83: Breaking Generational Cycles: Amy Duggar King on Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Religious Control
Lynn Stroud
Survivor of reproductive coercion, sexual assault, domestic violence, and post-separation abuse
Episode: EP 82: Breaking the Silence on Hidden Abuse with Lynn Stroud: Reproductive Coercion and Financial Control
Jessica Anne Pressler
author, psychotherapist, social worker, volunteer, community leader, grief counselor, advocate, mother, friend, and wife
Independent author and clinician
Episode: EP 81: Unmasking the Traitor Within with Jessica Anne Pressler: Healing from Generations of Abuse

Host

Laura Richards
Host focused on survivor experiences with narcissistic abuse; leads survivor-centered conversations and practical healing guidance.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 104 ratings
  • A podcast that gets it

    Laura offers an amazing range of support, information, and practical insights into how to deal with toxic partners and people in your life. Each episode is offers compassion and education with real-world applications - thanks for all you do to help others.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mardi155
    United States2 months ago
  • A must listen

    Every episode of “That’s where I am” is deeply emotional and educational, resonating with many survivors who find comfort in knowing they are not alone. Thank you, Laura, for your unwavering dedication. You are an incredible podcast host, bringing hope and understanding through your work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jessica anne pressler
    United States3 months ago
  • Episode 80

    Although I enjoyed many episodes, Dana‘s story was closer to 2home for me. It’s the childhood traumas that I thought I have already dealt with through therapy and all that. But realize it’s still has influence in my life. And so I find myself reworking through decades old issues in all episodes I enjoy the fact that there’s hope after all of this We’re not our past it doesn’t define us

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Karma Brazee
    United States3 months ago
  • Important Topics!

    Great podcast that explores important and complex topics for relationships.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Dan13386
    United States10 months ago
  • Essential Insight on Narcissism

    Laura brings such clarity and compassion to one of the most confusing and painful topics—narcissistic abuse. She explains things in a way that is both eye-opening and healing, offering insight that so many people desperately need right now. She is not only knowledgeable but also incredibly warm and approachable. A truly important voice in this space.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Stephanie Carmody
    United Statesa year ago

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The show is seen as a valuable resource for healing from narcissistic abuse and building healthier lives.
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EP 90: Healing Trauma and OCD with Bravery: Lucia Severtson on the Brave Women's Community Center
Q: So tell me how you decided to go into doing this work to help women and girls.
Lucia describes a turning point from personal OCD experience to exploring therapeutic modalities, ultimately embracing trauma-informed, arts-based approaches to help women heal and reclaim their power.
EP 87: Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola on Coercive Control and How Protective Parents Can Heal the Damage
Q: How can therapists and lawyers better assess power dynamics to avoid placing victims in harmful therapy or custody situations?
Clinicians should assess the presence of power differentials in the relationship, recognizing when a couple should not be in marriage therapy and should instead pursue individual therapy, and ensure custody decisions consider the ongoing risk of coercive control and its impact on attachment and safety.
EP 87: Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola on Coercive Control and How Protective Parents Can Heal the Damage
Q: What should protective parents do when their children return from the other parent's home displaying dysregulated behavior?
Start with validating the child's experience and co-regulating; understand that the child may be a conduit for the abuser's messages. Create consistent routines, reinforce secure attachments, and repair in a developmentally appropriate way, prioritizing safety while not blaming the child for the abuser's harm.
EP 87: Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola on Coercive Control and How Protective Parents Can Heal the Damage
Q: Can you give us a clear, practitioner-friendly definition of coercive control and how it differs from other forms of abuse?
Coercive control is the underlying framework of abuse, where psychological tactics—often starting subtly with things that feel good like love bombing—are used to dominate, monitor, and shape a partner's reality. It includes gaslighting, financial manipulation, and manipulation of the children, creating a persistent pattern that isn't about a single outburst but about controlling the person's sense of reality and safety.
EP 82: Breaking the Silence on Hidden Abuse with Lynn Stroud: Reproductive Coercion and Financial Control
Q: What have you learned about the justice system through your experience with custody and protection orders?
That the system often fails survivors, especially mothers, due to bias and procedural barriers, making it crucial to seek knowledgeable legal support, document abuse, and build a network of resources.

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A podcast focused on healing from emotional and psychological abuse, with a strong emphasis on narcissistic abuse, boundary-setting, trauma recovery, and empowerment. Episodes feature survivor stories, practical tools for safety and self-care, and expert perspectives on therapy, healing journeys, and rebuilding life after abusive relationships. The show stands out for its candid, survivor-centered conversations, actionable guidance, and a compassionate, non-judgmental approach that blends personal narrative with professional insight to help listeners regain agency and hope.

Noteworthy angles include navigating coercive control, trauma bonding, and family or religious contexts of abuse, alongside resources for mental health, legal considera... more

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2. Liberty Steele
3. Christine Marie Cocchiola
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5. Mardi Winder
6. Dr. Nadine Macaluso
7. Amy Duggar King
8. Lynn Stroud

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